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Episode #38: Navigating the Holidays - Triggers, Emotions, & Food
In this holiday-themed episode of Tami Talks: Unscripted Healing, I’m putting my Dietitian “hat” back on to dive into the emotional, energetic, and nutritional challenges of the season.
From family dynamics to food triggers, I’m sharing personal stories, practical tips, and heartfelt insights to help you navigate the holidays with grace and intention. Whether it’s managing stress, supporting your Inner Child, or creating non-negotiables for your well-being, this episode has everything you need to show up for yourself this season.
Join the Tami Talks Patreon and get a FREE Unscripted Notes to My Inner Child journal!
Want support throughout the holidays? Schedule a 90-minute session with Tami!
Show Notes:
01:10 - Why I’m putting my Dietitian “hat” back on for this holiday episode
02:51 - Join the Tami Talks Patreon and get a FREE Unscripted Healing Journal
07:35 - December is BIRTHDAY MONTH and a giveaway announcement
08:40 - Special announcement about the next Inner Child Healing Retreat
10:22 - Why the holidays aren’t always so “happy”
15:30 - Arlo’s meltdown and my panic attack last Thanksgiving
25:47 - How to emotionally support yourself during the holidays
27:34 - Discussing holiday food and its connection to emotional triggers
31:13 - How family projects their own childhood wounds onto you
35:45 - Missed last week’s episode on reclaiming your power? Tune in!
36:57 - Why we use food to avoid feeling emotions during the holidays
38:33 - My favorite tool for healthy holiday eating
43:00 - The emotional and energetic impact of how you eat
45:10 - The biggest contributor to holiday stress and weight gain
50:48 - Why “Santa Talk” can create a “betrayal wound” in kids
56:15 - Setting “non-negotiables” to prioritize yourself during the holidays
1:02:17 - Why your Inner Child gets upset with YOU during the holidays
1:05:37 - The one habit you must maintain: drink water!
1:10:48 - Practicing good energetic hygiene during the holidays
1:13:18 - The importance of tending to your Inner Child during this season
1:16:30 - My mic-drop moment: a message from my Inner Child to yours!
Tune in for actionable strategies, heart-centered advice, and tools to reclaim your peace and joy during the holidays. 💫
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Episode #37: STOP Giving Your Power Away!
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In this episode, we dive deep into reclaiming your personal power, protecting your energy, and understanding how your body and mind react to the world around you. This episode features insights on navigating holiday triggers, handling workplace challenges, and cutting negative energetic cords. Tune in to discover how you can harness self-awareness to create more meaningful, positive connections...
Episode #36: Redefining Masculinity: From Tough Guy to Devoted Husband
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In this VERY unscripted, unfiltered, and heartfelt episode, my guest, Santino, dives deep into how he addressed his childhood wounds that fueled his "Tough Guy" persona and how he learned to embrace healthy masculine energy to become his most authentic self with the help of his wife. In this episode, Santino redefines what it means to "be a man" making this a MUST-LISTEN episode for every coupl...
Episode #35: Why Being the Superhero Doesn't Actually Save Anyone
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In Episode #35, "Why Being a Superhero Isn’t Actually Saving Anyone," we explore the emotional weight of constantly playing the hero in other people’s lives and how it can backfire on your own well-being and goals. From people-pleasing to boundary-setting, this episode takes a deep dive into why some of us feel compelled to save others, the toll it takes, and the liberation that comes when we s...
Episode #34: The Importance of Movement for Everyone
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We all know movement is important, but this episode will give you a whole new outlook on why it is so important to build this foundation for kids and to never lose it as an outlet as an adult! Join me as I chat with Amanda, Tri 4 Schools director and Ironman athlete, who shares her journey of personal transformation and the life-altering “Tower Moments” after the Ironman Championship that resha...
Episode 33: Help & Hope Through Recovery
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In Episode #33, I’m joined by Kevin Florek, CEO of Tellurian, to dive deep into the connections between mental health, addiction, homelessness, and healing from trauma. We explore Tellurian’s unique approach to behavioral health services, the relationship between addiction and childhood wounds, and why sharing our struggles is so important. Kevin not only addresses the stigma around mental heal...
Episode #32: Tempted to Give Up - When The Obstacles Feel Overwhelming
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“You should start a podcast,” they said, “It’ll be fun.” And it has been-fun, rewarding, but also incredibly challenging. After another devastating episode loss due to tech issues with my new computer, I felt so defeated. My Ego was ready to quit, and I was almost convinced to follow. But I believe in showing the process-the good, the bad, and the messy, behind-the-scenes struggles-whether it’s...
Episode #31: Navigating Relationships & Childhood Trauma
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In this powerful episode, we sit down with Laura K to unpack the complexities of healing from childhood trauma and its impact on our adult relationships. Laura bravely shares her personal story of feeling both inadequate and "too much," revealing how these experiences shaped her approach to love and self-worth. Together, we explore the connections between past wounds and present behaviors, incl...
