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Nexus NI
United Kingdom
Приєднався 13 чер 2013
Nexus is the leading organisation within Northern Ireland supporting individuals impacted by sexual abuse and abusive relationships.
Nexus marks its 40th Anniversary of providing services in Northern Ireland
Nexus CEO Joanne Barnes reflects on our work and impact across the past 40 years and looks to the future.
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Відео
Sextortion scam target talks about experience to help others
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We spoke to a young man who was targeted by scammers who attempted to blackmail him into giving them £3,000 not to release his explicit pictures speaks about his experience.
James is Dead
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Would you blame a murder victim for the actions of the person who killed them? No? Then why do we victim-blame when it comes to sexual crimes.
Consent is Tea
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Understanding consent can be as easy as making a cup of tea!
Guide to safe relationships
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We are pleased to introduce our new video on Healthy Vs Unhealthy relationships. With thanks to Antrim and Newtownabbey PCSP we are able to deliver domestic & sexual abuse workshops to primary and secondary schools across their area.
Nexus CEO discusses proposed sexual offences changes in the Republic of Ireland (Trigger Warning)
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Nexus CEO Joanne Barnes spoke to Good Morning Ulster regarding the agreed changes to sexual offences law in the Republic of Ireland. Watch her contribution.
Earliest Memory RSE 2
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Please see a video clip made with RelateNI regarding Relationship and Sex Education. We have education workshops available. This can be found via our website on nexusni.org/education-training
Myths about sex and intimacy RSE
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Please see a video clip made with RelateNI regarding Relationship and Sex Education. We have education workshops available. This can be found via our website on nexusni.org/education-training
What I Wish I Knew About RSE
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Please see a video clip made with RelateNI regarding Relationship and Sex Education. We have education workshops available. This can be found via our website on nexusni.org/education-training
Earliest Memory of RSE
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Please see a video clip made with RelateNI regarding Relationship and Sex Education. We have education workshops available. This can be found via our website on nexusni.org/education-training
NEXUS CEO discusses Derry/Londonderry Court Case (Trigger Warning)
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Our CEO Joanne Barnes discusses the case in Derry/ Londonderry where a child abuse survivor who waited five years for her abuser to appear in court has said she feels silenced by the criminal justice system.
Introduction to Nexus & The Domestic and Sexual Abuse Helpline
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Introduction to Nexus & The Domestic and Sexual Abuse Helpline
Vote for Nexus! QUB RAG nomination
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Your help with spreading the word and voting for Nexus (if you are a QUB student) is greatly appreciated and will hopefully help us become the QUB RAG charity for 2022/23, breaking the silence on sexual trauma and making a real impact for our work.
Katrina from Nexus takes to the skies
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Have you thought about a skydive? Register for your skydive with Nexus and raise money to support those affected by sexual trauma
Nexus - A little video of bloopers
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A behind the scenes look at creating our educational videos on consent, sexting and healthy relationships. All videos are available to view on our website at www.nexusni.org
Nexus NI counselling through Together For You
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Nexus NI counselling through Together For You
Who exactly is this video aimed at - a pull-along duck? I would assume that anyone entering university, particularly those embarking on a deeper level of study, already understands the basics of consent and right from wrong. This kind of content feels patronising, especially considering that some students are preparing to tackle complex topics like mitochondrial diseases. If you're hoping this will resonate with those who don’t already grasp the concept of consent, it's unrealistic to expect them to watch this and suddenly have an epiphany. Those who would disregard consent will continue to do so, regardless of this baby like approach.
Some sad and twisted people out there. I’m so glad u put ur experience out there to help others going through it. These people don’t care bout the lives they ruin with this, not only the person concerned but the families of these people. Nathan, ur a brave and strong man, keep smiling and let others know if this happens to maybe not fall for it r if they have/do that life will get better ❤
Therefore, t's crucial to recognize the impact of our digital footprints, especially in today's social media landscape where oversharing can feel commonplace among middle schoolers. Let's take a moment to consider the lasting impressions we create through our digital activities and strive to make informed choices when sharing online!
One important aspect to consider is that our digital footprints can have lasting consequences beyond our immediate circles. For example, did you know that according to a survey by CareerBuilder, 70% of employers use social media to screen job candidates? This underscores the significance of thinking critically about the content we share online.
Good way as a parent to "aviod" the uncomfortable conversation, yet get the message loud and clear.
