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Thank you 🙏

Hello nice person!!! I like your friendly attitude and always good to know it's not a problem with us.

Excellent!! 🙏

Bro, which part of the top of your head

If they pulled a hostile stunt on me, then I don't feel like talking to them. That does not make me a narc.

Confirmation

There are at least a dozen other channels dealing with this same issue. I have no doubt you are coming from the heart but you have a LOT of competition with this subject matter. I have been sober since 2016 but have a friend dealing with this issue so I watch alcoholism videos in order to learn more and pass what I learn on to my friend.. P.S. Consider turning down the music, it distracts from your important message. Thanks for trying to be of help and may God bless you.

What about a person who looks dead at you and walks past you and don't even speak?

Because they can't deal with your energy.

People who ignore you at random for no good reason are sick. It is the cruelest thing you can do to someone who hasn’t done anything to deserve the treatment. Barca are cowards! Absolutely cowards!!

Power and control

I wish she would ignore me! This vandalism has been going on for over 9 years!! Jayne Knorr in lot 46 in Holiday Village in Ormond Beach Florida!!

Love ❤️ you guys

I’ve been in love with this woman for 10 years and been with her over the past 2 years. Well come to find out this woman is a covert narcissist , and I seen clues , but never knew it was that bad. As of now we have been split up for the last 3 months , and reasons being is her lack of intimacy , affection , and no sex . In which turned into a lot of arguments. As of now , I’m the whole problem , and she wants me to be the one who changes. Now I have been used for everything I’ve had : money , boat , staying in my home without rent , and drained my bank account , and I’ve never gotten anything back in this relationship. Bad thing about it is , like I said , I’ve been in love with this woman , and I still put up with it even though I’ve lost so much. Letting go just seems so hard even though I know she’s toxic. I’ve been so up and down about which direction I’m going to go.

You have great energy and love in explaining this predicament, Thank you Choya Wise.

Omg they dont understand that we would have stayed if they didn't act so dumb

Sometimes it’s not narcissim there are people who have shown me there character early on and I don’t speak to them. We have to be sure to read the signs right and not project our stuff on others. When it is a pattern with everyone it’s a narcissist

Thank you so much

Great video! Simple, relatable, with depth.

Yes amen, amen!!!!! We are born loving ourselves, we don't have to try to do it. If we love others better than ourselves then we are secure rational people. I have family members who do this "ignoring me" stuff. In my experience, family members who are narcissistic ignore us to make us feel small and foolish. They cannot validate us in any way because of jealousy. You are absolutely right!!!! I have even had them walk into my house and make a disparaging remark about my decorating to the others in the room but not to me while I am standing right there. I didn't respond because they are the kind of people who do these things to be able to start a fight with us. I have even had them come to dinner, I would set a nice table for them and they are ridiculing me by saying "we aren't fancy people", in other words I was foolish for doing a nice thing. I have removed these people from my life because they never change, they are predictable. I don't want to become like them by answering back, its what they want and what the devil wants to ruin us.

They lack accountability so ignoring you is the solution for the narcist.

Hi there!

Awesome content glad I found your channel

The title of the video is kind of misleading and distracting from your actual content.. I would have avoided the video based solely on its title cause it seems to be talking about a lot of technical know-hows

You are correct. I was blindly in love. Now I see. My ex covert narc husband never finished junior high school. I have a masters degree. I had no idea all the abuse, beatings, insults, triangulation and silence treatments were all apart of narcissism. So sad people like this exist. I ran away from the abuse not knowing what I was dealing with, just knowing it was too too too painful to go on with him. I stopped dating and live as a hermit for safety.

Your presentation is amazing.Totally authentic.

Wow ! Where did you get your degree in psychology ? How do you know all this about human behaviour ? Yes you are spot on ! You must be a expert on thyself ??

Very good points stated here! Thanks!

Thank you

They hate it when you ignore them back😂 the reciprocity of their energy reflecting back to them is like giving them a mirror to look in and they usually hate it 🤣 but these days I'm into reciprocity so if you put me on your pay no mind list I'll put you right on mine too

Making themselves feel better by devaluing you- what weirdos these people are. Let karma do its work. Good video.

My ex narc was a college graduate and the dumbest woman I've ever met.

Quit leaning on physicians. What a joke I was married to a doctor for 25 years his alcoholism destroyed. He’s just primary care, so it’s probably not a big deal.

Can only speak on the narcs I know but it's a manipulation tactic expecting you to feel bad enough to blame yourself for their behavior and beg them back..It's as a form of punishment

This was very helpful. The NPD simply wishes to take from others what they do not have, and/or can achieve this life time. It could very well be a friend and/or a family member too.

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Thank you Choya. I know my family’s tactics and I generally manage ok. Lately it’s getting very challenging with the gaslighting, rage, manipulation and exploitation. I just found your channel! 🙏

All true!!!!

He invited me all the way to another town to go for a walk at the beach. He didnt talk to me all the way there while we were there on the way back. 😮 So I did try to make small talk, his amswers were yes no, he kept his answers very short. I told him if you were going to do this, I could have stayed home and had a better conversation with the wall. He said oh come on!...

Thank you. Needed this.

Funny, that's what I start doing when I figure out they are narcs. I love undermining them and I hold no punches. Only thing of a narc I want in my sight is the back of one running in terror.

100% true. Narcissistic husband is killing me everyday. 😢 he is a Monster.

Deep

Choya Wise, thank you for keeping a tough subject simple and for applying God's word to it.

My mother did this to me since I can remember, even at 2 yrs old

Is that your music in the background?, If so please it distracts you.

"If he pushes you down then it lifts them up. It's kinda like a god complex." Story of my life growing up with my dad.

Keep Helping I Pray Your Continue to grow & Help Never despise small beginnings ❤

Great Knowledge Thanks ❤

Dropping knowledge here!!!