Mick Rutjes
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How To Live an Authentic Life & Feel Confident
In this video, I reflect on a question I was once asked on a podcast: What does it mean for you to be authentic? The answer that came to me in the moment still resonates deeply today. Being authentic isn't just about expressing who we are - it's about showing up to the world without the need for explanation. When we stop explaining ourselves, we free ourselves to live with confidence, power, and love, rather than fear and limitation.
I walk through an exercise to help you uncover behaviors and personality traits that you might feel the need to justify to others. By identifying these, you can begin to release learned patterns and get closer to your true, authentic self. This process helps remove pressure and brings more freedom, allowing you to create and manifest your reality effortlessly. I invite you to reflect on your own behaviors and see where you might be holding yourself back from showing up as your most authentic self.
If this topic resonates with you and you’d like guidance in uncovering your authentic self, feel free to reach out to me on Instagram or LinkedIn to schedule a call where we can explore this together.
Let's connect: www.mickrutjes.com
#authenticity #authenticitywins #confidencecoaching #selfconfidencejourney #selfconfidencetips #selfconfidence #innerleadership #leadershipdevelopment #beyourself #authenticliving #consciousnessjourney #consciousalignmentmethod #beyourbestself
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Unlocking True Freedom: How to Live Authentically and Break Free from Expectations
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In this video, I dive into what freedom truly means. Over the years, I’ve spoken with many people who dream of the kind of freedom they imagine I have - like traveling to sunny beaches and living without restrictions. And while I do love my lifestyle, I believe real freedom goes deeper than that. When people talk about freedom, they often describe it as the ability to do whatever they want, whe...
Ask Yourself This Question to Live More Authentically
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During the retreat that Noémie Muret and me hosted in Italy, a question came to us along side the theme of our retreat - Self Expression. It's a question that changed the way I look at myself and my life, and it has helped me expand in so many different ways. In this video, I'm sharing with you this question, as well as the way I dealt with my previous habit of people pleasing. The insights of ...
How To Effortlessly Create the Life You Want
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In this video, I felt inspired to share what I learned from immersing myself in self-development, spirituality, and law of attraction secrets. I spent years learning, unlearning, learning, and more unlearning, until I learned to trust my own intuition and go with what works and feels good for me. I hope it inspires you in some way. Timetable: 00:00 Introduction 00:53 My Manifestation Experience...
I Hired a Coach to Teach Me How To Sing
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In this video, I share my journey of taking singing lessons for the first time in my life to explore the impact of coaching on personal growth. I decided to work with a voice coach to prove that coaching genuinely helps in developing new skills and changing your life. Initially, I was extremely uncomfortable and hesitant, but through persistent effort and guidance from my coach, I began to unde...
Stop Waiting, Start Making It Happen! - A Live Coaching Demonstration with Mick Rutjes
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In this video you will watch me coach Mike Vaughan. When listening to the conversation, you will notice how little coaching Mike actually need. Basically, all he needs is to listen to his own words and take action upon the things he feels need to happen. As a coach, all I am doing is... Well, you know what..? That's for you to figure out! Listen in to the conversation and see what my role as a ...
Living up to Your Potential - A Live Coaching Demonstration with Mick Rutjes
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A Phase 2 Conversation with Mandy Lyttle & Mick Rutjes
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During this conversation you'll watch me realise how little labels matter. In fact, it all doesn't matter at all - it doesn't change anything. This initially lead me to the decision to not write anything in this description and leave it empty. However, a big part of me wants this video to be seen by many people, it wants the recognition, it wants to create value, it wants to be heard.. I though...
This is What I Do in a Day...
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Without exaggerating, in the past 7 days there have been 4 people who suddenly, out of nowhere, either asked me to or talked about me vlogging my day. A few were just curious what I do, others recommended I should try it once, and somebody else asked me if I wanted to do it together with him. I have an online presence where I focus a lot on the value I share. I either post a beautiful picture o...
How to Know if Your Coaching is Effective?
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"How do you know that your clients are getting results because of you, and not just because of the way their life unfolds?" It's a genius question and it came from someone who, as you might be able to guess, is very sceptical about the power of coaching. He has had some bad experience with coaching in the past and it made him wonder how my coaching is any different. Personally, I absolute love ...
What Makes a Coaching Session Successful?
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For the past few months, I have been sitting down with a group of coaches every single week. In this group, starting and experienced coaches team up to coach each other, watch each other coach, be coached, and receive feedback. In one of our last sessions, one of the participants received the feedback that her coaching conversation came closer to a normal conversation, rather than an actual con...
You Know Perfectly Well What To Do - A Live Coaching Session Demonstration
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In this video, you will be watching me coach Anze Kos. AK is a professional basketball player, basketball coach, and amazing spiritual life coach. Our conversation is a demonstration of what a coaching conversation can be like. Even though AK and I are great friends, nothing about this conversation was previously planned or discussed. I hope this gives other coaches an insight into what coachin...
How To Coach Someone With More Life Experience Than You?
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Two weeks ago, I was sitting down with the group of wonderful starting coaches I founded; Collective Coaching. In this group, coaches from all over the world come together to practice their coaching skills. One of the participants in this particular session had very limited coaching experience and was invited to coach a neuroscientist and psychoanalyst with a lot of experience in the field of c...
Can We Coach Someone Who Does Not Need Coaching? - A Live Coaching Session Demonstration
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This episode is a fragment from the group I founded called Collective Coaching. In this group, coaches come together to get better at coaching. We coach each other, are coached, and observe each other coach. I believe there is only one way to get better at coaching and that is by doing it. Joining Collective Coaching is free. Everyone is welcome, from starting coaches to more experienced ones. ...
Your Vision is the Place to Come From - A Live Coaching Session Demonstration
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Your Vision is the Place to Come From - A Live Coaching Session Demonstration
Enhance The Way You Coach! - Anu Arora | Extraordinary Coaches Podcast S1EP33
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Enhance The Way You Coach! - Anu Arora | Extraordinary Coaches Podcast S1EP33
How to Get Practice Clients as a Starting Coach?
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This is The Perfect Video
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How To Navigate Difficult Conversations? - 3 Coaches' Perspectives
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How To Start a 6-Figure Coaching Business - George Lantay | The Extraordinary Coaches Podcast S1EP31
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Should You Wish For a Niche? - 7 Coaches' Perspectives
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Should You Wish For a Niche? - 7 Coaches' Perspectives
This Creates First-Class Coaching Sessions! - Rob Gibbons | Extraordinary Coaches Podcast S1EP29
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Help Other People Help Themselves - Rob Ogle | Extraordinary Coaches Podcast S1Ep28
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Help Other People Help Themselves - Rob Ogle | Extraordinary Coaches Podcast S1Ep28
4 Coaches Share How They Started Coaching
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2 Life Coaching Session Examples
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2 Life Coaching Session Examples
How to Write, Finish & Publish a Book?
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Can Anyone Be a Coach?

