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Приєднався 24 лип 2018
Agender
To anyone who may read this,
You may feel a completely different way than I did, but you are still completely valid in your experiences and your identity. You are loved, you are strong.
You may feel a completely different way than I did, but you are still completely valid in your experiences and your identity. You are loved, you are strong.
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⚠ TRIGGER WARNING ⚠ Depression, Suicide You are not alone. If you're feeling suicidal, call the National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-273-8255 If you need someone to talk to, text 741-741 ["Lyrics"] I knew it was time. A time to choose, Because once more I arrive At the crossroads That I've grown to despise. Left. There was a spec of light. It was scary. The light flickered, And burnt out....
"I'm considering the possibility of being an agender, after I accidentally discovered the agender subreddit, and here's what I feel: i think I'm agender, born male and always seen as male by others and identified as male myself, and I would care if I was called a woman(wouldn't like it) but I still don't think that I really "feel" male or female, I just am. Why care? I feel uncomfortable with the idea of being called a woman, but also, think to myself: Why feel this uncomfort? Why care? Shouldn't the identity, the ego of being male or female gender, something to be "surpassed" to go "beyond", and simply accept "being"? "To be in the flow of the universe, be in a flow"? Because of these thoughts, I think I may be agender. But I guess I'm also being influenced by spiriuality and buddhist non-self views. The idea of not seeing myself as HAVING to fit as a male,, I don't know why, but it gives me relief to my body, I feel my body lighter, less heavier, and more in peace in my arms, Idk why. A peaceful non-attachment, idk. While, If I think to myself "I am male, I am a man, I need to be a man", it gives me a sense of being "trapped", my body feels heavier, gives more unconfort than the non-attachment thought.
The issue is that I see as ideal reaching a state where I wouldn't care anymore about being called a man or a woman, nor see the need to identify myself. I'm not in that state, but I started imagining that achieving such a state would be an "evolution," would be better than caring about being a man or a woman.
Damn are we all agender here
I am also agender ❤
Okay now i finally understood what agender is thanks a lot buddy :D
Of course! I'm glad I could be of help!!
I’m agender two!!!!
can i be agender if i feel more comfortable with she/they pronouns?
absolutely! you can use whatever pronouns you feel comfortable with
For me agender means I don’t really connect to gender and often feel genderless or gender neutral
I'm agender! And I really love this video.
Hello id like to put some of my feelings ig about how i feel as a fellow agender person! sence i have nothing better to do at 4 am- so ya as afab i often find my self disgusted or not liking the top half of my torso, chest and my face to be suspific but with every thing eles i realy dont care about! so ya ig heres another take on how an agender person might feel about there body srry if typos like i said it 4 am right know-
I have one question are you like gender-fluid or what I've heard of gender fluid you have mix two body parts or gender-fluid has the two body parts you know girl and boy and I'm wondering if you have different body parts depending on the day or month or week
Unfortunately I do not have different body parts depending on the day/month/week, because that would be very cool. You're probably thinking of inter-sex, where a person is born with both parts. Someone who is inter-sex also isn't inherently gender fluid. (gender and sex are different from eachother). I hope this helps!
I personally wish I was like a Barbie doll down there, but I'm also sex-repulsed asexual, so bits kinda just feel like a pointless inconvenience to me.
I’m also a sex repulsed asexual
I do not support same-sex relationships or promiscuity without a compelling reason .....I don't support lgtp+ at all bu I'm agender....is that fine;-;???
Oh honey.. LGBTQ+ stands for "Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgender, Queer". Agender falls under the Transgender "category" (for lack of a better term). It sounds like you're dealing with a lot of internalized homophobia, but that's not your fault. It's how you were raised. If you take some time to do some more research (I recommend The Queer Kiwi and Sam Collins), and probably some therapy, hopefully you can come to understand and eventually accept LGBTQ+ people as well as yourself and your identity. Your identity is 100% valid, just don't bring down others for theirs.
@@frog9038 .thank Allah you told me 😭💞💞💞 you make my day dear I can fanily sleep well now iam so happy 🖤👌😭
The agender video really helped me on how to explain to my parents
thank you for helping me find my true self with your other video i now know im agender
I'm agender as well! I just wish I don't have to use prounouns at all. For me rn It's the best to use my name (ex. They-> Mal was there, it's Their-> Mals)
And that's completely valid! Everyone experiences things differently; I may use he/they pronouns and use the same lable as someone else who uses no pronouns at all. You are as valid as everyone else, Mal.
I'm agender this is how I describe it: not feeling like any gender just feeling like my self :)
I am questioning and I want to share my story to some people reading my comment so here it is: I told my friends I was pansexual before so it wasn’t that hard to tell them I don’t want to identify as a girl, they accepted me, I figured out the nonbinary gender umbrella but I felt like I.. didn’t fit.. into any gender, I didn’t feel like.. any gender.. but sometimes I think I might be all genders but just don’t know, I started to get stressed.. I used they/them pronouns because I like them, I got advice from the internet and thought I might be agender or something else like genderfluid where I feel like different genders.. im questioning but I know i am who I am Edit: I’m pretty sure I’m pangender
You can be what ever makes you feel comfortable!!!
Question, difference between pangender and agender?
@@lucyjames6420 Pangender: feeling like every gender, simultaneously or not Agender: feeling like no gender
Thank you this has made me feel so much better about my experience with questioning atm
@@papairplane thanks!
I am also agender I wish I was “ old enough for my parents to not think it is a phase
It'll be okay, friend. Things will change and you'll find a group of people who will accept you as who you are. ♥️
@@frog9038 thanks
@Rhonda Colony I feel the same and I'm scared to come out of the closet.. But I am gonna stay positive but I don't know sexuality either.
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I'm agender too
I’m agender as well
Agender gang
Saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaame
Same
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I like it👍