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Im currently suffering but i know one day it'll get better, hopefully soon.

Kudos to this woman for following her joy versus societal expectation.

İ hate y'all

It's okay to not be okay my dudes, it's not a bad life. Just a bad season with mixed episodes that seem to never go away. Remain in strength and faith, remember we are never truly alone, even though it feels like it...

For all of You Guys, big, fking big respect to share with all of Your problems. Keep fighting, i'm also have big menthal and psychological issues. Like You, You, or You. I lost a lot of my people, lost all money with hazard. 1 month i'm sober from alkohol mixing with drug addicted. It's hard, it's fking hard, but i don't wanna die in age 40 or 50, first for me, second, I'm uncle of 3 kids of my sisters and two of them is my godson, three i don't wanna be painful for my family. They give me strenght to live. Everybody of us have chance to make a life better and beutiful. Just keep fighting and respect, what You want. Collect moments, not things. Thank You for this amaizng video, and if You had the same problems, remember, i keep my fingers FOR YOU, and remember, You are not alone in this world. If You want talk, talk under my commentary, or we find sollution. Be brave, be Your own hero. It's long way, but we win. WE FKING WIN!!!

I relapsed… for the first time in years…

I have a BMPCC6k and hoping to also get a GH6, do you think the image is comparable to the BlackMagic? Cheers!

I lost two uncles and three neighbors to suicide all men. God bless our men we need to check on them, especially during difficult times, and have better and fair laws for them, understand if they’re not healthy neither do we females, we need each other. ❤

Absolutely gorgeous, my GH6 is coming in a few days hope to get similar footage 😀

Lost my coworker, friend, a father, bright spirited individual to suicide. Same age as me (28). He passed away a week ago. This will be the third time since graduating high school where I've had a friend do this. It's a damn sad thing to happen and more people should talk about this but will that ever change? Maybe. As the rate goes up I think so. But not in my generation or possibly the next. It's a subject that is plowed over by all the other political antics such as feminism, gay pride and politics. People other than men get jealous as soon as any cause for men gain any bit of traction. 😑

Who am I? The loner, philosopher, friend without a friend, counselor, employee, son, brother, uncle, but not a father because no woman finds me attractive, I'm not worthy. Bullied since kindergarten. Time slips away for just in a few days I will be 55. Memories well worn from constant use of loneliness. What's the use? What's the point? They say they care but even love can not be trusted nor accepted because everything is a lie. I will not die by my own hand. Deep inside a silent voice says, "You're mine". Is it God or my mind? I can't give up. There has to be more to this life.

If you’re ever at a time when you think nobody knows, or nobody cares. I care. I really do.

Thank you to everyone for your comments and love for this film. The reaction has blown me away considering this was just made as a passion project and uploaded with no expectation. It goes to show how much this topic resonates and needs to be spotlighted. We’re now expanding this short into a feature-length documentary, exploring new stories, new voices and wanting to spotlight the stigma still surrounding men’s mental health on a much deeper level. Keep your eyes peeled in the not so distant future. Thank you again!

I've had well over a decade of mental health problems stemming from childhood trauma. Last autumn I set up a men's mental health peer support group in my local town, and it's going well. I set it up to help others - which it is doing - but it's helping me too. And it was pretty straightforward to get up and running.

*The source of our pain is living our lives based on the expectations of others* . The _others_ are the entirety of society, including other men. Women had their revolution decades ago. And, we are expected to live under the same requirements without the same rewards. Free yourself from these expectations, friends. Openly speak about how you don't want to work yourself to death, don't want to invest all your time and energy into giving a woman the lifestyle she wants, and find peace in breaking any and all expectations of what it means to be "masculine". It's freeing. I've done it and am at peace. I have a fulfilling life defined by my own rules.

Made your tent now lie in it. Been homeless many times since 1990.

But if you get 100£ a week of benefits Beacuse you don't work and don't have a gaff, why don't rent a small room in a shared house? Most of the homeless in my area are smackheads who chose their life style. They are vicious abusive racist people who freely roam town with no consequences for their action.... I have yet to see a real homeless person in UK. You know why there Is almost no "homeless" people in Europe?? The gov won't pay you to be an addict and if you commit a crime you will serve some seriuos time.

I suffered a mental breakdown due to a relationship break-up, while still in a high profile computing career... the pressure (internal) to continue looking and behaving as 'normal' led to other emotional cracks and swings of outburst... Looking back all those years and with a lot of deeper research, in those times, while not being able to explain (to oneself nor others) 'what's going on inside you', I had to work hard to just 'get away' or keep others away from me, in case my outburst (as oft did) got taken as direct anger at that person.. .. like I would infect them with what was going on inside me, so keeping away was best..... And the other half of you wants to make things OK for them while the claustrophobic like urge to yell and thrash about still eats at the other half of you.... When you can understand at least 'what needs to happen' in a moment, rather than understand or fix 'the problem' at least you can interrupt tthe process, which additionally of course can become habitual, behaviourally and neurologically. Happy to connect with anyone also struggling here, from my insights over 30+ years and coming out the other side, without institutionalisation nor medication....

