Tasha Curry - The Marriage Mentor
Tasha Curry - The Marriage Mentor
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Resetting Expectations: The Path to a Happy Marriage
We are looking at how we can reset our expectations. Delve into transformative approaches to reshape and rejuvenate your marital bond. Learn how adjusting expectations can pave the way to a deeper connection and lasting satisfaction in your relationship.
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Tasha Curry has been through a divorce and has been separated from her current spouse twice. But with personal development she has been able to maintain a long-term marriage and bring her marriage back from the brink of divorce. She wants to help you get your marriage back to being loving and full of passion. The tips she share are things that changed her relationship and lifestyle. Hopefully It can work for you.
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Overcoming the Rut in Marital Life
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When you have been in a long-term relationship, you may find yourself in a situation where your relationship has hit a plateau. It's the feeling that the relationship is in a 'rut'. Dive into 'Finding Us Again' and uncover the keys to reigniting the spark in your marital journey. Explore actionable strategies to overcome relationship ruts, enhance intimacy, and rekindle passion. A guide to redi...
Unraveling the Emotional Compass: Five Pillars of EI During Separation
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Discover the 5 components of emotional intelligence that is crucial during separation. Dive into strategies that create understanding, healing, and personal growth when going through challenging times. Master the art of navigating emotional waters during life's transitions. Video Discussed: ua-cam.com/video/1asERYHUkVg/v-deo.html Music: Epidemic Sound - www.epidemicsound.com/referral/fn0n0s/ Su...
Empathy in Separation: Understanding Your Partner's Perspective
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Explore the profound role of empathy in marital separations. Dive deep into understanding your partner's perspective, enhancing communication, and fostering healing. A must-watch for couples navigating a breakup. Music: Epidemic Sound - www.epidemicsound.com/referral/fn0n0s/ Subscribe for more videos: ua-cam.com/channels/aUDw4pYZB7jQTLbqcCLruQ.html Let's connect: instagram @tasha_curry82 ndconl...
Understanding Unhealthy Relationship Patterns| Emotional Unavailability
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Are you struggling to make meaningful connections? Feeling like something is always blocking your way? It could be that you're stuck in a cycle of unhealthy relationship patterns. In this video, I'll help you identify and break free from the emotional unavailability trap so that you can start experiencing true connection in your relationships. Learn how to recognize the signs of emotional unava...
Understanding How Attachment Styles Affect Your Relationship
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Are you feeling disconnected from your relationships? Discover how your attachment style is influencing how you interact with those around you. In this video, I'll explain the basics of attachment styles in a simple and easy-to-understand way, so that you can discover how to foster healthier connections with people around you! Music: Epidemic Sound - www.epidemicsound.com/referral/fn0n0s/ Subsc...
Stop Comparing Your Relationship on Social Media 📱
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Are you frustrated seeing other couples' perfect moments on social media? In this video, I talk about how you should not compare your marriage to others and appreciate your own unique relationship. Focus on your own journey, break free from comparison and enjoy a healthier, happier relationship. Music: Epidemic Sound - www.epidemicsound.com/referral/fn0n0s/ Subscribe for more videos: ua-cam.com...
Biblical Prescription for Depression: Dealing With The Pressures of Life
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Biblical Prescription for Depression: Dealing With The Pressures of Life
How To Overcome Inadequacy and Believe in Yourself
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How To Overcome Inadequacy and Believe in Yourself
Tips on How to Reconnect with Your Partner
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Tips on How to Reconnect with Your Partner
Communicate Your Partner's Love Language The Right Way
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Communicate Your Partner's Love Language The Right Way
Want Your Ex Back? Things You Can Do to Get Your Spouse Back
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Want Your Ex Back? Things You Can Do to Get Your Spouse Back
Can Loving You Actually Make Me Stop Loving You?
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Can Loving You Actually Make Me Stop Loving You?
Why Arguing is Good for Your Relationship
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Why Arguing is Good for Your Relationship
What We Can Learn From Celebrity Divorce
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What We Can Learn From Celebrity Divorce
Getting Your Spouse to Fall Back In Love With You
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Getting Your Spouse to Fall Back In Love With You
Why We End Up Regretting Our Divorce
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Why We End Up Regretting Our Divorce
Do You Have the Right Mindset for Your Marriage
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Do You Have the Right Mindset for Your Marriage
Marriage Separation: What are the Types of Separation
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Marriage Separation: What are the Types of Separation
Predicting Reconciliation in Marriage
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Predicting Reconciliation in Marriage
When to Give Up on Marriage During Separation
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When to Give Up on Marriage During Separation
Resolve Conflict and Reconcile Your Marriage
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Resolve Conflict and Reconcile Your Marriage
How to Start Relationship on the Right Foot
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How to Start Relationship on the Right Foot
What is Love and How Do We Keep It?
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What is Love and How Do We Keep It?
Top Pain Points of Marriage Separation
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Top Pain Points of Marriage Separation
Improve Self-Esteem in Your Marriage
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Improve Self-Esteem in Your Marriage
6 Root Causes of Divorce
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6 Root Causes of Divorce
Living Single Within Your Marriage
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Living Single Within Your Marriage
The #1 Secret to Stay Married
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The #1 Secret to Stay Married
How to Avoid "PRESSURED LOVE"
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How to Avoid "PRESSURED LOVE"

