Living While Loving Your Child Through Addiction
Living While Loving Your Child Through Addiction
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EP99 ACEs and Addiction: Strategies for Healing and Growth
This episode offers a heartfelt exploration of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and their far-reaching impacts, providing valuable insights for parents, caregivers, and anyone impacted by these experiences. Through this lens, we explore the often-overlooked trauma that ACEs represent and the importance of understanding these experiences. Join us as we navigate these complex issues with compassion and a commitment to healing.
Key Takeaways:

• ACEs defined

• Their impact on physical and emotional health

• How ACEs can affect parenting styles and children's development across generations.

• How to mitigate the effects of ACEs for healing and healthier family dynamics

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Brain hack to control your anger
Переглядів 1619 годин тому
Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. You need this brain hack if you want to control your anger... it's called The Think, Feel, Act Cycle and today I'm sharing what it is and how to use it. Go to my website for more information: heatherrosscoaching.com
Stop referring someone as an addict
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Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. Referring to somebody as an addict can have a significant impact in the way they are treated by healthcare professionals and they way they are treated by us when we use that language. Go to my website for more inf...
How not to blame your marriage problems on your child's addiction
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Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. The worst thing you can do for you marriage is to blame your problems on your child's addiction... I'm sharing today how to not to do that. Go to my website for more information: heatherrosscoaching.com
3 Internal sources of stress and how to relief it
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Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. Stress is determined by 3 things inside of you. It's not determined by external events. Today I'm sharing 3 internal sources of stress and how to relief it. Go to my website for more information: heatherrosscoachi...
EP98 Living While Loving Your Child Through Addiction
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New season, new name, and Heather’s unfiltered perspective. Topics covered in this episode: • The significance of creating a supportive and non-judgmental environment. • The impact of stigmatized language and beliefs. • The concept of "rock bottom" vs. "turning point" in addiction recovery. • The double standards in labeling parental behavior as codependent in addiction cases vs. other illnesse...
Your thoughts define your relationships
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Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. The key to have a better relationship with your child starts with your thoughts and in this video I will share my thoughts about my daughter's addiction. Go to my website for more information: heatherrosscoaching.com
Only one way to find peace of mind
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Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. Don't be needy, creepy, and weird... there is only on way to find peace of mind. Go to my website for more information: heatherrosscoaching.com
Love never hurts
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Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. In this video I'm going to tell you how you're hurting yourself ahead of time and what you can do instead. Go to my website for more information: heatherrosscoaching.com
3 Tips for finding the right treatment center
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Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. Today I'm sharing 3 tips for finding the right treatment center from my own experience with my daughter. Go to my website for more information: heatherrosscoaching.com
Read this book if you want to help your child who struggles with addiction
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Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. Read this book "Beyond Addiction How Science and Kindness Help People Change" if you want to help your child who's struggling with addiction. Go to my website for more information: heatherrosscoaching.com
Simple way to enjoy life again when you have a child who's struggling with addiction
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Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. If you can't enjoy your life anymore because all you can think about is your child's addictions... Today I'm sharing a simple way for you to enjoy your life again. Go to my website for more information: heatherros...
How connection is backed by science
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Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. Today I am sharing what is enable connection and how it's backed my science. Go to my website for more information: heatherrosscoaching.com
How to reframe common traits between your successful career and supporting your child
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Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. I felt successful in my career and my life, but when it comes to my daughter's addiction I felt like a failure... Today I am sharing common characteristics traits that you might need to reframe them to support you...
How "one size fits all" approach might be part of the problem
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Hi, I'm Heather and I help mothers worry less and create more connections with their child who struggles with addiction. Healing can start today, you do not have to wait for recovery. If things are only getting worse with your child's addiction, a one size fits all approach could be part of the problem.. Today I will explain the problem with a "one size fits all" approach and what you can do in...
How to support your child who's struggling with addiction
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How to support your child who's struggling with addiction
Part 2 - How not to retraumaize yourself
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Part 2 - How not to retraumaize yourself
How not to retraumatize yourself through memory distortion
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How not to retraumatize yourself through memory distortion
You don't need boundaries!
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You don't need boundaries!
3 alternatives for Alanon and naranon
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3 alternatives for Alanon and naranon
What is ambivalence?
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What is ambivalence?
3 simple ways to connect with your child that struggles with addiction
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3 simple ways to connect with your child that struggles with addiction
3 Things I wish I knew when my daughter's addiction started
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3 Things I wish I knew when my daughter's addiction started
Here is my trick for offsetting the pain of saying no to your child struggling with addiction
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Here is my trick for offsetting the pain of saying no to your child struggling with addiction
What you can do to start seeing positive change
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What you can do to start seeing positive change
How to minimize the pain
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How to minimize the pain
How to retire the investigator and what you can do instead
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How to retire the investigator and what you can do instead
3 tips to help you support the sibling of your child that struggles with addiction
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3 tips to help you support the sibling of your child that struggles with addiction
Simple way for you to practice enjoying life again
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Simple way for you to practice enjoying life again
One sentence that will sabotage any boundaries that you try to set
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One sentence that will sabotage any boundaries that you try to set

