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GOIN ON #65-Yrs NEVER BEEN MARRIED COME CLOSE ONCE BUT GLAD I NEVER DID I NEVER TRIED TOO CHANGE SOMEONE BUT SEEMS LIKE AFTER DATING & BEING WITH SOMEONE AFTER #2-Yrs & YOU DON'T MARRY THE WOMAN THAN SHE'S OUT LOOKING FOR SOMETHING OR SOMEONE ELSE THAT'LL PUT THE RING ON THAT FINGER & FOOT THERE BILL UNTIL SHE GETS BORED & DECIDES & WAKES-UP ONE DAY & SAY'S...OH BY THE WAY I DON'T LUV OR WANT YOU NOOOO MORE & SHES ALLREADY OUT & ABOUT DATING.... F*CKING SOMEONE ELSE, WOMAN ARE ALL LIKE MONKEYS THEY'RE ALWAYS CLINGING ONTO TO ONE TREES BRANCH THEY'VE BEEN HANGING OUT & NESTING IN FOR THE LAST COUPLE YEARS WHILE REACHING OUT TO THE NEXT TREE BRANCH TOO CLIMB ON TOOOO....WHY WOULD ANY SANE MAN OR HUMAN BEING SIGN A LEGAL DOCUMENT SAYING THAT IF & WHEN SHE GETS BORED & SHE DECIDES TO LEAVE SHE GETS HALF OR MORE OF YOUR RETIREMENT FUNDS THE HOUSE THE KIDS IF ANY...THE CARS FURNITURE & IN SOME STATES ALIMONY UNTIL SHE HOOKS UP WITH THE NEXT SUCKER SHE LIES TOO TO GET HIM TO PUT THAT RING ON HER FINGER...NEVER MARRY A WOMAN LIVE WITH THEM AS LONG AS YOU CAN & WHEN THEY START ACTING UP PLAYING HEAD GAMES & THEY START LIEING & YOU FIND'EM SCREWING AROUND ON YOU THEN ITS TIME TO GET RIDD OF EM & JUST MOVE ON.... IF YOU CANT TRUST EM GET RIDD OF EM PERIOD.!!!!😮😮😮😮

Sometimes it feels as if Life is duality, death is non duality. Such as if we obsess with what is not the nature of nature. The flow only exists because there are separate origin and destiny. Although the flow is not either one. At some point you will no longer be someone but no one and every one at the same time

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I believe you are right. There's an external and internal world 🌎. People see what's on the outside so we try to dress that up with all the trapping that we or people perceive as signs of success. I define success for me as the enjoyment of the passage of time. So I don't have to worry about what others perceive, only me. The right people will come if that is what you want. Nameste.

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Living between the extremes and one can gnow what to ignore.

Hello beloved soul. Your videos are like a haven of peacefulness and solace in a world that seems to get worse which every passing day. Thank you for your words ♥

Wise words from a wise lady, I can feel it ❤🤗 Love and well wishes from South Africa, Kenneth and Michelle 🌸🌹❤🤗

I totally agree.

Ayyo I'll spend time with you tho.

*Neither the human species nor its EVIL spirit is "LIFE The Real Self", which is an Offspring and Child of "The LIGHT", "The LIFE of GOD" !*

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Living breath of God is in each one of us. No such thing of being alone and it is a delusion to think so.

Thanks for the video. I'm wading through the marsh I guess as it was. Things have been foggy and shrouded. I've enjoyed my time, but wonder what else? Which way to go, as all paths lead somewhere, but is that where I want to be? Crossroads. I certainly see.

You aren't "meant" to do anything... It is a mistake to ascribe intentionality to the universe, intentions are only relative to some goal you have and not to some token of the totality of everything. So eat drink and be merry, for tomorrow we die.

Aroooo! There's my call back 😆

Are we Lone wolves or scared and really good at pushing people away?

my zen teacher calls it enlivenment rather then enlightenment. thanks for this

Nothing wrong with solitary life, in fact it's amazing, and if you can share it with another loner, you won, you really did.

I was a lone wolf for most of my life, but i got thrown a curve ball and met my wife at 40 years old. We are now married and going to have our first child and im now 44, she is my best and only friend, and i love her

Make America Zen Again

Gratitude ❤

Hi. Joel here. Always been alone since I was 3. My father took his life at that age. Since then I always called myself a lone wolf with other reasons. Now being 48. I find myself alone more then ever. Many have passed, many have forgotten about me. That's ok. Because iam fine being alone.

