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Husband Material with Drew Boa: Helping Men Outgrow Porn
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So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will help you achieve lasting freedom from porn more quickly and permanently-without fighting an exhausting battle. We believe porn is a pacifier. Our mission is to help you outgrow it and become a sexually healthy man of God.
Join our FREE private community for men:
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So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will help you achieve lasting freedom from porn more quickly and permanently-without fighting an exhausting battle. We believe porn is a pacifier. Our mission is to help you outgrow it and become a sexually healthy man of God.
Join our FREE private community for men:
husbandmaterial.co/
The Science Of Attachment (with Michael John Cusick)
What exactly is attachment? How does it relate to addiction? Michael John Cusick explains why we need to feel seen, soothed, safe, and secure, and what it looks like to experience attachment with God. At the end, Michael guides us in a beautiful meditation on my favorite chapter of the Bible, Psalm 131.
Michael John Cusick is a Licensed Professional Counselor, spiritual director, speaker, and author. Having experienced the restoring touch of God in a deeply broken life and marriage, Michael’s passion is to connect life’s broken realities with the reality of the gospel.
In addition to leading Restoring the Soul and equipping Christian organizations around the world, Michael formerly served as an adjunct professor at Denver Seminary and full-time professor at Colorado Christian University.
Michael is also the host of the popular Restoring the Soul podcast (restoringthesoul.com/restoring-the-soul-podcast/), totaling over 1.8 million downloads in just 6 years of podcasting. If you haven’t already, take a listen to his most popular podcasts here -restoringthesoul.com/resources
Pre-order Michael's new book, Sacred Attachment: Escaping Spiritual Exhaustion And Trusting In Divine Love - amzn.to/491CyKS
And don't forget about Michael's first book, Surfing For God: Discovering The Divine Desire Beneath Sexual Struggle - amzn.to/398mmco
These are paid links.
Michael John Cusick is a Licensed Professional Counselor, spiritual director, speaker, and author. Having experienced the restoring touch of God in a deeply broken life and marriage, Michael’s passion is to connect life’s broken realities with the reality of the gospel.
In addition to leading Restoring the Soul and equipping Christian organizations around the world, Michael formerly served as an adjunct professor at Denver Seminary and full-time professor at Colorado Christian University.
Michael is also the host of the popular Restoring the Soul podcast (restoringthesoul.com/restoring-the-soul-podcast/), totaling over 1.8 million downloads in just 6 years of podcasting. If you haven’t already, take a listen to his most popular podcasts here -restoringthesoul.com/resources
Pre-order Michael's new book, Sacred Attachment: Escaping Spiritual Exhaustion And Trusting In Divine Love - amzn.to/491CyKS
And don't forget about Michael's first book, Surfing For God: Discovering The Divine Desire Beneath Sexual Struggle - amzn.to/398mmco
These are paid links.
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Announcing Husband Material Ministries!
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Exciting news: this UA-cam channel is now part of Husband Material Ministries, a Colorado nonprofit corporation! From now on, we are relying on people like you to make resources like this channel; possible (and free) so that more Christian men can outgrow porn. If you believe in and support our mission, please join our team of monthly supporters at husbandmaterial.com/give. All donations to Hus...
Play, Awe, & Porn Addiction: A Polyvagal Perspective
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In this episode, you'll learn two powerful antidotes for porn addiction: play and awe. Ready for a deep dive into neuroscience? According to Polyvagal Theory, play and awe are both "blended states" that regulate your autonomic nervous system through connection instead of disconnection. Play is not peripheral. Awe is not optional. These experiences are essential for the health of your brain! Rel...
Own Your Identity (with Jason Mellard)
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Don't let unwanted same-sex attraction hold you back from a life of purpose and possibility. In this episode, Jason Mellard tells his story of feeling separate from masculinity and how that affected him sexually. Hear how Jason found lasting freedom from porn through finding his voice, grieving his wounds, and stepping into his purpose. Jason Mellard is the founder of Own Your Identity, where h...
The Fear And Power Of Being Vulnerable (with Trent Dollyhigh)
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Have you ever felt afraid to be vulnerable? Me too! In this episode, Trent Dollyhigh tells his story of childhood trauma, porn, pastoral ministry, prison, rehab, and a new life of redemptive risks. Here is a man who lost the world and gained his soul. May Trent inspire you to be vulnerable! "There is no relationship without risk." -Trent Dollyhigh Trent Dollyhigh is the founder of Be Vulnerable...
Inside Out 2 And Porn
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What can Inside Out 2 teach us about outgrowing porn? I’ll share my top three takeaways. Spoiler alert: important plot details will be revealed. Related episodes about Internal Family Systems (IFS): • Experience Healing Through IFS, with Dr. Peter Malinoski - www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/experience-healing-through-ifs-with-dr-peter-malinoski • Unburdening Sexual Arousal, with Dr. Peter Malinosk...
