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Clarity on Fire
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Rachel East and Kristen Walker are co-founders of Clarity on Fire, a life and career coaching site (and podcast!) that serves up inspiration and down-to-earth wisdom to people who know what they don’t want in work and in life, but have no idea what they’d rather be doing.
They're the creators of The Passion Profile Quiz, a free online resource which has helped more than 500,000 people pinpoint the intersection between their passion and career. Their work has been featured online at major outlets like Time, Fast Company, Business Insider, and Forbes.
They're the creators of The Passion Profile Quiz, a free online resource which has helped more than 500,000 people pinpoint the intersection between their passion and career. Their work has been featured online at major outlets like Time, Fast Company, Business Insider, and Forbes.
New to Clarity on Fire? Start Here! (2024 Edition)
In case you missed it, last week we announced that we’re taking a podcasting hiatus - for a few reasons, but mostly because Rachel is having a baby later this year!
If you’re new-ish to Clarity on Fire - or have been around for a while but want to introduce new people to us - that gives you an excellent opportunity to catch up on our over-400 episodes.
Buuuut we also know that’s a LOT of content and you might be overwhelmed! 😅 So, we’re making it easy for you (or your friends) to know where to start.
Here’s where we recommend starting if you’re new to Clarity on Fire:
• Before you do anything else, take (or re-take!) the Passion Profile Quiz. It’s designed to help you pinpoint the intersection between your career and passions in a way that LITERALLY NO ONE ELSE ever talks about: clarityonfire.com/quiz/
• After that, if you want to dive in to Passion Profiles on a deeper level, sign up for our free on-demand workshop: 3 Steps to Take Your Career from Stuck to Clear, Using Your Passion Profile: clarityonfire.com/workshop
• Listen to the podcast episodes we list below (in order, for the biggest impact)!
If you’re new, have fun diving in! And if you’re a longtime fan, we’d love it if you forwarded this to someone who needs a little help getting unstuck and finding direction + fulfillment. ✨
TOP 13 EPISODES FOR MAXIMUM CLARITY
We’ve got SO MANY podcast episodes, it’s hard to pick favorites. But if you’re looking for life and career fulfillment and you need to learn the fundamentals of how to get there, in a way that most people aren’t going to tell you, then look no further than these 13 episodes.
We’ve broken them down by category. Start with whatever category you like, but we recommend listening to the episodes in the order listed, in each section:
Life & Career Direction:
Side Chat: 6 ways to love (& keep) your job for years and years (May 2022): ua-cam.com/video/EUo2ZYjv_-8/v-deo.html
Side Chat: 6 MORE ways to have a career you love (January 2023): ua-cam.com/video/ckaz1y6oynY/v-deo.html
Side Chat: Why obsessing over your career doesn’t work (March 2022): ua-cam.com/video/VVb3uGzN5HY/v-deo.html
Why career coaching has (almost) nothing to do with your career (October 2020): ua-cam.com/video/gZWtTwG1RSY/v-deo.html
Side Chat: The top questions to ask yourself when job searching, according to Passion Profile (April 2023): ua-cam.com/video/qhl6cASE_dg/v-deo.html
Cultivating Intuition & Feminine Energy:
Side Chat: Honing your intuition (& knowing when it’s really fear) (June 2019): ua-cam.com/video/jzod0Ve6s0s/v-deo.html
Side Chat: How to actually *do* feminine energy (June 2021): ua-cam.com/video/02Xl5BJXsJA/v-deo.html
Side Chat: How to work like a woman (in a world that doesn’t want you to) (April 2018): ua-cam.com/video/pWcq0MSjopA/v-deo.html
Bonus Book Club! Outrageous Openness by Tosha Silver (November 2018): ua-cam.com/video/NRiSDGp03qA/v-deo.html
Personal Growth Fundamentals:
Side Chat: A deep dive into emotional maturity (February 2023): ua-cam.com/video/cWsqJ5O197Y/v-deo.html
Bonus Book Club! Good Inside by Dr. Becky Kennedy (March 2023): ua-cam.com/video/rrv4zKSeUrg/v-deo.html
Bonus Book Club! Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel S.F. Heller (March 2024): ua-cam.com/video/WiW7kbCvi7c/v-deo.html
Side Chat: How attachment theory plays out at work (May 2023): ua-cam.com/video/rn9l8oxPBJ4/v-deo.html
ONE MORE BIG THING
Even though we won’t be podcasting for a while, we will still be coaching … but we won’t be back with another official coaching enrollment this year!