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I've always felt like I can only truely relax alone and that it's my natural "state" where I always want to return to after any social "performance"... I do enjoy being alone alot. But for some reason, I'm also constantly feeling lonely. 11 years single now, 20 years dealing with social anxiety, anxiety and depression, I'm constantly at odds with myself. Trying to heal, get better.. but what if this is just how I am? Am I wasting my time thinking I need to be able to be social? But everything seems to revolve around that. Partner, job, friends... Constantly fighting with myself about all these topics and it's unbelievably exhausting. So with that said, enjoyed this video that so lightly expresses the world... when my world feels so damn heavy.

There isn’t even a now or present. All thought and emotions just collapse on their own, and eventually everything else that fuels them.

Thanks always a tonic. Your audio on your videos is very low compared to nearly all the videos i watch on UA-cam, you should get a small microphone, they seem to be quite popular with people like yourself that have things to say and not the other channels that are a business of different sorts.

Take no thought. Thanks for sharing!

I look at the mind as the field (magnetic field). It spins and spins with no point. When I need it for something I engage with it and give it a task. Once I am done, I disengage again. You're right, don't try to control it. Just let it be. Namaste.

I like what you had to say about detachment and not needing to control. This deserves a lot more thought by me.

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You American women are so egotistical

This Lone Wolf is of a clan worth checking on every now & then. Yes, no guidance or control required. Model Appropriate Behavior.

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💩who cares 😂 your just fake and nobody can stand to be around you. Truth …

Beautiful message. Just found your channel today and I’m def a fan already. Thank you ❤

Be a long wolf is super ok if you enjoy it

Been single 17 years. Independent, free and evolving myself past what I ever thought possible.

I wish you elaborated on why you are a lone wolf. It seems to me in three of these types of blogs lamenting lonliness and failure, or in your case, openly inviting the loner lifestyle: there is this total lack of personal info to base our comments towards. So, no comment.

We're perfectly flawed beings living a temporary existence as humans. Still Spiritual beings. Finding and living our truth; feeling somewhat less flawed is a great feeling. Thank God.

I used to drink a lot. I experienced two concussions fourteen weeks apart. It took two years for a lot of the recovery to start. The only thing that had any effect on the pain was alcohol; during the worst of it. When I felt I was starting to get better is when I realized I needed to do anything and everything to improve my situation. One was giving up alcohol. I thought I would miss it. The truth is, I didn't miss it at all. It was a part of my physical, mental, and Spiritual journey following. There was more than just giving up alcohol with my journey, but I couldn't have come so far without putting it down. I've come farther than I thought possible and have zero desire to go backwards.

7:53 - This is a state of No Ego - I believe

Perhaps a good visual representation of what you're speaking about (in the earlier part of the video) would be found through the 'caged' buddhas, enclosed in bell-shaped stupas at the Borobudur temple on the island of Java. 72 buddhas sit in meditative repose within their 'cages' on the temple's grounds as a representation (among other things) of transcending the limitations of the physical realm and all of its distractions by going within. You know..the way out is within. When I visited the grounds many years ago, just looking at the statues in contemplative reverie would put me into that state as well. I think people might try something as simple as viewing images (probably some ytube vlogs of Borobudur) of them online and just studying them with varying degrees of focus and see if you can induce a more meditative state. It seems to still work for me. I suppose it's because the imagery is so archetypal, having had dreams where I was inside a similar 'caged' structure (partially under the ground level but most of the structure was above ground). I believe the relevance of the above and below ground aspect to the meditative 'cage' was multifaceted, but one aspect I always gravitated towards was how the natural light filtered through the interlaced hemispheric 'wall' material, casting patterns further down than the light would have cast had the bottom not been dug into the earth by 4 - 6'. Being dug down imparted a more multidimensional aspect to the space as well as to simultaneously enhance the womb-like feel. It expanded and contracted the space at once, so to speak..to my mind emulating when I had entered an effective meditative state (as I recall the experience from childhood before I knew it was called meditation). Writing this down helped me go back into the experience and remember a few more details I had thought forgotten.

We grow in stages .. we begin by healing trauma our realisation of spirit starts at trust .. trust is the polar opposite of fear , both will lead in its direction . Fear to trauma & control , Trust to respect & love . Eating 1 meal a day has led me to treat food as a beautiful moment , each bite a lovers kiss , a beautiful moment I get to live everyday . There are no walls when we live in flow ( synchronicity ) Grief is the ability to heal trauma

The struggle is growth . After the struggle , realisation occurs , our consciousness has expanded . Humanity as whole is currently struggling , it is growth . If we accept , then control is no longer part of being . Body / Mind / Spirit ( human being ) , all are equally important . Trust is the key to being in the flow of the uni-verse , the choir that is life on this plain . Males will seek spirituality in the external , Females will seek it internally .. both sexes need to blend the internal & external to find their true potential . Isn’t it interesting we use the words character , play , observer , role & story to understand our circumstance’s .. all these words relate to the stage .. are we playing our characters on the great stage we call a lifetime ? ❤️🙏🕊️

Difference between realising enlightenment and being enlightened is just the perception of your ego . Imagine a rainbow in a void .. now picture the earth in that same void . The Disney movie Soul , is beautiful .

Well going forward it looks as if I'm probably going to end up alone wolf I used to be and then I got bit by the love bug back when I was 36 and got married was married for 3 years I thought that we had a relatively happy time oh sure there was some things to iron out but one way or the other one thing led to another and she left me 8 weeks ago so you can only imagine I'm doing a lot of searching I'm trying to figure out what direction to go... Well I really don't know where to look for women even just the hookup types if I wanted to simply because everything online is basically geared towards picking a man's pocket and then the bar is no answer because almost no one goes to the damn bar anymore The older women aren't really an answer given that I'm almost 40 but on top of that there is a situation to where they're all at home on Facebook bitching about the young people so basically no one is out and to try and talk to them in a gas station or something I mean that's just completely awkward these days so that's not really an option. So basically I'm pretty much on the verge of suiting up and I will be flying solo yet again maybe at some point there could be a little action on the side everybody needs some to a degree but there again I'm not certain how that's going to really come about if it ever does. I think it's going to take me a little while to get back into the concept of being alone because I'm still I guess in the breakup phase I'm still dealing with that I mean you do more in the loss of a marriage especially if you actually loved the person I mean I'm human damn it I have love to give I just feel like nobody wants it I just kind of really do feel like a complete fucking waste I question everyday why the hell am I here why do I have these body parts and all of the emotions that go with them if I'm never going to be able to use them if I'm never going to be able to have sex again if I've never going to be able to just cook a nice meal for a woman and have a pleasant evening why the hell am I here? What purpose could I possibly serve I mean I understand the lonewolf thing and like I said I used to be in that crowd and I suppose at some point I'm probably going to get back into it but there is a part of me that if I can help it no I don't want to be alone of course I believe that a lot of the lone wolfs don't really want to be alone it's just simply well you can't really trust a lot of people if anyone at all anymore and then of course I guess to examine marriage well it boils down to a shitty contract that let's face it men usually get the short end of the stick on it if it goes wrong. But then of course it doesn't help that in a lot of cases we have those around us that can point out every little fault that we have and that that's yet another potential reason why she left or why the girlfriend broke up or whatever happened right coupled with a fact that then these people also present all kinds of pressure that you should immediately get back in the game... Personally I blame the fucking '90s I grew up during the '90s and I can certainly say that there was all this extra special emphasis on socializing fuck that shit I didn't particularly care for it then I mean I guess I was always outgoing but frankly I related to older people more than I did my own age group so one could imagine I was not necessarily comfortable in school that said yes I did have some friends but I think they were only friends for the time being as I had predicted eons ago I would never meet any of those people ever again and frankly I only bumped into one of my old friends when I was 18 and the second time that happened was earlier this year that I bumped into another old friend from school other than that there's been absolutely no contact with anybody and yet we all live in the same general area. I just don't understand what is the point of all of the shit if at the end of the day there's so many of us that are basically forced out that we always find ourselves on the outside looking in and you have no choice but to embrace it and say all right fuck it I'll just focus on buying a shit ton of toys and you know fixing up old trucks or something. But it still bleak, I'm in if I'm honest at the time of this comment no I don't really want to be alone for the rest of my life I don't want to be on the outside looking in because I feel that that's the experience I had ever since I was a kid to be honest it's like the only time I really got to hang out over at the beer party or whatnot was because perhaps I was some form of entertainment granted most of the people I grew up with was four to six years older than me yeah I spent a fair amount of time being the butt of the joke but I always justified hanging out because well shit at least I got some beer at least I don't have to wonder what the party was like I know because I was there The only other alternative was to basically go home and sit there so in many respects I guess I was the auxiliary friend people would only bother to talk to me or call me up I guess in other words they would only approach me when everyone else was occupied I remember at the age of 13 or 14 I had coined the term auxiliary friend and it's funny because I saw somebody last week here on UA-cam use that term. And of course the love life I mean to be honest it hasn't really been any different oh I was excited at the sex I had when I was 18 and through my twenties but I must admit I was usually a milf's boy toy couldn't really get a girl my age every time I attempted some older fucker come in and grabbed her up because I guess she was a little on the hoe side. I remember one incident in particular there was a nice girl that worked at the local gas station and I was a frequent customer and I got to chatting her up One day I'm in there chatting her up going to score her phone number and one of my quote unquote friends came in saw that I was chatting her up etc I still got her phone number but I couldn't ever really get a hold of her and then I found out why and it was because that supposed friend picked her up he fucked her That's what that motherfucker always did oh I was so pissed off at him I always get skunked I don't understand are some of us here is examples of what not to do or be and that's our only purpose are some of us just here to set things up for other people so they could come in and take what we thought we were going to get? Fast forward to 2021 here I thought I found my life partner but of course economics I guess dictate that if you don't have a certain amount of things etc eventually they believe you again I got the short end of the stick of course it's kind of hard to complain about it because everybody's usually too apt to talk about how it's whining nobody ever wants to consider that any of us in this predicament or extremely pissed off and are basically a powder keg waiting to blow up we've just fucking had it up to here with everything. We've been left out we've always been left out I remember this one time My dad worked as a custodian at a local church until he could get a better job he found these aluminum bats they said that he could have them he brought them home he gave them to me I put them in my grandmother's garage cuz that's the place in the countryside I would have used them within their ways a family gathering of sorts complete with aunts uncles and cousins this baseball game formed randomly I go to take a place in the game and find out that I'm excluded yet they're using my bats and here I am basically seven or eight years old oh I was very upset and I was very angry and then I got yelled at by one of my uncles for being upset and angry it's like they're allowed to do all this shit gaslight the fuck out of me marginalize my ass minimize me and I'm not supposed to have a reaction that all the sudden I'm the asshole? you have never forgotten that and I'll tell you what ever since wife left and or ever since I kind of sensed that something was wrong for whatever reason that's been playing over and over in my head in the past several weeks it's just one of the greatest examples of being basically left out and technically shit on the more I examine my stupid little existence the more I realized that that's always happened maybe I'm just not emotionally fit to be in a relationship perhaps I fall too hard for the other person perhaps I always think my ship has come in but hey I'm just a guy with love to give and I want to give it I'm sure I have a few faults probably a couple of short comings who doesn't no one's perfect but it seems as if everybody only believes in that shit when it comes to themselves. Or they only say those things technically when they have theirs when they got theirs and they're riding the wave and they feel like they're on top of the world then they break out all of that inspirational crap but otherwise if you go and quote it such as I just did then everybody's going to sit there and throw it in face you know supposed to talk about that stuff particularly in the context that I mentioned it in. So basically I'm just tired of getting screwed over I don't really want to use anybody I certainly don't want to be a bad guy but I could say that I guess if anything I'm more interested and a fuck buddy and yeah it would have to be mutual I wouldn't lead people on into a relationship if I didn't want one.

I'm a lonely person for all my life... but I wonder why you. You're a beautiful, radiant young woman. I'm divorced, 60, waiting to retire and go on ... alone... I'm a wolf ...

Lady, I feel your pain. You are craving for good company… men can be alone, but women are more social. I am alone, I would like to find a good, intelligent woman. Problem is, women are too demanding and controlling. Like Otis Redding says, I will remain the same..

The beauty of a river is not only in its cascades and falls, but also in its quiet pools. I had years of cascades and rapids and the adventure of having a spouse and raising four children. Now I have deep pools filled with the different excitement of constantly growing God awareness. Paraphrasing Krishna in the Gita: "On this path (the path to God) not the least good is ever lost but compounds into eternity." I have learned the deeper we go into solitude the more we become connected to everything. Your post touched me. Thanks!