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Every month I give her money 500.00 or more, we no longer sleep in the same bed and we have sex once every two years. I’m tired of being a ATM machine

Karma is real😂

If I am going to pay more than 50%, then my women need to cater to me. I don't see the benefit. I can wash some dishes, cook, and clean; that's no big deal, and it doesn't take all day to do as they will say. I don't have kids, so I don't need you to look after them. Women can do it when they are single. Why do we have to take all the burden?

Thanks for the video. This was very helpful. You guys are very down to earth! =)

My partner makes me feel like shit. We moved in together recently. I paid the security deposit and first month’s rent. We promised we would pay half bills, half rent. I’ve ended up paying for literally everything. He’s constantly asking me for money. His “half” of the rent was an old $500 visa gift card he found from MY drawer. He’s only paid $84 out of his pockets.

Budgeting people. Learn it since they don’t teach in school anymore

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I really like this channel. It has been an eye opener for me. Welldone

Thank you

No need to share your income despite being in a relationship. Just discuss things without sharing each other’s income. That is something that should be confidential

No need to share your income despite being in a relationship. Just discuss things without sharing each other’s income. That is something that should be confidential

May this channel grow and have more influence, wisdom and blessing.

Also will the 50/50 work if the woman has two small children that are from a previous relationship? Or should she be paying a bit more for that reason?

What if one of us has a second job because there is a big debt to pay and is working a second shift to pay towards that debt. So therefore he/she is making more than the other. So in that case she/or he should still end up covering more of the rent/ bills as well???

How many procent is acceptable for a woman to pay per month. I we are going to buy a house eventually i would love to invest my money too. So i wanna know what is good for the balance of masculine and feminine energy in the relationship. We also have a house keeper. Ofc we still do things in the house and garden but yeah🙈

i came here right after i broke up with my boyfriend. not only does he borrow money from me but also asked for money from MY friends, 3 of them. I feel embarassed especially since he doesnt even have a close friendship with them and he told them to keep it a secret from me. good riddance.

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If you have debt they have to clear beford marriage...all said and done it will bring in resentment after marriage for sure. ...our money not going to work out if hidden before marriage from either partner whoever debt has to be paid from debt partner period .....people keep.finances separte for IT purposes not bec they dont wsnt to share their earning with partner...

The problem is though, if you as a woman start living with a man on 50/50 agreement as a "start" kind of thing, do not expect him to change this agreement favoring you later on. Most men do not change 50/50 to something else. They get comfortable with paying only their share and that's it. And women on the other hand, will with time fall in love more and grow attachment to this man which will become a reason not to leave him and agree to continue 50/50 with him. Most women hate 50/50 relationship. I haven't met even one that would feel otherwise about it.

50/50 is not for married couple. Men are built physically to work hard, women are for nurturing and caring. Also women hormones changes every month, she's more stressed and emotionally challenging for her, which is not the same for men.

Partner just doesn’t discuss finances with me, is always aware of what I have too, I borrowed £2500 for a holiday she then asked, can I borrow £150 until Tuesday? Tuesday came and went..nothing…then..another £100 to keep me going for a couple of weeks…again..nothing, then her share of the rent, normally put in my bank then I pay it with mine….nothing, so I had to pay it, no discussion, no nothing…what do I do?? This is my partner my gf, my love, and says nothing, and pays nothing back, any advice? Thanks

My gf keep asking for money since day 1 is it normal, I spent almost 130k in 2 years, if don't give she go crazy and will block my phone, she don't want to work, only like enjoy life, fine dining, dress nice to events, holidays and etc, most importantly I felt torture mentally due to her attitude

Love that we found your channel! This topic in our community is so crucial as 50/50 split can really lead to resentment and a legacy of trauma. 😮‍💨We just did a video about this topic on our channel too. We'd love to connect one day 💞

Pool all the income together, then pay bills, pay down debt, then save some and husband/wife can split what’s left. That is more than fair because he likely brings in more money and does outside chores, while she does inside chores.

We doing 50/50 off the back if I’m trying to invest my money and you not talking 50/50 then you don’t deserve anything that I built

Yes, I am in a new relationship, and the guy asked for $100 at first. I sent him my boundary, which is why I don't, and then after that, he asked again, this time $200 for his car payment I told him I never drove your car I never asked for a ride. I don't have a vehicle at all. So why would he even ask me for it. Him and his cousin live together he can ask him. I don't know him well enough at all it's been a month since we been together. Even if I did know him well enough, I am not giving out cash.

Mines asked me to get her a new car. She asked for 5000 and then she said if was still single she would ask her baby daddy and he would give it to her. I work my ass off and save it. I am trying to save for our future.

