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Reading AITA posts for 1hr+ - 2
PART 2
Vol 6 - 9
Vol 6 ua-cam.com/video/IqO1bqA__ck/v-deo.html
Story 1 0:00
AITA for telling my dad's husband I don't want him to adopt me and his bringing up my dead father is not winning me over?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dtle6v/aita_for_telling_my_dads_husband_i_dont_want_him/
Story 2 5:19
AITA For wearing an American flag speedo to a pool party and embarrassing my GF
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dtpjo5/aita_for_wearing_an_american_flag_speedo_to_a/
Story 3 8:34
AITA for telling my sister there were consequences to not helping out our mom
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dtq9zh/aita_for_telling_my_sister_there_were/
Story 4 10:00
AITA for refusing to sleep on a pull out couch during vacation?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dtmvav/aita_for_refusing_to_sleep_on_a_pull_out_couch/
Story 5 12:40
AITA for shrugging when my dad's wife told me they need all of dad's money right now?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dth9bn/aita_for_shrugging_when_my_dads_wife_told_me_they/
Vol 7 ua-cam.com/video/wjTJgA86Vqk/v-deo.html
Story 6 16:18
AITA for telling my dad I'm not a toy he can take out when he needs me and discard once I've served my purpose?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dtpqt4/aita_for_telling_my_dad_im_not_a_toy_he_can_take/
Story 7 19:25
AITA for calling my SIL annoying and telling her I'm tired of hearing her "joke" about me having a girls name?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dticfz/aita_for_calling_my_sil_annoying_and_telling_her/
Story 8 23:45
AITA for refusing a luxury purse from my MIL
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dtq6ll/aita_for_refusing_a_luxury_purse_from_my_mil/
Story 9 27:40
WIBTA if I block my sister from selling the house where our mom and stepfamily live?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dtqop2/wibta_if_i_block_my_sister_from_selling_the_house/
Story 10 30:56
AITA for telling the bride I don’t want to wear the bridesmaid dress chosen for me?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dtf8sf/aita_for_telling_the_bride_i_dont_want_to_wear/
Story 12 36:07
AITA for ordering before a woman who was still shopping
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dtoiqh/aita_for_ordering_before_a_woman_who_was_still/
Vol 8 ua-cam.com/video/4YXh1nt4hAk/v-deo.html
Story 13 40:02
AITA for telling my parents to ask their foster children for help instead of me?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dz5isr/aita_for_telling_my_parents_to_ask_their_foster/
Story 14 42:47
AITA For refusing to do yardwork after my wife built a garden
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dz79ck/aita_for_refusing_to_do_yardwork_after_my_wife/
Story 15 46:22
AITA for telling a girl she’s ugly in front of her coworkers?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dz1nta/aita_for_telling_a_girl_shes_ugly_in_front_of_her/
Story 16 50:13
AITA for telling my girlfriend she needs to get a real job and she will never be a famous comedian?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dz9ria/aita_for_telling_my_girlfriend_she_needs_to_get_a/
Vol 9 ua-cam.com/video/acGfMnajJeE/v-deo.html
Story 17 53:35
AITA for telling my best friends wife, that I get it she is insecure and it’s quite sad.
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dz6b12/aita_for_telling_my_best_friends_wife_that_i_get/
Story 18 55:27
AITA for telling my daughter to leave the TV settings alone?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dyz8bq/aita_for_telling_my_daughter_to_leave_the_tv/
Story 19 58:14
AITA for telling my friend she has to stop punishing me for what her bf did?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dz53zy/aita_for_telling_my_friend_she_has_to_stop/
Story 20 1:01:21
AITA for not making a name art piece for my future nieces nursery when my sister asked even though I made one for my son?
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dyxkgj/aita_for_not_making_a_name_art_piece_for_my/
Story 21 1:04:12
AITA for not inviting my husband’s friend’s wife
www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1dz49zb/aita_for_not_inviting_my_husbands_friends_wife/
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/r AITA -Guessing if they are the AH before reading the post vol 25
