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Sorry to hear about your mum. I have just been watching the Summer on the Estate Documentry again. Your mum seemed nice to be fair.

Mate, I have no words. If only parents knew how much these things stay with us for the rest of our lives. We learn to create strategies to keep those memories buried. So great to see you that you are doing well Ricky. Nothing but mad respect to you 👏

Hi Ricky, this is a great video and I hope the BBC gave you a bit of helpful exposure, I know I’ve commented in the Bob Mills video but this really showcases you doing an excellent job to do the best by people. When I saw Bob Mills there was connection with the boy in the documentary but this video blows all of that out and shows that you’re a decent, clever and dedicated bloke of your own right. I salute you 🫡

Hi Ricky and hoping you’re well. This was an amazing podcast and once I got started last night I couldn’t stop listening, it took me well into the early hours (a bit like tonight). There was so much which I can relate to with regard human behaviours and attitudes, yourself and Bob Mills summed it all up better than I ever could. I found myself engrossed because this podcast was so relatable. You’re a very clued up guy and can phrase things so well - the channel definitely deserves more subscribers and views. With the clip, indeed like many I became aware of it on IBWMD when I was a teenager but I didn’t know where it was from until a long time afterwards. Summer on the Estate is a horrific record, those flats really weren’t suitable for habitation and it’s telling that they’re not there anymore. I do get the impression that Ian was made of sturdy stuff as he doesn’t cower down to Tom and tells him that he doesn’t want to hit him despite taking abuse and punches, but I only know Ian from watching the documentary, so I don’t want to tread too far with that one as you’d know much more than me. Tom comes across as a monster, the way he treated your mother was disgusting. I’ve had lots of drink over the years and got into some right states, and acted like a right a#se. I’ve never managed to do anything like that though which demonstrates that he must have been a right work of art. Especially when he knew there was a camera crew on the ground. That’s not even the worst of it, treating your mother like that in front of her own mother and you - no mother and son should ever see that. I’m so glad I’ve seen your podcast and the boy in the video has grown into a clever, fair minded and balanced chap who is willing to to give the benefit of the doubt - as demonstrated by your contact with Bob Mills. I know Bob Mills talks about Paul Sykes and using this for entertainment, I really think he wanted to use Tom as the entertainment in the same vein, but the difference with the Paul Sykes videos was that no abuse towards others came from that so it’s different. At least though you both agree that apologising isn’t enough, it’s your actions now and how you carry yourself forward, using the past to make better decisions (which is why history is so important). I do know on the SOTE follow up Ian is interviewed again and mentions Tom no longer lives in the area, and he was a recipient of karma. I don’t know what happened there (and I’m not fishing) but I do recall a scene where Tom genuinely couldn’t remember how many kids he had because he was permanently pickled. Cheers Ricky and wishing you the best, Alex

Amazing podcast and so glad you’re in good places. Trans generational trauma is hard to break the cycle. You have the understanding to change.

Did you post part two?

Wow I always try to find the full documentaries behind Bob Mills video's and I managed to find This podcast absolutely great conversation

Great interview,nice one 👏

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Great interview Ricky, you asked some really curious, intuitive questions.

Well done got podcast proud of you both including Andy and Louise

The more I find out about you, Ricky, the more I realise how strong you are as a person. You've been through an awful lot and have still managed to come out on the otherside. Much love, pal.

Well done tim. Get it off your chest mate. This guy serms like he wants to help ppl

So proud of you doing this. You've come so far. ❤

Proud of you for speaking out! Love always bro! 🥰

Amazing conversation, the 1hr40 just flew by. Had seen every episode of medinner, and laughed at most of them, ignorant to the back stories and the people affected.

Quality conversation. Nice job Ricky and Amber. Strong message.

I've been a fan of Bob since Games World and then In Bed with me Dinner in the 90s. Great Interview buddy keep it up.

