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Strong Dads
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Приєднався 31 гру 2020
Strong Dads is hosted by Merrill Hutchinson, "Hutch", and Carl Andry. Strong Dads is about encouraging and challenging men to be the men that God calls them to be. Followers of Christ, Leaders of Their Homes, Faithful Husbands, and Strong Dads! Hutch is a marriage and family coach with over 35 years of experience. Carl is a husband and stepfather of two adult children. He brings a long history of building into the life's of men. Together they bring about inspiring, entertaining, fun, and real conversations about what we need out of men.
Are You Providing What She Needs? Ep 242
Let’s get something straight: physical needs are important and must be provided for. But, emotional needs are equally important. In my work I have specifically developed an exercise to get couples to begin to recognize these needs and how they can go about them to improve the provision of satisfying the emotional requirements that we all have.
Here are the Emotional Needs:
Control
Love
Respect
Trust
Security
Affection
Purpose
Faith
Every person has a need for these in their lives, but here is where things get interesting.
Think about needs like you would think about food. We all need a certain number of calories in order to survive. We would never look at a person that needs 3000 cal/day and tell them they should just eat 1500 cal/day because that’s what another person needs. We are all different with different levels of need. The same holds true with the emotional needs.
Just for the sake of having a reference point, use a scale of 1-10 and rate yourself in each of the following emotional needs. For right now, don’t think too much, just give yourself a score and reason why you scored yourself that number. (We all have slightly different definitions and territories, or “taste” in each of these areas. Just like food!)
What happens when you don’t get the amount or type of food you need? Hungry, malnourished, etc… The same holds true with not reaching the number you wrote next to your emotional need. You begin to starve emotionally!
Here’s where provision comes in. Within our marriage, we have the responsibility to help meet the needs of our spouse. This includes emotional needs. And as I said earlier, seldom do we see a couple due to a physical need not being met, food, water, shelter, but, we regularly see couples because emotional needs are not being met.
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Here are the Emotional Needs:
Control
Love
Respect
Trust
Security
Affection
Purpose
Faith
Every person has a need for these in their lives, but here is where things get interesting.
Think about needs like you would think about food. We all need a certain number of calories in order to survive. We would never look at a person that needs 3000 cal/day and tell them they should just eat 1500 cal/day because that’s what another person needs. We are all different with different levels of need. The same holds true with the emotional needs.
Just for the sake of having a reference point, use a scale of 1-10 and rate yourself in each of the following emotional needs. For right now, don’t think too much, just give yourself a score and reason why you scored yourself that number. (We all have slightly different definitions and territories, or “taste” in each of these areas. Just like food!)
What happens when you don’t get the amount or type of food you need? Hungry, malnourished, etc… The same holds true with not reaching the number you wrote next to your emotional need. You begin to starve emotionally!
Here’s where provision comes in. Within our marriage, we have the responsibility to help meet the needs of our spouse. This includes emotional needs. And as I said earlier, seldom do we see a couple due to a physical need not being met, food, water, shelter, but, we regularly see couples because emotional needs are not being met.
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Honoring Your Wife - Proverbs 31 - Ep 241
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As a Strong Dad and husband, we are to honor our wives. Proverbs 31 gives us a biblical description of this lady. Proverbs 31:10-31 (NIV): 10 A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. 11 Her husband can trust her, and she will enrich his life. 12 She brings him good and not harm all the days of her life. 13 She is a diligent and hardworking woman. 14 She rises w...
Thriving in the Blended Family - Ep 240
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It is estimated that at least 40% of all families in the United States are Blended Families. Whether it be divorce, death of a spouse, or adoption, in some form or another, we find ourselves blending together families members that are not of the same biological descent. In fact, both Hutch and Carl are in blended family situations. This show tackles the many different dynamics that the blended ...
Daily Habits to Kill Your Prideful Ways - Ep 239
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This is our last show in our series of Pride. After we have recognized that the only way to halt our prideful damage is through Christ. We now move into the daily habits and practices to replace our old ways. Our prideful ways have created many habits that seemed to make sense at the time. Over time, these habits become natural and common place. Once we realize that many of these habits are tea...
Strong Dads Show - I Just Want to Be Happy
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Chasing Happiness - a Bottomless Pit
Strong Dads Short - Your God is Killing You
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Did you create God or did He create you? When you hear people assigning their desired attributes and characteristics of their god, you should pause. The truth is, God has his own attributes and character and we have nothing to do with that.
It All Comes Down to Pride
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It all comes down to learning what your pride looks like and how to kill it!
Strong Dads Shorts - All of our struggles in life can be boiled down to pride.
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Our pride is killing us.
Strong Dads Shorts - The great misunderstanding in life - "I just want to be happy."
