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And he is so blunt about it... Persice.. seems like some really well placed lies in between the truth.. so hes seems to be not all uncontious.. i recon he has loads of victims..

They target down kids with fake/ act care... Narc do the same with older people.

Who says that ikr. It's his fantasy world.

She didn't actually say that, it's a sick fantasy he made up in his head. Just read the description for context. Crazy how many people are judging her and the mom without even bothering to read the description first.

Of course! There is no one stop fix all solution. If there was, there would be no need for finding options. Everyone has their own experience and some groups within that very large umbrella do not experience violence and sadism. I was kinda hoping that it was clear that I referred to the non-violence sector. I clearly failed in making that clear.

Thank you so much for this outstanding, incredibly hard opus​@@lucywitts17708. It's so unfortunate that people are still so much in denial about the scale of paedophilia, they don't realise it's at the end of their street at the most. The societal refusal to see the bigger picture, to recognize, treat and prevent paedophiles from offending is not through punitive actions. That's simply too late. Thank you for this fantastic work, I wish your documentary had more exposure, your voice is so important.

That depends on your definition of “natural”. If people are born with that affliction, then unfortunately, it is natural. That doesn’t mean it isn’t bad. Plenty of things that are naturally occurring are bad. A lot of pedophiles realize their attraction to younger children when they are still children/young teens themselves. They get older, but the age of their erotic target stays the same. Contrary to common belief, not all pedophiles have experienced molestation themselves. If that were true, we would have more female pedophiles than males, as more than 2x as many girls are molested than boys.

@@dewilew2137 If people are born with the affliction of substance abuse that is natural too? Or born with the affliction to be attracted to animals? The connection between victimhood and becoming an abuser was a myth based on the self reporting of caught offenders who made that up as an excuse

Duh? Some people are born like that though

That's what HE says. And all these pedophiles will say whatever is needed to justify themselves. They will lie without blinking.

It may be a trauma response. I was sexually abused for years as a child and I’ve noticed that in situations where I feel uncomfortable I give a fake laugh or a giggle. It may be the same for her.

Yeah, NOW he loves her like a child. Not when she was a child.

Read the description. She did all this to get him to admit to his crimes and pattern of abuse so he could be convicted and thrown in prison, which he was, in part because of this interview. What she did was incredibly brave to sit through that without reacting in order to get him to talk further about the abuse to get further evidence. Crazy how many people are judging her and her mom in the comments when all the context is in the description.

Read the description. He is in prison in part from her interview with him which acted as evidence.

It is indisputable that Pedophilia, or Pedophilic Disorder, is a mental illness. Since 1968, Pedophilia has been recognized in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorder (DSM). In the current iteration, DSM-V, a person is diagnosed with Pedophilic Disorder when they have “acted on” their sexual urges or when the urges “cause marked distress or interpersonal difficulty.” And when they do act on their urges, they commit a crime

@@lisa-marieparetovich1897 exactly

To be very honest, the only way I can think of would have been to tap into the physicality, so let's play a game you show me and I copy you. Or show me what hes taught you - in the context of what a clever girl rather than reproach. I genuinely would have found questioning from my mum odd. Questions would not have gleened answers because I wouldnt have got the context. What I can say is that anyone who asked me would have had to be very round about and most likely physical to get information I didnt know I was giving. I didnt know it was a secret. But then I also didnt recognise it as out of the ordinary. I will give this question a lot more thought, dig deep and will come back to you.

@@lucywitts17708in terms of when you were a little older say around 10 …how would you suggest your mom or other trusted adult should’ve gone about approaching it. What would have helped you to be able to share that with your mom at that age. You mentioned not knowing that this was even abuse or that it was wrong? Was that throughout the duration at the later ages 10^ as well? Do you think that, had ur mother equipped you with at least some age appropriate knowledge of what inappropriate touching was, by who,and that it’s abuse, would have helped you to recognize your abuse for what it was?….possibly earlier? You also mention that once this all came to light you experienced fear in that potential uprooting of your life as you had known it and that losing that person you were closest to was the worst part(and I’ve heard similar accounts from other survivors)how exactly would you suggest to go about that as to cause the child least amount of trauma.(besides pausing)….Thank you very much for sharing your story with us all I know it took an incredible amount courage, strength and a lot of selfwork.