How Women Heal From Sexual Betrayal Trauma (with Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket)
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What are the 3 phases of healing from sexual betrayal? In part 2 of our series with Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket, you'll get a helpful overview of the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model (MPTM). You'll also learn the difference between forgiveness vs. reconciliation vs. trust and how to avoid "good boy syndrome" while working on rebuilding trust. Dr. Barbara Steffens is the foundin...
When A Wife Discovers Her Husband's Porn (with Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket)
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What happens to the brain and body of a wife who discovers her husband's relationship with porn? This is part 1 of our 2 part series on the trauma of sexual infidelity taught by Dr. Barbara Steffens and Lyschel Burket. You'll learn why wives react the way they do, how to tell the difference between wives expressing anger vs. engaging in abusive behavior, how to set appropriate boundaries while ...
Excluded And Emasculated (Sermon on Acts 8:26-40)
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If you feel unlovable or uniquely broken, this sermon is for you. Through the story of Philip and the Ethiopian Eunuch, you'll hear how Jesus heals sexual shame, childhood trauma, systemic injustice, and the agonizing experience of being excluded and emasculated. No matter what you have done sexually or what has been done to you sexually...you belong! This sermon was originally preached on Sund...
Building Community Beyond Same-Sex Attraction & Opposite-Sex Attraction (Drew, Henry, Jason, Jordan)
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We all experience sexual attraction differently (SSA, OSA, etc). In this episode, we explore the benefits, challenges, and limitations of forming deep friendships with men who experience different types of sexual attraction. Drew Boa is the founder of Husband Material. Email Drew at www.husbandmaterial.com/drew Henry Brown is the Director Of Operations & Support at HM. Email Henry at henry@husb...
Same-Sex Attraction Stereotypes (with Jordan Castille)
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How do you view men who experience same-sex attraction (SSA)? In this episode, Jordan Castille and Drew Boa deconstruct 10 stereotypes about men who are sexually attracted to men. Jordan Castille is a Board Certified Christian Counselor, Certified Clinical Sex Addiction Specialist, APSATS CPC (Certified Partner Coach) - Candidate, and Certified Husband Material Coach. He and his wife Cherise ha...
Opposite-Sex Attraction Stereotypes (with Jason Pidcock)
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How do you view men who experience opposite-sex attraction (OSA)? In this episode, Jason Pidcock and Drew Boa deconstruct 10 stereotypes about men who are sexually attracted to women. Jason Pidcock is a Certified Trauma Informed Recovery Coach and longtime member of the Husband Material community. Jason is passionate about helping men overcome the coping strategies they have developed that are ...
Why Doesn't God Remove My Sexual Thoughts And Feelings? (LIVE)
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If you've spent years wishing your unwanted sexual thoughts and feelings would go away, this episode is for you. You'll hear three reasons why God may not remove unwanted sexual thoughts and feelings, and inspiring stories about what good has come out of them. Related resources: Unwanted, by Jay Stringer (paid link) How To Interpret Sexual Fantasies - www.husbandmaterial.com/blog/how-to-interpr...
How To Develop Empathy For Your Wife (with Nathaniel Gustafson)
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Have you ever felt unable to enter into your wife's pain? In this episode, Nathaniel Gustafson explains how to come close to your wife in a way she is more likely to trust. You'll learn how to stay out of shame, keep the spotlight on her, and practice these skills before "game time." Sobriety is not enough. You must learn empathy. Nathaniel's compassionate guidance will help you develop it. Nat...
How Women Can Help Men Heal (with Britta Eskey)
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Many men have been wounded by women. In this episode, Britta Eskey explains how women can help men heal wounds caused by women. Without women, we are missing half of humanity. Britta Eskey co-founded COR, which assists people in finding and living their purpose, including through the Noble Man workshop. Britta is the author of Initiations in Love, a spiritual memoir which answers the age old qu...
Three Unhealed Boys Within Every Man
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A New Approach To Internet Filtering (with Plucky)
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Outgrowing Porn in Marriage (with Rich and Deanna Millentree)
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How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method (Part 2)
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How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method (Part 2)
How To Transform Your Triggers: The F.L.O.S.S. Method (Part 1)
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How I Stopped Getting Into My Husband's Recovery Work Instead Of Doing Mine (with Tera Brown)
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Sitting In The Dirt Of Sexual Brokenness (with Jeremy Williamson)
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Restoration After Porn Relapse (with Rocky Pisor)
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It's Good To Be Aroused (with Sam Jolman)
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How Childhood Experiences Shape Sexual Development (with Drew, Doug, Eddie, and Matt)
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Why We Sexualize Emotions And How To Desexualize Them
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