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Vol 25 Story 1 0:00 AITA for telling my Dad I don’t care if he’s absent at my wedding? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1fdi8q9/aita_for_telling_my_dad_i_dont_care_if_hes_absent/ Story 2 3:56 AITA for declining a job after accepting it when I saw how little I was getting paid? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1fdikbm/aita_for_declining_a_job_after_accepting_it_when/ Story 3 7:07 A...
Stardew Valley Cookbook Bread and Bruschetta
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Episode 19 Scuffed kitchen ♪ stream cafe - sweet cafe link: ua-cam.com/video/K7nu8X34Hko/v-deo.html&t 0:00 Intro 3:22 Ingredients 3:43 Bread 6:58 Bruschetta 8:14 Noisy reveal 8:56 taste test thoughts and end social media platforms: Twitch- www.twitch.tv/searbear Twitter- Thesearbear TikTok- www.tiktok.com/@1searbear?lan... Discord- discord.gg/8FnmRrY Instagram- imsearb...
Ghost of Yōtei reaction Trailer
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AHHHH I CANNOT BELIEVE IT! Ghost of Yōtei!!!! i am so happy with this direction!!! #Ghost of Yōtei #reaction
/r AITA - Reading AITA posts vol 24
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Vol 24 Story 1 0:00 AITA for reminding my parents their favorite daughter is the criminal and not me? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1fdmwr0/aita_for_reminding_my_parents_their_favorite/ Story 2 4:56 AITA for Pressuring My Stay-at-Home Partner to Get a Job Because I’m Tired of Being the Sole Breadwinner? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1fdl7ll/aita_for_pressuring_my_stayathome_...
/r - AITA Reading AITA posts vol 23
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Vol 23 Story 1 0:00 AITA for calling my SILs husband an interfering AH and telling him to keep his judgemental comments to himself? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f7vyam/aita_for_calling_my_sils_husband_an_interfering/ Story 2 4:43 AITA for inviting my nephew to my wedding despite his estrangement from my brother? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f84jb7/aita_for_inviting_my_ne...
/r AITA - Reading AITA posts vol 22
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/r AITA - Reading AITA posts vol 22
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Reading AITA posts for 1 hour - 1
/r AITA - Reading AITA posts vol 21
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/r AITA - Reading AITA posts vol 21
Stardew Valley Cookbook Blueberry Tart
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Stardew Valley Cookbook Blueberry Tart
/r AITA - Reading AITA posts, Are they AH vol 20
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/r AITA - Reading AITA posts, Are they AH vol 17
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/r AITA - Reading AITA posts, Are they AH vol 17
Stardew Valley Cookbook Maki Roll
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Stardew Valley Cookbook Maki Roll
/r AITA Guessing if they are the AH before reading the post Vol 16
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/r AITA Guessing if they are the AH before reading the post Vol 13
Stardew Valley Cookbook Crab Cakes
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Stardew Valley Cookbook Crab Cakes
/r AITA - Guessing if they are the AH before reading the post Vol 12
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/r AITA - Guessing if they are the AH before reading the post Vol 9
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Stardew Valley Cookbook Tropical Curry
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Stardew Valley Cookbook Tropical Curry
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/r AITA - Guessing if they are the AH before reading the post Vol 8
/r AITA - Guessing if they are the AH before reading the post Vol 7
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/r AITA - Guessing if they are the AH before reading the post Vol 7
I tried making the Viral Pistachio Chocolate Bar
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I tried making the Viral Pistachio Chocolate Bar
/r AITA Guessing if they are the AH before reading the post, what did you guess? Vol 6
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/r AITA Guessing if they are the AH before reading the post, what did you guess? Vol 6
/r AITA - Guessing if they are the AH before reading the post, were you right? Vol 5
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/r AITA - Guessing if they are the AH before reading the post, were you right? Vol 5

