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I like it a lot...and I'll tell you why. Because it shows that a masculine man is unafraid and confident in showing all his sides. It's very attractive. 🍓

My beautiful daddy gave me so much attention. It didn't matter to him that I was a girl. I'm forever grateful to him.

@@thegirl150Ebisu I hope you didn't misunderstood me. I meant that, because the father knows better how to be a man and the mother knows better how to be a woman.

@@Hri100_5rov I didn't misunderstand, thank you for checking. My daddy treated me as a human and loved me as a person. I have huge regard for that. So I feel the sex of the child is not important in terms of attention from parents.

"What is she doing back there?!!!"

For shizzle my nizzle...owning who you are, is an attractive trait (and I'm pretty sure I've seen Chad SNL with a backpack)...

It can be but it can also be unconditional and very pure, an altogether life changing experience (in the best way).

Harp away, JLP, you are officially our family law expert! Lots to unpack here but let me try. Is it actually true, in reality, that the wife/partner with less funds gets half? I'm recalling a few high profile cases in the UK where that has never been the case so I'm guessing this would be the same scenario for the average person? Just to challenge your thoughts. You say "half of someone else's wealth", let's assume we're talking about wealth created in the marriage- isn't part of the marriage contract/relationship that "someone else" no longer exists but rather "us" does? Thank you for the detail and the Ben Hart reference, I'll check it out when I have a moment...

@@thegirl150Ebisu Apologies for the essay😅 I was using the foundational assumption of 50/50 used in court as example but yes most cases don't result in a such a split but I am conversely challenging that basis on its entitlement aspect that doesn't fairly account for personal choices and responsibilities. I made the distinction on income and not wealth because its a much more nuanced issue on the latter and it would be hard to come up with clear laws on it that don't result in the same issues that exist now; income is a lot easier to divide fairly and its much more relevantly impactful on lifestyle. Under marriage at present you loose the autonomy to do anything separately in a way thats protected in the event of a divorce and bringing it up is a point of friction because at the moment its an entitlement to benefit from anything your partner does regardless of contribution: its paradoxical to be an "us" still entitled to be individuals acting in their own self interest whilst the repercussions as individuals are shared if that makes sense😅 for context here the comparison would be between a longterm unmarried couple vs a married couple; a place between both is the ideal situation where you get the benefits of marriage but that you also still have the elements of personal responsibilities that don't get abstracted away in court when you part. It's fine for either partner to choose to stay at home but both parties would be equally compensated financially regardless of the work arrangements or differences in income. If after shared expenses the household income is split equally then both parties are free to spend that income as they want independently and can't then later make claims on the partners share unless it generates anything taxable as income. The same strain on the men exists under the current system but men are still penalised more in divorce regardless of whether they are put into this position unfairly by a partners choices or spending. As a stay at home partner in this scenario it's also different because you can likely afford to offload most of the workload through technology, being organised or outsourcing. Division of wealth should directly correlate with participation in making it covering only the duration of the marriage and not be a default passive entitlement that can stretch beyond that period. In the past marriage was a lifetime commitment that the law and society helped enforce with balanced penalties so the default entitlement fit but now its only an ideal that doesn't merit its penalties at a time when fewer and fewer couples manage to live up to the commitments of it.

@@JeanLooksPicard Phew, thank you, what a read. You've clearly given this due thought and consideration. Let me ponder on this a little...

@@JeanLooksPicard This is such a complex topic, JLP, and I think you have a good handle on it all. I wasn't aware of much of the info you talked about- I've never researched this stuff as I've not needed to. Perhaps a very naiive and simplistic answer to everything you've laid out but I think looking at a person's values, really delving into them, will stand people in good stead. Because a principled person would not be okay with the suffering of another being. Especially by their own actions. You are clearly switched on regarding any potential pitfalls and I hope none will come in your path :-).

@@thegirl150Ebisu It is a complex topic and this probably isn't the best forum for it. I do appreciate that you take the time to reply. It's a leap of faith to make that commitment to someone and it would be less meaningful to do so without that element of the unknown and unpredictability. I am just very risk averse so that might skew my perspective on things. There are the more immediate hurdles of dating [icks and all] to get past before worrying about marriage😅

There were some previously, I've just deleted them all. Yikes.

Thank you, Asa, for the kindest words, it made me smile. And...I'm still waiting for that apology, THETA XI, UCLA, GAYLE AVENUE!

I'd like to understand. But it's a Sunday. I'm under-slept. And it's a little hot.

Lollll, it's calm, it's calm, one of my favourite chains.

OMG. Tunnneeeeee...

@@thegirl150Ebisu It's a hit, nice. It's got a grime/garage thing going on so seemed like your kind of track.

@@aboutme4438 You've outdone yourself. This album is IT.

Haha...that's awesome...I'm glad. I felt like myself today. I want it to be like this all the time. Thanks for saying that.

@@thegirl150Ebisu Nice, I'd like that for myself too. Also, I'm not sure if you saw (seems like youtube deleted my comment again for some reason) but I recommended flux cocoon by Iglooghost.

@@thegirl150Ebisu That really narrows it down! But I think you mean the one where I edited my comment upon request. Maybe. I can't think of anything else.

@@aboutme4438 Hehehe, I do have a tendency for deletion don't I?! Exactamondo...that's the one...

Keyshia Cole- Link in description. One of my fave garage tracks: ua-cam.com/video/-uwclzGZtrw/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared

Ah...but a computer has no heart, no soul, no feeling :-).

