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Thanks for taking the time to let me know what resonated for you! If you ever want to dive deeper into your personality I would love to chat with you!

@@wendygossett5319 I’ve always wondered why I’m anxious about going to a ball in uni, or cringe when walking into acquaintances, while my best friend who is esfp was good at small talk and making friends.

@@lmichelle7418 I am so glad this was a validation for you! Thanks for taking the time to share! Extroverted feeling is your lowest brain function and that makes it difficult to know what you are feeling, make small talk, hang out with emotional females etc. What is your major?

@@wendygossett5319 I major in optometry and dislike fantasy books. Do you think mbti affects book choices too?

Are you my fellow ENFJ peep? Do you know your Enneagram number?

Or sounds like you have an ENFJ child?

I am a male ENFJ. I don’t recall off hand my enneagram number.

My enneagram is 38/11. I am working in intention to manifest my life purpose.

@@dant1724 The Enneagram has 9 types. I haven't heard of 38/11?

My 1st born is very much entp. Motherhood has been a rollercoaster. My 2 year old is too young to tell. He’s much more easy going tho.

Thanks DJ! Kudos to you for taking time to form a deeper connection with her. Now YOU need to take the test so you can see your connections and disconnections.

That might be other temparament is not matured yet. I am ISFP, i can do art at young age but not very into it, but as adult i love art so much. I am not very sensitive to critisicm, but i sensitive to other's people feeling. I do not like system, but if i wanna do art and that art need me to follow the system like music industry or film industry, then i will follow it, but i will still find a way to follow my heart more. ISFP too love harmony, care about other's people feeling, and hate conflict, maybe that's why they do not want to break the rules oftenly. I also got grades and love learning new things, but i hate school (Actually i hate school system, not the school. School system not very good for ISFP, ISTP, ESTP, and other mbti that prefer practical study more than theory). I am not very good with hands on (because my parents are not into indulge their children with technical skill, and school prefer student with high good grades rather than student that possibly be a skillful carpenter, or footballer, or chef, or barber. And, this is too because hands on is in second temperament, and most of the time ISFP forgot to use it. But in order to success, ISFP need to do many hands on activity. Example : she wanna pursue music, she must play guitar, play piano, learn how to control voice, etc). This second temparament (hands on activity) might develop when she's in 20 or 30 years old. And i too do not like shiny things, i am not tomboyish but just prefer a comfortable cloth (most of the time is black or pastel tekstile)

Hii, I really hope you read this whole comment as it really might help you. As an ISFP child who had quite the same temperament as your daughter, I wish to add a few things. 1. I did pretty well in school too. At least up to high school. Because different people have different intelligence thresholds. Mine was high school lol. That was the farthest I could get acing my studies without actually having to try hard or have an actual work culture. People just assumed I worked hard, but I just did the things I enjoyed (it was studying fortunately) and my teachers were a lil hands on with my work, so it went well. Even my parents thought I was hard working lmao. (Although you know your daughter best, I'm just saying) Do not be fooled by that. Please make sure she learns (and remembers in her later years) how to work hard when exciting things aren't happening anymore. But please don't make it a lesson or be harsh on her! Gentle is the way to an ISFPs heart. 2. I was also good at following rules. Why? Because I didn't care enough to change them. I was very observant. I believed what I saw. Are these rules a norm? Is this really how the world works? Then okay. Why would I not follow them unless they particularly trouble me? I was like- yeah whatever. Like: Mom you want me to do this? Okay here. BUT if I start to feel like the world doesn't work like you told me it does (because I'm observing things in the world be opposite to what you told me) then I need to know why these darn rules matter. Also, my parents were kinda strict so I had no choice but to fit into their definition of a perfect child. 3. Laid back does not equal extremely chill. When it comes to my values, I'm highly protective. I would fight my family to protect what I believe in if it really matters that much to me. I'm very serious about my values. ISFPs usually are. But when it comes to other people's values? Yeah girl you do you! I don't care! If I have serious values, other people have them too. I let them have theirs. We're good as long as you don't call my beliefs stupid. This is the "chill" this youtuber is talking about. They aren't talking about "taking life unseriously" kinda chill. 4. About her tomboyish-ness: Being an ISFP is not a whole personality. An ISFP could be obsessed with glitter and shiny aesthetics, while other ISFPs could be more drawn to tomboyish-ness. It's really about personal choice. We all direct our creativity in different places we choose and like. Clothing might not just be the one for her. Or maybe it's just that her aesthetic is tomboyish and she spends her time looking better tomboyish-y lol. (Again, you know your daughter best. *No actually.* She knows herself best. ISFPs are quite secretive about their core values sometimes.) As for me, clothes are nothing I worry about. Not really. I just like baggy clothes. That's my aesthetic. (See? Gotcha.) Here you go. Also, remember that mbti stereotypes are rarely like that in real life. Mbti is not a behavioral test. It's the way we process stuff. It's more about the cognitive functions we use. Have a good day!