Episode #30: Healing Through Darkness & How to Find the Light
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In this deeply personal and unscripted episode, I share why this week’s podcast almost didn’t happen. From navigating the intense energy of the current eclipse to grappling with a sudden darkness that overcame me, I open up about how I reached out for help when I wasn’t okay. Together with Erika, we explore what it means to support someone in a dark place, embrace spiritual gifts despite the do...
Episode #29: Breaking The Cycle of Addiction
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In this episode, we dive deep into Susan's powerful story of overcoming addiction and the layers of healing she has uncovered along the way. From her struggles with heroin and cocaine to addressing other self-harming behaviors, Susan shares how the journey of recovery has led her to profound revelations about her worthiness, childhood wounds, and connections to a Higher Power. Join us as we exp...
Episode #28: Healing the Inner Child: Boundaries, Triggers, and Finding Peace Through Forgiveness
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In this episode, I chat with my close friend Jen, the person who pushed me into starting this podcast. Jen shares how she helped me confront my worthiness wounds, set healthy boundaries, and break free from the "Grind Mentality." We dive into the challenges of parenting, managing triggers as an adult, and living in a multi-generational home where her Inner Child is triggered and trying to heal ...
Episode #27: Inner Child Healing Retreat: Life-Changing Transformations & Emotional Breakthroughs
Переглядів 1522 місяці тому
In this special episode, we’re changing things up with 5 incredible guests who joined me at our first-ever Inner Child Healing Retreat in Sedona, Arizona. Together with my co-healer Zoe, we dive into the life-changing moments that unfolded, sharing stories of healing, spiritual reconnections, and personal breakthroughs. Listen as these brave women share the impact of the retreat, from unlocking...
Episode #26: Stopping the Cycle - Becoming the Father He Never Had
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In Episode #26, "Breaking the Cycle: Becoming the Father He Never Had," Don shares his journey from a traumatic childhood to becoming a committed father and coach. He opens up about the emotional toll of feeling abandoned as a child, how becoming a parent triggered unresolved wounds, and the importance of finding healthy outlets for coping. Don also offers tough-love advice for parents navigati...
Episode #25: Finding Her Voice - Speaking Up About $exual Violence & Mental Health
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Episode #25: Finding Her Voice - Speaking Up About $exual Violence & Mental Health
Episode #24: Becoming Visible Again - Learning Self Love At Every Age
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Episode #24: Becoming Visible Again - Learning Self Love At Every Age
Episode #23: Toxic Relationships to Happily Ever After
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Episode #23: Toxic Relationships to Happily Ever After
Episode #22: Healing My Relationship with My Inner Child and Daughter
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Episode #22: Healing My Relationship with My Inner Child and Daughter
Episode #21: Helping Loved Ones Transition
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Episode #21: Helping Loved Ones Transition
Episode #20: Time to Reflect and Celebrate!!
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Episode #20: Time to Reflect and Celebrate!!
Episode #19: Behind the Scenes of Food, Fashion, & Lifestyle Bloggers - Everyday M&K
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Episode #19: Behind the Scenes of Food, Fashion, & Lifestyle Bloggers - Everyday M&K
Episode #18: Turning Pain Into Purpose
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Episode #18: Turning Pain Into Purpose
Episode #17: Lies & Loss - Heal your Inner Child to find the gift wrapped in the painful package.
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Episode #17: Lies & Loss - Heal your Inner Child to find the gift wrapped in the painful package.
Episode #16: Be the Editor of Your Story - The journey from intern to Editor-in-Chief
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Episode #16: Be the Editor of Your Story - The journey from intern to Editor-in-Chief
Episode #15: Releasing Emotional Trauma 55 Years Later
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Episode #15: Releasing Emotional Trauma 55 Years Later
Episode #14: Transforming Sexual Shame into Empowerment
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Episode #14: Transforming Sexual Shame into Empowerment
Episode #13: When a Child Doesn't Feel Seen: The Roots of the "Perfectionist" and "Problem Child"
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Episode #13: When a Child Doesn't Feel Seen: The Roots of the "Perfectionist" and "Problem Child"
Episode 12: Do You See Me? (Fear of Rejection)
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Episode 12: Do You See Me? (Fear of Rejection)
Episode #11: Control vs Surrender
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Episode #11: Control vs Surrender
Episode #10: Heal So You Kids Don't Have To
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Episode #10: Heal So You Kids Don't Have To
Episode #9: Check Yourself Before You Project Yourself!
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Episode #9: Check Yourself Before You Project Yourself!