I'm glad to hear that those who sit around all day, not contributing anything to society, and who live off the hard work of others, are not doing it as a lifestyle choice

We all not alone(God is ther 4vr)

I felt it once in my life it lasted for 5 months I wasn't able to breath properly for first week. My head was like it going to brust. I found it very surprised when I saw happy people that how they are happy. Than I wasted 5 precious months of my life. Now I found myself a different person than what I earlier used to be you know who makes everyone laugh in the group. Well I took it as one of the life experience that will help me in future.

the patriarchy affects everyone :(

You have no idea from what these 10 minutes just dragged me out. It... It helped. Not that is the worst thing possible. It just was tough. *was*

Knowing you are not alone is exceedingly unhelpful.

Love to all the men❤

There has never been a worse more confused, cruel and polarized creature walk the face of this planet than humanity.

Each council should provide a wheelie bin for each homeless person. Ideal for carrying their few belongings including a pillow and blanket. It could be laid down to enable the homeless person to crawl into and shut the lid. The wheels keep it off the ground it’s waterproof and wind proof. All it needs is a small ventilation grid and voila a portable home.

I always find it interesting and ironic how, in this age of convenience and relative luxury in comparison to our forefathers' plight, people go on record now more than ever discussing how difficult life is. It speaks to man's need to strive and attain via his own will that current societal infrastructure deprives from so many people, but specifically men.

I really need help always trying to make everyone else happy but when I'm down and out I feel so worthless then I sit back and realize nobody cares

Whatever the reason for a person to find themselves homeless who are we to judge.

The suicide rate in men is higher but the suicide attempt rate and depression rates in women are higher. Comparing struggles is unavailing.

This is much needed worldwide as men can also suffer from mental health as men also have emotions and feelings

For men...... admitting any mental health issue is equivalent to admitting weakness.. "Pull yourself up by your bootstraps" q

I am 66 . I have felt disconnected over half that time. Everything said here i agree with and have experienced those feelings myself . I still feel that way at times. Now i meditate , i see a counsellor , i exercise , i read and try and accept this mindset and i float around that feeling like mist over a stone . There is always a long way to go but there is joy sometimes .

Great documentary!! So very important to try and understand struggles and how the public is stuck in the 20's. I lost my brother 4 years ago, he took his life, and wow...the hurt, anger, sadness, and just devastation it leaves behind. Its ok to not be ok!! Thanks

. Men are people too . Indifference is the social trigger of suicidal thoughts and sometimes outcomes.

Years later I hope others view this and listen. It is just as important now than ever.

Thank you

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This is boring. YAWN !!!!!

1:40 Same bro same 😢. I just don't feel. Feeling like a failure... coz I'm, no friends to even talk to face to face, even after achieving something it doesn't feel good. No confidence, no energy.

Maybe my opinion will be distributed and so unpopular but I will totally will be talk only from my stand-point... Well where to start the finished suicide 80% is mans that's right...And I also thinked about it (suicide)... But at the same time when I came out from depression start to realize sings of sociopathic and psychopatic habits on myself...Like start to think like grab a woman as my girlfriend and use as a "support slash powerbank"...🙄😬😵‍💫🥶 I start to fear from my own toughts... I'm not 100% sure i'm a psychopath or sociopath but it's not normal... But is this better i'm alive it...?! I cannot able to deside! The suicide is not beset me anymore but i think is may had better for the world ... Mostlly for the womans... ( Lucklly...! they avarse from me! 🙏) whitout me! I really... Really does'nt want to wrote this down but I think if i'm not dredged up no one will! 😕🥴😟

Big Like. Some fantastic cinematography here. Emotional and poetic. Well done. 👍

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Most of my issues come from abusive ex partner and I have kids with them so it feels like my kids have died when they stop me seeing my kids

I got diagnosed at 37 years old with the tad and autism

This is so touching.men and boys needs to be talked about more. The expected emotional strength demanded can be overwhelming.

It's just us guys only we matter for each other

Fuck me the lad who said "I fundamentally don't trust people" same boat brother. Honestly if it wasn't for my pets annoying me to feed them in the morning some days they're the only reason I get out of bed.

I bet if people went and helped in third world countries they would realize how good they have it. There is always someone who has it worse than you