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Don't believe these MYTHS | इन गलतफहमियों पर विश्वास न करें | MukkaMaar | Ishita Sharma
In this video, I highlight a shocking conversation about abuse survivors I had with a parent. We need to keep talking about these things and discourage myths that contribute to the culture of abuse.
Reading links -
www.indiatoday.in/opinion/story/rapes-wont-end-till-our-culture-separates-women-from-family-honour-2585597-2024-08-21
www.business-standard.com/article/current-affairs/the-problem-is-with-making-rape-an-issue-of-honour-while-it-is-an-issue-of-consent-vrinda-grover-115070400702_1.html
rapecrisis.org.uk/get-informed/about-sexual-violence/myths-vs-realities/
feminisminindia.com/2024/08/29/our-response-to-sexual-violence-is-governed-by-the-myth-of-the-perfect-victim/
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Відео

What’s patriarchy, ya? | Nirmala Sitharaman | 6 reasons why patriarchy continues | Ishita Sharma
Переглядів 2,1 тис.19 годин тому
Decoding patriarchy and why it continues to exist, by taking different shapes and forms. The truth behind propaganda - www.cordaid.org/en/story/we-are-all-victims-of-a-patriarchal-society-some-just-suffer-more-than-others/ Patriarchy is adaptable - newint.org/columns/essays/2017/10/01/patriarchy-persistence#:~:text=Patriarchy is everyday sexism, but,of particular ideas and relationships. Dowry ...
Don't Use Good Touch Bad Touch ❌ | Safe Unsafe Touch ✅ | Ishita Sharma | MukkaMaar
Переглядів 10314 днів тому
The words "good touch, bad touch" can be ineffective while educating children about child sexual abuse. Instead, the use of 'Safe and Unsafe touch' can be useful, since it's devoid of virtue and focusses on the experience of the child. Useful links - www.rostrumlegal.com/child-sexual-abuse-in-india-a-dark-reality/ www.thenewsminute.com/news/95-offenders-accused-child-rape-know-their-victims-ncr...
Don't make this mistake | Harassment is NOT Love | Unpacking Consent | Ishita Sharma | MukkaMaar
Переглядів 46021 день тому
Consent is the cornerstone of romantic and sexual relationships. Breach of consent can tantamount to $*pē and land people behind bars. Often, women too are not quite sure whether they have consented to something or no... This video will help you understand and distinguish between consent and the lack of it. I have used a model called the FRIES model of consent, that break down some steps to und...
STOP Using These Phrases & CALL IT OUT | Dealing with Sexual Harassment | MukkaMaar | Ishita Sharma
Переглядів 15428 днів тому
STOP Using These Phrases & CALL IT OUT | Dealing with Sexual Harassment | MukkaMaar | Ishita Sharma
Lets Unpack Gender Based Violence | Ishita Sharma | MukkaMaar | Actor
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Lets Unpack Gender Based Violence | Ishita Sharma | MukkaMaar | Actor
Here's Why Self Defence Does Not Work
Переглядів 267Місяць тому
Here's Why Self Defence Does Not Work
MukkaMaar with Ishita - Channel Trailer
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MukkaMaar with Ishita - Channel Trailer

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  • @siddharth0103
    @siddharth0103 2 дні тому

    a one mahatma gandhi also said that the girl only have to study that enough that she can teach her children that says that girl not have to study more or to do any work or anything except household chores

  • @AsnJp01
    @AsnJp01 3 дні тому

    That’s wrong. It’s not just 10000 years old it’s almost 300 thousand years old because it’s not only social but also biological with evolutionary reasons behind it.