ME TOO. 👉😡

Its controversial and not my own opinion but consider when a girl reaches child bearing age. What 12/13? Now consider pornography, its shaven clean (child like). Why adults are attracted to babies. Goodness knows. I can only imagine its related to innocence, vulnerability

You hit the nail on the head. With me it started at 2. With my sister she was 13. So massive massive perspective and experience difference.

Thank you Flora. That was the point. I'm very pleased you picked up on that. That's so crucially important here to understand that they GENUINELY do not see fault in their actions. It's hard to comprehend, but it really is very important to realise that that is truth. As humans we want everyone to think like we do. We want people to know right from wrong in the same way we are raised to. But the world just doesn't work like that and we need to SEE that and work with that truth.

⁠@@lucywitts17708 This is the key component . These felons lack empathy and remorse. My heart is with you. He stole your, your sister’s and other females’ childhoods and innocence. He is a predator and there is no doubt that he’s seriously mentally ill. He has sadistic psychopathic traits.

The reason I didn't tell my mother, is because unbeknownst to me, keep in mind I was a whole 2 years old when it started. He had groomed me so that my mum wasn't to be trusted and he was the one who loved and cared for me. He had clearly also groomed my mother and leaned into her own insecurities and difficulties to lead her to believe "I've got this". I can only speak of my memory as I remember it. I can honestly say that there was never a feeling of horror related to my home life. It's also worth mentioning (and not relevant in the film which is why I didn't include it). My family were stanch anti apartheid activists in a very intense secret police environment of a country at war and under the laws of apartheid. Our whole existence was secretive.

​​@@lucywitts17708 so as you were growing and developing in them 10y. of abuse you never realised it's wrong weird sick or twisted? Not even once?When you were 12y.old for instance still had no clue what you do with your dad is disgustingly wrong?You didn't figure out from wider family relatives neighbours school TV cinema books friends etc.etc.that it's abuse and incest that's taboo that's dirty secret that's hidden that something wasn't right there?I get the grooming part i really do but let's be practical you never heard a single child or school mate talking about it or cuddling and fondling with their dads the way you do anywhere not in public places birthday parties gatherings never saw your own sister doing it no teacher taught that your mum never taught you that i mean HOW not knowing it's wrong in 10 bloody years?And please don't mix political regimes with pedophilia Dragan is also coming from brutal communist Serbian Yugoslavian regime with even more brutal secret services which ended with bloodbaths wars in the 90es he's just a monster now locked up and you are the victim which sorry to say dwells in the realm of Stockholm syndrome

He probably has more victims.

The only thing I can say is that we all have our own experiences. I am sorry that yours felt so horrific through your early childhood. For me the horror only hit when I learned that my whole childhood had been a lie and that my perception of love was so skewed and the shame of what had happened. He was NEVER violent or forceful. He never physically hurt me. How was I to know as such a young child that I was being manipulated. But I worked extremely hard for 20 years plus to do the work. Days worth of hours with therapists, self help books, talking and trying to understand. It took me a LONG time to realise it wasn't about me and that I could let it go. The freedom that has afforded me has been a lifesaver. Literally. I do hope you find that freedom some day.

