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The Successful Invisible
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This is the UA-cam Channel of The Successful Invisible where we'll feature more content on our area of expertise...dating & relationships for professional Black women who are 35+ (and men who are ready to talk 'Grown Folks Business').
Topics around dating, relationships, self-awareness, personal accountability, self-work, self-growth, self-healing, and much more are discussed in the videos that will be featured on this channel.
This is the UA-cam Channel of The Successful Invisible where we'll feature more content on our area of expertise...dating & relationships for professional Black women who are 35+ (and men who are ready to talk 'Grown Folks Business').
Topics around dating, relationships, self-awareness, personal accountability, self-work, self-growth, self-healing, and much more are discussed in the videos that will be featured on this channel.
The Character of Relationships: How Single & Partnered Lives Differ || Dating Tips For Black Women
#singlewomenarehappier
Blogs & Articles || The Character of Relationships: How Single & Partnered Lives Differ || Dating Tips For Single Black Women
//Original Article: neurosciencenews.com/personality-singles-satisfaction-28289/
//Summary:
A recent study on neuroscience news.com revealed that lifelong singles have lower life satisfaction and distinct personality traits compared to those in long-term relationships, based on data from 77,000 Europeans aged 50+. Singles are less extroverted, conscientious, and open to new experiences. Single women report higher satisfaction than men, and older singles are generally happier than middle-aged ones. The research emphasizes the need for tailored support networks to combat loneliness and improve well-being, especially for elderly singles. Cultural expectations about marriage also influence life satisfaction, with higher marriage rates correlating with lower satisfaction among singles.
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Blogs & Articles || The Character of Relationships: How Single & Partnered Lives Differ || Dating Tips For Single Black Women
//Original Article: neurosciencenews.com/personality-singles-satisfaction-28289/
//Summary:
A recent study on neuroscience news.com revealed that lifelong singles have lower life satisfaction and distinct personality traits compared to those in long-term relationships, based on data from 77,000 Europeans aged 50+. Singles are less extroverted, conscientious, and open to new experiences. Single women report higher satisfaction than men, and older singles are generally happier than middle-aged ones. The research emphasizes the need for tailored support networks to combat loneliness and improve well-being, especially for elderly singles. Cultural expectations about marriage also influence life satisfaction, with higher marriage rates correlating with lower satisfaction among singles.
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• Podcast (Season 2 coming soon!): podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thesuccessfulinvisible
• Book a Discovery Call: calendly.com/thesuccessfulinvisible/discovery-call
//Time Stamps:
• 0:00 - Intro
• 0:49 - Main Article
• 8:20 - Question for Reflection/Coaching Questions
• 16:40 - Just My Thoughts
• 21:44 - Outro
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Never Be A Man's Peace || Dating Tips for Black Women
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Dating Tips || Never Be A Man's Peace || Dating Tips for Black Women //Summary: Janelle, a Relationship Coach, advises women to avoid becoming "a man's peace," emphasizing self-autonomy and personal peace. She stresses the importance of individuals cultivating inner peace and emotional maturity to form healthy partnerships. Janelle warns against adopting the role of a partner's peace, which can...
Micromanagers Have Issues With Consent || Dating Tips for Black Women
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Dating Tips || Micromanagers Have Issues With Consent || Dating Tips for Black Women //Summary: Janelle, a Relationship Coach, observes a pattern between micromanagement in the workplace and issues with consent in dating. She notes that men who are overly aggressive in dating often exhibit micromanagement tendencies in their professional lives, leading to high turnover and strained relationship...
Men Are Golddiggers || Dating Advice for Black Women
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I Saw On TikTok || Men Are Golddiggers || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that the conversation explores the concept of "gold digging" in relationships, highlighting that both men and women engage in it. Men often pursue women for their status and financial stability, while women may date for similar reasons. The discussion emphas...
