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When people say that walking with God will make your life easier, those people don’t know the Lord. He often asks his most faithful servants to experience the work of the enemy firsthand because it’s the best training for understanding spiritual warfare.

Honey, it wasn’t just spiritual abuse it was a cult!

This was so needed & well spoken thank you for sharing!! The church that I’ve been at for 5 years now I recently had an issue where I was trying to lead a dance life group but was rejected & was told a lot of mean things like “nobody would wanna join because I’m leading” & “you didn’t open up in this life group when this one guy opened up about being molested” all kinds of mean spirited things from a church leader. Shortly after this interaction I was quitly removed from the youth ministry as leader because I needed to work on my influence and how people perceived me as the funny person which is silly. I’m someone who’s kind and encouraging and I got dismissed for being myself. Also I find out that they green lit a dance life group to someone else behind my back which was shady.

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God… Sade is so Beautiful ❤

Hey everyone , I got to tell you about a bad experiences I went through with an “pastor” before he self transitioned himself out to a sabbatical. On January 29th 2024 with Strong revival when he was doing impartation, I was next after an mutual volunteer of mine, after he was doing the “bless you in 365 days” impartation, I looked at him and he said to my face “Your not supposed to be here!” And those months forward he started shooting glares of disgust at me even if I asked about the bookshelves he’s been showing while doing the “spiritual therapy” livestreams and his email was shown. It hurt me, yet I stayed out of offense. I told my therapist about it and she said to “That was very rude and not focus on him, but to keep serving the church and everyone in it because they love you there and you serve gods people well with your productive personality, you’re already enough with god” On March 10th, I authentically dedicated my life to father,son and Holy Spirit, Yet in June 9th (before I turned 22) I rededicated my life so I can have approval instead of being patient on god (idolatry) l, told my parents about it and they were outraged and said “ that’s wrong of him to say you shouldn’t be here to you, we would’ve told you to leave had you told us earlier.” I took off Saturday work shifts so I could spend time with embassy city school of revival U and could had one hard conversation to him which he didn’t commit too. I’m practicing forgiveness of myself for the feelings offense, impatience and rash decisions I’ve said up top and for him because it’s reaping season and the lord has offered me productivity after his son Jesus Christ died for us to share our lives with the most high and take accountability in the present . I take accountability of my life I still love serving at the church, communities and for the king of kings. I pray that god will be the master artist (as he’ll always be because he’s Almighty and Adonai) and take the wheel in his life and family. The rededication life was smooth and productive I’m re-reading the Bible, continuing therapy/recreational, listening to Jordan G Welch music, and being patient with god equipping my life. Jehavoh had restored time for me, gave me people that correct me out of love and I’m applying accountability for the ongoing life almighty gave me. Lesson: Never dedicate your life to Christ to seek approval, read the word of god, time was never wasted god restores time, visitation, relationship, hear the most high voice, do the great works the lord gave us :) I got to say you’re a warrior and truth teller, god got greatness for you! Have an blessed one :)

Thank you for opening up about this ❤️ I feel most over look what was talked out in this video. Sometimes many dismiss it as being a rebel🥲 im currently going through the same thing. After years of attending my church, it opened my eyes on how controlling that place is. Now I'm finding myself again after years of being bullied. im finally able to stand up for myself but it isnt easy🙏

Wow each one of those things I just experienced in the church I just left. The first fruit seed offerings, the seating in the front, the mandatory outfits, the 3 mandatory services every Sunday, and so many other things. God is so merciful, I’m glad I’m free now.

You should name the church that you’re talking about so people can avoid it.

The problem you have was being obsessed with the woman and the title she held.

Its flamboyance not charisma. Charisma is good in balance

Nothing is more freeing than resting in our identity and position as His daughter; He's faithful! Love your obedience + your story is so beautiful friend <3

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So good,Sade! May we all surrender. Thank you for the prayer!!

Jesus Loves you ♥️

You made a very important statement when you said ‘you had not established a relationship with God’, during this time of following a woman. You can read Mark 1:23-25 where evil spirits dwell in the church/synagogue. As believers, beside going to church, befriending other believers, we must read, meditate and pray on God’s word to develop a relationship with Jesus. We can’t depend on other people to do it for us. We must put in the work or be subject to be mislead and yes drawn into ‘cult’ like situations. Praise God for His mercy.