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @goobachev
    @goobachev 15 годин тому

    real as hell

  • @kanchanverma7149
    @kanchanverma7149 21 день тому

    Awesome Mick 👏

  • @JakeAbles-d3x
    @JakeAbles-d3x 21 день тому

    Perfect. This is what I'm choosing! Thank you

  • @noemiemuret
    @noemiemuret 21 день тому

    « Choose to accept the experience you’re creating » Love this ! Thanks so much for all the info ❤

  • @MattAbraxas
    @MattAbraxas Місяць тому

    This information is interesting but Mick, your interviewing style needs work - it seems like you have zero interest in any of it but trying to seem nice.

  • @emamhossan8798
    @emamhossan8798 5 місяців тому

    Your content is really awesome

  • @jakeables3253
    @jakeables3253 5 місяців тому

    That was great

  • @matsugaea.6982
    @matsugaea.6982 5 місяців тому

    Really good conversation. Keep it up .•°*☆

  • @geert-janvreeburg4573
    @geert-janvreeburg4573 5 місяців тому

    Het ego is zeker heel nuttig , het is een ervaringsbewustzijn het is zeker niet het uiteindelijke doel . Na een lange ervaringsweg kan de ZIEL tot groei komen als het ego zich bewust dienstbaar opsteld naar dit principe. Wees een Zielvol mens ( geen goed mens ) Het Ego is niet goed of slecht het is wat het is . TAO

  • @jakeables3253
    @jakeables3253 5 місяців тому

    Awesome. Love the laughter. Simple, easy, but yet so difficult. Coaching yourself in others

  • @UnknownUser-bo1hg
    @UnknownUser-bo1hg 5 місяців тому

    Keep up what your doing bro ❤

  • @adamloepker8057
    @adamloepker8057 5 місяців тому

    So, sales.. Fair enough

  • @inspiredchoice
    @inspiredchoice 6 місяців тому

    I love this and I love how open and therefore vulnerable you show up ❤

  • @angelisivaraman888
    @angelisivaraman888 6 місяців тому

    This is so helpful, Mick!! Thank you 🙏🏾❤

  • @johanne.strerath6916
    @johanne.strerath6916 6 місяців тому

    Just decided to re-watch this session again today. Awesome insights. Loved this conversation from 7 months ago! BTW, I am so proud of how much you have evolved from last year to today. You have been doing an amazing job on the weekly Collective coaching group sessions that we have. Thank You always! Vulnerability is power!

    • @mickrutjes
      @mickrutjes 6 місяців тому

      Thanks Johann! I always love reflecting on old content too. Funnily enough, I just thought about this conversation this morning! What a coincidence... Let me know if you're still open to having a session where we reverse the roles :))

  • @angelisivaraman888
    @angelisivaraman888 6 місяців тому

    Aww!!! Thanks for coaching me when I didn't know that I needed it!! You are a true gem of a coach, Mick!! I'm so glad we met 🙂🌈💗🌟

  • @DinoTheSpartan301
    @DinoTheSpartan301 6 місяців тому

    Amazing podcast bro. Loved both of you guys. Rob brought such unique insights that I can now use for my own biz. Great stuff brother!