So, if you’re feeling the urge to work with us 1-on-1, reach out to us directly!
Fill out the form on this page at any time, and we’ll schedule an intro chat to talk about the possibility of coaching: clarityonfire.com/work-with-us/1-on-1-coaching/
And if you want to try out a little coaching before making a big commitment, then grab yourself a Power Hour! It’s a 75-minute coaching session where we’ll laser-focus on whatever issue is keeping you most stuck. Bonus, you can apply the cost of your Power Hour toward future 1:1 coaching!
clarityonfire.com/power-hour/
LINKS
Leave us a comment on this episode: clarityonfire.com/new-to-clarity-on-fire-start-here-2024-edition/
Take the Passion Profile Quiz: clarityonfire.com/quiz/
Submit your question for a future episode of Dear Krachel, our monthly podcast advice column: clarityonfire.com/podcast-questions/
If you’re new-ish to Clarity on Fire - or have been around for a while but want to introduce new people to us - that gives you an excellent opportunity to catch up on our over-400 episodes.
Buuuut we also know that’s a LOT of content and you might be overwhelmed! 😅 So, we’re making it easy for you (or your friends) to know where to start.
Here’s where we recommend starting if you’re new to Clarity on Fire:
• Before you do anything else, take (or re-take!) the Passion Profile Quiz. It’s designed to help you pinpoint the intersection between your career and passions in a way that LITERALLY NO ONE ELSE ever talks about: clarityonfire.com/quiz/
• After that, if you want to dive in to Passion Profiles on a deeper level, sign up for our free on-demand workshop: 3 Steps to Take Your Career from Stuck to Clear, Using Your Passion Profile: clarityonfire.com/workshop
• Listen to the podcast episodes we list below (in order, for the biggest impact)!
If you’re new, have fun diving in! And if you’re a longtime fan, we’d love it if you forwarded this to someone who needs a little help getting unstuck and finding direction + fulfillment. ✨
TOP 13 EPISODES FOR MAXIMUM CLARITY
We’ve got SO MANY podcast episodes, it’s hard to pick favorites. But if you’re looking for life and career fulfillment and you need to learn the fundamentals of how to get there, in a way that most people aren’t going to tell you, then look no further than these 13 episodes.
We’ve broken them down by category. Start with whatever category you like, but we recommend listening to the episodes in the order listed, in each section:
Life & Career Direction:
Side Chat: 6 ways to love (& keep) your job for years and years (May 2022): ua-cam.com/video/EUo2ZYjv_-8/v-deo.html
Side Chat: 6 MORE ways to have a career you love (January 2023): ua-cam.com/video/ckaz1y6oynY/v-deo.html
Side Chat: Why obsessing over your career doesn’t work (March 2022): ua-cam.com/video/VVb3uGzN5HY/v-deo.html
Why career coaching has (almost) nothing to do with your career (October 2020): ua-cam.com/video/gZWtTwG1RSY/v-deo.html
Side Chat: The top questions to ask yourself when job searching, according to Passion Profile (April 2023): ua-cam.com/video/qhl6cASE_dg/v-deo.html
Cultivating Intuition & Feminine Energy:
Side Chat: Honing your intuition (& knowing when it’s really fear) (June 2019): ua-cam.com/video/jzod0Ve6s0s/v-deo.html
Side Chat: How to actually *do* feminine energy (June 2021): ua-cam.com/video/02Xl5BJXsJA/v-deo.html
Side Chat: How to work like a woman (in a world that doesn’t want you to) (April 2018): ua-cam.com/video/pWcq0MSjopA/v-deo.html
Bonus Book Club! Outrageous Openness by Tosha Silver (November 2018): ua-cam.com/video/NRiSDGp03qA/v-deo.html
Personal Growth Fundamentals:
Side Chat: A deep dive into emotional maturity (February 2023): ua-cam.com/video/cWsqJ5O197Y/v-deo.html
Bonus Book Club! Good Inside by Dr. Becky Kennedy (March 2023): ua-cam.com/video/rrv4zKSeUrg/v-deo.html
Bonus Book Club! Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel S.F. Heller (March 2024): ua-cam.com/video/WiW7kbCvi7c/v-deo.html
Side Chat: How attachment theory plays out at work (May 2023): ua-cam.com/video/rn9l8oxPBJ4/v-deo.html
ONE MORE BIG THING
Even though we won’t be podcasting for a while, we will still be coaching … but we won’t be back with another official coaching enrollment this year!
