Jim Miller
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4 Reasons to take your time getting your EX back
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3 Common Mistakes that can De rail your chances of getting your Ex back
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3 Reasons not to wait on your Ex!
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4 Questions you should know the answers to BEFORE you contact your ex
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3 Ways to help you see yourself as a "HIGH VALUE" person in relationships
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3 Myths about the No Contact Rule!
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5 Questions you need the answer to BEFORE you get back with an Ex!
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3 Steps to help IMPROVE your self image!
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3 Steps to better understand your EX
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Stop Waiting for your Ex
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Is your Ex the one and only person for you
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I'll do ANYTHING to get my Ex back! | Why that is not a good attitude to have!
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3 MUSTS if you are in contact with your Ex!
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3 R's of Getting your Ex BACK!
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7 Simple Ways To Get Your Ex Back! bit.ly/2PcANVG Ladies, 4 Magic Phrases that Heal the Hurt"bit.ly/rr-optin This is one of my favorite books that has helped me with relationships. I still read it a couple of times a year "How to be an adult" amzn.to/2LskVwM Check Out My Blog abetterlovestory.com Hey Folks, Jim Miller here, helping you to find and keep the love of your life and write a better l...
Should I get my Ex back or move on?
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Should I get my Ex back or move on?
Getting your ex back if you were the one to breakup!
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Getting your ex back if you were the one to breakup!
#1 Biggest mistake people make in no contact!
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#1 Biggest mistake people make in no contact!
Top 3 reasons people break No Contact | And why it is not a good idea!
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Top 3 reasons people break No Contact | And why it is not a good idea!
5 Steps to take in a breakup!
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5 Steps to take in a breakup!
Should I wish my Ex a Happy Birthday?
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Should I wish my Ex a Happy Birthday?
6 Things you must do if your Ex comes back
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6 Things you must do if your Ex comes back
My Ex CHEATED | Should I get back with them?
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My Ex CHEATED | Should I get back with them?
How can I get my Ex back if they have moved on?
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How can I get my Ex back if they have moved on?
4 Tips to make your Ex MISS you!
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4 Tips to make your Ex MISS you!
Help My Ex ghosted me!
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Help My Ex ghosted me!
Is your Ex sending you mixed signals?
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Is your Ex sending you mixed signals?
8 Steps to get your Ex BACK!
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8 Steps to get your Ex BACK!
Want your Ex BACK? Try This!
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Want your Ex BACK? Try This!
3 Big mistakes after a breakup
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3 Big mistakes after a breakup

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  • @tdjakes121
    @tdjakes121 2 дні тому

    Great advice!

  • @Muttey2024
    @Muttey2024 23 дні тому

    I’m in a similar situation, 45, lived together, she still tells me she’s love me. Come round and we end up in bed. I’m gonna just take it and work on myself. Be a man and not get emotional about it.

  • @darceygetty8573
    @darceygetty8573 Місяць тому

    Been blocked for just over 2 weeks now starting to lose hope

  • @mark.e.p
    @mark.e.p Місяць тому

    Every situation is different. Do what you think is best for both of you.

  • @audrey4150
    @audrey4150 3 місяці тому

    Thank you

  • @NewyJon7787
    @NewyJon7787 4 місяці тому

    Breakups are very hard, especially at the onset. At that time, you are on opposite ends of a spectrum to the ex and there is literally nothing you can do. I fucked up, went NC for three weeks and on dumb advice from a female work mate, i reached out and got no response. I have been in NC for almost six weeks now, not heard a thing from her, but i do feel a lot better and i am seeing someone new as a result of my new found confidence. If my ex ever contacts me, she will have an up hill battle to win me back.

  • @KimimaruOnara
    @KimimaruOnara 5 місяців тому

    No

  • @MrForgeGamer
    @MrForgeGamer 6 місяців тому

    This needs more views! This was really wgat i needed right now. My partner of almost 3 and a half years broke up with me and ended up with someone else a couple weeks later about a year and a half ago. Today was really hard suddenly but this helped me feel so much better! Thank you and I hope you get more views!!

  • @TheMarshallMalone
    @TheMarshallMalone 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for this kind of video - the internet is flooded with “how to get your ex back” advice and that stuff is garbage. It takes away from what really needs to be happening. My breakup was so embarrassing. I feel like I regressed 20 years in my last breakup. I handled it so poorly and am so embarrassed that I pushed her to block me. After her block, I emailed her three times and left a drunken voicemail over the first few weeks of no contact. I also texted her a couple of times, though I am not sure they were delivered. In my communication post block, I told her I was okay with the decision and understood she needed space - I did too. My drunken voicemail might have been a little more emotional. 😅 But it was my final words to her that initiated the block that haunted me for weeks… until I finally forgave myself. A lot of what needs to be done post breakup and block is just healing your inner child. The pain you feel is because you yourself are not secure - once you focus on that, all that love they provided starts flooding in. One thing I loved about her was that she made me feel seen - it took me learning to see myself that way to realize the lesson in that relationship. It’s actually been a great lesson for me and I’ve grown thankful for the experience.