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @CarlosArreolaJr
    @CarlosArreolaJr 4 дні тому

    This was so much needed my emotions and how I felt have been up and down but God is so amazing I am thankful for this video and my friends and family for being there for me

  • @ElimEx1
    @ElimEx1 4 дні тому

    Men understand that constant rejection is a default setting for women but when women never initiate, ever, we get the message and give up and don't bother trying. There's so many of us in that situation. It's sad to see that a lot of women just don't care enough and we get the message that we were settled for and not chosen.

  • @uzileradebe
    @uzileradebe 7 днів тому

    wise words 🦉

  • @AngelSantiago-o4n
    @AngelSantiago-o4n 23 дні тому

    How exactly do you deal with loosing half of yourself is an emptiness underscribable

  • @lucy-h6b5l
    @lucy-h6b5l 29 днів тому

    Amen

  • @CraniacStudios
    @CraniacStudios Місяць тому

    My ex doesn’t do any of these things… 😞

  • @hobi-wan-kanobi2016
    @hobi-wan-kanobi2016 Місяць тому

    Numb is the right word. Can’t feel a thing right now.

  • @stevengiles346
    @stevengiles346 Місяць тому

    It sucked at first but I’m much happier and more successful now without her. I wanted counseling before divorce but she didn’t. Probably because she would have had to shut her mouth for a few minutes and listen to me for a change.

  • @ockyniewitter6641
    @ockyniewitter6641 Місяць тому

    Thank you

  • @StevenWilliams-i1v
    @StevenWilliams-i1v Місяць тому

    Tasha I been cheat on all my ex. So I think is not good for men and women stay with a cheater

  • @htownthareal985
    @htownthareal985 Місяць тому

    Me and my girlfriend been dating for 8 months but she married but her and her husband separated I’m helping her getting divorced she already not happy in her marriage so I’m helping her right now and I’m good

  • @simonehayes9069
    @simonehayes9069 Місяць тому

    We literally just got married last year and now he wants a divorce I'm lost I'm angry I'm sad it feels like the man died or something I was not ready for this

  • @carlosarreolajr2863
    @carlosarreolajr2863 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much for this video it helped me tremendously

  • @VictoriaNakaraKizer
    @VictoriaNakaraKizer 2 місяці тому

    No, is adultry. Why blow the doors open to the demonic realm? Why risk the salvation of your soul?

  • @adamcarter5802
    @adamcarter5802 2 місяці тому

    Will the pain ever go away? I’m also scared that I will end up hating her…. I don’t want to feel that either. She’s always going to be there as we have kids.