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @paulanoethe4515
    @paulanoethe4515 6 годин тому

    This really touched my heart!

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 3 години тому

      I'm so happy this episode resonated with you! Thank you for pressing play! I hope your holidays are truly happy and filled with so much love and joy!

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball 13 днів тому

    Seriously, people… whether dressed as a villain or superhero, Tami has some powerful insights!

  • @charlie0871
    @charlie0871 14 днів тому

    I have know Santino for 32 tears or so, and I have always known he was a good man, even when he didn't. If I could get the video to play, I'd probably recognize certain aspects of the conversation. I hope I played some small role in his formative years! I love ya, brother!

    • @santinovanderwielen
      @santinovanderwielen 14 днів тому

      Who are you sir?

    • @monickawhitehead8889
      @monickawhitehead8889 13 днів тому

      Omg, Santino I love this. I wish more men would be open to their emotions and life. I appreciate your transparency

    • @charlie0871
      @charlie0871 13 днів тому

      @@santinovanderwielen You were in my wedding in 1992, You better know who this is now! 1212 Douglas ave.?

    • @santinovanderwielen
      @santinovanderwielen 13 днів тому

      @@charlie0871now I know you!

    • @MollyVanDerWielen
      @MollyVanDerWielen 10 днів тому

      @@charlie0871 Chris!!

  • @paulanoethe4515
    @paulanoethe4515 Місяць тому

    Things will get better! I love your podcasts!

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing Місяць тому

      I believe that too!! Thank you for your support and for listening!!

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball Місяць тому

    Thanks for sharing in your rawness. Sending love ❤. Also, I can absolutely vouch for the benefits of working with Tami! She’s deeply genuine and intuitive, always asking just the right questions to stir things up and bring to the surface what’s ready to be released. While she can’t do the work for you, she’s there to help you identify the blocks in your path and guide you through overcoming them, like a supportive detective. She’s truly a personal life cheerleader and a powerful positive mirror, reflecting your strengths back to you in a way that gives you a fresh perspective and makes self-love and worthiness feel natural. Every session with Tami flowed effortlessly, even when I wasn’t sure what we’d discuss. I always walked away with powerful “ah-ha” moments and a deeper understanding of myself and the needs of my inner child. Not to mention, her energy is so uplifting! After our conversations, I always felt recharged with motivation and excitement. If you’re ready to explore what’s holding you back and move toward greater self-love, I highly recommend working with her!

  • @paulanoethe4515
    @paulanoethe4515 Місяць тому

    Great podcast

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball 2 місяці тому

    Whew… That’s a good one! Sending so much love. Thanks for sharing your story!

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing Місяць тому

      Right? Such a powerful story and proof that healing can happen in layers.

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball 2 місяці тому

    ❤ love this deep and authentic conversation!

    • @unscriptedhealingwi
      @unscriptedhealingwi 2 місяці тому

      Thank you for listening and for sharing your love for this episode! I, too, love deep, authentic conversations!!

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball 2 місяці тому

    I always love listening to these *unscripted* conversations! Thanks Tami and Don for shining your light in this world!

    • @unscriptedhealingwi
      @unscriptedhealingwi 2 місяці тому

      I'm so proud of him and I know his Inner Child is proud of him too!

  • @drathermel812
    @drathermel812 3 місяці тому

    You don’t stop playing because you’re old. You get old because you stop playing. I think that’s it. ❤love your story!

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball 3 місяці тому

  • @ErikaStatz
    @ErikaStatz 4 місяці тому

    20 episodes that have allowed the opportunity for me to have an intentional connection each week with not just my inner child, but the inner child of each of your guests. It's part of the healing that can't be underestimated....the power of healing together. ❤

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much for spending the last 20 weeks with me and my Inner Child - and all the guests and their Inner Child!! Sending you and yours so much love and healing!! <3

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball 4 місяці тому

    🎉Congrats on 20 episodes!🎉 I can’t wait for the whole world to see and know Little Tam Tam! ❤

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball 4 місяці тому

    Love this so much! Thanks for sharing your story❤

  • @julie4589
    @julie4589 4 місяці тому

    So great! Way to show that anything is possible if you just keep going and showing up! Grateful to know you both!

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 4 місяці тому

      Right?! Such a powerful story of perseverance!!

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball 4 місяці тому

    Beautiful, impactful story! Such a brave woman. I loved the gift that was seen through all this and the Colleen is actually LIVING that gift. ❤❤

  • @emamhossan8798
    @emamhossan8798 4 місяці тому

    YYour podcast is really awesome

  • @ErikaStatz
    @ErikaStatz 5 місяців тому

    Paul, thank you for your willingness to be vulnerable and share your story. It's not easy, but I'm certain that this was not only a precious gift for little Paul, but was a gift to many others as well. I'm hugging you, and little Paul, through this screen right now. You are brave, and you are not alone. 🤍

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 5 місяців тому

      You are the sweetest for taking the time to send this message, love, and support for my dad and Little Paul!