  • @thinkenunknownman
    @thinkenunknownman 7 місяців тому

    I cnat do it My ex she was the nicest girl ever She thought I was cheating But she didn’t know it was just my friend who is a girl I just am heart broken I lost my soccer game I forgot to pray I lost my one true love I just wish I can get her back But she’s with a boy who’s name is Alexander I I just can’t be happy because inside u think u won but no u lost I want her back I just can’t do it Stupid Alexander he he took my girl my true third gf Next year I will come back and tell her to be mine Then I go back to the channel and say the news Ty for reading hope me luck😢😢😢😣😣😣😣🙁🙁🙁😫😫😫😫😞😞😞😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @_jules86
    @_jules86 7 місяців тому

    “Sad garbage” when someone is grieving might not be the best way to put it

  • @MrSaltycity801
    @MrSaltycity801 8 місяців тому

    What if they moved in together and my kid is involved. Got her a room in his house. I dont know what to think.

  • @tkaine3764
    @tkaine3764 8 місяців тому

    No, no, and no! You WILL regret it.

    • @jct3439
      @jct3439 7 місяців тому

      Yup. Learned this the hard way in my most recent relationship

  • @Chaka-La-S
    @Chaka-La-S 8 місяців тому

    Thabks jim, Good analysis! 🙂

  • @IntegraDIY
    @IntegraDIY 9 місяців тому

    don’t forgive, don’t forget. letting them do that and accepting it, is like getting randomly stabbed for no reason and trying to smile after. they got their pleasure and now they’re wanting to make things right and settle down? nope.

  • @kayladunlap928
    @kayladunlap928 10 місяців тому

    this is cheating i dont care what any one says i went through this it still hunts me

  • @JLang-bn3hs
    @JLang-bn3hs 10 місяців тому

    Not NO, but HELL NO!

  • @OUTDOORCRIB
    @OUTDOORCRIB 11 місяців тому

    Well said my friend. THey always make a blame game after they have caught. Cheating is a choice, they choose to give in.

  • @juliewales236
    @juliewales236 11 місяців тому

    Hi he left a year ago and he reached out to me after a month and now we keep catching up friends with Benefits so he keeps coming back on and off

  • @oldschooldude7729
    @oldschooldude7729 11 місяців тому

    My ex cheated should I take them back? No. End of video.

  • @johnpeden2039
    @johnpeden2039 Рік тому

    My ex girlfriend monkey branched to another relationship literally a couple of days after discarding.. She left me on May 27th of this year... She unfriended me on facebook.. And blocked my number.. We bumped into each other a couple of weeks ago.. I didn't show any resentment or anger and kept my composure.. She asked me if her stuff was still in my vehicle, I told her yes it was, she claims that my belongings are in her closet, as she had this smirk on her face, I believe she was trying to test me to see, how I'd react.. But I remained cool.. So she gets all her stuff out of my trunk, so I thought.. Made it home.. Looked inside my trunk to grab some shoes, and noticed she left her coffee mug, with her name on it.. I'm so confused, why she left that there..

  • @Delta6Creations
    @Delta6Creations Рік тому

    Thanks Jim Miller.

  • @peterscholes5864
    @peterscholes5864 Рік тому

    My ex girlfriend cheated on me twice but I am willing to give it time to get back with her. I go to the pub where she works on a Saturday night to meet my friends and have a drink with them

    • @alexanderthegreat3106
      @alexanderthegreat3106 Рік тому

      You are loser buddy , that’s what she thinks of you…

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 Рік тому

      Oh wow. You need mental help.

    • @Mano_jc
      @Mano_jc Рік тому

      @@GUITARTIME2024 I second that. Sounds like he needs therapy.

    • @user60166
      @user60166 8 місяців тому

      I third that. He needs help.

  • @jaimehincapie5458
    @jaimehincapie5458 Рік тому

    Never forget! Never comeback ! Just imagine that person having sex with someone else ! Are you going to kiss and have sex with her after she is filled by someone else ?

  • @SuperGremlin-kt2yt
    @SuperGremlin-kt2yt Рік тому

    How can someone sticking their private parts in someone else’s private parts be ‘your fault’. I never understood why someone would take the blame for someone else doing this. The person is gross. Move on. Do not trivialize it. I do not take cheaters back. I dont care if we were exclusive or not. I give you 1 chance to be honest or lie. If you lie thats it. Goodbye. Have a great life. Dont invite me to your funeral either. I won’t go. Sorry.

  • @samanthawhitehead144
    @samanthawhitehead144 Рік тому

    Your driving and do a video not cool!