So, if you’re feeling the urge to work with us 1-on-1, reach out to us directly!
Fill out the form on this page at any time, and we’ll schedule an intro chat to talk about the possibility of coaching: clarityonfire.com/work-with-us/1-on-1-coaching/
And if you want to try out a little coaching before making a big commitment, then grab yourself a Power Hour! It’s a 75-minute coaching session where we’ll laser-focus on whatever issue is keeping you most stuck. Bonus, you can apply the cost of your Power Hour toward future 1:1 coaching!
clarityonfire.com/power-hour/
LINKS
Leave us a comment on this episode: clarityonfire.com/new-to-clarity-on-fire-start-here-2024-edition/
Take the Passion Profile Quiz: clarityonfire.com/quiz/
Submit your question for a future episode of Dear Krachel, our monthly podcast advice column: clarityonfire.com/podcast-questions/
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We're going on hiatus again (& having a baby)!
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"Failing at life" & retreating to Italy with Susanne Reichert
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Dear Krachel: How do I stop blaming myself when things go wrong at work?
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Welcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, our monthly advice segment where we answer listener questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself. This month we answered questions from two listeners, who both happen to be teachers (but their issues are relevant to all of us)! • Worry Worm, whose confide...
Exploring the nervous system with Amanda Johnson
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It’s the fifth Friday of the month, which means this should be a “bonus book club” episode it isn’t, but it’s also not NOT a book club episode, either. 🙃😂 During our last book club conversation about Attached with Amanda Johnson - our friend, fellow coach, and all-around expert on attachment theory - we said that we wanted to have Amanda back on the podcast to have an episode devoted completely...
Message from the Universe: Expect the Unexpected
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Need a little clarity, guidance, or just a fun pick-me-up? Then today’s your day, because we’re back (for the third month in a row, lucky you!) with another Message from the Universe episode. ✨🔮 As usual, we pulled a few cards from The Enchanted Map deck by Colette Baron-Reid. One or all has a message for you - come find out what it is! See the cards and descriptions after you listen, here: cla...
Side Chat: Is trauma unconsciously influencing your career choices?
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You know we can’t resist a good Instagram post-and maybe even ruthlessly tearing one apart on the podcast (and having a grand time doing it)! A friend DM’d us this reel ( pC6gVyRgKM6U/?hl=en) recently from Caroline Middelsdorf, a coach and psychologist, about how your childhood trauma might be covertly influencing your career choices. Naturally, we decided to dissect our reaction ...
Trusting things will work out (even when life goes sideways) with Sarah Tucker
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You know what I’m tired of? Neat, tidy stories of success that tie everything in a bow by the end and make life look a little too simple. To be fair, we’ve published our fair share of stories like that on this podcast! But this year, we’ve made a big effort to showcase “normal person” stories that are very much still unfolding-because when it comes to your actual life, the story is never done. ...
Dear Krachel: How do I improve my life without changing jobs again?
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Welcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, our monthly advice segment where we answer listener questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself. This month we answered questions from: • Blue Millennial, who is still only just scraping by financially after 10 years in the working world. The hobby that ...
Message from the Universe: Step aside and watch what happens next
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Need a little clarity, guidance, or just a fun pick-me-up? Then today’s your day, because we’re back (only a month after our last MFTU episode surprise!) with another Message from the Universe episode. ✨🔮 As usual, we pulled a few cards from The Enchanted Map deck by Colette Baron-Reid (www.amazon.com/Enchanted-Map-Oracle-Cards/dp/1401927491/ref=asc_df_1401927491/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hva...
Side Chat: When it's OK (and when it's not) to have no goals
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A few weeks ago, one of Rachel’s clients asked a GREAT question (well, series of questions) that was immediately deserving of its own podcast episode. We love when that happens. When is it okay to NOT have goals? Is it ever acceptable? If so, under what circumstances?? So, listen in as we chat about… • How to figure out if feeling aimless/directionless is actually a problem, or maybe something ...