Having spent 2 years working in a homeless hostel I agree with a few of the points you raise but disagree with a few as well. Support workers cannot force anyone to do anything. I lost count of how many housing appointments, drug treatment appointments, educational appointments, opportunities that I worked hard to find for service users who just didn't turn up for the support they were being offered. How do you move on somebody like that? I spent most of my time trying to help people who just did not want to be helped. If someone refuses to clean their room you might give them a behaviour warning but push comes to shove are you really going to make that person homeless if they continue to refuse? What you're bang on about is the 'charities' that run these places, charging so much money for such substandard accommodation that people wouldn't believe it without seeing it for themselves. I was repeatedly asked to book people into rooms with no heating, with broken windows, with blood spatters on the walls from people injecting in there. No bedding. No cutlery. Management driving around in 90k cars and just didn't care, they would just say 'fill the voids, fill the voids!'. So you're right about that, but a bit naive if you think giving an entrenched homeless, mentally ill drug addict 'a bit of practical advice' is going to even touch the sides in terms of solving their problems, you know? Overall though, just found the channel and really enjoying the content so far, thought provoking stuff 👍

Amazing video. Compelling to see such honesty and how drugs ruin lives. I ate at Victoria Inn a number of times and Nick is a magician with food. I wish your recovery stays on track and if I am ever in Jersey I will make a booking to eat your food again

Alright millsy

I think we hit the wall at the same time, I’m so glad we made to the other side brother , Love always Jellybean xx

I loved watching In Bed with my Dinner and remember laughing at the scene with your mother unfortunately. I was younger and didn't take into account that that was real. You can't always tell if things are real or fake on Telly. Really sorry Ricky about your Mother. Could you tell me what happened to your step dad?. I watched the whole series The Estate and always wanted too know what happened to him

I've been following Amber for a while. She's so resilient x keep on raising awareness x Strong lady, full of grace.

You two talking is Litterally the purest friendship I have ever whitnessed. The compassion and understanding in every question is what’s needed to end the stigma around homelessness and addiction. Bravo chefs!!! P.s how does Ricky look so young. Hahahha

It's a defence mechanism to cope with a stressful situation

You have to laugh at situations but if you don't you cry

Agree with national service it could be done where they are used to help homeless or taken to places to africa to help out

My doc said I've got ptsd but I don't believe him. I get serious depression and have tried 4 or 5 times over the last couple of years to end it. Friends sussed me out on the days I tried and got me to hospital. I served in Ireland but I enjoyed it. So ptsd I'm not sure what it is he thinks Ive got.

This was such a good watch, and a real eye opener to certain situations I don't think I was aware before so probably a little ignorant to. Brilliant pod guys , thank you , and thank you for your service ❤

Amazing thank you for having me ☺️☺️

Just watched that hamed stoppage, unbelievable

Tremendous listen - what a legend 👏👍

Fantastic guy, and fantastic pod cast. Really enjoyed listening to that.

Love it Charles - I grew up in Bedale, not as a lot of people think one of the Dales but derived from Beda’s Nook!

Hi Bede. Do you know much about the marsden grotto and it’s origins? Jack the blaster etc.

Edit: I meant to say Robert Curthose and not William Curthose. My apologies.

I hope that he settles soon & has the confidence to make friends

Your son is a clever little man Ricky.

I've seen alot of the woke crazy trans videos from ticktock, so it's nice to get to hear from a non-woke trans woman. And to Ms Emily, thank you for sharing and it's great that you've found the happiest you.

That was a crackin podcast. Well done Aiden. Such a smart, switched on guy. Miss you all.

After 71, addicts could not get clean drugs, Heroin, Cocaine, Methedrine on prescription, these drugs then went underground and the supply exploded.

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This cross dressing man is extremely misogynistic and is harassing women online.

Hey nik . Really good to see your smiling face and that you are doing so well . Really sorry to hear all the stuff you went through but very glad your out the other side . Hope to see you soon . I will always remember twilight and Redruth girls 😂

The story of the sun and the wind. I think its an Aesops fable. The sun and the wind argue and bet who can make the man remove his coat. The wind goes in full forse, puffing and blowing, darkening and making it cold. The man, buttons up his coat, puts his hat and hood on tight and leans into the storm. Next is the suns turn, he beams a huge smile down onto the man, already exhausted. As the sun shines, and heats the mans bones, the man takes his hood down, unbuttons his coat, slows down and takes in the breeze. The sun won because gentle persuasion, full of joy and love does better than forceful anger and selfish gain. ❤