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @yelloq6666
    @yelloq6666 15 годин тому

    Peak content

  • @searbear
    @searbear 19 годин тому

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  • @silver5866
    @silver5866 День тому

    Yeah, the last comment was what I was thinking too. The parent should have a change of clothes for the kids just in case. And since they've only recently started not peeing on themselves, it's not a huge shock if they can't hold it.

    • @searbear
      @searbear 16 годин тому

      Absolutely agreed!!!

  • @K1ngemoj1
    @K1ngemoj1 2 дні тому

    Stop everything your doing, searbear is live

  • @searbear
    @searbear 3 дні тому

    I CANNOT WAIT TO PLAY AS HERRR OMG I LOVE HER

  • @searbear
    @searbear 4 дні тому

    Story 1 0:00 AITA for telling my Dad I don’t care if he’s absent at my wedding? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1fdi8q9/aita_for_telling_my_dad_i_dont_care_if_hes_absent/ Story 2 3:56 AITA for declining a job after accepting it when I saw how little I was getting paid? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1fdikbm/aita_for_declining_a_job_after_accepting_it_when/ Story 3 7:07 AITA for moving our second car away from the house after my Wife refused to pay for it? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1fdaw2z/aita_for_moving_our_second_car_away_from_the/ Story 4 10:19 AITA for refusing to babysit my sister's kids after she said my career isn't "real work"? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1fd83bx/aita_for_refusing_to_babysit_my_sisters_kids/

  • @ImYourHomie69420
    @ImYourHomie69420 4 дні тому

    What is bread and bruschetta

    • @searbear
      @searbear 10 годин тому

      Slices of bread that have been broiled, rubbed with garlic, brushed with olive oil, seasoned with salt, and layered with any of various toppings such as chopped tomatoes!

    • @searbear
      @searbear 10 годин тому

      A light Italian dish of toasted bread with a savoury topping.

    • @ImYourHomie69420
      @ImYourHomie69420 10 годин тому

      Oh thanks

  • @searbear
    @searbear 6 днів тому

    Story 1 0:00 AITA for reminding my parents their favorite daughter is the criminal and not me? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1fdmwr0/aita_for_reminding_my_parents_their_favorite/ Story 2 4:56 AITA for Pressuring My Stay-at-Home Partner to Get a Job Because I’m Tired of Being the Sole Breadwinner? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1fdl7ll/aita_for_pressuring_my_stayathome_partner_to_get/ Story 3 8:19 AITA for canceling a vacation I planned for my friends after they kept joking that I’m the "mom" of the group? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1fd7zzg/aita_for_canceling_a_vacation_i_planned_for_my/ Story 4 11:21 AITA for telling my husband and ILs they should have been honest instead of letting me embarrass myself and make others uncomfortable? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1fdr54h/aita_for_telling_my_husband_and_ils_they_should/

  • @nosks_stopmotions
    @nosks_stopmotions 7 днів тому

    As nosk. I can confirm you met me.

  • @Nunm86
    @Nunm86 10 днів тому

    Nosk takes like 43 hits i guess or close to somethin to 40? Btw this is not my account i am a boy😂

    • @searbear
      @searbear 8 днів тому

      After i finally got the hang of it (i super cheesed it i wont lie with the little corner LOL) i was still terrified... but the monster had been defeated 😎 (i adore this game)

  • @searbear
    @searbear 11 днів тому

    Story 1 0:00 AITA for calling my SILs husband an interfering AH and telling him to keep his judgemental comments to himself? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f7vyam/aita_for_calling_my_sils_husband_an_interfering/ Story 2 4:43 AITA for inviting my nephew to my wedding despite his estrangement from my brother? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f84jb7/aita_for_inviting_my_nephew_to_my_wedding_despite/ Story 3 11:15 AITA for asking my wife to spend all her savings? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f84mdq/aita_for_asking_my_wife_to_spend_all_her_savings/ Story 4 16:17 AITA for telling my parents to forget the Hallmark movies and move into the real world? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f7wanp/aita_for_telling_my_parents_to_forget_the/

  • @ErinFloyd7
    @ErinFloyd7 13 днів тому

    that for some reason gave me ASMR tingles...Nice video!