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  • @emilykirkman8468
    @emilykirkman8468 8 днів тому

    Looks interesting!!

  • @joaodasilva8898
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    Très belle femme magnifique ❤❤🇨🇵💞⚘️💐

  • @vitalspacellc8673
    @vitalspacellc8673 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your stories and experiences... and thank you for such a great explaination of ITC!!!

  • @barbklein3577
    @barbklein3577 9 місяців тому

    Love that acceptance shifts us out of focusing on the problem. ❤

  • @pamelabrinker
    @pamelabrinker Рік тому

    What a brave episode, and there is so much conscious bravery in both of you. You've both changed and are taking action with awareness. This is authentic family recovery, full of ups and downs, and living in the grey area.

  • @user-wj2zv1vd8y
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    Thank you for having Dr. Joan Rosenberg. Her calmness and reassuring manner helps me to Know what I Know - no matter how uncomfortable it is getting there.

  • @andrewl6539
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    :)!!! Get to the top FAST - promo sm !!!

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    💜💜🤍🎀

  • @crystalmcfeetors9907
    @crystalmcfeetors9907 Рік тому

    Love this ❤️

  • @patrickjutte1701
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    p̷r̷o̷m̷o̷s̷m̷

  • @crystalmcfeetors9907
    @crystalmcfeetors9907 Рік тому

    Thank you everyone, especially Joey. Your voice is important and so needed for parents to hear.

  • @TacoCheetah.
    @TacoCheetah. Рік тому

    This is actually helpful content, keep making videos on these, you can change the world

  • @Cannibalizee
    @Cannibalizee Рік тому

    You cannot make an addict quit , they will when they decide

  • @BethSyverson
    @BethSyverson 2 роки тому

    Thanks for bringing this way of looking at addiction to light. The CRAFT video is really powerful, as is your commentary. There HAS to be a better way for our communities and families to be able to help our struggling teens and young adults. Shame, stigma, and one-size-fits-all makes everything worse.

    • @heatherross9637
      @heatherross9637 2 роки тому

      I'm glad that you and Safe Home podcast are helping to change this too.

  • @crystalmcfeetors9907
    @crystalmcfeetors9907 2 роки тому

    This is painful to hear and sadly familiar. It also took me far too long to find alternative approaches, such as CRAFT and your channel. Thank you for your voice and in supporting the concept that parents can trust their deep instincts. Old models of how to treat those with addiction issues can traumatise all involved. I highly recommend Gabor Mate's book "In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction". This book is slightly dated as only AA was well known in that time but everything else is current. It's an incredible read. I love his concept of Compassionate Inquiry; "ask not why the addiction, but why the pain".

    • @heatherross9637
      @heatherross9637 2 роки тому

      My fear shut down my intuition when I was dealing with my daughter’s addiction at first. I stopped listening to my inner voice and turning to people I thought knew the best way. Like you said, the result was traumatic for everyone. I love Gabor Mate too. His UA-cam videos had a big impact on my belief system.

    • @crystalmcfeetors9907
      @crystalmcfeetors9907 2 роки тому

      @@heatherross9637 ❤

  • @LiveLifeHappyBooks
    @LiveLifeHappyBooks 3 роки тому

    It was so wonderful to discuss Struggling Well!!! YAY. HUGS