  • @TommyTravel97
    @TommyTravel97 7 місяців тому

    Once again great video Mick! What would you recommend to someone who has the life experience and has learned big transformational lessons for himself butt he doesnt seem to get over this big as wall called insecurity and isnt really daring to go for it beceause of a big lack of confidence in himself

    • @mickrutjes
      @mickrutjes 6 місяців тому

      Get a coach ;)) All jokes aside, I'd be more than happy to have a powerful conversation with you and sit down for about an hour to dive deep into this. It's completely free, no obligations. You'll walk away with more confidence and clarity on the next steps you can take in life. Send me a PM on LinkedIn or IG.

  • @ClaudiaHug
    @ClaudiaHug 7 місяців тому

    Yucky

  • @flywithmisterblackbird
    @flywithmisterblackbird 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for having me, Mick! It was a pleasure. ✊

  • @daudali4808
    @daudali4808 7 місяців тому

    That's good.

  • @michalrezac125
    @michalrezac125 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for this amazing podcast bro. Good luck growing your channel

  • @LisaSmithWilliams-uw6dv
    @LisaSmithWilliams-uw6dv 7 місяців тому

    So if you did run out of money, what would that indicate?

  • @hollyhansen1608
    @hollyhansen1608 8 місяців тому

    Ryan's energy is so pure 🖤

  • @TheRealDadLife
    @TheRealDadLife 8 місяців тому

    Amazing chat!

  • @keza4.20
    @keza4.20 8 місяців тому

    She is a rich brat.

  • @Uninvited72
    @Uninvited72 9 місяців тому

    You choose to experience to be full of shite.

  • @ipsofacto78
    @ipsofacto78 9 місяців тому

    For reals, this is a dude. Right???

  • @johanne.strerath6916
    @johanne.strerath6916 9 місяців тому

    Wow! This is awesome material Mick! The best life lived is a life of service! Thank You for sharing.!

  • @beaconandguide
    @beaconandguide 9 місяців тому

    I define financial freedom as working in a job fully knowing that it is a labor of love that lights me up when I am doing it.

  • @mickrutjes
    @mickrutjes 9 місяців тому

    www.patreon.com/CoachingGym/posts

  • @mickrutjes
    @mickrutjes 9 місяців тому

    www.patreon.com/CoachingGym/posts

  • @hartinivanrijssel8986
    @hartinivanrijssel8986 9 місяців тому

  • @kderckx
    @kderckx 10 місяців тому

    This was such a good and fun conversation to watch. Yes yes, I'm judging the conversation 😅

    • @mickrutjes
      @mickrutjes 10 місяців тому

      Hahah, I appreciate your judgement

  • @sebastiaandegraaf
    @sebastiaandegraaf 10 місяців тому

    Looking forward to go towards this direction of life !

    • @mickrutjes
      @mickrutjes 10 місяців тому

      Get my book! It'll be out next week.

  • @hansgouda8593
    @hansgouda8593 10 місяців тому

    Iets waarmee je je niet hoeft te identificeren kan wel degelijk nut hebben, als is het maar dat je door schade en schande kunt ontdekken dat je in essentie niet het ego bent, maar een ego hebt. Ieder mens, verlicht of niet, heeft een identiteit.

    • @mickrutjes
      @mickrutjes 10 місяців тому

      Ik hoor het ego ;)

    • @hansgouda8593
      @hansgouda8593 10 місяців тому

      @@mickrutjes Ik is het ego, maar je bent niet het ego. Precies daarom kan het ego nut hebben, b.v. om te kunnen functioneren in een rol die moet worden gespeeld. Ook Socrates, Jesus,Ramakrishna, Ramana, Gurdjief en. enz. hadden en behielden hun identiteit , alleen identificeerden zij zich niet daarmee. Het lost zich op als het ego kan worden gezien voor wat het is. Dat is het enige wat zinvol is om te ontdekken, de rest is gedoe. m.a.w. Wie is die ik die het ego denkt te horen?

  • @NoahWilson-e8g
    @NoahWilson-e8g 10 місяців тому

    I really feel you on that one. i got a haircut 1 week into middle school, and she practically shaved me bald.

  • @yjc2491
    @yjc2491 10 місяців тому

    Worddd

  • @itiscd
    @itiscd 10 місяців тому

    I edge to u🙏🔥

  • @billgreene9170
    @billgreene9170 11 місяців тому

    Take ya pills

  • @Fin7329
    @Fin7329 11 місяців тому

    W

  • @benseaman3856
    @benseaman3856 11 місяців тому

    Good message ❤

  • @pepelespy6163
    @pepelespy6163 11 місяців тому

    W

  • @jeannetkatuin
    @jeannetkatuin 11 місяців тому

    Prachtig dankjewel ❤

  • @margotvanpoppel8296
    @margotvanpoppel8296 11 місяців тому

    Blij dat je het gepost hebt. MOOI. Goed te verstaan voor mij. Er gebeurt wat er moet gebeuren.😊 Het ego wil het graag anders., lekker niet naar luisteren. Ga zo door.

  • @josevanopstal8523
    @josevanopstal8523 11 місяців тому

    Mooi gesprek en met oortjes goed te verstaan. Dank jullie wel🫶

  • @ivyexe3973
    @ivyexe3973 11 місяців тому

    boi wth boi