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 3 дні тому

      Plz elaborate

    • @AsnJp01
      @AsnJp01 3 дні тому

      @@MukkaMaarWithIshita Archeological Evidence suggests In mid and late Pleistocene era our female ancestors lost estrous cycle Which in turn made them vulnerable to be used solely as a vessel to spread seed, not only That increased the risk of getting impregnated by lower ranked males whose genes were not suitable for survival of next generation but also jeopardise the survival of female because it increased the rate of copulation and pregnancy and survival is inversely proportional to rate of pregnancy, which is a evolutionary fact in almost all the species. So females due to constant estrous phase adopted the role of preserving eggs which in simple words means they had to hide from males because there was no other way to stop getting impregnated (exceptions of genetically close males like biological father and siblings) Also When humans started to walk upright which made pelvis and birth canal narrower which in turn made it easier to cause dystocia. So naturally humans started getting born prematurely so the cubs of homo sapiens were too fragile to survive on their own unlike other mammals which can quickly walk and run within couple of minutes after birth There’s infertility during the time of lactation so males started killing newborn of other males to get their females into estrous again to impregnate them with their own seeds as soon as possible.( this practice still prevalent in our close relatives bonobos and other mammalian species) And if the paternity is confirmed the males are invested in making sure of survival of female which in turn will make sure the survival of offspring So today what we call today as patriarchy is not only rooted in society but also in our biology, psyche and our subconscious which made many species thrive and survive in this harsh world I’m not giving it as a defence of patriarchy but I’m saying it needs a high resolution thinking about this topic before coming to any conclusion although I do agree with the notion of irrelevance of patriarchy in today’s society

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 2 дні тому

      @AsnJp01 insightful. Thanks for sharing.

    • @AsnJp01
      @AsnJp01 2 дні тому

      @@MukkaMaarWithIshita Really appreciate you for taking constructive criticism in a civil manner which is quite rare nowadays so thank you too miss Ishita.

  • @sanyogpatial1819
    @sanyogpatial1819 4 дні тому

    patriarchy continues because thats what nature wants and you can never defeat it. keep cribbing and crying.

  • @sanjanadas3616
    @sanjanadas3616 4 дні тому

    I'm looking forward to a video where feminists are supporting men and also highlight facts about toxic feminism, as many feminists get a bad rep because of it. This video was very well made! :)

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 4 дні тому

      Thanks 😊 Video highlighting mens oppression through patriarchy is very much on the cards, not because of a bad rep, but because it's what's I feel will bring change. Even that might attract misogynistic comments though 😭

    • @sanjanadas3616
      @sanjanadas3616 День тому

      @@MukkaMaarWithIshita well keep up the good work, people in the world need some education! :)

  • @pickhlerbarreto9039
    @pickhlerbarreto9039 4 дні тому

    I agree

  • @mohammadriyaz576
    @mohammadriyaz576 4 дні тому

    Wowww... superb mam

  • @priyankamsharma1
    @priyankamsharma1 5 днів тому

    Yes, it still exists. Pune me passport office me bola naam modify karo...name husband name his surname...i said what? Oh bhai mera naam wahi rahega...husband ke naam ki jagah hai...waha uska naam likh

  • @namanniraj3984
    @namanniraj3984 5 днів тому

    🤢

  • @sudipsinha3682
    @sudipsinha3682 5 днів тому

    Pseudo faminism

  • @sudipsinha3682
    @sudipsinha3682 5 днів тому

    I don't agree with your reasons

  • @sudipsinha3682
    @sudipsinha3682 5 днів тому

    Fight the world

  • @oppertunist-trader
    @oppertunist-trader 5 днів тому

    Victim card

  • @SupreethS-y2r
    @SupreethS-y2r 5 днів тому

    Can a girl marry a jobless boy if he agrees to take care of all the household chores?

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 4 дні тому

      You're right, a jobless boy is considered 'unmarriageable' while a jobless girl is considered 'more marriageable.' Females prefer to marry males who earn more than them, and males prefer to marry those who either don't have a job or would quit if they get married. This is exactly what patriarchy is. The impact though is disproportionate - while emotional and financial burden, mental stress, cannot be negated, the nudge for males is towards more 'success and independence' while the nudge for females is more towards 'subservience and dependence.' It's harmful for both men and women.

  • @dikshagupta-ut6rh
    @dikshagupta-ut6rh 5 днів тому

    Jb ladakiyo k pdane k bat ati h to log kahte h ku pda k kharcha kr rhe ho shadi krke praya hi to krna h..

  • @pratyushdoonrocker3046
    @pratyushdoonrocker3046 5 днів тому

    sht the fcup man bloody woman card mat khel yaha mehnat kar bloody 133 subs ke saath revolution laenge RO mat mehnat kar , aur nirmala by the way Fm hai s desh ki to theek kaha usne ye excuses mat do aur kcuh mehnat karo

  • @ankurbansal8128
    @ankurbansal8128 5 днів тому

    Kaun si actor ho madam ?