I appreciate your transparency in the beginning of the video about your commitment to only share what God wants you to share. That’s encouraging to hear

girl, you do not need makeup. I love your hair. Did he get the red shirt? lol, cute!

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I knew churches that misuse the word of god they say this if you don’t go to church you go to hell that’s not how Christianity works and the pastor says if you don’t do what the pastor asks he’ll say god is gonna hurt you that’s a something what a southern Baptist would say God and Jesus wouldn’t do that

I’m sorry you were in an abusive church they misuse the word of God and Jesus I have a friend who went there in central Pennsylvania the churches and the pastors were complete abusive Jerks with bibles even Jesus Christ doesn’t tolerate spiritual abusive churches especially cults with bibles

Thank you so much for sharing this. It definitely blessed me. Especially the honoring aspect. That can be difficult when there’s a disconnect.😮‍💨

Boooyyy mother daughter relationships are something else! 😮‍💨😮‍💨 I’m struggling with honoring my (African) mom and keeping my boundaries.

I just found you! God just wants us. God is always there for us. He sees us. Sees what we need. Our circumstances... He always comes through for us just at the right time. He will never fail us!! Will put you on my prayer list ❤❤❤

I definitely understand what she coming from

Was it with just your hair?

So good Sis, thank you so much for sharing. About to pray and ask the Lord about this church I believe He is leading me and my girls to, at least for a short time as we are in the midst of a physical transition....🧎🏾‍♀️🥹🙏🏽🤍

Can I just say I love these day(s) in the life vids. I know it’s but a glimpse, but grateful you share the way you do! Sidenote: the way you took off them socks and threw them on the ground 🫠 - are you and my husband related!?! #triggered #pickemup !! Lol

This is refreshing. I get the sense that you are moving away from a place of striving and into a place of groundedness. Love that. How do you serve your local church? What led you to choose that particular ministry role? Have you always been involved?

Faith is a journey. I completely understand the beginning of the vlog.

wow, the way I can relate! God called me to entrepreneurship too... This time last year I had two jobs and for a lot of 2023 I worked 42h a week. I quit one of my jobs after I noticed a pattern of them not respecting my "no" / boundaries AND them being very unprofessional when they realized I wasn't changing my mind. In July, I wanted to apply for another job to replace the one I left in June. I was looking at creative director jobs, editing jobs, etc. God rebuked me SO HARD lol. He said, "Why would you spend time building someone else's empire when I have given you tools to build your own?" (I'm paraphrasing). He had given me business ideas that I was ignoring, yet I was about to apply to build someone else's business... it didn't make sense. Especially when there's such a big need for Kingdom Businesses that are building His Kingdom for His glory. I left the second job in November, on the date He instructed me to. He has been teaching me about Him being the Provider--not the job, not the pension, not the regular paychecks. I've had to make my savings S T R E T C H. But I have not gone without a roof over my head or without food. God has been providing. He's also been helping me unlearn bad spending habits. Everything I bought that was unnecessary, got lost or stolen or broken. There were earrings I bought in August that He told me to return the next day, because He was delivering me from unnecessary spending. And now, I'm a few months into being an entrepreneur. Actually applying the business ideas He gave to me. Doing my research. Surrounding myself with people who are on the same path (through the internet). And I'm grateful for the ways He provides, even if it doesn't look like what I expected. I just want to make God proud, and steward it well. I've had some people suggest I get a part time job again for extra cash, but it doesn't make sense for me to get a job when God told me to leave both of my other jobs AND rebuked me when I was about to apply in July. Instead, I need to use the gifts He gave me to do the work He put on my heart to do. Nothing against working for a company or people using their gifts to build other people's companies; that's just not what God called me to do in this season. So if I were to work at anything other than what He called me to, I'd be in disobedience. Sade, thanks for giving us a peek into your world. this is VERY relateable content. may God continue to teach you what you need to learn this season, and may He always be close to you.

