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This was so much needed my emotions and how I felt have been up and down but God is so amazing I am thankful for this video and my friends and family for being there for me

Men understand that constant rejection is a default setting for women but when women never initiate, ever, we get the message and give up and don't bother trying. There's so many of us in that situation. It's sad to see that a lot of women just don't care enough and we get the message that we were settled for and not chosen.

wise words 🦉

How exactly do you deal with loosing half of yourself is an emptiness underscribable

Amen

My ex doesn’t do any of these things… 😞

Numb is the right word. Can’t feel a thing right now.

It sucked at first but I’m much happier and more successful now without her. I wanted counseling before divorce but she didn’t. Probably because she would have had to shut her mouth for a few minutes and listen to me for a change.

Thank you

Tasha I been cheat on all my ex. So I think is not good for men and women stay with a cheater

Me and my girlfriend been dating for 8 months but she married but her and her husband separated I’m helping her getting divorced she already not happy in her marriage so I’m helping her right now and I’m good

We literally just got married last year and now he wants a divorce I'm lost I'm angry I'm sad it feels like the man died or something I was not ready for this

Thank you so much for this video it helped me tremendously

No, is adultry. Why blow the doors open to the demonic realm? Why risk the salvation of your soul?

Will the pain ever go away? I’m also scared that I will end up hating her…. I don’t want to feel that either. She’s always going to be there as we have kids.

10 yr marriage 3 months seperated. Spouse moved out Calls me, texts and video calls. Im really confused.

It’s easier to stay than leave

what if i didn’t break the promise or want the separation. we will be married 25 years in october.

No i would not stay .

My wife rejected me when I asked for sex on such a regular basis that I eventually stopped asking. So, I now reject her when she wants a kiss and a cuddle at bedtime. I sleep with my back to her and on the occasions she puts her arm around me, I remove it and tell her not to touch me as I’m trying to sleep. I think this sort of rejection upsets her because she has a face like thunder for a couple of days. She hasn’t yet linked the way she feels when I remove her arm with the way I feel when I ask for sex and get rejected. Women never feel they have to apologise. Recently, at bedtime, she got in bed completely naked possibly hoping I would take the bait. I didn’t but I did go to the bathroom to sort myself out manually. When I got back in bed she had put on her pants and pyjamas. I’m amazed at my own self willpower these days.

My wife and I have been separated for almost a year (not legally) while living in the same home with our 2 kids. I’ve been open about making it work but she’s pushed that idea aside. Yesterday I finally got the truth out of her. She’s been seeing someone else and she won’t tell me how long it’s been. I’m switching bank accounts . I’m the bread winner so I don’t want her touching my money anymore. I will provide for my kids and she can chip in on the bills with her own money. Do you think that’s fair. I’m so lost and hurt from this.

Where’d you go when you separate do you rent somewhere?

Where do you go when you have a separation do you rent somewhere?

Yes but living in separate states simple. Legally seek with attorney help of posting divorce proceedings in your state daily newspaper if spouse do not answer that judgement it’s considered abandement.. not answering judgement you are granted a divorce.

I just want mines over with fast. I can't stay in disrespect and pain. I just want to forget about everything concerning my husband. Im tired.

I love your channel my husband told me he needs a break he went to his mom house he said he needs time to find himself after 8 years after 8 years 4 years dating and engaged and 3 years married now he wants a break my emotions are up and down he has still been a little communication still but how can he just have no emotions or regards of all this years what should l do wait move on

Amen

Amen

My husband decided we were separated. I feel like it’s his way of seeing other people without considering himself a cheater. We have a 6 month old and dealing with this was well as postpartum has truly been a nightmare.

mine hurts even worse because we were forced to separate and we didn't even get to say goodbye. we were on really good terms. it feels like my life has been taken from me she was genuinely the only good thing in my life and we had an insane bond.

I don’t care if I have 10 kids and I’m married and I love you. If you cheat WE ARE DONE but I don’t ever want kids & I prob won’t ever be married because all these men cheat even this woman who just had a baby is complaining her man keeps looking at other woman at target like these men are sooooooo desperate for anything that isn’t the woman that actually cares for them

My greatest fear is waiting then her saying she wanna stay separated im just confuse on the whole thing honestly

Omg, woman are so hard to deal with, man are such much simpler

Thank you for this!

Me and my husband is seperated in the same home (he's in our 3rd bedroom) do to some unfortunate circumstances, he had no choice but to stay here. At first sex was off the table, and I felt divorce was imminent... however Idk if I want the divorce, and we still socialize and I recently started letting him kiss me. Im afraid to have sex because I don't want him to feel like he is off the hook for what seperated us in the first place

Because I changed my mind :( I’m sorry

After 28 years of marriage we separated for 3 years. I realized that l was better all by myself. There is no going back for me.

Love your videos! Thank you.

That second “it’s going to be ok”, broke me down… 6:40…. I wish I could believe that wholeheartedly… 😔

Whats the point kf getting married if you're gonna break the convenat. God hates divorce. And any man that narried a divorce woman commits adultery with her . My God honor hour convenet. God doesnt acknowledge divorce. Just becasue you go done to the court House. You shoild be reconciled

Being marrie young is no excuse. My homeboy and his wife got married after high school graduation year 2000. They're still married in 2024 had kids and are doing just fine. Yes they had problems. America an western society is the only place where they day experience life and dont get marreid young. What a bunch of bs. Other countries and cultures are prepared and raised to be husand and wives. Western society is just immature.

If they leave its God bringing in peace for the both of you unless there is infidelity involved then it's different then divorce becomes an option I too have seen infidelity and restoration thereafter. God allows divorce even though he doesn't like it he says it happens because of the hardening of the hearts which makes sense.

My husband and I separated 5 months ago and he is showing all these signs!

how did you know you were gong to get your husband back?

The re-dating part is really hard for me. It’s like I don’t want to restart when we already had everything. I can’t get over what we had in living under the same roof

We’re new to separation, I asked for it because of some of his issues that I find difficult to forgive. But I wish he at least text me.

Oh my…..

Hi Tasha I have a question. My wife and I have been married for six years. Long story short she wanted a divorce. I moved out and got my own place. It has been three months. I have tried to talk to her about why she left and why she wasn't happy. I suspect she cheated again but she will not tell me the reason except that she is the problem that it is her fault. I have tried to see if she wanted to do marriage counseling and she refused that. I even asked her if she was one hundred percent sure she wanted this divorce. She is on the fence about it and just tells me she needs more time to work on herself that she can't say she wants the marriage or not. I have kept my distance. I don't try to text her unless it is about money or bills. I am at a loss and part of me just wants to go the other way and cut all ties and the other part of me wants to try to make it work. I don't want to see other people because I have only wanted to be with her as a soul mate and I'm sure she is either living with or seeing someone else. The thought of it does bother me and I don't know how long she wants to keep this going. She has told me she wants counseling for herself and that she needs to figure herself out. I told her that I would give her time to figure it out. My question is should I continue to let her do her own thing and see other people til she figures out what she wants or should I just cut all ties and go through with the divorce? I just don't know what to do or who to turn to for advice. I'm not trying to play the victim I need help.

My mental health spiralled where I had self harming thoughts and was out of work for awhile. Self-care was absent, I couldn’t get up to brush my teeth. My mum is a marriage counsellor so that helps a ton, my friends were trying to split my husband and I which I don’t appreciate. I also have an individual and couple counselling. I started journaling too. Some days feel impossible to get up, other days I’m ok to go to the beach.

I feel like this was awesome advice. It's exactly what I needed to hear