  • @MJthinks2000
    @MJthinks2000 5 днів тому

    Great video but please recheck your channel description there is a grammatical error in the last sentence. And if you are talking about stuff like "aise hi chalta aaraha hai" toh madam description bhi Hindi mein hi likhte bcoz clearly it is the result of colonial mindset and social conditioning that we love to express ourselves in english. Why such double standards? I get it patriarchy is a more serious issue but convenience k hisab se opinions dena is also useless

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 5 днів тому

      Thanks, corrected the grammar. I'm new to YT, will add hindi descriptions after observing channel analytics. Fortunately or un, english proficiency has become a pre-cursor to success, and hence even tough my first language was always Hindi while growing up, ab sab likhne ka kaam English me hota hai toh wohi nikal jaata hai. Thanks for the feedback!

  • @gdgaur
    @gdgaur 5 днів тому

    Nothing new . All ghesa pita gyan. No research done for podcast😢

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 5 днів тому

      Constructive criticism hi dedo.

    • @gdgaur
      @gdgaur 5 днів тому

      @MukkaMaarWithIshita thoda sa data daal do. Look at patriarchy in cinema no female script/ song writer, no sucessful director/ music director. Society is not rewarding women. Only males. It's just one field, u cud have touched the judiciary, politics, research, science etc.

    • @sudipsinha3682
      @sudipsinha3682 5 днів тому

      So what do you want... And from who

  • @Kadian22
    @Kadian22 5 днів тому

    The flow of the video is really good and the video had a structure. Nice job

  • @Jaz090
    @Jaz090 5 днів тому

    your Face look the same in thumbnail

  • @JaySharma45353
    @JaySharma45353 5 днів тому

    Anyone talks against this gov, I call them sane! huge respect for you

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 5 днів тому

      That's an extrapolation.. here I'm not talking about who I'm against, just expressing my views on a particular statement.

    • @JaySharma45353
      @JaySharma45353 5 днів тому

      @@MukkaMaarWithIshita That statement is being empowered by the gov etc etc

  • @DurgeshKumarYadav.
    @DurgeshKumarYadav. 5 днів тому

    ये प्लेटफार्म एंटी-मैन प्लेटफार्म है,फिर भी मैं देख रहा हूँ!😅 #फन

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 5 днів тому

      Lol.. अरे बिल्कुल नहीं। आगे आगे देखो, आपको पता लगेगा यह सिर्फ anti-पितृसत्ता है, ना कि anti-men।

    • @DurgeshKumarYadav.
      @DurgeshKumarYadav. 5 днів тому

      @@MukkaMaarWithIshita मैंने #फन भी कहा है, शायद आपने इस पर गौर नहीं किया।

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 5 днів тому

      🫡

  • @DurgeshKumarYadav.
    @DurgeshKumarYadav. 5 днів тому

    निर्मला सितारमण से मैं दो सवाल पूछना चाहूंगा,पहला ➡️बीजेपी की सरकार तीसरी बन गई,पर क्या पार्टी में एक भी ऐसी महिला नहीं है,जो प्रधानमंत्री बने सके!? अगर नहीं तो क्यों!? दूसरा सवाल➡️आरएसएस संगठन के 100 साल पुरे होने जा रहे हैं,पर आज तक अध्यक्ष महिला नहीं बन पाई, क्यों!? नोट➡️सवाल तो कई हैं,न्यायपालिका से लेकर सरकार व सरकार की संस्थाओं व प्राइवेट संस्थाओं तक पर जवाब नहीं है।

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 5 днів тому

      सवाल अच्छे हैं! लोक सभा और राज्य सभा में भी महिलाओं के आंकड़े शर्मनाक हैं। यह किसी एक पार्टी की बात नहीं, सबका यही हाल है।

    • @DurgeshKumarYadav.
      @DurgeshKumarYadav. 5 днів тому

      @@MukkaMaarWithIshita किसी और पार्टी की महिला ने ऐसा कहा होता तो सवाल यही होते।।

  • @DurgeshKumarYadav.
    @DurgeshKumarYadav. 5 днів тому

    मेरी राय में पृत्तसत्ता का सबसे ज्यादा नुकसान अनुसूचित जाति व जनजाति व पिछड़ी जाति की महिलाओं को झेलनी पड़ी है।। कर भी रही हैं!!

