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Im glad OP isn't getting the short end of the stick anymore.

Bro crossed a line

Picking someone up from the airport and getting fast food is different from a whole dinner. The fact that the friend just had a breakup did not help the situation either. It was probably innocent, but bad optics.

I'm glad he brokes the wedding off I hope he finds someone else who will really love him and family I hope he updates again and let us know how he doing

Og post AITAH because I call my Psycho Ex's unrelated child my 'Naughter'? Buckle up. 15 years ago I was 25 and was finishing my contract and my then GF of 3 years Natalie was acting increasingly strange. I came back from a two month assignment and was prepared to break up with Natalie. She came by and gave me the good news she was pregnant. I asked how far along she was, she said five weeks so I broke it off with her and told her she needed to do better at math. She refused the breakup and insisted the baby was mine, so I told her the following: 1) Paternity test, and 2) if the child was mine we can talk about financial support and custody arrangements with lawyers. She refused both and told everyone we both knew that I was a deadbeat for knocking her up and leaving her. I told everyone I was on a two month assignment when she conceived, but a few insisted for the sake of 'decency' I house her and give her limited support. I consulted a lawyer about this mess and the lawyer made it very very clear that any overt support I give could be seen as me taking responsibility, so I told these friends that and most dropped it, except one guy, who again insisted that charity couldn't be used as a legal cudgel like that. I told him if he believes that he can house her. He agreed to drop it after that. Child was born and not even going to do the whole 'she didn't look like me' because most babies are born with squished faces and all I saw were the pics she sent me with messages like "Emma wants to know where daddy is" and shit. She still refused to take any paternity tests. But her constantly showing up with that baby got to the point where I filed an RO. Fun fact, in my state, a permanent RO is not, in fact, permanent. It is two fucking years long. The only way to get it longer is if there was a violent crime associated. And apparently bugging someone with a baby that's not theirs is not a violent crime. So my life for the last 14 years was me renewing the RO every two years because, once it clears, Natalie shows up again with my not-child. I did eventually find a nice girl, get married, and now I have 9 year old son, Henry. My wife Kim is well aware of Natalie and Emma. When the cycle begins again, I always say the same thing: 1) Paternity Test, 2) once paternity is proven, I will take custody and get financial support set up. Natalie always refuses and says both are 'insulting'. Recently the cycle started again, and this time Emma showed up first. She approached my son during a school event (visit to the zoo) and said "Hi, I'm your big sister Emma!" Henry knows about stranger danger and ran away to a teacher. I had to have a very very painful talk to the teachers and parents that were at the event about my relationship with Emma and Natalie, and how Emma was never my daughter. I even called her my 'Naughter' once or twice in the conversation. After the group disbanded, one of the mothers confronted me and said that while Natalie was in the wrong telling this poor child I was her father, calling her my 'Naughter' was mocking this situation. I kind of get where she's coming from, just I can't help this child, and the honest truth is playing light of the 2 year cycles is the closest I can get to finding peace in the situation. EDIT: To answer the repeated question, in my state the mother has to start the petition for the father to be established and the test to start. There is no instance where a father can start the petition. There was a chance to do this when Emma was born, but the window was exactly one month, and I was much too focused on the RO, not thinking the paternity angle would bite me in the butt. One Last Time: To everyone saying "Just ask for custody! That'll force DNA test!" Literally can't be done. Been through this enough with a lawyer, and have consulted with other lawyers. There are laws protecting children, and a lot of them exist for good reason. I'll explain it the way my lawyer explained it. Imagine there's a woman that ran from an abusive ex. She finds out after she escaped she's pregnant. She gives birth, never puts the ex on the birth certificate, never tries to file for support because she wants to get as far away from him as possible. He finds out years later, and tries to rope her back in using the child as leverage. She can just say "No" and the state has to let it go. There is however a provision if the father was involved enough to know when the birth was, that he could submit his DNA to the state within 31 days of birth as a 'potential father', but that time has long passed. The law's designed this way on purpose. In the eyes of the family court, I am a 'random person', and I was never claimed to Emma. If you think the state wants all children to be claimed by fathers and will gladly submit any DNA test whenever any potential father shows up, find a random single mom, call the family court and say you want to claim her child. I am tired of everyone acting like all I needed to do was fill out one sheet of paper and this nightmare would end. Please, just call a lawyer for a free consultation, or post on legal advice and ask them. It doesn't work that way!

People saying to finish the story this stuff is happening RECENTLY it's not something that's gonna be done right away. Don't assume that every reddit story happens immediately. This is why you shouldn't assume these stories are fake.