  • @thomvs__
    @thomvs__ Рік тому

    she left me bc she doesn’t want to be in a relationship anymore, me neither, especially with her, no contact for now is’t helping, i got clinically depressed, and she didn’t give a fuck, so fuck her, i can’t keep chasing her, she will know who she left

  • @nomos6508
    @nomos6508 Рік тому

    my wife cheat on me pregnant! and then after since two years! we have a child, what should i do? please help

  • @Aek1985
    @Aek1985 Рік тому

    If she or he dumped you and you are on no contact you don’t send nothing. You are very rong sir ❤

  • @BASH_ANGEL
    @BASH_ANGEL Рік тому

    WHY DO AMERICAN YUOTUBERS HS AN ADDICTION TO INSERT UPSELLING IN THEIR VIDEOS?

  • @kori4580
    @kori4580 Рік тому

    Thank you so much. My partner of 13 years is leaving me and I feel like I have nothing to live for. I’m going to keep saying it in my head that I can live without him until thought turns into behaviour.

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok Рік тому

    it's so hard not texting or calling especially when that's what you're used to doing all day everyday, the first full 24 hours of no contact is crucially painful.

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok Рік тому

    I've been through this before and the most freeing feeling is when you wake up one day and realize you no longer want your ex back and you've accepted the breakup, I can't wait to get to that stage again.

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok Рік тому

    he told me to "not wait for him because he doesn't want to give me false hope" and also said "at the moment he is not open to a relationship with us in the future", I guess that's the only sign I need.

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok Рік тому

    he blocked me after I was being too needy and pushy, I wouldn't respect his space like he was asking. The only thing I'm not blocked on is phone/text (atleast last time I checked I wasn't), the only choice I have is to do me and let him come back around if he truly wants to. I know it hurts right now bc I'm so attached but this isn't my first rodeo, if I can get over my ex of 6 years who I planned to spend my life with and now have to deal with him being engaged to someone else after barely a year I can move on from this short term relationship. Just gonna take it day by day and if I don't hear from him then so be it, his birthday is in a week and that's the only time I plan to do any initiating. All I can do is own up to things and accept that this entire breakup is my fault, I let my anxious attachment style completely ruin this relationship, he was good to me but my anxiety refuses to let me be happy.

    • @meganlouiseeeevansx
      @meganlouiseeeevansx Рік тому

      i relate to this so much, i was blocked because of my anxious attachment and the only thing i’m not blocked on is also, text/phone. i hope everything turned out okay for you!

  • @ririsharon4652
    @ririsharon4652 Рік тому

    I got removed on WhatsApp in the initial days of breakup. Then after a week of NC, he randomly blocked me on FB and removed me on Instagram. I broke my NC to ask him, he said he did it for me. That his updates might trigger me. It's funny because i was silent on social media and so was he. He was the one who lectured me about handling the break-up with maturity and that blocking is stupid. I blocked him from everywhere except normal text and call.

  • @nielsdaemen
    @nielsdaemen Рік тому

    *Do nothing!* ua-cam.com/video/-dCHGwaMDyE/v-deo.html&ab_channel=Noodz-DailyClips _All Hail the Magic Conch_

  • @theseattlegreen1871
    @theseattlegreen1871 Рік тому

    I have been living without her for three and a half years I just wish I didn't have to

  • @17msmyra
    @17msmyra Рік тому

    Very inspiring advice...I've been in this situation now...but I can handle it well....thanks a lot

  • @travanavanover7435
    @travanavanover7435 Рік тому

    I never go backwards you may miss your blessings if your stuck on waiting on ex.

  • @MarlenVan
    @MarlenVan Рік тому

    I did 30 days no contact and she engaged within those 30 days XD lmao wtf

    • @papitrapstar1575
      @papitrapstar1575 Рік тому

      Dat means ur ex girlfriend was cheating on you whilst she was with U myG..🤘🏾❄️ Issa Cold evil World We live in✖️💯

  • @Cfresh84
    @Cfresh84 Рік тому

    Move on either way

  • @emelindacumbe9362
    @emelindacumbe9362 Рік тому

    I love yor advise thanks😘❤️

  • @keelon9642
    @keelon9642 Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @davidscontent8221
    @davidscontent8221 Рік тому

    I’m going through that at the moment, with the mother of my kids , now with in time what would be way to make it work in the future so you can overcome any tension moving forward

  • @alisayar_
    @alisayar_ Рік тому

    Great video, thank you ❤

  • @Luising4me
    @Luising4me Рік тому

    I like your logic

  • @retchg799
    @retchg799 Рік тому

    If my ex is doing that, then he is not for me. He is messing around.

  • @mrreddington777
    @mrreddington777 Рік тому

    I was just ghosted after being with my ex for 4 years. Lately our relationship was basically us not really seeing each other and me being upset about it and the fact that she took forever to respond to my texts. The last time we were supposed to go out she took forever to respond again and I fell asleep waiting for her. She said she was gonna go to the movies and I said bye and that was it. She never called or texted me again and I’m fine with it. She ended up deleting pics of me and her on her IG and then blocked me. I wasn’t hurt or mad. I think I was relieved because till the end she showed a lack of respect and decency.

  • @mukisaisabella2416
    @mukisaisabella2416 Рік тому

    ,