  • @FREEINGTHEMIND
    @FREEINGTHEMIND 6 місяців тому

    Beautiful! Excellent build; very introspective and motivationally encouraging💯

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 6 місяців тому

      Thank you for that awesome feedback! I appreciate it more than you know! <3

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball 6 місяців тому

    Love this!

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball 6 місяців тому

    I love this so much! “Yoo better check yourself, before you project yourself!!” Thanks for your authenticity and vulnerability!

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 6 місяців тому

      I had fun saying it that way!! Haha! Thank you for receiving me in my authenticity and vulnerability! <3

  • @kriseaton1447
    @kriseaton1447 7 місяців тому

    Funny how your messages always feel like you’re speaking to me!

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball 7 місяців тому

    Love it!!

  • @SpicyMeat-a-ball
    @SpicyMeat-a-ball 7 місяців тому

    Tami doesn’t doesn’t disappoint! This is such a great episode and a profound perspective shift. I am so thankful for the work Tami is doing and her bravery in stepping into her gifts!

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 6 місяців тому

      I'm so happy this episode helped create some shifts for you!! Thank you for listening and supporting me and Lil Tam Tam!

  • @getfitwithlife
    @getfitwithlife 8 місяців тому

    Love Zoé!!! ❤️

  • @cynthiacasas-yo3tf
    @cynthiacasas-yo3tf 8 місяців тому

    Congratulations Tami! Thank you for sharing 😊 Love your healing story 💜

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for your support and for taking time to listen!! <3

  • @heyitsashb
    @heyitsashb 8 місяців тому

    "Finding yourself is remembering who you were as a kid and what you loved as a child." I LOVE this!

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 8 місяців тому

      It is so true and what makes aspects of our healing journey fun and joyful!! <3 Thank you for taking time to listen!

  • @lmp5664
    @lmp5664 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for being so raw, transparent and you! Little Tam Tam and Tami are worthy! ♥️ I love you more and look forward to continuing this journey with you.

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 8 місяців тому

      Thank you for ALWAYS supporting me and Lil Tam Tam on this journey!! <3 Love you more!!

  • @dukeadams
    @dukeadams 8 місяців тому

    Awesome!

  • @highfriends
    @highfriends 8 місяців тому

    At around 26:00 you talked about deserving to be in a career that lights you up. What do you do when that's how we feel, but there seems to be no other option?

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 8 місяців тому

      Start by trying on the energy of what it would FEEL like to be in a career that lights you up! Simply putting energy toward what you want is powerful. Also, be mindful that your Protective Ego may be blocking you from seeing that there could be other options because it doesn't want you to get your hopes up. Healing our Worthiness Wound is key to taking actual steps toward a more fulfilling life!!

  • @madisonstoryslam
    @madisonstoryslam 8 місяців тому

    13:18 realizing that gift is key, but understanding that our own story has power for connection is equally as important.

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 8 місяців тому

      We all just want to feel seen and heard!!! It's one of the greatest gifts we can give one another!!

  • @adamrostad3323
    @adamrostad3323 8 місяців тому

    Nice to see a show launch with great production value!

    • @unscriptedhealingwi
      @unscriptedhealingwi 8 місяців тому

      I knew that if I wanted to actually do this, I needed to do it right and get the support that I needed!!

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 8 місяців тому

      I'm "All In" on this dream of mine!!

  • @MortarBoxMedia
    @MortarBoxMedia 8 місяців тому

    Congrats Tami for launching today!

    • @unscriptedhealingwi
      @unscriptedhealingwi 8 місяців тому

      Couldn't have done it without you!!

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 8 місяців тому

      A dream years and healing in the making!!! Thank you for making it possible!!!

  • @getfitwithlife
    @getfitwithlife 8 місяців тому

    Soo proud of you!! Thank you for taking the leap and stepping into the uncomfortable!! Much love to you ❤

    • @unscriptedhealingwi
      @unscriptedhealingwi 8 місяців тому

      Thank you for listening and for your positive energy and support!!!

    • @unscriptedhealing
      @unscriptedhealing 8 місяців тому

      Sending all that love right back to you on your journey!!

  • @melissafrassetto1145
    @melissafrassetto1145 9 місяців тому

    Congrats Tami! OMG…good on you for following your purpose! 🎉 Can’t wait to listen in.

  • @briepawlak
    @briepawlak 9 місяців тому

    Love this so much!! Healing our inner child is so key 🗝️!