The Truth About Passport Bros (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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Ish I Saw On TikTok || The Truth About Passport Bros (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that offer critiques the phenomenon of "passport bros" - Black men seeking foreign women, often in economically disadvantaged regions, for perceived submissiveness and financial exploitation. Speakers highlight the irony of these ...
The Truth About Passport Bros (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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#passportbros I Saw On TikTok || The Truth About Passport Bros (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that offer critiques men who seek foreign women, termed "passport bros," and highlights the cultural and social issues surrounding their behavior. Speakers argue that these men often leave the U.S. due to dissatisfaction...
Avoid Men Who Can't Receive Instruction, Correction, or Feedback || Dating Tips for Black Women
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Dating Tips || Avoid Men Who Can't Receive Instruction, Correction, or Feedback || Dating Tips for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle emphasizes the importance of receiving instruction, correction, and feedback in maintaining healthy relationships. She observes that men who struggle with these elements are often unhealthy partners or have a history of poor relationships. Instruct...
Men Addressing Men’s Attitudes in Dating (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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Ish I Saw On TikTok || Men Addressing Men’s Attitudes in Dating (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that offer conversation centers on the idea that women should seek out provider men who can offer a better life, emphasizing that women bring value by civilizing men and encouraging them to realize their potential. The ...
Men Addressing Men’s Attitudes in Dating (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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Ish I Saw On TikTok || Men Addressing Men’s Attitudes in Dating (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that offer critiques around various negative personality types, emphasizing the importance of avoiding cheap, angry, lonely, skeptical, and scorekeeping individuals. It highlights that women respect resources and that m...
Avoid Men Who Lack Intrinisic Motivation || Dating Tips for Black Women
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#intrinsicmotivation Dating Tips || Avoid Men Who Lack Intrinisic Motivation || Dating Tips for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle emphasizes the importance of dating individuals who demonstrate intrinsic motivation. Intrinsic motivation is the drive to engage in activities for personal enjoyment or interest, rather than for external rewards. Janelle's clientele, typically 35 and...
Men with Provider Mindsets (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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#menwithprovidermmindset #providermen #datingtipsforwomen Ish I Saw On TikTok || Men with Provider Mindsets (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that discuss men with provider mindsets from a woman's perspective. The discussion emphasized the importance of identifying a provider mindset in men, particularly for women s...
Men with Provider Mindsets (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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Ish I Saw On TikTok || Men with Provider Mindsets (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that discuss men with provider mindsets. The discussions emphasized the traditional masculine role of being a provider, protector, and leader in relationships. Speakers criticized modern men for not fulfilling these responsibilities,...
Challenges in Dating (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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#challengesindating #datingtipsforwomen Ish I Saw On TikTok || Challenges in Dating (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle showcases a bunch of TikToks that discuss challenges in dating. The conversation revolves around the challenges of dating over 40, particularly for those who are child-free. Key points include the limited pool of suitable partne...
Backburner Blues: Understanding and Overcoming Paperclipping
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#datingtrends #paperclipping Blogs & Articles || Backburner Blues: Understanding and Overcoming Paperclipping || Dating Tips For Single Black Women //Original Article: www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/a-funny-bone-to-pick/202405/how-to-deal-with-paperclipping-a-toxic-dating-trend //Summary: Relationship Coach Janelle discusses the dating trend of "paperclipping" • Paper clipping is a toxic datin...