Dear Krachel: I've quit 3 jobs in the last year! How do I break the cycle?
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Welcome to another episode of Dear Krachel, our monthly advice segment where we answer listener questions about life, career, relationships, existential angst, and anything that helps you become a more whole, fulfilled version of yourself. This month we answered questions from: • Guilty Thriver, who’s 4 months pregnant with her first baby and wants to be a stay at home mom. Her husband makes pl...
Bonus Book Club! Attached by Amir Levine, M.D., & Rachel S.F. Heller, M.A.
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Calling all fellow bookworms, library nerds, and general lovers of literature - it’s time for another book club episode of the podcast! Whenever there are five Fridays in a month, we devote the extra Friday to a book that we can’t get enough of. It was WAY overdue for us to dedicate a book club episode to attachment theory, considering how much we’ve talked about it on the podcast in the last y...
Message from the Universe: Resist the urge to second-guess yourself
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Side Chat: The 8+8+8 Rule ... and why we hate it!
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A while back I was scrolling on Instagram and came across a post by a well-known personal development guru. What I read ENRAGED me. So much so, in fact, that my ensuing rant lasted for almost an hour - and now you get to hear it on the podcast. 👀😅 Buckle up for this month’s brand-new Side Chat, where Kristen and I break down (and take down!) this post ( pCtbnRqSPOOZ/?hl=en) and al...
What happens when you work against your Passion Profile with Joanna Platt
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What happens when you work against your Passion Profile with Joanna Platt
Dear Krachel: Should I just pick a career direction and run with it?
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Dear Krachel: Should I just pick a career direction and run with it?
Job searching in a tough market with Emily Liou
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Job searching in a tough market with Emily Liou
Side Chat: Please care a little less about your career
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Side Chat: Please care a little less about your career
Getting what you want even when it feels impossible with Kayla Neitzel
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Getting what you want even when it feels impossible with Kayla Neitzel
Dear Krachel: What if the Universe wants me to lose my job?
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Dear Krachel: What if the Universe wants me to lose my job?
Message from the Universe: Trust ... and all will be revealed
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Message from the Universe: Trust ... and all will be revealed
Overcoming fear of literally everything with Mary Cardenas
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Overcoming fear of literally everything with Mary Cardenas
We're back (& breaking down all the wild things that happened in 2023)!
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We're back (& breaking down all the wild things that happened in 2023)!
We're going on hiatus again (& other big changes)!
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We're going on hiatus again (& other big changes)!
From totally shut down to feeling your feelings again with Amanda Johnson
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From totally shut down to feeling your feelings again with Amanda Johnson
Dear Krachel: I quit my job and have huge regrets! I can't go back, so now what?
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Dear Krachel: I quit my job and have huge regrets! I can't go back, so now what?
Message from the Universe: You're free to be yourself
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Message from the Universe: You're free to be yourself
Side Chat: How attachment theory plays out at work
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Side Chat: How attachment theory plays out at work
Wait this was the first enchanted map deck reading?! Omg… AND you got Deep Freeze right away! 😂
Thank you this is the clarity I needed. Crazy so how to the point this was
Heya❤
wow! I bought this book as I was listening to you two perfectly describe my mother and myself! Dr. Northrup's books are so well-written. I have started my emotional healing journey finally! Thank you so much for your conversation and input on this topic, I am totally the PREY! By the book. I had no idea. I thought I was just wonder woman as a wife and mom and career nurse and grad student. I realized, when I crashed an burned a few years ago that something is so wrong but no Dr could help. Anyways.... thanks for this discussion. It was perfect :)
Oh. My. GOD. This was PERFECT timing for me! I just made a huge move and am looking for an actual house/home, but not quite in your typical way, so I’ve been experiencing a lot of inner and outer pushback. I can trust myself! 💗
Looove this! Good look on your house hunt!
@@clarityonfire thank yoooou!
Within 24 hours of watching this I my husband pointed a huge billboard in Miami that only read “THIS IS A SIGN” . There was no phone number, business name, nothing. If that wasn’t the universe leaving me an unmistakable sign then I don’t know what could be😂
very informational tutorial 👍
This is no communcation but a monologue, quite funny though...
I would buy that T-shirt 😂
Wow this is the perfect timing for me as I make some big changes haha!
Yayyyy you’re back!