I know that I'm not in the UK but this is still ageist. Anyone should be allowed to consent if they're not, like, a little kid. I know that this is a bit weird of an age to pick, and sounds even a bit hypocritical given that it's ALSO technically an age limit, but you should be 8 or older and know about sex to consent to it.
This is amazing. Hope this gets seen more
im pretty sure i was groomed last night, bc this sounds a lot like what happened to me. he's 5 years older than me (im 15) and he found me through a mental health sub on reddit. blocked him, but holy shit that was not fun at all. he didn't ask for anything, but asked s3xual questions and such, even though im both asexual and a minor
Wow can’t even be safe in a place meant to be for help, that sucks.
@DUTCHE77 yeah, it sucks. Thankfully I'm doing a lot better now, and I've talked about the incident with my therapist. I still get anxious when I get messages from random people, but I usually ignore them
I’ve been groomed twice, I’ve been holding this secret for almost two years. I’m scared if I tell my parents they’ll be upset with me, or maybe even start a case. I don’t know who my groomers are irl.
I never knew what happened to me had a name.. it was going on since I was 10 till I was 17 and my family basically just beat me and told me I was wrong.. but I never knew there was a name for what I went through.. now if it’s time for therapy
I'm watching today because last night, me and my partner may have found out a trusted individual in my online life may have been grooming me/a predator. They have sent countless NSFW images to me and have made dirty jokes abt me correlated with said images. Worst thing, they are in a relationship with one of our really great friends and are a powerful influence in our group, so this puts in an extremely tough position. We are trying to work it out but for now I am doing research to see if our concerns are real. If there is anything you can help w/, advice etc, please do say so.
Uh and don’t allow your kids to add older “family friends” to social media either. Tf wasn’t that talked about? Statistically a stranger is not likely to groom or target/abduct children, but a close family friend, a relative or parent. Did a pedophile create this video to mislead us?
stop grooming is a crime on kids all need safety panty liners not stripped plz innocnet minors plz
THANK YOU.
This older guy is forcing me to be his friend (nothing sexual tho) even tho i told him that am not comfortable with our age gap but he keeps forcing me and am scared this might turn into grooming
That’s still grooming. Please tell a guidance counselor or someone else who you trust.
i’m still trying to figure out if i was groomed but deep down i know i was
I’m struggling with being groomed right now, that’s why I’m here. I hope anyone else struggling with this is doing well.
Please know it's not your fault and take care of yourself <3
I'm here for that too. It hasn't gotten bad yet. He hasn't made me do anything bad, but I'm uncomfortable and know I'm being groomed.
Its not your fault! Here we are 5 years later.. are u okay?❤
what the fuck i was groomed
Even adult people would be groomed by scammers
NO Adult...No Matter What their Profession... NO matter what title they hold... NO Matter What economic Status,... NO Matter What their Culture... NO Matter what race, Creed,, or Color, NO ADULT wheather, they are a Adult Caretaker of children, teacher, parents, aunts, uncles, or anyone else, should have any sexual attraction to children, this is very disturbing to me, Very Strange, Odd, Demented, Sick, Weird, and Outrageous to me. *THERE IS NOTHING about a child, male, or female is attractive sexually, Nothing *Children are children as should be treated as such. *They are NOT mature *They have NO COMPREHENSION of Sex. They have NO COMPREHENSION of Romance *Sex and intimacy is in nature biologically is designed for Adults, NOT CHILDREN. I Cannot Comprehend any Adult thinking of a child a such a inappropriate manner. *This is a previous response I wrote to an article on Child Marriage; I don't understand why anyone would attempt to marry a child, this is unthinkable, children are not capable of Romantic Relationships, they cannot process adult Relationship lifestyles. *They are children and function as children, they are being placed, and forced in adult Relationship situations, and they cannot process nor understand it until they are Adults. *Nothing about a child is capable of handling a Romantic Relationships, Physical Relationships, Mentality handling Adult Relationships, and Lifestyles and financial matters. *A Child cannot understand the Deeper Matters of the Hearts, or Deep involved Love connections etc. *So, it baffles me to think any man would be interested in a relationship with a child. *Why not choose an Adult Woman who is matured in Mind, Body, and Spirit, intelligence...? *I could NEVER be attracted to s child. *(I have NEVER, NEVER BEEN attracted to a child nor teenager male or female) *Children need to be focused on getting their early childhood education, and growing up around other children and playing with other children. *I cannot fathom why a man would be interested in a Child as a Bride,( or any intimate sexual manner whatsoever) *A Child could NEVER appreciate Romance, Poems, Dinning, or a Dinner date etc. Really! marry a child...this makes No sense to me! (I have NEVER, NEVER IN MY LIFE BEEN attracted to a child nor teenager male or female) This is beyond my comprehension.... Author, Advocate for Humanity, Jason Sandifer, Michigan, 11/10/2018, 8/26/2021 10/11/2021
lol. thats exactly what a pedophile would post
We need dead penalty back, that will solve lot of problems, this criminals don't get scared because law is wick and they dont get punished. Next time you vote for a politician look at this not only on the "free money you will receive. Legalizing marihuna benefits them.
