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Well, growing up being bullied by family, teachers, doctors, coworkers..how do you not bully yourself!? Hard to undo that. Working on it....

As a woman who cares about men and women - all humans - all people, I am SO glad you are focusing on men because they are so important. The lack of fatherhood is the driver of insecure, unhealthy families! Good one.

yeah, especially when you are a single person, homeowner who health issues and feel stuck because life doesn't stop, bills don't get paid and when you are still knee deep in cptsd ....that's anxiety. What made the decision for me to leave? God. He allowed in His permissive will, for me to die....before I had the chance to leave. It's not been a fast or 'easy' recovery at all. Dealing with physical health issues on top the emotional, is no joke.

experience can also be the best of teachers...

Sometimes we go the other way....and do the opposite and make changes because of that

Have you ever felt alone in your relationship? If so, what have you done to address it?

You have the brightest nost expressive Eyes 👀 😊 Im new to your channel n im drawn to your positivity. You have an authentic smile n vibe that when u pop up in my suggestions i always click on you to get that shot of joy 😊.

You have such a Beautiful smile ❤

The thought of trusting someone makes me want to hurt myself.

Your 100% spot on, We develop believes based on false truths. Being able to look back and change our perception of these false beliefs can n will change your life. I was amazed when this happened to me. I went thru a very very hard time that brought on intense suffering for myself. Thru doing some deep inner work i was able to see n then feel differently about what i had believed happened to me. Once i had changed my perception it seemed like my whole life changed. My Past present n the future that i had been anticipating based on these past experiences just melted away. The pain i had been suffering in an instant was gone. I could not unsee or unthink what had been revealed to me. It was a profound life changing moment ❤

What emotions in others are triggering for you?

Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏 everything you've said in this video is extremely relatable and helpful. I wanted to pinpoint a specific thing you said that spoke to me, but there's too many! Again, thank you! I need to hear these things. I'm not crazy or stupid, and my husband is not always right.

How do you say anything my husband does not even let me breathe I'm just a piece of furniture I have to listen to everything he says he never gives

Wives can and are verbally abusive also. Just so you know.

Understanding this aspect of childhood development was so important for my own parenting behaviors. I became appalled with my toddler's sass, I believed i had somehow severely failed him because he was willing to disrespect me in ways i would have *never dared* to be with my mother. It took me a few months of frustration before I remembered that i was terrified of my mother; the reason i behaved was because i knew if i was honest about my needs, i would be ostracized. That is still true, decades later. My mother and i have butted heads a few times over how i parent. She doesnt understand why i cant just bulldoze his real lived experience. Because he is human, too. She used to be the epitome of put together in my eyes, and i am so thankful that i can see beyond her controlled reality now.

Great advice

How about verbally embarrassing you in front of people, then saying to you that you "can't take a joke"?

Oh wow.. My last 3 months! 😢 So tired and worn out now and just trying to move on. So sad that some people are so terribly damaged. Feel really sorry for the man in question. Hope he gets the help he needs some badly (if only he would realise) Thoughts and prayers with anyone on the receiving end of abuse! 🙏

Notice how she pretends men are the ones who are usually doing these things. 😂 She's a clown.

Ignoring you completely and walking off when you speak. Using you to absorb and agree with all their observations when watching a programme, but ignoring yours. Standing in front of the TV. When you try again to speak to them after being ignored they say stop going on about it and then add your name at the end just to make you feel that extra bit worse

Unfortunately, I've found myself withholding due to several years of criticism, countering, undermining, trivializing,and ordering . Followed by times of love and fun. I feel like I'm on a roller coaster.

been in a 5 yr relationship with my bf who has a ex who he still talks to i feel like a 2nd prize to him he hardly talks to me he runs a business he talks nice to everyone else but behind close doors he growls at me i feel like a convenience for him he never hugs or touches me i always do it to him hes like a spoilt child with his emotions if a guy talks nice to me in front of him or compliments me he gets jealous or doesnt like it when we started dating he couldnt do enough for me and to be honest im getting tired of feeling this way im 61 hes 69 and he flirts with women and when young women come to get their car fixed (hes a mechanic ) he fawns an talks nice to them it irritates me im not a jealous person it irks me when he does that we,v had fights over it im waiting for him to fix my car registar it in my name im out im leaving him i cant take it anymore