    • @searbear
      @searbear 12 днів тому

      thank you for enjoying the video :3 i love ASMR videos so its such a nice compliment !! ^^

  • @searbear
    @searbear 13 днів тому

    Story 1 0:00 I have the bgm a little louder. please let me know if its too loud!! AITA for putting dinner away and playing video games after my girlfriend came home drunk? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f83h6m/aita_for_putting_dinner_away_and_playing_video/ Story 2 2:17 AITA for telling my sister she's not really the kind of mom she says/thinks she is? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f80otn/aita_for_telling_my_sister_shes_not_really_the/ Story 3 6:00 AITA for refusing to be my sister's maid of honor after what she did at my wedding? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f7xne5/aita_for_refusing_to_be_my_sisters_maid_of_honor/ Story 4 7:49 AITA for locking the bathroom door? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f81f4x/aita_for_locking_the_bathroom_door/

  • @searbear
    @searbear 14 днів тому

    Sorry no titles on the timestamps, apparently theres a character limit LOL Story 1 0:00 Story 2 5:02 Story 3 8:10 Story 4 11:13 Story 5 16:49 Story 6 20:24 Story 7 23:08 Story 8 25:20 Story 9 28:50 Story 10 33:34 Story 11 36:46 Story 12 39:52 Story 13 43:28 Story 14 44:57 Story 15 47:36 Story 16 52:00 Story 17 54:20 Story 18 56:46 Story 19 1:01:23 Story 20 1:04:03 Story 21 1:07:42 Story 22 1:09:30 Story 23 1:11:38 Story 24 1:13:54

  • @searbear
    @searbear 18 днів тому

    Story 1 0:00 AITA for telling my husband I’m not picking up after him anymore? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f2ka61/aita_for_telling_my_husband_im_not_picking_up/ Story 2 3:49 AITA for telling my best friend she needs to hire a nanny instead of relying on me? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f2dtmi/aita_for_telling_my_best_friend_she_needs_to_hire/ Story 3 9:10 AITAH for not forcing my fiancée to wear my father's late wife wedding dress? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f296l2/aitah_for_not_forcing_my_fianc%C3%A9e_to_wear_my/ Story 4 13:54 AITA for blowing up at my mom after she said I was being lazy and should have a job by now? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f2i9fm/aita_for_blowing_up_at_my_mom_after_she_said_i/ Story 5 16:49 AITA for accepting a promotion and leaving behind family at a time of need after sacrificing so much in the past? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f2enz7/aita_for_accepting_a_promotion_and_leaving_behind/

  • @searbear
    @searbear 19 днів тому

    This was the most stressful dish i have made to date 😭

  • @actual4loko
    @actual4loko 19 днів тому

    That looks so good and it came out so cute!!!

  • @SpaceClownn
    @SpaceClownn 19 днів тому

    you kinda look like andreas rönnberg as a girl XD (this is a compliment i swear)

  • @LanzTheMaster
    @LanzTheMaster 19 днів тому

    I NEED this in life

    • @searbear
      @searbear 19 днів тому

      It was honestly so good and even turned out super cute ☺️

  • @searbear
    @searbear 20 днів тому

    Story 1 0:00 AITA for starting my wedding ceremony before my mom showed up? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f2h8gn/aita_for_starting_my_wedding_ceremony_before_my/ Story 2 3:31 AITA for telling my dad's he's crazy if he thinks I'm going to his house during the week just to make food for his stepkids? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f2derz/aita_for_telling_my_dads_hes_crazy_if_he_thinks/ Story 3 6:48 AITA for asking my ex husband to help pay for our daughter's medical testing? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f2ncg7/aita_for_asking_my_ex_husband_to_help_pay_for_our/ Story 4 9:36 AITA for Waving my passport in Someone's face www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f2hf5c/aita_for_waving_my_passport_in_someones_face/ Story 5 12:48 AITA for telling someone I (28M) didn't want to babysit my girlfriend (24F) www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1f2c5qu/aita_for_telling_someone_i_28m_didnt_want_to/

