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Commitment Over Convenience: Redefining Relationships
In this sermon, Pastor Stephen explores how God designed relationships as the environment where we learn to love like Christ. Drawing from Philippians, he outlines three key choices-commitment over convenience, self-sacrifice over self-interest, and interdependence over independence-that can transform all of our relationships, from friendships to family and beyond. With practical insights and heartfelt reflection, this message challenges us to reframe how we approach relationships and invites us to love with deeper purpose and grace.
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TIMESTAMPS
0:00 Intro: When Valentine’s Day stopped being fun
2:00 The power and pain of relationships
4:00 The cultural struggle with building deep relationships
5:04 Relationships are designed by God
6:00 Context of Philippians: Paul’s advice for relational struggles
7:14 Why relationships matter: Where we learn to love
8:12 Relationships as the arena for love
9:32 Paul’s instructions: Taking our cues from Christ
11:22 Three key distinctions for relationships
12:28 1. Choosing commitment over convenience
15:48 Why commitment leads to lasting, meaningful connections
18:21 2. Choosing self-sacrifice over self-interest
19:56 The example of Christ’s sacrificial love
22:16 3. Choosing interdependence over independence
23:52 How relational wounds tempt us to isolate
24:48 The Harvard study on relationships and happiness
25:54 Practical advice for men on maintaining friendships
26:48 The spiritual significance of relationships
27:15 Closing prayer: Loving like Christ
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Відео

