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Mick Rutjes
United States
Приєднався 22 вер 2020
What most people know about me is that I quit my studies at age 19 to travel the world and coach people. Currently I have traveled to 31 countries, coached 100+ individuals, and helped over 20.000 kids step into the field of spirituality through my audiobooks.
Here’s something that most people don’t know about me: I felt like I couldn’t be myself for most of my life. In fact, I felt like I had to hide my passions and dreams to fit in.
It is clear that I have a constant need for freedom and to do things my way.
My clients are secret freedom-seekers like me; people with a deep need for freedom, but best if their environment doesn’t know about it. Sometimes my clients lean into the field of coaching. They sense the potential there is to live a life of freedom but the child within is too afraid to express this need because it is secretly scared of being different.
Here’s something that most people don’t know about me: I felt like I couldn’t be myself for most of my life. In fact, I felt like I had to hide my passions and dreams to fit in.
It is clear that I have a constant need for freedom and to do things my way.
My clients are secret freedom-seekers like me; people with a deep need for freedom, but best if their environment doesn’t know about it. Sometimes my clients lean into the field of coaching. They sense the potential there is to live a life of freedom but the child within is too afraid to express this need because it is secretly scared of being different.
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In this video, Mick Rutjes, a coach and facilitator of the Collective Coaching group, dives into the often-overlooked aspects of coaching - vulnerability, self-doubt, and the importance of exploring deep emotional layers. He shares his experiences and insights on coaching other coaches, discussing the pressures new coaches face, especially when it comes to feeling like they need to "fix" or have all the answers for their clients. Mick reflects on his personal journey as a young coach working with older clients and tackles the biggest fear many coaches have: "What if I can't help someone?"
Through personal stories, like coaching a father on his relationship with his daughter, Mick emphasises the core principle of coaching: coaches are not here to give answers but to facilitate growth. By sitting with clients in their darkness, asking the right questions, and exploring fears and insecurities, a coach can help their clients uncover their own solutions and strengths.
Mick also discusses the power of vulnerability in coaching - how being on the same level as your client can open the door to deep, transformative conversations. When a coach admits they don’t have all the answers, it humanises the process, allowing clients to feel seen and understood. This creates a space where true breakthroughs can happen, with the client realising they have the power to solve their own challenges. Coaching is about partnership, not fixing.
This video is perfect for coaches, aspiring coaches, and anyone looking to understand the true essence of coaching and how to step into their power, even when they feel uncertain.
Key takeaways:
- Vulnerability: Embrace not knowing the answers, and create space for client-led solutions.
- Coaching is not about fixing: It’s about facilitating self-discovery through meaningful questions and deep conversations.
- Self-doubt is normal: Even experienced coaches struggle with the fear of not being able to help, but it’s a part of the growth process.
- The power of empathy: Sometimes, the best thing a coach can do is meet their client in the darkness and simply be there with them.
- Confidence without pressure: Coaches don’t need to have an agenda or plan to “fix” someone; the process is about collaboration.
Get coached by me: www.mickrutjes.com
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#coachingjourney #empathy #coachingadvice #selfdiscoverycoach #coachingworks #personalgrowthjourney #coachingbusiness #confidencecoaching #authenticcoaching #coachingwisdom #overcomingselfdoubt #empoweryourself #transformativecoaching #coachinginsights #coachinglife #leadwithpurpose
Watch this video if you're a coach struggling with the 'imposter syndrome'.
Let's connect: calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0/appointments/schedules/AcZssZ0iZVlKaj7GStqKMcSixMXlBRfQsYquVcl1Oh7B8RLPwMv6zegJZIb32GKMNryDHEP9op1cy3Eu
Join Collective Coaching: chat.whatsapp.com/DCrel8LNeakEGlCAfIyDzf
In this video, Mick Rutjes, a coach and facilitator of the Collective Coaching group, dives into the often-overlooked aspects of coaching - vulnerability, self-doubt, and the importance of exploring deep emotional layers. He shares his experiences and insights on coaching other coaches, discussing the pressures new coaches face, especially when it comes to feeling like they need to "fix" or have all the answers for their clients. Mick reflects on his personal journey as a young coach working with older clients and tackles the biggest fear many coaches have: "What if I can't help someone?"
Through personal stories, like coaching a father on his relationship with his daughter, Mick emphasises the core principle of coaching: coaches are not here to give answers but to facilitate growth. By sitting with clients in their darkness, asking the right questions, and exploring fears and insecurities, a coach can help their clients uncover their own solutions and strengths.
Mick also discusses the power of vulnerability in coaching - how being on the same level as your client can open the door to deep, transformative conversations. When a coach admits they don’t have all the answers, it humanises the process, allowing clients to feel seen and understood. This creates a space where true breakthroughs can happen, with the client realising they have the power to solve their own challenges. Coaching is about partnership, not fixing.
This video is perfect for coaches, aspiring coaches, and anyone looking to understand the true essence of coaching and how to step into their power, even when they feel uncertain.
Key takeaways:
- Vulnerability: Embrace not knowing the answers, and create space for client-led solutions.
- Coaching is not about fixing: It’s about facilitating self-discovery through meaningful questions and deep conversations.