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WOW WOW WOW WOW Two and half minutes in EX wife guilty of 6 out of the 6 mentioned

Im not sure if I'm doing this, at first I thought I was stonewalling but, its not like I shut down and am silent either. What I do is when my wife is trying to tell me she's not happy with our relationship I never address what shes saying to me in a real way, I tell her its because whatever else happens to be going wrong at the time, money is tight, kids are being a pain, work is stressful etc etc. And then theres never any solution other than, you know, it'll work itself out, things will be better soon. But things never got better for her and I was oblivious to her true feelings, or i just didnt want to see them, until she left. Now I'm trying to do the work, im in therapy working on myself, we still talk but its hard. I want to fix what was wrong with me or atleast identify what i was doing so I can try to avoid that behavior in the future. Help!

WOW ! This list of 13 is exactly what every women are guilty of doing constantly. I an on a search for a woman who doesn't do these 13 things.

Very timely, and what I was talking about just yesterday.

I'm in that situation now...and can't get out

This was an answer to my prayers. I have been separated from my ex husband for 1 1/2 years, slowly going through a divorce that just got finalized. I spent almost a decade being quietly verbally abused and didn't see it until a year before I left. This is the best explanation I have ever come across for the way that he treated me. Thank you so very much for sharing this with us. It feels like I finally have some answers and it makes me feel like leaving that marriage was the best and only answer.

He gets drunk and tells me I suck in bed my breath is bad he hates me. And more....

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My entire 20 year marriage 😢

The monster I married 25 years ago drove past my work and because he didn’t see my car because I had already left he came home saying I was away having sex with someone !!!!!

Oh how about blaming you for being gay and doing gay ish because of YOU lmao

How about the fake attention out in public? So gross.

When ur explaining ur past relationship its exactly what im going thru im makimg boundaries and stickin to them im done with it

I really wish you would stop saying He, Or maybe I didn't miss the details of this video, but you should also put extremely She. Most women do this a lot more than men do.Well that's subjective. Objectively, you speaking to a person who was verbally abused by his wife often.Almost everyday. Most men don't talk about it. And the reason why we don't, because we know that society may seem to show that we are weak. But we don't deserve it neither. And women do this to us all the time.

I listen to my husband when he talks for a lengthy time, 30 mins, and when I start talking, he says.. “wow you talk a lot!!” And I’ve only been talking 5 mins!

should have titled it "is my partner...." because words are a woman's biggest weapon.

Congratulations I hope he leaves me too I fear but I will survive

Wow, Ketra, you are one BRILLIANT Lady. Talk about hitting the nail RIGHT on the head. I cannot tell you how many videos I've watched (during the course of time) in effort to "confirm" all you've laid out here...all previous having failed miserably and or "bait/switch". I knew it wasn't "me"... Thank you VERY much, WELL done.

Then they ALWAYS say, “I never saw it coming.” 🙄 No… You didn’t believe the multiple literal warnings that divorce was coming.

#gaslightexpress

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Getting talked in a circle, then told “you already said that..”, like well, you are right so why did I end up talking a loop off topic.

I actually started thinking I was the problem. My husband does all these things and more. When I bring up how he hurts me, he says I’m too sensitive. What’s worse is my daughter does the same thing. She grew up with her dad disrespecting me so she thinks it’s ok. I’ve suffered through this for thirty years and I’m losing my mind. I’ve been seeing a therapist and taking medication for the last 15 yrs. This has totally destroyed my self esteem and I feel stuck. I will definitely order The verbally abusive man. Thank you for the helpful insight.

This video is so helpful. He has done a pattern of these things and I feel guilty for feeling hardly any love left. I’m exhausted and I definitely get sick a lot. He has hurt my dogs. he has improved but like 95% wants to leave. I just get scared to leave and feel frozen and sad over the good parts of him. I just don’t know what to do when he is kind and loving. I hate that he changes to be this mean and kinda scary guy. 😢

How about husbands neglected by their wives?