Why Confession Matters in Faith
Переглядів 2712 годин тому
In this thought-provoking sermon, Rev Allie Schulman unpacks the often-overlooked spiritual practice of confession and how it helps us clear the clutter from our hearts. Through personal stories, biblical wisdom, and practical steps, she challenges us to move beyond vague admissions of sin and step into authentic, life-giving honesty with God and each other. If you’re longing for deeper communi...
Cultivating Deep Roots: Finding Joy Through Surrender
Переглядів 4014 днів тому
Pastor Michele shares a heartfelt message on cultivating a deeply rooted life through fasting and surrender to Christ. Drawing parallels between plants and our spiritual lives, she emphasizes the importance of letting go of distractions and focusing on a relationship with God that sustains and nourishes us, especially during challenging times. Through scripture, personal anecdotes, and practica...
Joe and Katie Testimonial
Переглядів 4814 днів тому
Joe and Katie have a powerful story about how they found The Grove after moving to Dallas from Florida. At The Grove, Joe and Katie have found an incredible group of friends and that have impacted their lives. Growing their faith at The Grove has allowed them to display their faith to their families and trust God with their generosity.
The McKay Family Testimonial
Переглядів 2614 днів тому
The McKay Family has been part of The Grove Church since its inception in 2017. Michael, Denise, and Reagan have a powerful story of how being part of a local church has impacted their family and faith journey.
The Myth of More: Breaking Free from a Life of Want
Переглядів 3721 день тому
Pastor Stephen challenges us to rethink the “myth of more” and explore the freedom found in trusting God and practicing generosity. He shares how our culture’s obsession with acquiring more fails to bring true happiness and fulfillment, contrasting it with a deeply rooted life in Christ. Through scripture and personal stories, this message invites us to cultivate generosity as a transformative ...
Why Your Foundation Matters: Faith, Habits, and the Good Life
Переглядів 5728 днів тому
Pastor Stephen explores the transformative power of habits, emphasizing that the most important habit is building a life deeply rooted in Christ. While many habits promise versions of the “good life,” only a foundation in Christ leads to true peace and joy. Through scripture, practical encouragement, and personal reflection, he challenges us to prioritize daily habits that nurture our relations...
Why the Christmas Story Is More Than a Season
Переглядів 21Місяць тому
Pastor Stephen shares the heart of the Christmas story, emphasizing that it’s not seasonal but an eternal invitation to experience God’s love, grace, and transformation. He contrasts two common struggles-self-sufficiency and feelings of unworthiness-both of which the gospel addresses, offering freedom, acceptance, and hope through Jesus Christ. The message encourages us to leave the Christmas s...
Anchor Your Joy: Finding Hope Beyond Circumstances
Переглядів 23Місяць тому
Pastor Allie shares an encouraging message about finding true joy and hope during the busy and overwhelming Christmas season. Drawing from Isaiah 55, she explores the futility of relying on personal efforts and the necessity of anchoring our hope in God’s promises. By reminding us that God’s word and purpose are unwavering, she offers a perspective of joy that transcends circumstances. STAY CON...
Stepping Into the New Year With Faith and Gratitude
Переглядів 73Місяць тому
Pastor Isaiah shares a heartfelt message about navigating the transition from one season to the next, drawing lessons from the Israelites crossing the Jordan River. Using Joshua 3 and 4 as a foundation, he highlights three essential actions-refocusing on God, stepping out in faith, and remembering God’s promises. Through humorous anecdotes and profound biblical insight, this message inspires gr...
Slowing Down and Experiencing God
Переглядів 44Місяць тому
Pastor Stephen delivers a heartfelt message on the dangers of hurry and the transformative power of slowing down to experience God’s presence. Drawing from Isaiah 40, he highlights how hurry sickness disrupts our ability to connect with God, others, and ourselves. He challenges us to slow down, reevaluate our priorities, and embrace the journey of faith at God’s pace-“slowly, slowly”-to redisco...
How to Overcome Holiday Stress with Faith
Переглядів 46Місяць тому
Pastor Stephen delivers an inspiring Advent message on finding true peace amidst the chaos of the Christmas season. By shifting focus from life's uncertainties to God's unchanging presence, he encourages believers to experience the peace of Christ today, not through perfect circumstances but through trust and gratitude. This message invites us to embrace Shalom-wholeness and restoration-by cent...
Real Hope This Advent Season
Переглядів 472 місяці тому
In this message, Pastor Stephen explores the true meaning of biblical hope and its distinction from wishful thinking. He explains how hope, rooted in God's promises, provides certainty in our ultimate future, allowing us to endure suffering well-both involuntary and voluntary. Using relatable examples and Scripture, Pastor Stephen calls us to anchor our lives in Christ’s eternal promises, foste...
The Thomas Family Testimonial
Переглядів 412 місяці тому
Adam and Emma have a powerful story about how The Grove has become home for them. After moving across the country and finding The Grove, they have found lasting friendships, grown in their faith walk, and found community for their children to learn about God.
What Your Search History Says About Your Heart
Переглядів 402 місяці тому
What Your Search History Says About Your Heart
Are Boundaries Keeping You From God?
Переглядів 452 місяці тому
Are Boundaries Keeping You From God?
Identifying Idols: The Pursuit That Leaves Us Empty
Переглядів 372 місяці тому
Identifying Idols: The Pursuit That Leaves Us Empty
Identifying Modern Idols: Finding True Freedom in Faith
Переглядів 802 місяці тому
Identifying Modern Idols: Finding True Freedom in Faith
Genesis: Patterns of Sin & Redemption
Переглядів 343 місяці тому
Genesis: Patterns of Sin & Redemption
7 Years of God's Faithfulness
Переглядів 303 місяці тому
7 Years of God's Faithfulness
When Life Falls Apart: Finding Faith in Uncertainty
Переглядів 433 місяці тому
When Life Falls Apart: Finding Faith in Uncertainty
Jacob’s Transformation: From Struggle to Strength
Переглядів 523 місяці тому
Jacob’s Transformation: From Struggle to Strength
When God's Tests Feel Unbearable
Переглядів 564 місяці тому
When God's Tests Feel Unbearable
The God Who Sees: Finding Clarity in the Midst of Despair
Переглядів 764 місяці тому
The God Who Sees: Finding Clarity in the Midst of Despair
Trusting God with Everything: Abram's Leap of Faith
Переглядів 564 місяці тому
Trusting God with Everything: Abram's Leap of Faith
Building Babel: A Timeless Lesson on Human Ambition
Переглядів 594 місяці тому
Building Babel: A Timeless Lesson on Human Ambition
From Physics to Faith: The Deeper Lesson of Noah’s Ark
Переглядів 405 місяців тому
From Physics to Faith: The Deeper Lesson of Noah’s Ark
Breaking the Cycle of Sin: How to Trust God's Design | Genesis 3 Sermon by Pastor Stephen Lohoefer
Переглядів 665 місяців тому
Breaking the Cycle of Sin: How to Trust God's Design | Genesis 3 Sermon by Pastor Stephen Lohoefer
Genesis 1: The Blueprint for a Life of Purpose
Переглядів 565 місяців тому
Genesis 1: The Blueprint for a Life of Purpose
How To Stay Humble
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How To Stay Humble