What are the 4 profiles?
Looooooove that I found y'all because I'm reading this for the second time now. I'll report back with my first experiment when I get my blessing within the next 24 hours ❤😊🎉
Javajam do not be gulibule
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Great discussion. I realize that this is a critique of the book. However, we are in the 21st century and about to be re-introduced to the fact that we can each have our own opinions and not be responsible for hurting anyone else's feelings. Opinions are just our own perceptions and we all have them. I'm knowing that we're all ready to give each other the latitude of being who we are and what we think. However, I'm being reminded of this quote, "the the easier it is to offend us, the easier we are to be controlled".
Wait, thrivers can have their own businesses too?! 😳 Would love to hear more about this!
Or maybe I should email you haha
Energy Vampire drained me so much in just a car pool ride .
I am single, after being on dating apps for a year I was exhausted and fed up with married men and weirdos hitting on me. Shani is so right and I am really ok being single. Shani is amazing ❤
So glad you finally dumped the apps and embraced the good things about being single, Pippa! If you're interested in this topic in general, you might love the solo podcast about my journey through singledom: Forever Alone ua-cam.com/play/PLJ9IcW69YuB8oQe6iB7gPnU7bFaqfcNYm.html
@@clarityonfire thank you for the link, I am always interested in anything to help me on my single journey. And thank you for the reply, I am still in my single journey, but doing ok. Thanks
Yes most men I met on the apps or in person are married/in a relationship/ not looking for a relationship/ just wanna trap in endless texting loops in which they never ask you out. It’s crazy and then online all you hear is that when people say X what they mean is they don’t like you. After hearing it so many times I started to feel scared that every single intimate encounter was with people that didn’t even like me.
Saved this episode 5 months ago but I guess NOW was the right time to listen! Just bought the book before the episode even ended 😂 I grew up with binary thinking and it’s been such a struggle getting out of it. I think this book will help!
Daaaaaamn I need to print off that last answer I think!! I really needed that - I left my religion a few years ago and felt myself tumbling into nihilism instead. BOTH SUCK!!! You just took all the thoughts I’ve been quietly wondering in my head and put them in order. Thank you!!
We're so glad to hear that!! 💞
This was/is amazing! Thank you ladies I will be looking at more of your videos! Much ❤️
Wonderful! I felt like I was listening to my own life.
Listening to this again at the end of 2022! Love this!
Bless you 🙏
How can I work on believing in a benevolent universe? It’s been hard lately 😔 And how can this kind of focus work for scanners/Renaissance souls/multipotentialites? Focusing on only one thing is SO boring lol… even though yeah, being too scattered doesn’t work either
We'd recommend starting with this episode, and getting the book if it calls to you! ua-cam.com/video/NRiSDGp03qA/v-deo.html
Another great Fire Side chat. I love this concept of how to choose what to focus on… sometimes I can overwhelm myself trying to “do it all” … Thanks Rachel and Kristen
Thanks Kim! 😄
I’m gonna try experiment number one, and I’m asking to see a lime green/highlighter green butterfly in the next 48 hours
It took a while but today I finally saw one while driving
Wow y'all did and amazing job exampleing this book...💕
liked at one eleven.. and just found out earlier that my number one button on my laptop is not working.. 😀👌✨
🤭 𝓅𝓇𝑜𝓂𝑜𝓈𝓂
💯 PЯӨMӨƧM
I love this Side Chat because I can 200% relate, as I’m a consultant. It takes courage to speak up. it can be done but you’ll also need to be prepared for the outcome. There’s an art to speaking up, knowing who and when, knowing if you can financially afford to speak up sooner than later, and having a game plan. I will say I’m (happily) no longer with the company and I’m moving in to another consulting company. I plan to take what I learned from that last job as way to set boundaries and hopefully be more successful.
Definitely an art to timing it right so that you don't make life too hard on yourself! Believing you deserve more always comes first, of course
I have an employer though that doesn't care about having "two holes." This exact situation happened to a coworker of mine and the owner responded like the coworker had personally insulted him by not just doing what he told her to do. (It gives notes about his character how he always tells and never asks btw.) He told my coworker that he guesses she's not up to the job then and maybe she should look elsewhere [for employment an after being there for years]. When she replied, naturally insulted that he questioned her long time with the company, he stopped her and said, no this is part of your job now. You will do it. Period. She walked out. So yes, some owners and bosses are that terrible sadly no matter how gently you speak up or assert a boundary.