  • @badassmomomdotcom4909
    @badassmomomdotcom4909 2 місяці тому

    10 yr marriage 3 months seperated. Spouse moved out Calls me, texts and video calls. Im really confused.

  • @mummylilbear6088
    @mummylilbear6088 2 місяці тому

    It’s easier to stay than leave

  • @jeanslade4954
    @jeanslade4954 2 місяці тому

    what if i didn’t break the promise or want the separation. we will be married 25 years in october.

  • @christdiedforoursins1467
    @christdiedforoursins1467 2 місяці тому

    No i would not stay .

  • @Turtle_Zed
    @Turtle_Zed 2 місяці тому

    My wife rejected me when I asked for sex on such a regular basis that I eventually stopped asking. So, I now reject her when she wants a kiss and a cuddle at bedtime. I sleep with my back to her and on the occasions she puts her arm around me, I remove it and tell her not to touch me as I’m trying to sleep. I think this sort of rejection upsets her because she has a face like thunder for a couple of days. She hasn’t yet linked the way she feels when I remove her arm with the way I feel when I ask for sex and get rejected. Women never feel they have to apologise. Recently, at bedtime, she got in bed completely naked possibly hoping I would take the bait. I didn’t but I did go to the bathroom to sort myself out manually. When I got back in bed she had put on her pants and pyjamas. I’m amazed at my own self willpower these days.

    • @yellowmellow4753
      @yellowmellow4753 13 днів тому

      I think you should just talk to her.

    • @Turtle_Zed
      @Turtle_Zed 13 днів тому

      @@yellowmellow4753 It works both ways. If I want sex then it’s up to me to ask her but I should expect a refusal She daren’t ask for sex because a refusal for her would be devastating.

  • @matthewallen1957
    @matthewallen1957 3 місяці тому

    My wife and I have been separated for almost a year (not legally) while living in the same home with our 2 kids. I’ve been open about making it work but she’s pushed that idea aside. Yesterday I finally got the truth out of her. She’s been seeing someone else and she won’t tell me how long it’s been. I’m switching bank accounts . I’m the bread winner so I don’t want her touching my money anymore. I will provide for my kids and she can chip in on the bills with her own money. Do you think that’s fair. I’m so lost and hurt from this.

    • @lamson1990
      @lamson1990 Місяць тому

      You’ll find yourself someone better. Get rid of that parasite

    • @SherryCurls
      @SherryCurls 2 дні тому

      Be honourable as a man consider your children. Even if she offended you and is completely in the wrong don’t wrong her in return. God will uphold you and sanctify you. We all reap what we sow because God will NOT be mocked. Stay strong brother stay in Jesus if you don’t know him find him! He makes our path straight

  • @KmNry
    @KmNry 3 місяці тому

    Where’d you go when you separate do you rent somewhere?

  • @KmNry
    @KmNry 3 місяці тому

    Where do you go when you have a separation do you rent somewhere?

  • @PoohFi
    @PoohFi 3 місяці тому

    Yes but living in separate states simple. Legally seek with attorney help of posting divorce proceedings in your state daily newspaper if spouse do not answer that judgement it’s considered abandement.. not answering judgement you are granted a divorce.

    • @PoohFi
      @PoohFi 3 місяці тому

      🧡❤❤💯

  • @jamaicanqueen6580
    @jamaicanqueen6580 3 місяці тому

    I just want mines over with fast. I can't stay in disrespect and pain. I just want to forget about everything concerning my husband. Im tired.