I was groomed and I’m against the death penalty. You don’t speak for me.
@@clementines3322 that's true. I'm not talking for you. Even when it looks like you didn't be groomed by real big organism. Those girls are just pets that they used them the most they can and die in a few years. 1. It's not about what as individual person thinks or wants. It's about what works. 2. As society all votes count. 3. When you try to fix the issue, hard penalties works to reduce the problem. Soft penalties is like a joke for criminals. 4. If you understand what justice means, death penalty has to be applied in many times. IT'S NOT JUST AN OPINION.
im struggling a lot with telling my parents about my groomer
Same.
Hey Janelle. This must be so tough, I can't imagine how afraid you may be feeling. Just wanted to remind you that you are not to blame. and you parents will understand that. Your mind may be telling you all the worst case scenarios right now which is normal, especially if your groomer has made you feel afraid, but the absolute best thing you can do is to tell your parents. They are not going to judge you. Yeah it might be tough to be honest, they might be shocked (because they can't imagine a life where you're not safe!), but ultimately they would want to know the truth, so that they can care for you and help you figure out the best steps forward. Im so sorry that you are going through this. But there is help! And you don't have to stay in this awful situation forever. You are brave. And bravery can look like asking for help. And just like they said in this video - don't feel guilty to cut all contact with this person who has hurt you. <3
You too Evan!
all the teen has to do if any one says something they do not like is block them
1. the truama will still be there 2. they most likely have different profiles 3. if the minor trusts them, they wont want to block them
Dude…it’s really hard to do that when you look up to them and trust them the person doesn’t want p to believe that their a groomer and in turn they might blame themselves
When someone manipulates you and makes you trust/believe them you will be hesitant to block them and sometimes you won’t realise it only after it’s too late
Online grooming isnt real
So what is it then?
My traumas gone now,thanks.
ur brain aint real
Just cuz nobody want to groom yo ass lol jk 😂
Me × your mom = canon :D
Holy shit I was groomed
I know, finding out years later is such a weird feeling. I realised I was groomed when I was 10 by a 16 year old and I only figured this out a few months ago. I hope things are okay and you’re doing amazing :( <3
Yeah same
stop further kids anuse nspcc
Am i the only one who thinks she talks somehow nervous or breathy?😆
I'm deaf🤷🏼♀️
I use to be best friends with a streamer and he was super cool to be honest. He would be nice to me and all that when i was depressed and lonely. But he would later on try to get nsfw pics from me and show me nsfw of himself and i was 15 at the time so i was a minor. I feel so bad interacting and falling for his stupid shit... The dude has a girlfriend i even feel bad for her. And his only reason to get all this shit from me was that his girlfriend never gave him much attention so i of course felt bad. I was so dumb to not realize what the fuck this dude was doing and i hate that he is a pedo cause he was a cool person till he showed that disgusting side of himself.
@Katerina Kaltsounis yeah I' m doing better i just wished they were an actual friend not some pedo. Super sorry you had that happen too though :(
STAY STRONG!
Damn bro I’m so sorry. I was also sexualized at a young age so I understand how that feels. Stay strong my g👊
@MissesPoTAOE I'm so sorry....
wait because i’m in the same situation w a twitch streamer .. he said he was 15 going on 16 but when i saw his face in his videos he looked around 19-20. i would like to give him the benefit of the doubt but i don’t know. honestly to be safe i’ll just block him. also, i am so sorry that happened to you. i hope you’re doing well now and you’re amazing for being so strong through it all. <3
the accent is brutal