Hii, I really hope you read this whole comment as it really might help you. As an ISFP child who had quite the same temperament as your daughter, I wish to add a few things. 1. I did pretty well in school too. At least up to high school. Because different people have different intelligence thresholds. Mine was high school lol. That was the farthest I could get acing my studies without actually having to try hard or have an actual work culture. People just assumed I worked hard, but I just did the things I enjoyed (it was studying fortunately) and my teachers were a lil hands on with my work, so it went well. Even my parents thought I was hard working lmao. (Although you know your daughter best, I'm just saying) Do not be fooled by that. Please make sure she learns (and remembers in her later years) how to work hard when exciting things aren't happening anymore. But please don't make it a lesson or be harsh on her! Gentle is the way to an ISFPs heart. 2. I was also good at following rules. Why? Because I didn't care enough to change them. I was very observant. I believed what I saw. Are these rules a norm? Is this really how the world works? Then okay. Why would I not follow them unless they particularly trouble me? I was like- yeah whatever. Like: Mom you want me to do this? Okay here. BUT if I start to feel like the world doesn't work like you told me it does (because I'm observing things in the world be opposite to what you told me) then I need to know why these darn rules matter. Also, my parents were kinda strict so I had no choice but to fit into their definition of a perfect child. 3. Laid back does not equal extremely chill. When it comes to my values, I'm highly protective. I would fight my family to protect what I believe in if it really matters that much to me. I'm very serious about my values. ISFPs usually are. But when it comes to other people's values? Yeah girl you do you! I don't care! If I have serious values, other people have them too. I let them have theirs. We're good as long as you don't call my beliefs stupid. This is the "chill" this youtuber is talking about. They aren't talking about "taking life unseriously" kinda chill. 4. About her tomboyish-ness: Being an ISFP is not a whole personality. An ISFP could be obsessed with glitter and shiny aesthetics, while other ISFPs could be more drawn to tomboyish-ness. It's really about personal choice. We all direct our creativity in different places we choose and like. Clothing might not just be the one for her. Or maybe it's just that her aesthetic is tomboyish and she spends her time looking better tomboyish-y lol. (Again, you know your daughter best. *No actually.* She knows herself best. ISFPs are quite secretive about their core values sometimes.) As for me, clothes are nothing I worry about. Not really. I just like baggy clothes. That's my aesthetic. (See? Gotcha.) 5. Artistry. Your daughter is a sensor. Art is perceived differently by sensors and intuitives. For intuitives (N types) art holds a lot of meaning. So it's particular that they're artistically inclined. The classic typa art. Music, painting drawing, poetry kinda art. BUT for sensors, art is just one experience and an outlet. It doesn't hold much meaning and they aren't very attached to it. So some do end up having their own definitions of art. I do write sometimes, but for me, art is the less typical one: gaming and making edits of my favourite anime. It's an outlet. It's an expression of who I am. It gives me nice feels. Then why is it not art? It is- SENSOR ART! It's about the feels~ Does she like listening to music and/or dancing? If yes, think no more. She's ISFP. Also, another ISFP friend of mine uses coding to create games. Doesn't sound much like art, does it? Coding. Here you go. Also, remember that mbti stereotypes are rarely like that in real life. Mbti is not a behavioral test. It's the way we process stuff. It's more about the *cognitive functions* we use. Have a good day!

No natural sense of authority. It’s like we have to fight for authority.

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Sorry to hear that. Get a job and move out to live on your own asap.

call child services if you truly want to escape, or if you have other family members you trust, explain to them your dad is abusing you and that you need help. otherwise maybe a school counselor. or adult that your close with. if youre older just move out to a friends, it will be hard and independent at first but it will pay off

@@Ryan-jq8ov Thank you for responding to this. Are you okay now?

I am an ENTP (age 42) and I think in me it comes from the Te critic function (in ENTP the Te is the 6-th function ie it is thinking that other people are stupid :) if you want to dive deeper into this I suggest check the C.S.Joseph channel here on UA-cam

ENTP's have Ne Ti. Since Intuitive Thinkers pride themselves on their mind, they want to be the most competent one in the room. An Intutive feeler would want to be the most understanding, relational one. The SJ wants to be the most reliable one and the SP, the most free spirited.

Oh goodness I am sorry I am just now seeing this! this encourages me very much!

I have a podcast also. It's called Not So Normal Parenting. Do you know her Enneagram number? That can be SUPER helpful as well! You may also appreciate my interview with Erin Lockwood who is parenting an ENTP.