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The fight & the fears
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Jayden's FIFA mobile team
Jayden wanted to show you all the team he has built on his app.
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EHCP assessment for a child out of education
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EHCP assessment for a child out of education
Emergency EHCP review update
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This is an ongoing and very bizarre situation. I've tried to not be too specific because it's obviously causing a lot of issues between myself and the school involved. if anyone has been in a similar situation and thinks they could give me any advice that would be amazing! I have filed a stage one complaint with the local authority but not sure what will happen now over the summer. if have a me...
Our battles with anxiety and school refusal
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for reference Ella is awaiting an Autism diagnosis, is also going through an ADHD assessment at the minute and has struggled with severe anxiety for the last 3 years. she is 8 years old and in year 3 of a small village mainstream primary school with her twin brother.
Why I want an adult ADHD assessment
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apologies for the abrupt ending the doorbell rang. As always this is just about my own feelings, experiences etc and I'm not speaking behalf of anyone else. This is just how I feel an ADHD diagnosis and medication could help me.
Educational Psychologist report for an echp
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As always this is just our own personal journey, I'm by no means an expert just sharing our story in the hope of helping others along the way 💞
Quick catch up, OT assessment for an Ehcp
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Quick catch up, OT assessment for an Ehcp
Echp refusal to access and mediation information call
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Echp refusal to access and mediation information call
Life update, childhood anxiety and therapy and adult autism assessment
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Life update, childhood anxiety and therapy and adult autism assessment
Just a quick catch up. changing schools, subject access request, asd, regression, school anxiety,
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Just a quick catch up. changing schools, subject access request, asd, regression, school anxiety,
Just a big rant on the ignorance towards Autsim from professionals!
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Just a big rant on the ignorance towards Autsim from professionals!
Executive dysfunction and day to day tasks
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Executive dysfunction and day to day tasks
Ella's first ever video! lol clubhouse story
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Ella's first ever video! lol clubhouse story
Quick life / school update, Sen support, Autism and ehcp
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Quick life / school update, Sen support, Autism and ehcp
World Autism awareness / acceptance day 2021
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World Autism awareness / acceptance day 2021
Speed awareness course on zoom, with severe anxiety 2021
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Speed awareness course on zoom, with severe anxiety 2021
Rejection sensitive dysphoria and how my son experiences it
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Rejection sensitive dysphoria and how my son experiences it
Did you film this in a nursing home with a person snoring next to you?
It's actually my french bulldog who's recently passed away 😢
Hi, sorry you are going through this. There is no accountability with these people, so you must keep going to get what your child needs.
Hi. We have 2 autistic boys, 7 and 10. I know how hard it can be and we're in the middle of our journey. I just wanted to say I think you're amazing and keep fighting!!!! ❤💛💚💙
Hi there, sorry you are going through this draining system. Unfortunately i can't offer you any advice as i am new to this but i would say be very watchful of the the school says to you in that meeting. I would suggest you take a friend or someone with you, I have 2 children in the same school who both need help and its hard to stay on top of it all when the school and the system makes you feel like you are putting pressure.😔
It's so difficult isn't it, I'm making notes of every unlawful thing they say, which is quite a lot! It's awful because you spend all those years thinking the ehcp will solve so many problems but at the minute it's just causing more x
I’m doing mine in 2 weeks and so scared cos it’s in zoom and I’m scared they will ask me questions and my mind goes completely blank in panic. I have really bad anxiety aswell.
I have fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome I think il have to go on one after 30 years driving licence clean I got caught on motorway after 3 years bed bound trying to get back into driving.. Totally set me back caught me off guard... But I just can't sleep with worry...
I have mine today and I have bad anxiety. I thought I was the only one that would be so worked up about having to do this. Even the thought of having to concentrate and to participate I’ve been dreading it for a month now. Well done for getting it done!
Hi, I am doing a study in relation to people who have participated in a driver retraining program to gather information about the benefits and outcomes they experienced. Can you please answer the following few questions: 1. How long ago did you complete the course? 2. How would you describe your overall experience with the driver retraining program? 3. What specific skills or knowledge did you acquire or improve upon through the program? 4. In what ways do you feel the driver retraining program has positively impacted your driving abilities? 5. Have you noticed any changes in your driving behaviors or habits as a result of the program? If so, could you describe them? 6. Have you experienced any tangible benefits or improvements in your driving since completing the program (e.g., reduced accidents, fewer traffic violations)? 7. Would you recommend this driver retraining program to others? If so, what would be the main reasons for your recommendation?
I've only had my license for 3 months and already got sent a fine (I was only 5mph over, and didn't realize it). My anxiety is so bad and I'm seriously considering just taking the 3 points, thank you so much for explaining your views as someone with anxiety too. Just got to decide what I'm going to do now.
Same pal I’ve had mine 7 month
I am 40 minutes away from my online speeding course. Here because I’m terrified. Thank you for this video.