  • @claribelgarcia9256
    @claribelgarcia9256 3 місяці тому

    I love your channel my husband told me he needs a break he went to his mom house he said he needs time to find himself after 8 years after 8 years 4 years dating and engaged and 3 years married now he wants a break my emotions are up and down he has still been a little communication still but how can he just have no emotions or regards of all this years what should l do wait move on

    • @rjbg84
      @rjbg84 3 місяці тому

      @@claribelgarcia9256 marriage is hard. And unfortunately one or both might fall out of love. My experience taught me that YOU might try to be your best and make the most of your marriage, do everything right, as love and marriage should. It is a tough road, and that road needs to ppl to be ablo to get through. This is what a lot of marriages fail, one tries the other just does not care. The problem here is that there's always a something better for me out there mentality, I deserve better, I used to have, I used to be this, I had a lot of, and if that's the thoughts that person has, it will eventually break apart s marriage. Short term pleasure and happiness sometimes trumps all the work and effort of yrs of marriage. That's whst broke my marriage, still haunts me to this day, but as of now it is a life experience, a really hurtful one, but it's there, won't go away, and the only thing you can do is accept it and move on. Sometimes it is better to let go ppl that are not interested in putting in the work, your efforts are to be respected. Hope this helps you out on these hardships you're facing, but trust me, time is s powerful tool, it is HARD at the beginning but things will eventually calm down, your voices of pain will go away and the pain will subside. Take care, focus on yourself snd your happiness and do not link your well being to no one.

  • @millicentkathuri4860
    @millicentkathuri4860 3 місяці тому

    Amen

  • @cjfyfes1206
    @cjfyfes1206 3 місяці тому

    Amen

  • @avh001
    @avh001 4 місяці тому

    My husband decided we were separated. I feel like it’s his way of seeing other people without considering himself a cheater. We have a 6 month old and dealing with this was well as postpartum has truly been a nightmare.

    • @justmyordinarylife2628
      @justmyordinarylife2628 2 місяці тому

      I feel your pain. My husband left me at 12 weeks pregnant and we have a 10 year old child as well. I’m dreading postpartum. I already deal with depression outside of all this.

  • @herobrineslayer1585
    @herobrineslayer1585 4 місяці тому

    mine hurts even worse because we were forced to separate and we didn't even get to say goodbye. we were on really good terms. it feels like my life has been taken from me she was genuinely the only good thing in my life and we had an insane bond.

  • @KaitlynLoveXo
    @KaitlynLoveXo 4 місяці тому

    I don’t care if I have 10 kids and I’m married and I love you. If you cheat WE ARE DONE but I don’t ever want kids & I prob won’t ever be married because all these men cheat even this woman who just had a baby is complaining her man keeps looking at other woman at target like these men are sooooooo desperate for anything that isn’t the woman that actually cares for them

    • @matinaki1644
      @matinaki1644 4 місяці тому

      Most just wanna get married and have a family. Then, when they have the cat in the bag, they cheat.

  • @lamontevans4241
    @lamontevans4241 4 місяці тому

    My greatest fear is waiting then her saying she wanna stay separated im just confuse on the whole thing honestly

  • @joaopedropressatofreitas8848
    @joaopedropressatofreitas8848 4 місяці тому

    Omg, woman are so hard to deal with, man are such much simpler

  • @ChristinaBlue1
    @ChristinaBlue1 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for this!

  • @piinkz30
    @piinkz30 4 місяці тому

    Me and my husband is seperated in the same home (he's in our 3rd bedroom) do to some unfortunate circumstances, he had no choice but to stay here. At first sex was off the table, and I felt divorce was imminent... however Idk if I want the divorce, and we still socialize and I recently started letting him kiss me. Im afraid to have sex because I don't want him to feel like he is off the hook for what seperated us in the first place

  • @Hashbrownpasta
    @Hashbrownpasta 4 місяці тому

    Because I changed my mind :( I’m sorry

  • @soblessed4844
    @soblessed4844 5 місяців тому

    After 28 years of marriage we separated for 3 years. I realized that l was better all by myself. There is no going back for me.

  • @robertwhit
    @robertwhit 5 місяців тому

    Love your videos! Thank you.

