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How do you reconcile avoiding comfort and being your authentic self ???

You are right !

short yet conveys a strong message. Our ego will always do everything (unconsciously) to defend and keep our existence safe. It creates a distance between our conscious mind and our insecurities. Those are linked to oppressed memories, negative emotions and bad behaviors. Our self-image is so precious and even fragile to our own brain, hence the tendency to act on the surface level as a survival mechanism.

Keep on doing it mate. Excellent

Great video & great timing thanks! 🙏🏾

Well, I truly understand as that if you are authentic and real to yourself, confidence just is an inherit consequence of yourself. Body language really just follows what you observe of yourself, as a way that it solidates what is acknowledged of yourself, by the way that you are living.

Understood, you have a point. But ALSO consider the antithesis of what you're saying. Why should we comply with authentic body-language of someone who is... gaslighted, or unduly persecuted, (thereby participating in that abuse) or unappreciated despite the good we are? Why not let yourself present yourself for the good you really are. Why comply with letting society/other people convince you that you're something you're not. ...and what if you genuinely honestly love someone, but are shy or culturally reserved about letting it show -- one's body language betrays one's true emotions and prevents a potential relationship, so you're scamming yourself...and her too. Realizing and fixing errors in what your body language seems to project makes it worth paying SOME attention. My biggest beef is when people try to rely on interpreting body language and get it wrong anyways. Way too many factors involved...other issues, pressing urgent issues not related to the present moment, busy-ness, work-load, time pressures, discouraging words from enemies or from jealous observers, tiredness levels for any reason -- not enough sleep, vitamin deficiencies, and the dynamics of interpreting (or being ignorant of) each other's body language. The study of body language really does need to be taken with a big grain of salt. Like you said, being the best you are and authentically letting it show.

why is your hair down in the thumbnail but tied up the entire video?

nuh uh

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Giving a tempered reaction is almost as bad as giving a negative reaction, because it is a signal to the other person that you do not want to give a lot of energy. In some situations, it's going to make people wary of your purpose being there. You're going to come across as if you're there looking for something that the other person won't be able to provide. Engaging in the energy of others is the strongest way to show them that you're in the room / environment with them, not observing them like an alien thing.

I wholeheartedly support this video, as people put on masks just because they think they are weirdos when in reality they are a lot more normal and loveable. As a result, they kill their own personalities, and socializing only makes them more tired and lonely. In life, most of the time you will be in the presence of someone else, and if you constantly mask your personality, that would eventually lead to burnout. Just be yourself and don't overdo anything; you got one life; you should enjoy it.

I love your videos brother!!! Please keep doing the good work

I have experianced the same. And I am hermit till now..and I love it:)))

I love this. I do bet if I had a "birds-eye-view" of myself during a normal day that I'd look way more stiff than I believe myself to be, and that makes me realize I can loosen up perhaps even a LOT more :) Thanks

Amazing

True! Thanks

Great. I have always been like this. Pretty normal in the beginning but as time goes by I get more & more relaxed & charismatic. I think this is the most authentic & natural way of doing it.

Amazing! Love it! And I love your accent it's beautiful!

As someone who is 45, came from nothing and became successful in my health, career, and relationships, I feel sorry for how life turned out for modern society. But people like you are doing a great job for younger generations, who are now suffering due to the overuse of technology.

"Hi! I just came across your channel, and I love how you're sharing your passion in such a creative and engaging way! Supporting new creators and seeing them bring their unique journeys to life is something I'm truly passionate about. It's so inspiring to see you starting out-keep up the amazing work! I’m excited to follow your journey! 😊✨

thank you for inspiring😊🙏💖

Love your work man, it's really helping me. What I've been struggling with is when I talk to new people I dissociate. That results in me not even remembering the interaction clearly and forgetting a lot of info about the interaction and what is the worst in my opinion - I lose control, I feel like I'm on autopilot and that means that I cannot apply any of these advices. I cannot even think! My brain just shuts off and puts me in survival mode. If haven't already made a video about this kind of thing I would appreciate if you could give some advice or you know reply something if you know how to approach this. Much thanks!

Ah! THAT is the missing point! Wisdom has 3 legs, because it cannot wobble even if legs are different sizes. The other 2 legs are combination of "Burning Desire" and "Detachment From Outcome" Alex you explained the 3rd leg perfectly, and that makes THE Trifecta ! ♥

h! Authenticity is key. Been working on this with Habit10x and it's been a game-changer!

I've been the King, I've been the clown. Now, broken wings can't hold me down, I'm free again. ~ Ozzy (1981)

Congrulations for the video! I identified a lot with the quest to become more charismatic, but this was very wise and assertive. I have been following your channel and high quality content. I am very grateful, you have helped me a lot, I wish you all the best. I hope it never stops, as it is very wise and accurate content. Maybe someday I will share videos on UA-cam. How do you feel about making your thoughts public? how you deal with the exposure of your image? A hug from Brazil🟩🟨

love your videos man great content!

Western individualism at its peak. Life is short guys. Live a little...

Reading some of the other laws fell flat for me. Maybe because they’re not applicable to my current life circumstance. But this law and the law about being bold have been the most valuable for me. I’ve noticed some attraction coming my way, partly because I’ve improved myself physically, but also because of how I’ve been carrying myself.

Pro tip: if you stink you should prob do something about that..

thank you for this video, I will try this

Awesome video, couldn't agree more. Interestingly enough, I came to this exact conclusion myself, it's even part of my personal credo.

Thank you for mentioning the importance of emotions and passion. I believe we could really start making a difference in a lot of situations if we were more willing to let our humanity feel and express itself in authenticity instead of focusing only on our ideas of ourselves or on our ego.

great video as always, do you happen to have instagram?

It's actually so true, as you were saying you shouldn' t make jokes for others. I immediately knew the answer you. Thx for reminding me bro.

Wow what a watch, I expected the vid to have millions of views when I zoomed out. Such a great video keep it up!

Learning how to build up to dark humour is really good if that’s what you find funny. Telling a story and with an obvious ending just to say some crazy thing at the end is a good example.

Can relate so much!!

Love your videos. Always get something from them! Thank you!

I'm so grateful for your channel, thank you!

Love it!

you are wrapping your wisdom in human terms. Much better than these non-dual speakers talking about "there is nobody"

Wow I really liked how you said that you should make jokes for yourself it really changed my perspective. At the end of the day its for yourself.

Good looks = funny. Moderate looks = Jestermax Bad looks = unfunny

I think most comedians have a funny look......facial expressions... looks like you pull that off pretty good but some people just want to look to normal

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Good point!

Thank you for popping up in my feed. Such an amazing advice from such an amazing person😊