- Self-doubt is normal: Even experienced coaches struggle with the fear of not being able to help, but it’s a part of the growth process.
- The power of empathy: Sometimes, the best thing a coach can do is meet their client in the darkness and simply be there with them.
- Confidence without pressure: Coaches don’t need to have an agenda or plan to “fix” someone; the process is about collaboration.
Get coached by me: www.mickrutjes.com
Discover more free content: www.linkedin.com/build-relation/newsletter-follow?entityUrn=7165882706327805952
#coachingjourney #empathy #coachingadvice #selfdiscoverycoach #coachingworks #personalgrowthjourney #coachingbusiness #confidencecoaching #authenticcoaching #coachingwisdom #overcomingselfdoubt #empoweryourself #transformativecoaching #coachinginsights #coachinglife #leadwithpurpose
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Great Mick ❤
Right on! Very well said
This is very interesting. The problem I am having is how can I tell if what I believe is the truth, a lie, or superficial?
BeLIEfs are always lies. Your feelings are your compass to guide you to 'believe' what you prefer, and your feelings in and of themselves are the only, so to say, truth - it is true for your experience.
@mickrutjes can I book a session with you about this?
@@mindandrealitybattle Send me a message on instagram @mickrutjes_ or LinkedIn @mickrutjes. I'm happy to connect virtually!
I love it. Thanks for sharing :) I’m gonna do the practice !
real as hell
What about Heaven
Awesome Mick 👏
Perfect. This is what I'm choosing! Thank you
« Choose to accept the experience you’re creating » Love this ! Thanks so much for all the info ❤
This information is interesting but Mick, your interviewing style needs work - it seems like you have zero interest in any of it but trying to seem nice.
Your content is really awesome
That was great
Really good conversation. Keep it up .•°*☆
Het ego is zeker heel nuttig , het is een ervaringsbewustzijn het is zeker niet het uiteindelijke doel . Na een lange ervaringsweg kan de ZIEL tot groei komen als het ego zich bewust dienstbaar opsteld naar dit principe. Wees een Zielvol mens ( geen goed mens ) Het Ego is niet goed of slecht het is wat het is . TAO
Keep up what your doing bro ❤
So, sales.. Fair enough
I love this and I love how open and therefore vulnerable you show up ❤
This is so helpful, Mick!! Thank you 🙏🏾❤
Aww!!! Thanks for coaching me when I didn't know that I needed it!! You are a true gem of a coach, Mick!! I'm so glad we met 🙂🌈💗🌟
Once again great video Mick! What would you recommend to someone who has the life experience and has learned big transformational lessons for himself butt he doesnt seem to get over this big as wall called insecurity and isnt really daring to go for it beceause of a big lack of confidence in himself
Get a coach ;)) All jokes aside, I'd be more than happy to have a powerful conversation with you and sit down for about an hour to dive deep into this. It's completely free, no obligations. You'll walk away with more confidence and clarity on the next steps you can take in life. Send me a PM on LinkedIn or IG.
Yucky
Thank you for having me, Mick! It was a pleasure. ✊
That's good.
Thanks for this amazing podcast bro. Good luck growing your channel
So if you did run out of money, what would that indicate?
She is a rich brat.
You choose to experience to be full of shite.
For reals, this is a dude. Right???
Wow! This is awesome material Mick! The best life lived is a life of service! Thank You for sharing.!
I define financial freedom as working in a job fully knowing that it is a labor of love that lights me up when I am doing it.
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This was such a good and fun conversation to watch. Yes yes, I'm judging the conversation 😅
Hahah, I appreciate your judgement
Looking forward to go towards this direction of life !
Get my book! It'll be out next week.
Iets waarmee je je niet hoeft te identificeren kan wel degelijk nut hebben, als is het maar dat je door schade en schande kunt ontdekken dat je in essentie niet het ego bent, maar een ego hebt. Ieder mens, verlicht of niet, heeft een identiteit.
Ik hoor het ego ;)
@@mickrutjes Ik is het ego, maar je bent niet het ego. Precies daarom kan het ego nut hebben, b.v. om te kunnen functioneren in een rol die moet worden gespeeld. Ook Socrates, Jesus,Ramakrishna, Ramana, Gurdjief en. enz. hadden en behielden hun identiteit , alleen identificeerden zij zich niet daarmee. Het lost zich op als het ego kan worden gezien voor wat het is. Dat is het enige wat zinvol is om te ontdekken, de rest is gedoe. m.a.w. Wie is die ik die het ego denkt te horen?
I really feel you on that one. i got a haircut 1 week into middle school, and she practically shaved me bald.
Worddd
I edge to u🙏🔥
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Take ya pills
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Good message ❤
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Prachtig dankjewel ❤
Blij dat je het gepost hebt. MOOI. Goed te verstaan voor mij. Er gebeurt wat er moet gebeuren.😊 Het ego wil het graag anders., lekker niet naar luisteren. Ga zo door.
Mooi gesprek en met oortjes goed te verstaan. Dank jullie wel🫶
boi wth boi
veel dank, waar Willem komt praten (enz) is er àltijd zoveel te leren-voelen, GOED LUID zetten, en al dat moois komt bij je♥, groetjes uit Vlaanderen