  • @searbear
    @searbear 25 днів тому

    Story 1 0:00 AITAH for not telling my family where I live? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1ex0ye7/aitah_for_not_telling_my_family_where_i_live/ Story 2 2:37 AITA for not letting my bf grieve? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1ewxkok/aita_for_not_letting_my_bf_grieve/ Story 3 7:12 AITA for telling a guy to stop fetishizing my ethnicity? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1ex1az6/aita_for_telling_a_guy_to_stop_fetishizing_my/ Story 4 10:19 AITA for excluding my obese friend from rock climbing? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1ex3nt1/aita_for_excluding_my_obese_friend_from_rock/

  • @searbear
    @searbear 27 днів тому

    Story - 1 0:00 AITA for leaving the hospital after my sister gave birth and announced the name of her baby? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1ex4oqt/aita_for_leaving_the_hospital_after_my_sister/ Story 2 7:48 AITA for telling my parents they became liars the second they started fostering their adopted daughter? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1ewrrpw/aita_for_telling_my_parents_they_became_liars_the/ Story 3 12:57 AITA For blaming my wife after I got fired www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1ex4dz7/aita_for_blaming_my_wife_after_i_got_fired/ Story 4 AITA for telling my sister it’s her fault after she went on Facebook and complained about her daughter leaving the outside spigot on for 2 days? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1ewzw59/aita_for_telling_my_sister_its_her_fault_after/

  • @AdityaSingh-ji5bc
    @AdityaSingh-ji5bc 27 днів тому

    Ayi Urr Cutee 🙃

  • @maryowens1972
    @maryowens1972 27 днів тому

    Are pull ups not a thing anymore? Asking because my kids are adults now.

    • @searbear
      @searbear 27 днів тому

      i just checked and they still are! i didnt think of that omg

  • @searbear
    @searbear Місяць тому

    I stream Tuesdays evenings from 7pm-8pm cst reading AITA posts :) twitch.tv/searbear Story 1 0:00 AITA for telling my sister she doesn't have a family, she has a circus? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1er3jxb/aita_for_telling_my_sister_she_doesnt_have_a/ Story 2 4:52 AITA today I told my sister to get out of my house. www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1erbrr2/aita_today_i_told_my_sister_to_get_out_of_my_house/ Story 3 7:42 AITA for telling my mom that being surrounded by her husband's huge ass family for two weeks sounds like hell? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1er6tto/aita_for_telling_my_mom_that_being_surrounded_by/ Story 4 11:27 AITA for telling my mom she can’t babysit anymore if she won’t let my toddler eat a frozen waffle for breakfast? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1eripa6/aita_for_telling_my_mom_she_cant_babysit_anymore/

  • @searbear
    @searbear Місяць тому

    I triple dog dare yall to try that dare too...actually jk dont do that

  • @niaavalon8828
    @niaavalon8828 Місяць тому

    #1 That transphobic asshole can't accept his potential brother in law (which doesn't affect him at all!) then he doesn't belong in that family. Good riddance!!! Conservatives need to stfu and mind their own business! Gay folks are great parents. Gay penguins are great parents! It's normal biology to be who you are! Love to all LGBTQ plus folks!

  • @niaavalon8828
    @niaavalon8828 Місяць тому

    HER YARD, HER PLANTS!!! NTAH!

  • @ZomigNasal
    @ZomigNasal Місяць тому

    I'm super curious about how you got to third OP being the AH. Absolutely no hate, but the story I perceived doesn't compute with that. To me it's a younger sister who was actively ignored by her older sister her entire life. She describes the sister going out of her way to pretend she doesn't exist. The sister seemingly doesn't talk to her at all, and then out of the blue texts her to accuse her of not actually wanting a child (which, why would she try to if she didn't want one lol?) and of not having the finances for a child. How is that out of concern? She doesn't know her younger sister at all, how would she know whether she wants children or if her finances allow it. The only reason she knows anything is because of the gossipy family. If OP said a bunch of mean things or did awful stuff that would warrant a YTA, but it seems like she's just decided to stop talking to the sister. I may be falling for OPs side of the story, but I only see a sister yearning for connection with someone who doesn't care about her.