For sure, there are some terrible ones out there! Good for your coworker for drawing the line and walking out. Sometimes the only way to win is to refuse to play the game.
Firestarter here and this was so on point! I took the quiz & EVERYTHING on the profile fit me to the T. I've been on a mission to find my purpose and figure out how to monetize my passions. I truly appreciate you ladies!
So happy to hear that!
Thank you for sharing this subject. So many children around the world are in a toxic environment that will never change. After they leave home theyll carry it with them to their grave, and along the way the toxins will be spread onto their own children. Knowledge and therapies of the like presented here are probably our only real redemption toward healing into the future.
This is me to a tee! I just don't know which direction to go in, and I don't feel like I have the energy anymore to pursue it! I just want to like what I do and I don't want it to be sitting in front of a computer! There isn't a specific job title I am looking for but more of what I want to do, if that makes sense. The job I am doing now does not interest me at all. I mainly stay because of the money and stability, especially because of the way things are today with the economy. I don't have time to start over, I'm getting closer to retirement.
Great episode! You make negotiation sound so easy. I wish y'all could play on a loop in my head.
Thanks, Sarah! And we've got enough episodes that you basically COULD play us on a loop if you really wanted to. 🙃😅
So this was recommended to me & I just received the fastest respond from FP lol Im listening to this on my phone and I just replied to one of friends on messenger, talking about clearing baggage & cleaning house - so I decided to use a Snow White sweeping GIF &&&& not even 30 mins into this video -- “ Snow White gets mentioned 🧐🤨🤨🧐🤨🧐
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47:50, wow I just wrote this down. I am commanding and demanding that my I am presence show me the most amazing travel adventure for this year with the most potent path forward for my art/self expression to progress into success, pleasure and plenty <3 thank you and so it is!
And so it is!
Ive rewinded 3x and She never said the name of her FB group
I believe she moved the FB group to private and gives people who join her Patreon access to it: www.patreon.com/shanisilver Hope that helps!
Great interview!
I just submitted my three weeks notice for an amazing opportunity and I thought I was going to feel relief but instead I feel incredibly guilty due to all the reasons you mentioned and helped iron out for us. The feeling of guilt overcame me that I even had to step out and breathe. Thank you so much.
This was so so helpful to reframe what being single but actually how I want to live life means to me. Thank you guys! Xx
How do you get over your limiting beliefs?
This video couldn’t have come at a better time! Thank you so much for this ❤️
Yep, terrifyingly accurate as usual! Last night as I was trying to get to sleep I felt compelled to write down a thought that came to me (that I knew would nag me if I didn't get it out). I wrote "I feel cornered when I need help...the scary choice between failing because I didn't ask for help, and asking for help but looking weak/incompetent or being denied it (I guess a lot of the thoughts that keep a people pleaser quiet). Hard to do either and still feel lovable. I'm cornered and set up to fail either way." So of course the Devil card felt super relevant to that, a sort of imprisonment of my own thoughts, and then the Judgment card came in with "so are you going to stay there or seek freedom?" And the last card feels kind of like license to stop being terrified of both the failing and the asking for help, because if I choose what's best for me, instead of choosing out of fear, I'll be that much more satisfied.
Such a powerful interpretation, Laura! Good for you for questioning the insidious fear of asking for help.
I work for my bf and with him. My life has been the most miserable and unhappy. I don't want to work there anymore or even be with him anymore. He's rude and always bitching. I don't even care about a 2 weeks notice. I want out asap. I'm living day by day. I'm wanting to quit every day and run away from him too. Today needs to be the day...
We're so sorry to hear that! You're totally right to get out of both this job AND this relationship. It sounds pretty unhealthy, and you deserve better!
OMG!! This helped me so much. I want to break this horrible habit. I literally took so many notes and ordered the book. Thank you ladies!!
What’s crazy is I’m a contract worker and I always do a good job wherever I’m at and I create great relationships. I’m not getting any traditional benefits and had a fight for sick time but I still feel guilty leaving for the direct client. At the end of the day I have to do what’s best for me because I am replaceable as everyone is.
Thank you so much for this blog. It's given me a better idea of what a middle ground looks like.