  • @CancerLeoLibra85
    @CancerLeoLibra85 5 місяців тому

    That second “it’s going to be ok”, broke me down… 6:40…. I wish I could believe that wholeheartedly… 😔

  • @Detroitswagg28
    @Detroitswagg28 5 місяців тому

    Whats the point kf getting married if you're gonna break the convenat. God hates divorce. And any man that narried a divorce woman commits adultery with her . My God honor hour convenet. God doesnt acknowledge divorce. Just becasue you go done to the court House. You shoild be reconciled

  • @Detroitswagg28
    @Detroitswagg28 5 місяців тому

    Being marrie young is no excuse. My homeboy and his wife got married after high school graduation year 2000. They're still married in 2024 had kids and are doing just fine. Yes they had problems. America an western society is the only place where they day experience life and dont get marreid young. What a bunch of bs. Other countries and cultures are prepared and raised to be husand and wives. Western society is just immature.

  • @lifestylechangewithLisa
    @lifestylechangewithLisa 5 місяців тому

    If they leave its God bringing in peace for the both of you unless there is infidelity involved then it's different then divorce becomes an option I too have seen infidelity and restoration thereafter. God allows divorce even though he doesn't like it he says it happens because of the hardening of the hearts which makes sense.

  • @stephaniekeng6693
    @stephaniekeng6693 5 місяців тому

    My husband and I separated 5 months ago and he is showing all these signs!

  • @lifestylechangewithLisa
    @lifestylechangewithLisa 5 місяців тому

    how did you know you were gong to get your husband back?

  • @frankgeary7574
    @frankgeary7574 5 місяців тому

    The re-dating part is really hard for me. It’s like I don’t want to restart when we already had everything. I can’t get over what we had in living under the same roof

  • @AverageAufa
    @AverageAufa 5 місяців тому

    We’re new to separation, I asked for it because of some of his issues that I find difficult to forgive. But I wish he at least text me.

    • @antwaunbrunson3450
      @antwaunbrunson3450 5 місяців тому

      You asked for it. You knew him not communicating with you was going to be part of it. Now, how do you both move forward?

  • @ivyechols5763
    @ivyechols5763 5 місяців тому

    Oh my…..

  • @TobiMorrow-gf2ky
    @TobiMorrow-gf2ky 5 місяців тому

    Hi Tasha I have a question. My wife and I have been married for six years. Long story short she wanted a divorce. I moved out and got my own place. It has been three months. I have tried to talk to her about why she left and why she wasn't happy. I suspect she cheated again but she will not tell me the reason except that she is the problem that it is her fault. I have tried to see if she wanted to do marriage counseling and she refused that. I even asked her if she was one hundred percent sure she wanted this divorce. She is on the fence about it and just tells me she needs more time to work on herself that she can't say she wants the marriage or not. I have kept my distance. I don't try to text her unless it is about money or bills. I am at a loss and part of me just wants to go the other way and cut all ties and the other part of me wants to try to make it work. I don't want to see other people because I have only wanted to be with her as a soul mate and I'm sure she is either living with or seeing someone else. The thought of it does bother me and I don't know how long she wants to keep this going. She has told me she wants counseling for herself and that she needs to figure herself out. I told her that I would give her time to figure it out. My question is should I continue to let her do her own thing and see other people til she figures out what she wants or should I just cut all ties and go through with the divorce? I just don't know what to do or who to turn to for advice. I'm not trying to play the victim I need help.

  • @AverageAufa
    @AverageAufa 5 місяців тому

    My mental health spiralled where I had self harming thoughts and was out of work for awhile. Self-care was absent, I couldn’t get up to brush my teeth. My mum is a marriage counsellor so that helps a ton, my friends were trying to split my husband and I which I don’t appreciate. I also have an individual and couple counselling. I started journaling too. Some days feel impossible to get up, other days I’m ok to go to the beach.

  • @ryang1589
    @ryang1589 6 місяців тому

    I feel like this was awesome advice. It's exactly what I needed to hear