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 5 днів тому

      💯

    • @cheapthrills9035
      @cheapthrills9035 5 днів тому

      To apni patni ko khula chhod dena. Mana kisne kiya h

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 5 днів тому

      @@cheapthrills9035 Kya aap shadi-shuda hain? Kya aap apni patni ko baandh kar rakhna chahte hain, ya rakhte hain? Kya aapki maa ko bhi aapke pitaji ne 'khula nahi chhoda'? Agar in sab sawaalon ka jawaab haan hai, toh mubarak ho, aap bilkul sahi jagah aaye hain. Please subscribe.

    • @DurgeshKumarYadav.
      @DurgeshKumarYadav. 5 днів тому

      @@cheapthrills9035 मेरी तो अभी शादी नहीं हुई है। अगर तुम्हारी हुई है,तो तुम बताओ पिंजरे में बंद करके रखते हो,या फिर आजाद पंक्षी की तरह चहकने देते हो!? मुझे लगता है,तुम बंद करके रखते होगे!!

  • @DurgeshKumarYadav.
    @DurgeshKumarYadav. 5 днів тому

    महिलाओं को "भारत में स्त्री असमानता" किताब पढनी चाहिए,गोपा जोशी की।

  • @DurgeshKumarYadav.
    @DurgeshKumarYadav. 5 днів тому

    मैं एक सवाल करता हूँ,अपनी अम्मा से है,कि एक भी ऐसा त्योहार बताईये,जिसमें पति अपनी पत्नी का पैर छूए!? मुस्कराते,हुए जवाब देती हैं,मर्द पैर कैसे छू सकता है,औरत की! नोट➡️ये बातचीत भोजपुरी में होती है।

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 5 днів тому

      Thanks for शेरिंग! इस का एक और बहाना है कि शादी में अक्सर मर्द औरत से बड़ी उम्र का होता है

    • @DurgeshKumarYadav.
      @DurgeshKumarYadav. 5 днів тому

      @@MukkaMaarWithIshita तो फिर ठीक है,इसका उल्टा कर दिया जाए!😀 पत्नी पति से एक दिन बड़ी होनी चाहिए। फिरमर्दो से उम्मीद की जाए,कि ये रिती रिवाज़ वो फाॅलो करें!😅 फिर देखिए तमाशा,वो कहेंगें,ये तो हमारे लिए एक्ससेप्टबल ही नहीं है। नोट➡️ये तर्क टू मच अतार्किक है,पहले व्यवस्था बनवा लीजिए की पति हमेशा बड़ा होना चाहिए,पत्नी से उम्र में! फिर तथाकथित रिति रिवाजों को उनपर थोप दीजिए।।

    • @cheapthrills9035
      @cheapthrills9035 5 днів тому

      Aap mujhe ek mahila dikhaiye jo apne se km kamane waala purush se vivah kr le.

    • @DurgeshKumarYadav.
      @DurgeshKumarYadav. 5 днів тому

      @@cheapthrills9035 मेरे गाँव में एक लड़की है,जिसका नाम तो नहीं मालूम पर काम मालूम है,वो सरकारी अध्यापक है,और उसका पति पुलिस में काॅस्टेबल है।

  • @DurgeshKumarYadav.
    @DurgeshKumarYadav. 5 днів тому

    कमेंट बाॅक्स को देखकर मुझे एहसास हुआ है, कि ये प्लेटफार्म मातृसत्तात्मक है।😅😅😅 #जोक

  • @DurgeshKumarYadav.
    @DurgeshKumarYadav. 5 днів тому

    😂

  • @priyankjain6833
    @priyankjain6833 6 днів тому

    Wokesim hai teri

  • @mddaudansarii6410
    @mddaudansarii6410 6 днів тому

    patriarchy, ke wajah se tum yaha tak bol pa rhi hi ,patriarchy me sirf apna paisa nhi hota sab me batta hi tum apna bokchod wali so called , faminist q India me fela rhi ho ,patriarchy kabhi baitho debate pe why patriarchy need for a better society 😮 text me if you wanna debate

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 5 днів тому

      Bhakk... text kyun yahan kar debate himmat hai toh. Mera platform hai, main jo marzi karoon.

  • @rickycool6083
    @rickycool6083 6 днів тому

    Imagine trying to get ahead in life not by merit but by the characteristic of being a woman, and blaming patriarchy. Also, imagine defying common sense and then blaming everyone else for asking common sense questions. Both genders have expectations both to society and to each other, it has nothing to do with men or women. Patriarchy doesn't exist and no amount of blame game is going to change anything and thank god more and more women are waking up and denouncing the BS feminism victim mentality.

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 5 днів тому

      Feminism and victim mentality are 2 very separate things. If you have a logic, please respond to my question in the video? Why do these things happen to me? Why is it that I spend hours doing BS paperwork while you can spend that time on something a lot more productive. If your response is 'it's not a big deal', then you speak from privilege.

  • @AbhishekTiwari-gh2lf
    @AbhishekTiwari-gh2lf 6 днів тому

    25 saal baad islam aajayega bharat me hamare logo ko jitna gali dena hai delo avi hi mauka hai

  • @jaiverma381
    @jaiverma381 6 днів тому

    It's depend on feeling and emotions.

  • @eshwardev7806
    @eshwardev7806 6 днів тому

    The words Good and Bad Touch are used so that children can easily grasp n express ..! Safe n unsafe terms are easy for adults to use but it's still an abstract idea for a child..!

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 6 днів тому

      I understand that's probably right for very small children, but imo for even slightly older children, the feeling of safety is quite easily understood. A convenient, esay solution may not always be the most effective especially when a nuanced conversation is possible and much needed.

  • @suneetamishra8768
    @suneetamishra8768 6 днів тому

    Nirmala tai doesn't have to be taken seriously. The political kutumb she belongs to, requires her to give such outrageous comments ! To ask 'where is patriarchy' is like asking 'where is religion?'

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 6 днів тому

      Unfortunately, Tai is taken seriously by a whole population. Also, she urged people to talk "LOGICALLY" - so here's me trying to do exactly that :p

  • @anubhavmotilal8363
    @anubhavmotilal8363 7 днів тому

    Bahut hui sharam, ab call out karna hai dharam.

  • @hamsiniravi9527
    @hamsiniravi9527 7 днів тому

    When I travel in work, people ask me 'who takes care of your kids?' my husband travels every other month and nobody asks him this.

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 7 днів тому

      I hear you! 🙏🏾 Thanks for commenting :)

    • @rickycool6083
      @rickycool6083 6 днів тому

      No one asks you to provide for your family, people ask your husband that question. Almost as if there are traditional roles suited for each gender.

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 5 днів тому

      Right, and we have a problem with BOTH those things.

  • @prernaladdha6005
    @prernaladdha6005 7 днів тому

    Nirmala tai believes in Delulu is the Solulu! And thats the best way to live.

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 7 днів тому

      I genuinely think she was motivating women to power through it. 😑

  • @meghajoshi5151
    @meghajoshi5151 7 днів тому

    I was SO judged by the passport officer because my address was my parents’ house and I haven’t changed my surname after marriage! But ofcourse patriarchy doesn’t exist. What are you saying yaaa! 🙄🙄

  • @tinkakaratetimarni5778
    @tinkakaratetimarni5778 9 днів тому

    Thank you good information

  • @Fit_vanshu
    @Fit_vanshu 15 днів тому

    👏🏻🫶

  • @bottlesalt
    @bottlesalt 15 днів тому

    As someone who has been able to unlearn the concept of good touch and bad touch and learn about safe-unsafe touch instead, I still struggle to communicate why this differentiation is important. Thank you for breaking it down so easily. I will share this with my friends who teach at schools as well :)

  • @aradhanagaund1843
    @aradhanagaund1843 15 днів тому

    Oh so divine, patiently awaiting the next mesmerizing visual treat 😊

  • @RelativePictures
    @RelativePictures 16 днів тому

    I loved your content and you have most beautiful face on earth ...trust me its not flirt ❤but reality

  • @devkaranmeena5036
    @devkaranmeena5036 19 днів тому

    U fortunately most of the Bollywood and even South Indian movies are depicting and glorifying this type of behaviour.

    • @MukkaMaarWithIshita
      @MukkaMaarWithIshita 19 днів тому

      Absolutely 💯 It's only a reflection and reiteration of what people believe.

  • @shraddhasonar7812
    @shraddhasonar7812 19 днів тому

    Wowww! Didi mast samjhaya ❤

  • @suchi18
    @suchi18 20 днів тому

    I m your fan, let's work together

  • @rekhamishra4929
    @rekhamishra4929 21 день тому

    Nice didi👏👍

  • @perfectlyimperfect7819
    @perfectlyimperfect7819 22 дні тому

    Absolutely!!Thanks ❤️

  • @asmitadubey14
    @asmitadubey14 24 дні тому

    Sharm varam chhodo Aaj Khul Ke bolooooooooo