Honestly same! But up until I was about 5 when it moved from molestation or as he called them "games" I didn't grasp that what was going on was bad or wrong and thought it was funny games, my grandad had molested me since I was a toddler, but when he moved that up to rape when I was 5 years old that's when it changed fast. I remember being in pain constantly and holding my urine, my bladder is still ridiculously strong and I can forget I need the toilet easily because of all the time I spent holding it in as a kid, either because it was sore or because I was at his and didn't want to even risk having that part of me exposed. I did eventually end up saying something to someone when I was around 8 because I couldn't take it anymore or hide it. He was a complete psycho who genuinely thought what he was doing was ok and even slightly funny, he was charged but only served 2 years... Britain has always been lax with its sentences for pedos especially back then. When released he would still send me cards for Christmas up until his death when I was 14 signed "uncle fester" which is a term for child molester here 🤢 like he thought it was funny... Many years later it eventually came out that he had abused his own sisters, daughters then moved on to his grandkids, a true pedophilic monster since he was in his early teens, and he got away with it for 50 years until me. It was my dads dad, he was completely unaware of what his sisters went through because they never told anyone but their mother who was married to him, she actually told them to deal with it and not to tell anyone aswell! Gross evil woman was just as bad as him, she even went right back to living with him when he was released from prison after my case, confirming she was fine being with a pedophile who had harmed her kids and grandkids. If I'd ever seen him face to face as an adult I don't think I could of stopped myself murdering him tbh. I do feel this lady may have developed abit of a trauma bond with this man or they were molested in a way that they didn't click it was bad? I'm unsure, I would like to ask her what her behaviour was like around other adults or even other kids when she was being molested for all that time, mainly because I acted very sexual way too early and it leaked into alot of areas of my life like with friends or at school or with other relatives, which were red flags for any adult that saw it. I was also a selective mute for a few years as I was so traumatised by it all plus the court case and the examination I had to have as he plead not guilty.

Instead he gets to sit in a 6 x 9 concrete box for 92 years. I win...

I appreciate your opinion. Thank you. However... this video was collaborated with highly educated specialists in the field - whom Im sure - if it was irrellevant and 'damaging' would not have participated. I did what was within my means to ensure he spoke his full truth. Do you think being confronting would have encouraged that and ensured a full conviction suiting his crimes?

How would making him feel like a monster get him to speak his full truth so that we could actually get a conviction. Do you honestly think that me going in there on the front foot in attack mode would have had any benefit whatsoever to the 4 girls under 10 fighting him in court at that time? I did what I felt I had to do to achieve what needed to be achieved. I won. So evidently it worked.

I think it speaks to how she was raised… makes sense why this documentary came out this way.

He got 92 years because the girls who did go to court used my 8 hours of interview footage as evidence. He will serve 35 years.

she did this documentary to get him convicted, read the info.

@@likklewicked doesn't answer my question.

@@jasonsmith3408 she was faking being kind so he would be entirely honest, read her comments. This allowed her to get a conviction.

@@likklewicked she hugged him at the end after she had all the evidence she needed so that still doesn't answer my question.

@@jasonsmith3408 ok i missed that, i would have dropped kicked him at that stage personally. I can not say anything regards to the man who raped me as a child but i know with my dad, who went to prison for violence against us that I forgave him 15 yrs later not for him but for peace within myself. It was a very heavy burden carry this hate and fear i had around for half my life.

Your thoughts and feelings are 100% valid. This said each survivor needs to go through the healing process in their own way. Lucy is a very analytical person. This is how she processes. She’s dealing with healing herself not him. She wants answers. I believe she spoke in a neutral manner to get him to feel free to answer truthfully. You can see in his manner how he groomed(s) and self-justifies. He’s an incredibly manipulative and mentally sick person. She does challenge him when she speaks of her sister. It’s too bad the video is not viewed by law enforcement and they go after him. Possibly the video affects you, causing a reaction, an area where you are still in pain and need to heal. Wishing you all the best on your journey of healing and self-discovery. ❤

@@Morningstar2216 Nailed it in one! And just to confirm, the 8 hours of interview footage supported other victim's claim within their statute of limitations got him a 92 year sentence in total. He will serve 35. He is incarcerated in the very town I tracked him down after 30 years. What kind of conversation if you dont allow space for all opinions to be aired.

​@@lucywitts17708I can grasp why you did this, for yourself and those other little girls, to ensure his imprisonment, I just couldn't imagine if I couldve done this as an adult to my abuser as he was charged in my case and yet he actually got out of jail within 2 years... That just compounded how much anger I held towards him, because I had to stand up in court video and be examined all just for him to get out while I was still a minor, Britain is not great with pedophile sentences and back in the 90s they were even worse sadly. He did die when I was 14 so I never got the chance as an adult to even shout at him. The amount of self control you must've had to do this surely was immense. I hope you have healed somewhat from everything 💜