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Happiness is a great thing, but if it is your daily goal, good luck! Chasing happiness is a bottomless pit.
Strong Dads Shorts - You have to drive the car
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If you make the acknowledgement that you see a race car. Your statement says nothing about the race car. If you truly want to know about the race car, you must be in relationship with it, in other words, DRIVE IT! Once you drive the car you will begin to experience and learn the true character and capabilities of the car. The same holds true with our relationship with God. Just stating that he ...
Killing Pride - It All Comes Down to This... Ep 238
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In our third of four shows on Killing Pride, this is the one that begins to move you forward. This show boldly comes out and tells you exactly where we can all begin to grab our pride by the throat and begin to choke it out! The tactic described is not for the faint of heart. It causes most to run and avoid the inevitable. The inevitable of surrender! Let's be clear, surrendering sounds like th...
I am not Prideful! - If you think your PRIDE is not a struggle, this show is for you! Ep 237
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In our last episode, 236, we introduced our personal struggle with pride in our lives. Mostly centering around anxiety and the fear of failure. In this episode we blow the doors wide open on PRIDE. We explore the many different ways that all of us have seen or experienced. The blamer, gaslighter, excuse maker, mad-man, road-rage, one-ups, competitiveness, paranoia, self-sabatoge, and the list g...
Dying to Live - Killing Pride - Introducing Carl Andry - Ep 236
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We are called to die to ourselves. What in the heck does that even mean? And even a better question; why? In this episode Hutch introduces Carl Andry to the Strong Dads audience. Carl is not only a smart man, but more so, he's a man of wisdom. He truly enjoys looking back in his own life and the lives of others to see what he can learn to take into the future. Power, money, sex, control, words,...
Tribute to Coach Rudy - Have you thanked someone that has inspired you lately? Ep 235
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When was the last time you thanked someone that poured into you or your life's work? You never know, if you wait too long you may miss the opportunity to let them know what they meant to you. We all have people that have influenced our life. Some much more than others. We have fathers, mothers, teachers, preachers, and coaches that are among the most likely to impact our lives. The point of thi...
Summer of Rehab - Guest, Chris Wilson host of Strong by Design - Ep 235
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Summer of Rehab - Guest, Chris Wilson host of Strong by Design - Ep 235
Summer of Rehab - 2024 - Are you ready to get your life in order? Ep 234
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Summer of Rehab - 2024 - Are you ready to get your life in order? Ep 234
Nothing's Easy Nothing's Cheap - Before and After Camper Restoration Ep 233
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Nothing's Easy Nothing's Cheap - Before and After Camper Restoration Ep 233
Nothing's Easy, Nothing's Cheap - 5 mindset changes to get you through a difficult project. Ep 232
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Nothing's Easy, Nothing's Cheap - 5 mindset changes to get you through a difficult project. Ep 232
Embracing Chaos; Tech Guru, Darin Kroger, Finds Purpose in Disaster Relief. Ep 231
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Embracing Chaos; Tech Guru, Darin Kroger, Finds Purpose in Disaster Relief. Ep 231
From Blazing Battles to Suburban Shifts - Change is not Always Easy - Kyle's Story - Ep 230
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From Blazing Battles to Suburban Shifts - Change is not Always Easy - Kyle's Story - Ep 230
Growth and Resilience: Cultivating Community and Faith at McCabe's Greenhouse - Adam Legge - EP 229
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Growth and Resilience: Cultivating Community and Faith at McCabe's Greenhouse - Adam Legge - EP 229
One Man's Shift from Convenience Store Chaos to Storage Facility Serenity - Steve Naltner - Ep 228
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One Man's Shift from Convenience Store Chaos to Storage Facility Serenity - Steve Naltner - Ep 228
Faith-Fueled Entrepreneurship Helps to Restore an Old River Town - Guest - Tony Schroder Ep 227
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Faith-Fueled Entrepreneurship Helps to Restore an Old River Town - Guest - Tony Schroder Ep 227
Strong Dads with Dr. Randy Moore - Pioneer in Ultrasound Guided PRP Injections - Ep. 226.
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Strong Dads with Dr. Randy Moore - Pioneer in Ultrasound Guided PRP Injections - Ep. 226.