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      I kind of just read it as a younger sister who isnt really putting in the proper communication to tell her sister how these words made her feel is probably the most I get from this post to be quite honest. She decided to not talk to her anymore over this text. This wouldve been the perfect opportunity to bring this up with her , atleast from what I can gather. Though to be fair there could just be a unconscious bias on my end because I can kind of get where the older sister is coming from when she ends up texting the sister out of concern to make sure how her sister is well aware of the big decision that is having a child. But then again, by 28 I feel like some people do have a grasp of wanting a child and being able to provide for them. There is still the chance that the older sister couldve just brought it up out of jealousy as well, which i wont deny either. I just kind of want to hope that it is just big sister being like "are you sure?" especially taking into account what OP had been paying for. If jealousy is the case I don't think OP would be the AH and would change my answer. I'm just more focused on that part of her just not responding, with the chance of misinterpretation. Though you are right that older sister wouldn't know the full story, and OP probably wouldn't know what her true intentions were either unless they hashed it out. But OP is 100% well within their right to not want to talk to her sister though, but if she really was longing for this connection wouldnt she want to hear her out or OP tell her side? Though i could be reading too into it LOL

    • @ZomigNasal
      @ZomigNasal Місяць тому

      @@searbear Yeah, I can somewhat see where you're coming from. I think I'm also basing it on how I am as a big sister, the kind that has always stood up for and "fought" for my younger sisters during our childhood. So to me, even if the older sister is concerned I'm like "why don't you just express that with love???" 😂

  • @ZomigNasal
    @ZomigNasal Місяць тому

    First story: OP should stop spending time with his sister. She doesn't seem to love or respect him, considering she dates transphobic dudes. How is not ever mentioning he's trans gonna work for the rest of their life? Especially when he gets pregnant with their next child (which OP mentioned they're trying for). The sister would be better off dating someone who at the very least respects her brother's right to live his life instead of stringing conservatives along hoping they'll be too deep in to break up with her because of her brother (or whatever her strategy is). Oooor she could own up to that she doesn't respect her brother and keep dating transphobes away from him. I may be too harsh on the sister, but why would she even want to date someone that doesn't respect her brother? I don't even have trans family members, but I have trans friends, and if I was dating someone and started getting the vibes that they don't like trans people, I'd bring up the topic and straight up dump them if they're bigots. I wouldn't let someone into my life with those views and I'm kinda concerned the sister is so willing to (and even going so far as to lie to make OP and his husband seem worse).

  • @searbear
    @searbear Місяць тому

    Story 1 0:36 AITA For not lying about/covering up my pregnancy experience to appease my sisters conservative boyfriend? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1ere2g6/aita_for_not_lying_aboutcovering_up_my_pregnancy/ Story 2 5:50 AITA for asking an old woman not to pick our lavender as she walks past our house? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1eralhw/aita_for_asking_an_old_woman_not_to_pick_our/ Story 3 10:04 AITA for refusing to speak to my 6 month pregnant sister until I get an apology? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1erbzw2/aita_for_refusing_to_speak_to_my_6_month_pregnant/

  • @AdityaSingh-ji5bc
    @AdityaSingh-ji5bc Місяць тому

    ❤️🌱

  • @AdityaSingh-ji5bc
    @AdityaSingh-ji5bc Місяць тому

    Hyy Youre Doing Great ♥️

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      Thank you !!! ♥

  • @AlsandoGames
    @AlsandoGames Місяць тому

    Last story while confusing I would say NTA because cowboy borderline sexually herassed OP by just randomly kissing them. It's logical that OP would be put off by that, but I hope they would have had the chance to talk it out afterwards.