Oh post AITAH because I call my Psycho Ex's unrelated child my 'Naughter'? Buckle up. 15 years ago I was 25 and was finishing my contract and my then GF of 3 years Natalie was acting increasingly strange. I came back from a two month assignment and was prepared to break up with Natalie. She came by and gave me the good news she was pregnant. I asked how far along she was, she said five weeks so I broke it off with her and told her she needed to do better at math. She refused the breakup and insisted the baby was mine, so I told her the following: 1) Paternity test, and 2) if the child was mine we can talk about financial support and custody arrangements with lawyers. She refused both and told everyone we both knew that I was a deadbeat for knocking her up and leaving her. I told everyone I was on a two month assignment when she conceived, but a few insisted for the sake of 'decency' I house her and give her limited support. I consulted a lawyer about this mess and the lawyer made it very very clear that any overt support I give could be seen as me taking responsibility, so I told these friends that and most dropped it, except one guy, who again insisted that charity couldn't be used as a legal cudgel like that. I told him if he believes that he can house her. He agreed to drop it after that. Child was born and not even going to do the whole 'she didn't look like me' because most babies are born with squished faces and all I saw were the pics she sent me with messages like "Emma wants to know where daddy is" and shit. She still refused to take any paternity tests. But her constantly showing up with that baby got to the point where I filed an RO. Fun fact, in my state, a permanent RO is not, in fact, permanent. It is two fucking years long. The only way to get it longer is if there was a violent crime associated. And apparently bugging someone with a baby that's not theirs is not a violent crime. So my life for the last 14 years was me renewing the RO every two years because, once it clears, Natalie shows up again with my not-child. I did eventually find a nice girl, get married, and now I have 9 year old son, Henry. My wife Kim is well aware of Natalie and Emma. When the cycle begins again, I always say the same thing: 1) Paternity Test, 2) once paternity is proven, I will take custody and get financial support set up. Natalie always refuses and says both are 'insulting'. Recently the cycle started again, and this time Emma showed up first. She approached my son during a school event (visit to the zoo) and said "Hi, I'm your big sister Emma!" Henry knows about stranger danger and ran away to a teacher. I had to have a very very painful talk to the teachers and parents that were at the event about my relationship with Emma and Natalie, and how Emma was never my daughter. I even called her my 'Naughter' once or twice in the conversation. After the group disbanded, one of the mothers confronted me and said that while Natalie was in the wrong telling this poor child I was her father, calling her my 'Naughter' was mocking this situation. I kind of get where she's coming from, just I can't help this child, and the honest truth is playing light of the 2 year cycles is the closest I can get to finding peace in the situation. EDIT: To answer the repeated question, in my state the mother has to start the petition for the father to be established and the test to start. There is no instance where a father can start the petition. There was a chance to do this when Emma was born, but the window was exactly one month, and I was much too focused on the RO, not thinking the paternity angle would bite me in the butt. One Last Time: To everyone saying "Just ask for custody! That'll force DNA test!" Literally can't be done. Been through this enough with a lawyer, and have consulted with other lawyers. There are laws protecting children, and a lot of them exist for good reason. I'll explain it the way my lawyer explained it. Imagine there's a woman that ran from an abusive ex. She finds out after she escaped she's pregnant. She gives birth, never puts the ex on the birth certificate, never tries to file for support because she wants to get as far away from him as possible. He finds out years later, and tries to rope her back in using the child as leverage. She can just say "No" and the state has to let it go. There is however a provision if the father was involved enough to know when the birth was, that he could submit his DNA to the state within 31 days of birth as a 'potential father', but that time has long passed. The law's designed this way on purpose. In the eyes of the family court, I am a 'random person', and I was never claimed to Emma. If you think the state wants all children to be claimed by fathers and will gladly submit any DNA test whenever any potential father shows up, find a random single mom, call the family court and say you want to claim her child. I am tired of everyone acting like all I needed to do was fill out one sheet of paper and this nightmare would end. Please, just call a lawyer for a free consultation, or post on legal advice and ask them. It doesn't work that way!

People getting mad that there's not an ending: this post is from the end of June 2024 and says there won't be results for 4 weeks, it is still ongoing

F u for only doing part one😂 “If it can’t if in a min short vid! Don’t make it a vid!”

Reported for broken parts

Original post is called: AITAH because I call my Psycho Ex's unrelated child my 'Naughter'? The last update was June 20th and is still ongoing.