Go Sade ✨✨💪🏾

I felt this sis

this is so refreshing, so anything you put out I'm watching. but if I had to pick... lessons you learned in your years of being an entrepreneur, advice to new entrepreneurs, etc!

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Maybe it’s not what you said to your friend but how.. Sometimes gifted folks speak with an assuredness that is without wisdom and tact. It also might make the person feel cornered to take heed to the word given and are not ready to do so and may feel that you’ll judge them if they don’t take heed right away. We share truth but also allow grace as God gives and leave space for the person to make their own choices.

Sade, I can really relate to what you said about entrepreneurship and God showing you that He is the Provider--not the job. and being multitalented yet feeling like nothing is taking off. tonight I was wondering why I'm on this planet, am I fulfilling that purpose, am I really making the most of it and accessing that Life Abundantly that Jesus spoke about... this is real. thanks for sharing. I just had a feeling I needed to watch your vid. God bless, sis. <3

Thanks for sharing this. I enjoyed your candid conversations with your friends and you talking to us. I've also experienced the same odd/sad feeling with therapy. I know it's helpful, but the amount of issues I need to unpack and address feels overwhelming. Like you said, it takes time and remembering to give ourselves grace through the process.

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Thanks for taking us along in your week. Your faithfulness to The Lord is beautiful. I also have thought at different times in my life about why I don’t see the progress or success that I had imagined I would have by now, but having the peace of being in the Lord’s will and knowing that He promotes me and brings opportunities when the time is right has kept me from running ahead of Him. It is hard to stay in that mindset sometimes though. 😅

The manipulation of scripture to fit their point of view making women feel like they are trying to be men if they are embracing their singleness and self care it’s like women should always be sacrificing or else they’re trying to be men if they starts focusing on self it’s selfish but yet is acceptable for men. Women are supposed just be sitting around waiting and praying for a husband. Then they have to be so perfect in order to get one then tolerate his shenanigans and labor in prayer for him just women suffer suffer suffer and that’s what I can’t take either. I don’t mind marriage etc but in the mean time I’m enjoying singleness and self care I don’t need to be sitting around crying for a husband. my worth isn’t attached to that. I just that feel my church isn’t for single people in general it’s supports men marriage and single mothers…I don’t fall into any I am a single woman without children …but this blessed me and I realize that no matter how much I don’t want to be there if God called me there I need to go and not care about what they think of me and continue to stand my ground by not conforming to false teachings even if it’s coming from the pulpit when I know it’s in opposition to Gods word … Thank you you spoke to my soul

I just want to say thank you so much for this ! Because I know that God called me to this particular church and I’m struggling so bad for so many reasons I speak up and of course they get on the platform and speak indirectly about the things I’ve said but I also see them address the things I express my concern about but in a way that still makes me look like I’m bitter I don’t feel there is any compassion and it’s just a lot going on that goes against my own personal values but I know God called me there but I haven’t been a good steward I’ve been fussing in and out telling them take me off the roster because I feel that the church placed me in bondage but you said something that rang a bell in my mind the Lord placed you there to ground you to prepare you for spiritual warfare in order to go out to do what God called you to do! Thank you I believe this is my situation but I’m like I cannot go through this again Serving religion but losing my relationship I tried just coming and going but the calls and the pressure to be in ministries make me angry because I only want to show up and be silent because I know God called me there but I don’t like religion… This blessed me and gave me something to pray about thank you so much for this

As a former Jehovah’s witnesses I developed a discernment for cults and religious abuse because of my experience in that cult. I am still a believer in Christ but I don’t do well with religion even now as I try to be apart of church it just doesn’t resonate with me because once you get free from control it’s hard to go back and conform to that. I learned that if anyone says they are the way to God or their organization is the one true church etc I learned to run because Jesus says HE is the WAY the truth and life no one comes to the father except THROUGH HIM not an organization or another person JESUS ONLY… Thank you for your transparency

This is so good and right on time for me. Thank you God bless you.

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I was literally looking for a Christian perspective of "coming into full circle" because that's what I keep hearing. I just went back to work where I started to work when I first came to this city.

I been wanting to do this for a while imma try it thanks for the inspiration