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      Absolutely agree! I just have a hard time believe if this story is real or not and trying to read through it was a bit hard tbh. If it is real I hope they def are not the AH

  • @pan.gremlin
    @pan.gremlin Місяць тому

    With story one, I feel like no one is the asshole there, but also kinda everyone is? I mean, yeah she’s grieving and that is TOTALLY valid, but it also kinda feels like she’s forcing her child to not have a father figure. Yes he ex isn’t the baby’s bio dad and no one can replace that, but at the same time she didn’t give any examples of the ex being bad with the kid. We don’t know whether he trained the kid to call him papa without her seeing, but if that isn’t the case and the child did it on her own then I don’t think it was nice of the mom to basically tear them apart. He can be a father figure to the child without replacing the husband. Plenty of people have multiple father or mother figures in their life without replacing anyone. Like OP said, the kid won’t remember the husband/dad, there’s no reason to force the baby to grow up with no father figure to speak of. It’s entirely possible that the baby called him papa and he thought that since the husband was dead then he can be a father figure for the baby, since there wasn’t anyone else. He seems like a cool guy. That being said, we very obviously do not know the full story, and there any be other details we do not know. So yeah, I feel like there’s no assholes or saints in this post. Just humans doing their best in a difficult situation. Everyone could have handled it better. Frankly, it could have been fixed if they just had a discussion instead of the mom carting the baby off to her parents without telling the guy why. How was he supposed to know that she didn’t want him being the kid’s dad if she didn’t tell him? How is she supposed to know his perspective if she doesn’t ask? Just a mess all around.

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      very solid point! Super huge emphasis on not knowing the full story, and how will they know if they dont communicate this!!!

  • @searbear
    @searbear Місяць тому

    Please let me know if the bgm is too loud! i dont think it sounded too bad but it might just me be tbh, so i want to make sure its fine for all! Story 1 0:00 AITA for defending myself with my sister after taking legal custody of my nephew? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1elghca/aita_for_defending_myself_with_my_sister_after/ Story 2 4:48 AITA For telling my wife to drop an issue that our daughter is having at school www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1elpnx9/aita_for_telling_my_wife_to_drop_an_issue_that/ Story 3 11:42 AITA for sharing a list of baby names that often get misspelled with my brother? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1elosyi/aita_for_sharing_a_list_of_baby_names_that_often/ Story 4 15:02 AITA for not letting my in-laws to kiss our child on the lips even when my fiancé is ok with it? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1elkhmq/aita_for_not_letting_my_inlaws_to_kiss_our_child/

    • @JustBrooklynn.
      @JustBrooklynn. Місяць тому

      The background music is a good volume :D

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      @JustBrooklynn. yaaaay!!! Im so happy to hear that!!! :D

  • @searbear
    @searbear Місяць тому

    Please let me know if the audio is too much!! still working on finding the proper balance! Story 1 0:12 AITA for not handing over my wedding dress to my daughter since it would need to be altered www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1elmjuy/aita_for_not_handing_over_my_wedding_dress_to_my/ Story 2 2:12 WIBTA if I kicked my girlfriend’s mother out of my house? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1elijxb/wibta_if_i_kicked_my_girlfriends_mother_out_of_my/ Story 3 4:47 AITA for refusing to give any of the money my late father gave me before his death to his widow and other children? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1eldqsz/aita_for_refusing_to_give_any_of_the_money_my/ Story 4 9:16 AITA For not giving up my spot in the bathroom line for small children? www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/1elfs1e/aita_for_not_giving_up_my_spot_in_the_bathroom/

  • @JessieTheGinger
    @JessieTheGinger Місяць тому

    Can someone tell me how to do this on the switch? I feel retarded for not being able to figure it out 😅

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      I am not sure if this update has been rolled out on switch as of yet unfortunately :(

    • @JessieTheGinger
      @JessieTheGinger Місяць тому

      @@searbear ooooooh that would explain why it's not working lmao 😅 thank you for telling me