How did it go?
I don’t know what to say to appeal for a speeding course. Any help?
thank you
Thank you so much. I'm so anxious for mine tomorrow. But this has made me feel a little better.
Hi, I am doing a study in relation to people who have participated in a driver retraining program to gather information about the benefits and outcomes they experienced. Can you please answer the following few questions: 1. How long ago did you complete the course? 2. How would you describe your overall experience with the driver retraining program? 3. What specific skills or knowledge did you acquire or improve upon through the program? 4. In what ways do you feel the driver retraining program has positively impacted your driving abilities? 5. Have you noticed any changes in your driving behaviors or habits as a result of the program? If so, could you describe them? 6. Have you experienced any tangible benefits or improvements in your driving since completing the program (e.g., reduced accidents, fewer traffic violations)? 7. Would you recommend this driver retraining program to others? If so, what would be the main reasons for your recommendation?
I'm so so worried about this. I can't cope with live zoom with other people in it. My anxiety is so bad that I can only cope 1 to 1. Also I'm disabled and worried as I can't sit still due to physical disabilities for longer than about 20 mins I need to move regularly??
From what I remember you can only see the person who's talking at the time. I would contact them and explain your disability I thought by now they would be doing face to face ones again. I would find that so much easier xx
Thank you so much, this was exactly what I came here to find. You made me feel much better about it too!
Thanks for sharing….it’s a constant fight unfortunately. Well done - keep going!
Do you have to have zoom pro as it says standard zoom only allows for 40 minutes calls..
You guys have come a long way, you are such a strong mother. Thank you for sharing, I am starting this process now and just feel soooo overwhelmed.😔
Off point here, you've cut your hair 🙂 nice
Thank you!
Did you have to pay for Zoom pro? I’m worried the basic zoom will cut out after 40 mins & I will not be allowed to rejoin the course.
Ha, I can identify with these things, amazing how common it is. You put into words what people have without realising. I def have energy to jump out of bed to do something I want, but some mundane things, I just can’t and put off like dusting for example, put it off for weeks. The older I get the more I notice I have the classic traits, social anxiety, hate people in the house, noise, light. Luckily my wife understands it ( the first one didn’t) and she actually finds it fascinating. She said to me, it must be weird to see things differently to most people, yep it is. I struggle with exercise, hate it to be honest, but oddly enough enjoy walking up steep hillls in the countryside. As for remembering any criticism from decades ago, yep. Just think this affects hundreds of thousands of people. Best way for me is to embrace it and just find the humorous side to the ridiculousness of it all.
What was the quality of embryos on your second round? Why did you not go for 5 day transfer
I wasn't given the option to go to day 5 although they were good quality, I think they were still cautious because my first cycle was so bad x
So what have you done to overcome your anxiety?
Good luck with all this. Did you mediate at the end or went to appeal straight away?
They actually changed their decision 2 days before mediation because I got Sendiass involved. The reasons they gave for turning it down weren't lawful.
Hi, good to hear from you. I hope you guys get the best outcome possible for you.
Don't think anyone cares about your life....
And yet here you are???
@@stunningrosie Weyyyyy here she is!
@@susanguy925 do you have much experience of ehcps?
@@stunningrosie So much you wouldn't believe!
@@stunningrosie Mind you, you're quite fit I'll give you that.
I have an appeal in September, what is the basic questions you where asked, im trying to prepare mental notes of what ways I should explain things?
when you get the ticket and complete the form and send it back, how long do they take to get back to you?
hi, have you received your letter about the course yet? I am currently at your stage^ and want to know when the course is from the date of the offense and if you can select your own dates or have to go to one that's given to you. Thanks
@@Reecefootball11 Hey, I havent heard back from that yet 😭 apparently it could take up to 4 weeks
Hi thanks for video hope al is ok I have speed awareness course to do tomorrow I’ve not received a letter yet I’ve paid for the course do they send you an email before or something
When you complete the course where do you produce a paper driving license and with ID please?
At the beginning you speak 1:1 with the instructor and you have to hold up your I'd. Then they put you on hold till the session is ready to start.
Hi l got caught speeding on motorway first time but I've got the test next week on zoom I'm just scared in case l don't get in to my course please let me know how l can get it ready for that day is it easy to get in or do you have problems it will lovely hearing from you just getting stressed about it
No, you don't have to tell your insurance.
Thank you for doing this video, I found it very helpful
I have the zoom link but i dont have the zoom pin. do you know if they send it you by email closer to the meeting time which is august?
Really happy for you all, let's hope the actual EHCP goes smoothly for you 😊
We always have to fight for our little ones 😤 😪 keep going 💪
I did a zoom speeding course during lockdown. By the end of it three people were asleep, one was obviously watching horse racing on the telly and I was cutting my dog’s hair.
I have the zoom link but i dont have the zoom pin. do you know if they send it you by email closer to the meeting time which is august?