Challenges in Dating (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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Challenges in Dating (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
Meet/Date A Man At His Finish Line || Dating Tips for Black Women
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Meet/Date A Man At His Finish Line || Dating Tips for Black Women
Are You Dating a Man Who Thinks Legality is Morality? WATCH OUT for These Red Flags? || Dating Tips
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Are You Dating a Man Who Thinks Legality is Morality? WATCH OUT for These Red Flags? || Dating Tips
Signs He's Jealous of You (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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Signs He's Jealous of You (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
From Online Hate to Policy Change: UK's Crackdown on Misogyny as Extremist Threat || Dating Tips
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From Online Hate to Policy Change: UK's Crackdown on Misogyny as Extremist Threat || Dating Tips
Signs He's Jealous of You (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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Signs He's Jealous of You (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
Why You Should Be CAUTIOUS of Men Who Want to 'Build with You' || Dating Tips for Single Black Women
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Why You Should Be CAUTIOUS of Men Who Want to 'Build with You' || Dating Tips for Single Black Women
He Doesn't Find You Attrative (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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He Doesn't Find You Attrative (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
Debating Kink in Love: Is It Worth Sacrificing for Relationship Harmony? || Relationships on Reddit
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Debating Kink in Love: Is It Worth Sacrificing for Relationship Harmony? || Relationships on Reddit
He Doesn't Find You Attrative (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
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He Doesn't Find You Attrative (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women
Never Give A Man Access To Your Money || Dating Tips for Single Black Women 35+
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Low Functioning Men (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women || Ish I Saw on TikTok
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Low Functioning Men (Part 2 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women || Ish I Saw on TikTok
5 Ways BOYSOBER is Revolutionizing Modern Dating for Women || Dating Tips For Single Black Women
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5 Ways BOYSOBER is Revolutionizing Modern Dating for Women || Dating Tips For Single Black Women
Low Functioning Men (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women || Ish I Saw on TikTok
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Low Functioning Men (Part 1 of 2) || Dating Advice for Black Women || Ish I Saw on TikTok
Never Settle: You'll Get Less Than You Settled For! || Dating Tips for Single Black Women 35+
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Never Settle: You'll Get Less Than You Settled For! || Dating Tips for Single Black Women 35
I think that makes sense. As I read the title, it automatically clicked for me about someone I know. It’s the same urge to control showing up in another way.
Another black feminist channel. Yeah just scissor each other since you can't keep a man.
90% of them are DL🤦🏾♀️
I'm starting to believe this. Especially the abusive ones who court you just to tell you they never wanted to be in a relationship, or get married. He said he wanted kids though. Weird
Thank you ❤
Thank you ❤
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Men always tell on their self
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He keeps in touch with the family and the step kids
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Go and look at opl podcast The man that cheated on his wife with other men and all of the men that he slept with were married and he never had sex with the same man twice so that go's to show you all men are closed Bisexual
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ineed more examples
Thank you for this upload! What if we primarily go 50/50 but I make more (I haven't disclosed my salary to him but he's mentioned his. I'm also sure I have more expenses since my mom and nephew lives with me and I'm the head of my household), and sometimes he pays for the whole bill. What are your thoughts on this?
You shouldn't be dating a man who isn't paying for dates. It's not about money per se, it's about courtship. Not having a requirement for a man to court you and invest in you in the form of dates, etc. -- especially at the early stages, is very unwise. You are going to get a partner who treats you like a "bro". Grown men don't play games and grown women don't tolerate them. Level up the places you socialize and you will attract a man with a different tax bracket and mindset.
"Since you got em on bro, Arch ya back" 😭😭😭
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I feel like only women can stop this problem. Especially if it’s safety we are talking about. I feel like people like diddy wouldn’t exist if women start letting men be bisexual without it taking from their masculinity. Coz these men are chasing the status that comes with being a straight man. When lesbians kiss it never takes away from their femininity but two guys kissing immediately emasculates them. These double standards are the problem. At least in my little opinion
I like the guy who gave advice to gay people who have to deal with these homophobic DLs. Coz the DLs always want to single out gay guys, always saying no homo when it’s unnecessary. Makes it hard for social mobility when you are gay. Which is what also leads to this gay loneliness epidemic, coz a lot of these gays are doing risky shit just to fill a hole that can only be filled with human connection not a hook up
It scary out here in the dating world
Right!!
Sign #1: He a bm
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most women are not likeable.... and i mean that as people
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