  • @ZomigNasal
    @ZomigNasal Місяць тому

    For that last one, my petty ass is like "Just start telling her you need to check in with your baby if he'll need adult supervision if you stay out longer/go out on x day and (shocker) he does (bc he's a baby) and then ask him to hand the phone to his dad so you can ask if his dad is available or if you'll need to arrange for someone else." Obviously the son can't talk (at least not that well), but is the friend gonna claim a baby is abusing and controlling her for not being able to survive on his own??? 😂😂😂

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      LOL just go the extra mile and hopefully she'll see how ridiculous she's being

  • @Cchachaoo
    @Cchachaoo Місяць тому

    nice video!! it was kinda hard to understand what you were saying for me since the music was distracting but it might just be a me problem

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      no i think you're super right! i had been slacking on controlling the audio for the bgm with my reading but i have been trying to make it quieter on the next videos!

  • @storyranger
    @storyranger Місяць тому

    I was ready to be mad at the dad from story one but if her therapist recommended mild exposure therapy he's right, this is low stakes and she needs to practice. Pro-tip from a fellow anxious sibling: if you are having a bad day and are too hungry to want to deal with people, pick a restaurant that has a self-serve ordering kiosk (if your city has one).

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      same!! glad that it was for her, but sucks that mom and daughter didnt think so T-T

  • @sonugogoi-sf8xr
    @sonugogoi-sf8xr Місяць тому

    Nosk is very scary

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      he is indeed nightmare fuel!!!

    • @Deeogooseslonglostcousin
      @Deeogooseslonglostcousin Місяць тому

      ​@@searbearwait until you see that it grows fucking wings in Godhome.

  • @sonugogoi-sf8xr
    @sonugogoi-sf8xr Місяць тому

    You know how to beat him its too easy

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      it took a minute but as soon as i found the corner to cheese, it was smooth sailing 😎

  • @LgiidOakLeaves
    @LgiidOakLeaves Місяць тому

    Yaey

  • @boredombear4237
    @boredombear4237 Місяць тому

    Last story was so confusing

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      Even reading it confused me i wont lie lol

  • @Firedeath25
    @Firedeath25 Місяць тому

    Okay okay... Can we just all agree that it is common sense to never propose at someone else's wedding? Like seriously, even if OP hadn't specifically said not to, this guys still shouldn't have done that. If for some reason you feel like you have to propose at their wedding, then you better ask for permission first from Both people getting married and make sure its clear that if they say no, you won't. Sheesh lol.

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      aboslutely agree! As soon as one person who is involved is NOT okay with it, just dont do it??

  • @Firedeath25
    @Firedeath25 Місяць тому

    I feel like for the wedding post, we just don't have enough information. I feel like the real question of whether or not OP is the AH comes down to why the relationship is rocky. I get why someone who's been a parental figure since OP was 9-years-old would feel hurt over still not being treated as a parent, especially if they've been trying to connect for years. But like, I could also see OP having legitimate reasons to never connect with her. Especially if its always been "we need to connect the way I (stepmom) want us to connect". But we don't have that kind of information, so I don't think we can really say. Also, I enjoyed your video, keep it up~

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      Thats a fair point! It could seem like OP wanted to talk about their mother who she really missed and its kind of hard to tell if it is because OP is having it set to that and just automatically dismissing Stepmom or how deep it really goes. also thank you so much for watching and enjoying the video :))

  • @AtomiccKaiju
    @AtomiccKaiju Місяць тому

    Keep up the videos, they are way better than these robots speaking giving no opinions.

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      Thank you!! Im still in the learning process of trying to make these videos better, so it does really mean a lot!! Thank you for watching them :)

  • @silver5866
    @silver5866 Місяць тому

    Lol I was always taught (with dates, but also any situation) that you should be able to pay for yourself. Worked for me lol

    • @searbear
      @searbear Місяць тому

      yeah i definitely always assume that i am paying for myself because I just feel like it is common courtesy.. i also have a weird feeling like i owe ppl if they pay for me LOL

  • @ericvoltage4756
    @ericvoltage4756 Місяць тому

    everything returns to crab...even the food!