I really feel your pain. My son is 4 and half years old and he still doesn't talk. He's got behaviour issue's, everything from bathing him, clothing him and feeding him can be really challenging at times. He had a few weeks of speech and language therapy online because of Covid. That didn't help at all, because you can't expect a 3 year old to sit in front of a laptop for an hour. Everything has been delayed because of Covid. I've noticed all the signs when he was 15 months old. Banging his head on the walls and spitting. Playing with his cars in a line. It is so hard for us parents, we don't really have a normal life. I do everything for him to have a good life and to see him happy. I have been watching your videos, they are very informative. Thank you for sharing with us.
Speak slow woman, I’m English and found it to understand half or what u saying 😳
14k views and the first time I've had that comment, that is me talking slow 😂😂
my son’s autism disorder was completely reversed with the help of Solution Healing Home channel on UA-cam ua-cam.com/users/shortsh0YncUMye4c?feature=share
Thanks for the info. I just had a mini meltdown but now I know I am not alone 😊
Hi, wishing you a good outcome! My son gotten his EHCP in year 6, but whilst awaiting the EHCP, our school had already put so many strategies, interventions, provisions, time out, social com classes, ELSA and support in place following the Edu psych report and speech and language. We actually were still awaiting ASD diagnoses when we were awarded the EHCP. Your child is already with SENCO, so the school should really step up, because if KCC sees that the school had already applied this support, it validates its necessity. The school explained, that my son would not be getting much more support than he already is receiving, but that this is crucial for going to secondary, where they would not offer as much without EHCP. Before we had our mitigation meeting, the school requested KCC to provide them with a list of evidence that they need to consider our application successful, and they gotten all of the reports and testimonies from teachers who worked with my son over the years. During the mitigation, despite being prepared to be an assertive prepared mum, I broke down and was very emotional, and our head of SENCO took over and fought the battle. I was surprised at how cold the KCC people, who were ex teachers, were towards the difficulties my son and our family goes through. In retrospective, it reminds me of surgeons being chill when they see someone injured. Anyway, wishing you good luck x
I feel stuck in the middle at the minute it is literally like they're saying school aren't already doing enough already so we won't step in either. I'm trying to be tougher on school and put my foot down and say these need to be in place now! We've known since he was in pre school that he would need a high level of support my worry is the damage it does him all this time that he is masking so well and pretending to be ok.
Thanks helped alot, got 1 coming up in 1 month, like you say I was thinking rather take fine n points as online just on my phone sounded bad, never zoomed in my life, except in car lol
hi everyone. Does everyone know if you have to show your face on camera?
Lucky you got a cource I spent a week trying to phone this drive tech company and no one answers the phone.cant log in to the site it says my e mails is invalid. I tried 3 diffrent e mails they don't answer e mails either to the help enquiry line I found hidden online I informed the police ticket office I can't contact drive tech can't spend my day on my phone waiting for a responce ill pay the fine Tying to contact drive tech is a waste of space I've tried and given up.looks like they got one phone no for the entire country and don't employ enough call handlers.sorry I just can't be bothered there impossible to contact.
Did you do the driving element of the course?
Hello good to see you,Sorry to hear about issues you are having with the doctors and the school. I have found most schools are not helpful and the SENCO'S at school that's just another level in terms of getting answers from them. Keep going you seem very knowledgeable. Can you please talk more about the EHCP and the process if you can. Thank you.
Great video, who is snooring in the background? 😂
That would be my Frenchie, he never leaves my side
Thank you very much for doing this video...My dad has to do this at the end of the month, and because he is older he is really worried about it, especially the tach side of things. So I am trying to find stuff out about it and help him through it!
I'm sure he will be fine, there were a couple of older people on the one I did where they said they had someone else set it up for them.
@@stunningrosie ah that's good to know. I am going to be there with him to help...do you know if that is allowed? Some of the Drivetech Course documentation says you have to be alone. Thanks again 😊
Actually I just phoned them, and they said I can be put down as a carer so that I can help him through it with the tech stuff. Apparently I will need ID too when he registers!
@@tiger131071 oh that's great!
Hi, please share more about the early days of autism if you don't mind.
how many people where in the zoom call?
Hi, can a peditrician diagnose autism without the ADOS assessment or do you know anything about it please. Thank you.
I think it varies across the uk. Where we are Peadeatricians cant diagnose autism you have to go through umbrella pathway or private. All diagnosis have to be a agreed by a panel/more than professional and have to meet the NICE criteria.
@@stunningrosie thank you so much, my son was diagnosed with autism 4 days ago by a peditrician and when I asked if this was the case she said yes and the waiting list for the assessment was too long. I thought the decision was made through a panel as well. I often watch your channel very helpful thank you.
Thankyou for making this video. I got a speeding fine and my anxiety has been bad, as never had a fine or used zoom before. Don't like video chat and stuff. But this has help relieve my worry a little. So thankyou again, your very thoughtful to have put this up. X