What in case of divorce if we spend like this ? She is going to claim 50 to 70 prevent

If y'all know yourselves, and you know you both aren't traditional or want to adhere to traditional gender roles, be modern w the relationship via splitting bills and house duties, which tbh can be an ethical means to going about things. Now, in saying all that...umm, yea, most women don't give a shit about rationals or ethics when their emotions are involved. By the looks of the thumbnail for this video (that I'd be willing to bet she made lol), mate she doesn't look too happy about this setup. - Dude in the comments

I need help

Ima say something controversial: back then woman literally had no rights therefore not much options than to marry to stop being a “burden” to her parents bc thanks to “those feminists” now a days she can be anything she wants doctor lawyer CEO have her own car her own house treat herself etc but they STILL CHOOSE to be a stay at home girlfriend/wife bc they are lazy or they want a man to solve all their problems like their dad used to do for them I heard plenty of females say they rather be cooking and cleaning and changing diapers all day than to be working NOT in construction or heavy jobs but your regular 9-5 desk job like those jobs are NOT that hard and they don’t want to stress about bills car payments and mortgage they just want their boyfriend/husband to deal with ALL the responsibility HOW IS THAT FAIR? For me that is like being selfish bc if they do work they want to keep all their money and not chip in a dime while they go get their nails/hair done and go on shopping sprees but the husband NEVER gets to see or enjoy his hard earned money I thought a relationship/marriage was supposed to be mutual (unless of course one of the 2 willingly wants to pay for everything and have all the financial burden) being 100 financial co dependent is such a risk I heard horrible stories where after the honeymoon phase husbands start to humiliate and abuse their power bc he’s the one paying everything so therefore she doesn’t have a say is that what y’all ladies want ? Now the most successful marriages I’ve seen (only 4) is bc they BOTH worked hard and they even got to retire early bc they were a team that’s why most females don’t like 50-50 bc it would stop benefiting them I said what I said PS I AM A FEMALE 😐

Did 50/50 in my last 2 relationships and it doesn’t work… unbalanced and both feel like they do more than the other

Thank you for this video

Nobody really wants commitment so the new relationship people live in separate houses and pay bills in separate places she pays your light bill you pay her cable

What if you and your partner earn the same amount of money and your expenses are the combination of both the incomes but your partner tells you to be a man and take the responsibility of everything and the baby. Her savings are more than yours but should you throw all your savings in and try to be a man and take full responsibility for everything?

The dudes that buy into this whole “men need to provide for everything” is such a lazy/useless women’s scam. They will say, oh yeah it’s such a “flex” when men pay for everything for their housewife”. They milk up the compliments and say “oh yeah I have a great man” to milk the simp and play into their invalidation/ego. It never works that way. She might love it (and show it) after the first few months or year but after that it’s like a welfare recipient. Less effort, more want and higher standards. This whole BS about “oh you’re not a man if the woman has to pay half” is like the modern feminist movement on steroids of the right. Women can work and keep all their money, but the man still needs to cover all the expenditures. “But my parents or grandparents did it!Ok boomer…rent/mortgages are skyrocketing 5x over wages in comparison to your parents/grandparents. Women are now the highest acceptance in colleges and there are diversity quotas in corporate now to hire women over men even if they aren’t as qualified. But yet the men still have to carry that load while the woman lays at home all day using up the electricity and collecting Doritos dust on her PJ’s. GTFOH

My girlfriend earns 3x times my salary... we do a 50/50 splits because it's fair, but it drains me financially, and I end up living cheque to cheque trying to keeping up. If i was earning more as a man, it would've been easier to take care of her & things, but in reality she earns more. So it would feel weird to ask her as woman to handle little more things. I wonder how couples in my situation handle things

Never doing 50/50 made that clear

My wife doesn’t even meet 25% /75% lol

Women want equality but when it comes to money, that's different. I am a woman and I believe both parties should contribute to the best of their ability

Step 1. Dont share finances with someone you need to split the bill with. Step 2. Not necessary. Follow step one

Very informative, useful and educational 😊

I don't understand why some men (fortunately not all of them ) want to be 50 50 with their wives??? As i know a man that truly loves his woman will feel happy to provide for her

This kind of relationships makes me feel like i'm with a roomate not with a husband The man is the provider financially The woman makes a house home ,give him kids ,breastfeed them ,clean the house cook ..... But this kind of 50 50 mindset will not work for long term because the woman is as provider as the man and with time she'll lose respect towards him(facts) The woman shouldn't feel that she has to work ,she shouldn't have that financial burden (if it's like this then she doesn't need a man in her life) A woman needs a provider protector, a man she can count on that makes her stay in her feminine energy and makes her relaxed to give him her best in everything and for the kids also

I've paid for his drivers licence and some other stuff so he could get a better job. Tried starting a business for him so he can get out of my pocket. However it never stops. Every single month there is something. I can't even get to my own things and he just cannot step up. Im just so tired and ive decided to let go. I've blocked him on whats app and calls ive also moved away however he is always threatening to leave his job and forcefully coming to where i am. 😢😢

I liked the way you explained it and how you made sure to highlight the importance of communication for a healthy relationship. Thank you.

This is a ehh soso ordeal 😅 for me speaking but I literally did this in relationships and the guys always needed my support or help and when I needed help they still needed help with their situations and money so I always had to work for my own self. The commutation make me feel like I am giving up my power for people to use me. How can I set a boundary for me in a relationship with this issu