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Only people who have been trapped in truly toxic and destructive relationships will understand.

You are part of a trend where adult children are encouraged to start cutting their parents off. You’re encouraging silence when a respectful conversation could lead to healthy boundaries and empathy for how everyone is feeling. Silence prevents a kind way to set boundaries. Many parents do not deserve to be cut off. At the very least let your parents know you’re safe and still alive. To give someone the silent treatment is a form of abuse that was a means of punishment. How would you like it if someone did this to you ?

Thank you it's so true! It's good advice it helps to understand we don't need the drama in our life it gives me peace and freedom amen!🙏🙏🙏

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This was meant for me. I am going thru this and I lash out. I have to work on being a better me. Today tis that day.

Perfect, just what I needed to hear today.

This is my way of life, I’ve often thought I was too passive, but I’m encouraged by this video.

Cancel culture. Bad advice.

Tough cookie. It’s draining either way until after time it isn’t anymore. It takes time to get over the loss of a once very very special person. Doesnt feel,possible. Time….and yes tears. People are just so very frustrating! And then you are stuck with yourself…another people

in many cases your silence speaks volumes.

After many years of being a friend to someone toxic who did not respect me. I finally got the bravery to let them go. I was hurt, tired and done. I realized I did not owe them an explanation or did not have to prove my worth. It really was never a healthy relationship from the get go. Never once was I asked by this person, why did you let me go. Because they knew why. Since I moved on I've never felt so free. Thank you for validating what I did silently, was ok.

Then I will silence what im hearing here...😂😂😂❤

Wow. This is horrible low value negative energy advice. Your power is being secure and respectful, not encouraging immature ghosting.

I guess that’s one approach. Saying your peace in a clear, strong, calm way is way more powerful and provides closure, IMO

Does the same advice stand when it’s a grown child?

good content, but it sounds weird at times, like it's been altered- is it really Brene's voice? Has she authorized this?

As I get older Acceptance and Silence are my go to for self love. So much inner peace comes which is priceless!!! 🤎🤎🤎

💜depth of Character🧘‍♀️ strength of Integrity💁‍♀️ quality of Relationships🙇‍♀️

Although I resonate with what is being explained here, I find it disappointing that the channel's owner has created a video that emphasizes authenticity by using "sounds or visuals significantly edited or digitally generated." The unusual speech cadence is also a quick give-away. If you are advocating authenticity and sitting with discomfort, do so yourself first.

Yes, exactly. Then it came to me, how drained i am, how what is comming back to me is just not what i am giving constantly to them. I made a drawing saying I DO NOT WANT TO BE YOUR WASTE BIN ANYMORE, started following my own Truth, read a few books (Doctor Gladys MCGarey) and after a year i got rid of my job, collegues, family, friends and lovers. Just completely. Following gentle nudges from the Universe, they all went to the waste basket, it seems.

Here’s why ghosting is not cowardly

This whole video is actually incredibly toxic. I can imagine a narcissist listening to this like yeah I was right to stonewall and not talk to my partner.

I didn’t react. I gave him a taste of his own medicine. He decided to unblock my social media account after 2 years and just sent me a hi and emoji. I blocked him immediately as I knew he was just playing games. Block / unblock that’s his game. Pure toxicity.

Ghosting someone isn’t always necessary. I was ghosted by a good friend and I literally thought she had died. But I agree that if someone has been given ample time to improve and hasn’t improved silence might be the best tactic. But before you do this please make sure that they know u aren’t dead.

Wow! Thank you Brene Brown.

Amen! so good & validating! This act saved my life from controlling narcissists, boundary-crossing manipulators & energy vampires!! Sometimes "SIlence is GOLDEN.'

Brene , I am here listening to you, and agree with everything thing you’re saying, but do you aware 20:27 that there is a world like mine that there I no one, literally! Just has to say, you can help , but thanks greatly so true!

Love you Brene ❤️thank you ❤

This is so validating. Thank you.

Only with higher consciousness, you can actually do this ❤ When you're older and wiser, you can relate🙏

Ugh... the only thing though I wish you would have paused more in between each thought... I had to turn it off at 1:21. I can't follow it

So powerful!! I have to listen multiple times. Thank you

Good advice for ending a manipulative relationship

There are parameters for conflict and hard conversation that still include respect and an expectation for finding understanding. At least that is how I have tried to communicate my needs and thoughts. I am also a writer and have put myself out there. I am seen by those who understand that of me. There are not always a large group of people. What is it that we have to feel everyone needs to know us? Not everyone wants to. That's okay with me.

Thank you for sharing ✌🏽💖🤟🏼✨️🧚‍♂️

“Silence doesn’t mean you ignore disrespect or injustice but rather you choose your battles wisely.” Love it ❤❤❤❤

To paraphrase Jesus. When a space does not make you feel welcome. Simply walk away, brushing their dust off your feet as you leave.

Wow thank you just what I needed to hear today ❤

in a really toxic relationship that i can not end at the moment - hopefully in the future - this is a gamechanger for me, thank you, this is the first really good advice I got - not to explain when they criticise, just say ok, noted saves so much energy, I do not have to be drown to drama

Brown is not good. This is bullshit.

Ghost them? You're the worst psychologist ever!

Thank you for this.

this is terrible advice. leaves the other person wondering anxiously wtf happened

Thank you.

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Great talk. I’ve experienced the bad end of gossip and triangulation. It can hurt like heck and ruin your reputation.

AI generated.

Thank you for inspirational Talk, thank you for reminding me that there is beauty in vulnerability.

This is a horrible AI version.