Stay far far away from Amanda. No more helping out your wife's friends, i don't care if you're wife asks you to help out any of her friends, reminder of Amanda and you're not going through that again. And be careful because I think Amanda might have a crush on you. Let's see how often she contacts you now. Just be careful

anyone who does multiple parts instead of posting the full thing deserves nothing but only downvotes and reports for stealing content.

Uhhhhhh.... Sooooooo..... What happened?! Finish the dang story!!

Brooo finish the story

Such a cliffhanger 😢

Jesus christ these clips are broken up worse than on tiktok

F these multiple part shorts

OMG, what was the crap in the eyes all about? Did we just watch someone prepare a dead body?

I mean, it would be easy to be suspicious but unless I’m severely confused, the wife asked him to pick her up, did she not?? Getting food just goes hand in hand with road trips 🤷‍♀️

Not hers. Entitled to daughter.

So where's the second part because so far I'm on her side she did more then enough for you, second from what I heard so far she didn't do it so far a thought but waiting

You better buy her a new house or something because y’all are deep sh*t

And his parents will be the ones crying that he never contacts them!! They need to be very careful cause he will be the one to choose their nursing home!!

Marriage never had a chance

YTA, just do it for Dan

I bet they will end up begging the couple for money.

dont let it bother you..youll find real family eventually but that breaks my heart..no kid deserves to not feel wanted but hopefully youll love your kids that much more.

Im pretty sure this is illegal

Why would your daughter do that, I wouldn't leave her a dime.

Glad you put your daughter 1st, that GF was too demanding and intrusive. 😊

From the perspective of the wife it probably looks like he is trying to hit on her friend while she is out of town. She probably doesnt want to hear the dtory from the husbands side. No one is the ah

I am starting to think that the guy wanted to get away from OP and took the 1st chance he got

Ummm so is it boyfriend our husband both were mentioned

I dealt with a similar issue with my mom. I bought my own ride was going to college full time (community college home was a mile away) I was working full time to. She lost her ride to a title loan she didn't pay for. For 3 years she borrowed my ride and never paid for anything, gas, maintenance, insurance nothing AND purposely skipped paying the bills till we started losing utilities to make me pay for it all instead of being split. Even while she had a job that paid $5 more an hour than what mine paid me. Mine didn't take 90% of my paycheck she took the whole thing plus anything extra I made on side jobs. I only got a little extra when I started working 65+ hrs a week while still going to college full time. I broke the entire family when i stole my ride back and took my moms free loading away. Young folks, don't let your parents ruin your late teens and 20's that way.

He’s an asshole for staying married to that woman and letting her push his daughter away, luckily she had amazing uncles

Glad he broke off the wedding. The bride was already showing that she didn’t care at all for his family and only cares about hers and herself

She didn’t just Prevent you from walking her down the aisle, she BANNED you from her Wedding Day… That’s Heartbreaking 🥺💔

I would tell my mom if you cant afford stuff after evrything i gave you. Just be a hooker idc

The stupid teenager thought the mistress was lieing and did the paternity test in secret. It backfired because the kid was dad's. Mom didn't want to hurt the other two that were inocent and payed the mistress with the daughter's inheritance. Now daughter is going to have to loan money to go to college. Daughter thinks her "mistake" shouldn't compromise her future.

Why is she punishing her daughter for her cheating husbands lies!! She said they had good jobs and decent money. Why are you using her inheritance? Make HIM PAY!

At this point the big sister should not get any money. That money should had just for legal fees and the mistress child. No need to put her other siblings or the mom through all of that

Good for the mom talking to her kids about the situation and getting their input for possible outcomes For the eldest daughter needs to learn a lesson and a big one she learnt,don’t involve yourself in grown-up problems. The kids have a right to not have a relationship with the mistress kid.

Mom is the ah, she was the victim. Then she turned ah

You can try and worm your way out of the picture of punishing your daughter for her father's infidelity, but you are. You absolutely are punishing her for that. You could be an innocent victim here, but punishing your daughter makes me wonder if there wasn't a somewhat "understandable" reason the husband cheated.

I feel like y’all don’t get that groomsmen spend alot if time together with the groom before the wedding ,JUST the groom and the groomsmen ,meaning the groom would be with her sister all day ,and if she isn’t comfortable with that then why are you doing that to her

Nah, he wanted out of the wedding and was just trying to push buttons for HER to stop the wedding, instead of just saying he wanted out.

Ur a prick

I don’t get the meat problem I mean yes not from someone’s basement but you can have meat and the sword seems chiller than everything else. I would have said yes to some of it but not like an elf lady. I feel bad for both parties. She was being controlling.

Groom is cheating, 100%.