@@thegirl150Ebisu Maybe you could explain why you believe there is such thing as a soul in one of your future videos.

Please let it be true, I need to listen to this guy happily! His 'proclivities' are a bit hmmm but the less I know the better. I don't even know what the Kendrick vs Drake beef is all about but if it forces Drake to start writing his own lyrics again maybe it'll be a win all round.

👏👏👏

Haha, brilliant :-)...

I thought you'd get them all :-).

Let's get rid of the tool and do what humans do best; interact in person.

This seems sensible and protective... ...haha, mysterious or undetailed, I can't figure out which one.

You're not wrong there...

Hi AM, thank you, listening and stretching...how do you discover all these artists? I like the Mura Masa track- have you mentioned him to me before? The Andy Stott track, I was waiting for it to kick in, if it had I think it would have been fire...

@@thegirl150EbisuMaybe, I sometimes forget what I've recommended already. As for how I discover artists, I mainly use a music database called Rate Your Music along with checking a review site called Resident Advisor every so often. I also liked Tiny Mix Tapes but they are on hiatus now. In my opinion, RYM is the most valuable resource online for any music lover.

​@@aboutme4438Thank you, I'll check it out. Your taste is super diverse, it's something I always notice.

Getting dressed for the day and contemplating why I look so tired when I slept 8 hours last night...

Just checked it out, sooo beautiful, thank you...

But can you beat me at backgammon...

You're very kind, she is striking...

And again...

Thank you...

Coded language?

@@thegirl150Ebisu Kanye west😅

@@JeanLooksPicard Hahahaha. Why did I not see that? Kanye is a clever musician. I haven't heard any of his new stuff but the one track that's timeless to me and I go back to often: Mercy.

@@thegirl150Ebisu I wouldn’t have guessed that one😅 I was kinda trying to gauge your perspective on the new album in the context of his recent controversies.

@@JeanLooksPicard Why wouldn't you have guessed that one? (It's the beat that I love; the lyrics, meh...) Yes...I didn't mention it but, it does spoil the music even though I'd like it not to. What track of his is your go to?

This made me giggle. When did I turn into a review channel?!!! (I'd be great at it...)

Do you think so? I just don't remember it being like this for me and my generation and even now, it's not like this for us. I feel it's closer to being related to the introduction of dating apps/social media apps like TikTok, things that didn't exist back in the day. There's an aggression on these manosphere/femaleosphere videos that takes me aback. I think they're unhealthy with some dollops of usefulness. Haha! I was joking about the passport sis thing as my reasons are not to get away from anyone, more that I like to experience different cultures. But I might make a more detailed video about dating outside of your culture another time. Your paragraph starting, 'At the same time we have laws...', can you expand?

@@thegirl150Ebisu I think we're of the same generation (90s) but from your videos you have far more worldly experiences than I do so I apologise if my points seem a bit immature. After thinking about it more I am not sure I even understand what point I was making with my earlier comment but I included my thought process and response below.😅 I agree the apps are largely at fault but at the same time they just amplify discourse that already exists like for example sexual content used to be taboo and segmented to its own spaces online and offline but its slowly progressed beyond that into more public spaces/forums like UA-cam inline with the discourses around sex and gender in the real world (I might be wrong in linking the two). Sex work always existed on the internet but it's gained a sense of legitimacy in part due to the blurred association with the (new) feminist movement which in the short term seems great for women's rights but I think its contributing to a wider breakdown in the relationships between the sexes in areas like divorce, population decline, hypergamy & single parent households etc. This isn’t to discount other more attributed factors like employment and others. On laws I was referring to areas like parental rights largely favouring women, laws around asset division and alimony now even more complex with the introduction of no fault divorce, laws around assault etc. Some of these aren't yet in the UK but the trend tends to move towards similar versions of them being adopted across the west. When reform around these laws happen they always seem to be in relation to or for women’s benefit when discussed whilst not addressing their potential impact on men furthering the divide between the two counter to the objective of the outcome equality. Even today there was a discussion on tv about the pill no longer requiring a doctors prescription in the UK and being available to buy for 16 year olds the consequences of which I am not sure will overall be positive in the longterm in regards to this issue amongst others. sorry its so long😅

@@JeanLooksPicard 80s baby here, woop woop! That was an interesting read, thanks for taking the time to write out. I think you have a very sound (and mature) grasp of what's going on and this will set you in good stead. Perhaps you should be the one doling out advice to these younger men, rather than what's currently out there! On a serious note, I think younger men (and women) have to be hyper-alert and consult with their families before making major decisions (even around serious relationships). It could make all the difference.

@@thegirl150Ebisu you look young for 80s😅 I am far from mature to be advising anyone but thanks for the kind words. For sure family advice is key but unfortunately it’s the implementation and conditions to apply it that are hard. Hopefully this as bad as it ever gets🤞

@@JeanLooksPicard Thank you, thank you, it's called 'not fully adulting' :-). I agree wholeheartedly with your last comment. These days I sometimes wonder if sheer luck plays some part in how life turns out.

Thank you, I love this track...

Crikey, this is me in my minimalist era!

@@thegirl150Ebisu Oh well..the camera shot just makes it look like there is lots of clothes

@@lizardjesus2501 There probably are (she whimpers but still wants more...). I think you're trying to tell me my room's a mess. Go on...say it...

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Thank you...that's really kind. Results aren't in yet but I will update...