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @adrianamallinson8785
    @adrianamallinson8785 8 місяців тому

    Wow you are so right Jesus needs to be our full time job 24/7

  • @lindabostwick3264
    @lindabostwick3264 8 місяців тому

    Thank you Jesus for who you are❤️

  • @moho2576
    @moho2576 8 місяців тому

    Man fr

  • @ifyekwere8527
    @ifyekwere8527 8 місяців тому

    I totally agree❤God bless you Sir

  • @fanpewdiepie9597
    @fanpewdiepie9597 8 місяців тому

    Bruh

  • @chuckrice8496
    @chuckrice8496 8 місяців тому

    Good communication to the Confirmands at the close. Grace & Peace, chuck

  • @irfanjohnch
    @irfanjohnch 8 місяців тому

  • @WoneLoveMissions
    @WoneLoveMissions 8 місяців тому

    Truth.

  • @SolomonMusicUG-l7c
    @SolomonMusicUG-l7c 9 місяців тому

    May God bless you and your ministry

  • @seanterry8748
    @seanterry8748 9 місяців тому

    A+

  • @bettymccrow3091
    @bettymccrow3091 9 місяців тому

    So very true

  • @reneetones2077
    @reneetones2077 9 місяців тому

    There is real truth inside you when emotions are healthy. God wants truth. There is truth and peace in emotional balance.

  • @reneetones2077
    @reneetones2077 9 місяців тому

    I agree. My relationship with God blossomed when I started getting my emotional life more balanced. Also, God led me on a path of emotional healing when I asked Him to.

  • @nasraniwb
    @nasraniwb 10 місяців тому

    Amen

  • @sallytytaranko5571
    @sallytytaranko5571 10 місяців тому

    AMEN GLORY TO GOD!❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @HermanMcDuffie-sv8yx
    @HermanMcDuffie-sv8yx 10 місяців тому

    Amen ❤😅

  • @rowanguardado2563
    @rowanguardado2563 10 місяців тому

    GOD IS AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOD BLESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️🥺❤️

  • @Amr.M
    @Amr.M 10 місяців тому

    Can we talk about the fact bro said that “God” will be praying 😭😭 smh christians

    • @isaiahterry325
      @isaiahterry325 10 місяців тому

      It’s a nod to the parable of the lost son! You should listen to the whole message :) it’s super encouraging!

  • @briankeith4752
    @briankeith4752 10 місяців тому

    Amen and Amen and thank you

  • @matthew6905
    @matthew6905 10 місяців тому

    Please lord help me, I’m struggling with this lately. Amen.

  • @yeet_lasagna7414
    @yeet_lasagna7414 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @AM-yn7py
    @AM-yn7py Рік тому

    wrestle with GOD? this guy is a fraud and a total liar.

  • @masoon6167
    @masoon6167 Рік тому

    Amen

  • @o.t.w.o
    @o.t.w.o Рік тому

    Time has been moving rather fast years wise. Seems like yesterday I was an ignorant child, now I'm a young man who is just trying to do the right thing by God. There's ALOT of silence and waiting in following God. I've been isolated for years waiting on God to change things up but everything happens on his time... I just hope I get to have a slice of life and get to experience some of the beautiful things in life that God has created (fellowship, friends, marriage and my own family) I'd just like to experience some of the good things in life before i die or get old....

  • @terrydunnings6657
    @terrydunnings6657 Рік тому

    Amen 🙏🏽, it’s sumthin to renewing ur mind, it’s a muscle I’m constantly exercising…I trust you Lord…I do….👏🏽👏🏽

  • @GeorgetownDCNative
    @GeorgetownDCNative Рік тому

    Great Advice ...

  • @Grekiller736
    @Grekiller736 Рік тому

    True

  • @YouTubeUserToo
    @YouTubeUserToo Рік тому

    Awesome. Love you brother

  • @aryannasciranka
    @aryannasciranka Рік тому

    This is good! 🙌

  • @GiftedOutdoors
    @GiftedOutdoors Рік тому

    Just what I needed the hear thank you

  • @angelinayukon4616
    @angelinayukon4616 Рік тому

    Amen

  • @katybrown7424
    @katybrown7424 Рік тому

    very clear thank you

  • @Mclovin_1
    @Mclovin_1 Рік тому

    Pov people who care: