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Another great video! This is something i definitely needed to watch since I tend to have to walk on eggshells with my gf. Especially due to the emotional disregulaion.

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This is really good, Yi! My Chinese New Year resolution is to listen to you more!😊

Happy Chinese New Year to you! Xie xie Yi, for taking the time to do another video pertaining to what I suggested. I very much appreciate it and it as quite informative to me. I saved it.

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Thank you once again for a helpful video! I certainly can be co-dependent with my adhd gf and I’m trying to get better at it. Do you have any videos/could you do one on hyperfocus in the beginning of a relationship with an ADHd partner? In the beginning of mine, I was the center of attention for her non stop and since it’s an ldr, we’d spend hours on the phone/vid chat. Now after a couple of years (and we’ve met numerous times with a future together), I feel like that I’m just an after thought and I’m no longer the dopamine hit I once was for her. This also goes for intimacy issues as well. I now feel unwanted even though we do talk but not as much, there’s no playfulness, etc. Thank you.

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Thank you for doing this video per my comments I had with you last week. This really helped me understand things. The parent-child dynamic for the adhd partner and non adhd partner can be taxing. Sometimes due to their time blindness. With my adhd partner, she also has quiet borderline personality disorder, which upon my research, can coincide with ADHD (and have similiar symptoms). This can make things more difficult with the relationship sometimes. I know however that both these mental health issue slides t define my gf. She’s amazing and I love her so much.

Thank you for this live. It was quite helpful in considering my gf has ADHD. I do tend to be a “fixer” for her which can be overwhelming for me. I sometimes try my best not to be one (which can be difficult as I have very high empathy). With that said however, she now has to deal with chronic pancreatitis also. That in turn makes me realise I have to help her.

Great video!

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I never cheated physically, but I went out seeking talks with other women. it's after this honeymoon fase, but also when I've been called on multiple times because I was calmy pulling away. I really hate it! It's so so so bad for our relationship, trust and the overall transparency. I did hurt my partner a lot for this. I did this once, but after this first time, I had other things to seek thrills, you talked about this teenager thing, well yes, actually when you said that, I was flabbergasted :o it made "me" ruin our relationship, but on the other part there was some toxic stuff always coming up from my partner too

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Tbh as ADHD i cant cheat. Bcs of my emotion. I love the person. I ll think about to do it. But in fact when things come my brain think about my love and so i stop bcs i think about all about i ll lose and made bad behavior

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This is a very well structured and straight forward video. It is very informative and easy to understand, thank you!

Thank you for this discussion. I was thinking about this very topic earlier as my ADHD gf hardly follows through with what she said she’ll do for me.

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Seems like a high fee, where does the money go ?

Interested!

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I’ve been struggling with a break up for several months now, and yours is the first video I’ve ever seen talking about a combination of avoidant attachment and ADHD in a person. My ex-partner was most certainly fitting into the category, unfortunately. It’s heartbreaking.

That’s great news!

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Hi Yi! It’s Melissa Forrest-Garcia, LMFT 👍🏽

@TheLlamaKid Redid this with the help of my kids. How's the audio this time?

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Great insights!

Good lessons

Im def dismissive avoidant. Just realized i might also have adhd.... And try to work out my issues i go back to my resentment and even hatred for my father and disgust/irritation of my mother.... Now married for 13 years and struggled so much... I could mustard any respect for my husband. Yes i was put in slow classes and was told i would make it in high school let alone graduate college.... I did both. I struggle to imposter syndrome so bad ...

Very good video. Thank you for this.

Thank you for this informative vid. It was kind of hard to hear you. Could you use a little mic so you can sound louder? Thank you.

Thank you for sharing

I am that partner with ADHD. 😮. Thank you for your video

I appreciate you so much. I've been married almost 7 years. We've gone through all of these dynamics and I'm only just now being diagnosed with ADHD within the last month. You're videos have helped me to identify my areas of weakness and help me to take further accountability for my actions. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Hi thank you for providing insights of the adhd partner during conflict. My adhd partner and I recently had a disagreement because I have tried to communicate with him that I feel neglected He has a child with from his last relationship and he admitted to his struggle with letting go of the guilt from the separation. He is quick to go into defensive mode and shuts down whenever I try to address my frustrations of feeling like an afterthought like my needs don’t matter It would be great if you could provide ideas on how to approach these types of situations

so it's the dopamine!

This is 100% accurate. You are the only one I've seen who has talked about this possibility. I was diagnosed with ADHD at 33 and I have these exact emotional struggles and I always have trouble putting my finger on the cause. I recently learned about attachment theory and am sure I am a "dismissive avoidant" type because the same issues people like me experience are synonomous with that type of attachment style. However, it NEVER occured to me until this video that the symptoms and behavior I am attributing to my attachment style may just be as a result of my ADHD? I wonder if there is any data around attachment theory and ADHD and if ADHD can just predispose a person to a Dismissive Avoidant attachment style regardless of the dynamics of their upbringing??

Great video!

Thank you!! I really needed this

Very useful, thank you Yi! Great series, keepi t coming 👌

What about secure attachment and insecure attachment disorder?

Keep up the good work Yi! Greetings Francesco

I love the idea of focus on self when you notice the frustration but how do the dishes get done? how do the kids get picked up? I have tried to do this with the dishes and I noticed that what I need in the moment is for the dishes to be done and I don't want to remind him so I go ahead and start to do them. Then he comes in exasperated saying he was going to do it and I can tell he feels bad that he put it off..

What a helpful illustration of the main types of counseling for couples 🙏🏼

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