Strong Dads Doing Real Life With Paul Gangloff - Riverside Logging and Sawmill - Ep.225
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Strong Dads Doing Real Life With Paul Gangloff - Riverside Logging and Sawmill - Ep.225
Strong Dads - Tim Doll at Perfect North Slopes - Episode 224
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Strong Dads - Tim Doll at Perfect North Slopes - Episode 224
John Block - Building Decks and Helping to Create Family Memories - Episode 223
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John Block - Building Decks and Helping to Create Family Memories - Episode 223
Strong Dads in Africa - Jose's Story of Being a Father in Africa with a Mission - Episode 222
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Strong Dads in Africa - Jose's Story of Being a Father in Africa with a Mission - Episode 222
Strong Dads in Africa Strong - Men on Two Different Continents - Episode 221
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Strong Dads in Africa Strong - Men on Two Different Continents - Episode 221
Any man can be a father ( biologically)however it takes a real man to be a dad ( loving, responsible etc) is how I view it. Another great episode,thanks guys
Thanks Jason! Yes, way too many sperm donors and not enough fathers.
This is the shortest show ever!
The word but negates, disproves or invalidates everything said before it. I’m sorry or I love you but… Great podcast guys
Absolutely! We hear it all the time. But, But, But…
This is powerful I can't wait until I get to hear the solutions! Btw Carl... don't buy a vette your mechanic don't work on those 😂
Wow Hutch. Fond memories of high school swimming days. I remember when you first jumped came to the swim team and showed me just how fast you were at 50 yards at the time. Then in the weight room knocking off more dips than anyone. You may also remember Tim Cahill who coached for a short time and pushed us to the next level. Rudy came from Eastern Kentucky University where Tim then moved to be the assistant coach. Both brought integrity to their coaching. I think I got in Rudy's face as much as he did in mine to push me to believe I could do more. One more pull, one more push, come on...don't breathe the last 10 yards and stretch. I appreciate you sharing your memories and inspiration coach Rudy brought to all.
Hey Guy! Great to read your comments. Yes, I remember Coach Tim, and even a couple of other coaches that preceded Rudy. I remember Rudy getting on you even more than the rest of us. You carried the most talent on the team and he was going to do everything possible not to let you waste it. At the end of the day, I think it's safe to say that we are all better for how he pushed us. Hope you are doing well.
Also, you'll be so glad to get your knee done! I had one done in 2020 and one in 2021. I always tell people at 2 days you'll think what have I done?! At 2 weeks, you'll think this isn't so bad, and at 2 months you'll think why didn't do this sooner?! Prayers for speedy healing! 🙏
Looks great!! Well done Merrill! Good advice too. 👍
Thanks Kathy! Praying for a full and quick recovery for the knee!
Awesome content....Likes for 1st view,like and comment
So proud of you 😊
I am so proud of you cousin!! Love you so very much!!❤
Thank you for sharing this inspiring episode. It's incredible to see how faith-fueled entrepreneurship can bring about positive transformation in communities.
Personally, I know Dr. Moore..He is a great friend and brother in Christ..an outstanding human being.
My guess is it is not oak. I think black maple is likely what a monster 10,000lbs. amazing. Ray Stormont
Ray, I think you’re right on the Black Maple. Heck of a piece of wood!
TIM. You are the real deal. Good Man.
Mr. Tim I realy enjoyed your video. Keep up the good work. God bless you and all.
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"I can see that" 😂 Tommy looking your kindergarten year book.. lol. I love you brother! I'm proud of you brother. Resiliency through Christ Jesus, throwing mortar on that cracked foundation that was! May the Lord continue to light your path brother! 💥
Proud of you brother!!
Thank you for your content, from South Africa.
I feel like God is speaking to me. Thank you for All you do
Merrill Praying for you and Linda.
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"Stop drinking only water, and use a little wine because of your stomach and your frequent illnesses." -1 Timothy 5:23 NIV. We see Paul tell Timothy to drink here in the Bible. He has his reason, but importantly it isn't to get drunk. It is to help take care of himself. See there is medical benefit!
When women turn against their husband then sympathy, empathy, mercy can only make things worse. Show her the open road. A betrayal is a sin, and trying to understand or forgive just shows weakness, and she will look upon you as weak or a pushover or walkover and bad things will happen again. I recommend a zero tolerance policy. A friend came home from work, found his girlfriend in bed with another man, he immediately took the contents of her wardrobe placed them on the front lawn and burnt the lot, took her house keys and car keys and cut them up with a disc grinder. Zero tolerance. None of these things have happened to me. I have never got married and most likely I never will. Once a bond of trust and honesty has been broken then it's gone for ever just like a broken or cracked mirror. She will have to receive at least seven years bad luck.
Cer Velo Thanks for your comment. Much of what you say about zero tolerance makes sense, but sometimes life gets a little more complicated than what you’re describing. Putting kids in the mix along with many other variables of life make this far more challenging. Not to mention that at Strong Dads we want to know what Christ would want us to do. Like the old saying goes, “before you judge a man, walk a mile in his shoes.”
Big thumbs up for you my friend!
Great video Matt. Glad to see your success and hear about the people you're helping!
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