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Leaving Teaching—The Journey so Far—6 Week Update!
After leaving teaching 6 weeks ago, I’ve started a new life away from the stress and anxiety of the secondary school classroom. In this video I discuss the jobs I am doing and my mental health, as well as offering a tip to anyone making a career change away from teaching.
This 6-week update video covers the progress that I've made after leaving teaching in the middle of the school year:
- how online tutoring is helping me to get the bills paid
- how academic proofreading could offer me additional income
- how my emotional health has changed since leaving teaching
- how focusing on achievable goals has helped me to stay resilient while leaving teaching.
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Why I'm Leaving Teaching
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After 7 years teaching in a UK secondary school, I've finally realised that I have no choice but to quit my teaching job. The demands, the expectations and the uncontrollable workload have brought me to the point of burnout. It's time to leave teaching for the sake of my mental health and wellbeing. I know many people want to get out of teaching, so comment below about your experience in the cl...

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  • @matthewleitch1
    @matthewleitch1 4 дні тому

    Interruptions and anticipated interruptions are types of setback, and these are classic triggers for stress reactions. However, it should be possible to reduce the damage these do. In a classroom it is very, very unlikely that you will need to fight or flight, or even that there will be major problems you have to think of solutions to very urgently. Many, many jobs involve repeated setbacks and other stress reaction triggers so changing jobs probably will not reduce the need to learn to deal with stuff like this.

  • @robertmatthews2009
    @robertmatthews2009 7 днів тому

    As a child, all I ever wanted to be was a teacher. After growing up in classrooms K-12, I decided on the community college level. Best decision ever. Students are adults who want to be there.

  • @CMax2705
    @CMax2705 16 днів тому

    I did a PGCE and it was absolute hell. I completely get what you mean about Sunday evenings! So glad I found an out.

  • @vickyrichardson7468
    @vickyrichardson7468 17 днів тому

    Would love an update video

  • @MartinTimothyTimko
    @MartinTimothyTimko 27 днів тому

    Study medicine. In my opinion, the only real job is being a doctor. All other jobs are bullshit. You like to learn, medicine will definitely be your dream job :)))

  • @MultiTurionx2
    @MultiTurionx2 Місяць тому

    I taught for 40 years. I reached a point that the abuse of teaching was normal and I accepted it as acceptable.

  • @utb579
    @utb579 2 місяці тому

    Please post about your current status also. Eager to know how you’re doing in life. Bless you

  • @andresgarciacastro1783
    @andresgarciacastro1783 3 місяці тому

    "Schools should focus on teaching content, parents will teach values". No, you don't. Many of you don't....

  • @fenners1
    @fenners1 3 місяці тому

    You articulate teaching issues very well. It took me 12 years to make the change, so you did ptretty well with 7.

  • @stewartbone4236
    @stewartbone4236 3 місяці тому

    Teaching is fine in the right niche but secondary schools are too tough now. Private schools can be better, some international schools, but turnover is low in these places. Teachers are a nasty bunch, admin worse.

  • @dannijohansen7508
    @dannijohansen7508 3 місяці тому

    No news for 2 years. Are you still there?

  • @dannijohansen7508
    @dannijohansen7508 3 місяці тому

    I feel you

  • @hatebreeder999
    @hatebreeder999 4 місяці тому

    I was music teacher in a school in Mumbai. I refused to get stressed or do any kind of extra admin work apart from teaching and I was fired. I was so happy and management couldnt understand my Joy. I even thanked them for firing me😁. Indian schools are even worse. We have 60+ students in class and with low pay theres delayed salaries.

  • @mynchux
    @mynchux 4 місяці тому

    Leaving after my first year teaching. Worst decision I ever made was to start teaching. Best decision I ever made was to leave and go make more money in a field I love. These kids and their parents, as well as my particular administration, was absolutely horrific. They give the worst kids unlimited chances to screw up and screw off while the admin has zero tolerance for a new teacher learning the ropes. I’ve never felt so unappreciated and disrespected in my life. Good riddance.

  • @marcmeinzer8859
    @marcmeinzer8859 4 місяці тому

    While I was teaching I tended to knock myself out with booze in the evenings but thought that that was virtually mandatory since I was a navy veteran. But I finally painted myself into a corner and had no choice but to throw the towel in. I couldn’t really have turned myself into a teacher realistically once the schools went soft during the ‘70s here in the states. So I tried being a merchant seaman then even spent a year in a monastery before becoming a barber which I did for 20 years. The schools doomed themselves when they tossed out tracking and industrial arts. The current situation is so dire that they’ll end up having to automate classrooms into computer labs and present online academy materials in the regular schools. Because first and foremost schooling is daycare.

  • @jussimatikainen4681
    @jussimatikainen4681 4 місяці тому

    Good desicion. I guit safe and well paid job 2016 and it felt really hard. Looking back now it was the best thing ever. It opened so many doors in my life. Sometimes you have to close door order to see other doors that leads to better life :) Good luck bro.

  • @solly001
    @solly001 4 місяці тому

    I’ve been teaching for 20 years in secondary in the UK at various levels, time sure flies…Teaching can be very stressful, you get in and pretty much don’t stop all day, lessons, preparation, marking, QLA, planning, SOW, politics, behaviour management, low level disruption… etc… However, it can rewarding, generating good teacher/student relationships, helping and educating.. You need to be clear, concise and CONSISTENT. With a supportive SLT.

  • @tweetypie7823
    @tweetypie7823 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for being so honest! It's so good to know that others feel the same way as I do. Best of luck to you! ❤

  • @nicolettajunemaes6134
    @nicolettajunemaes6134 5 місяців тому

    I really needed to hear these words. Thank you❤

  • @SCOTTHKR
    @SCOTTHKR 5 місяців тому

    I am currently watching your videos and it is like looking in the mirror. I would love to know where you're at in life now, you're a hard man to track down online lol

  • @ricksanchez2425
    @ricksanchez2425 5 місяців тому

    Do u know how to work on cars auto mechanic make good money once u become certified

  • @DanielTimmis
    @DanielTimmis 5 місяців тому

    Would be really good to have an update as I’m considering leaving too.

  • @rovercoupe7104
    @rovercoupe7104 5 місяців тому

    Fourteen years of prison education, five months in level 7 and a year in level 3. That’s enough for me. M.

  • @rovercoupe7104
    @rovercoupe7104 5 місяців тому

    Managers with no sense of humour or compassion. M

  • @elliebellie7816
    @elliebellie7816 6 місяців тому

    I think most of us in the working world dread Sunday afternoons.

  • @timsimon8995
    @timsimon8995 6 місяців тому

    I have a 5 year break from teaching. Enjoyed the job i had since leaving but it didnt pay much so this year went back to teaching. I'm 2 months in and hating it so much, kids are far worse post covid and lockdowns, I'm gonna quit for good at the end of this term. I had a strong gut feeling not to go back or leave my other job that i enjoyed. Big big regret.

  • @j.d.waterhouse4197
    @j.d.waterhouse4197 6 місяців тому

    Around my 10th I has such a bad batch I started having panic attacks at night, which turned into insomnia. Finally went on Lexapro and eventually was able to sleep. But the effects of that episode still linger 20 years later, I'm convinced I have PTSD from my teaching career.

  • @j.d.waterhouse4197
    @j.d.waterhouse4197 6 місяців тому

    Teacher's organizations are the only ones claiming teachers are quitting because they don't have 'autonomy' or don't get paid enough. Anyone entering teaching already knows what their pay schedule will be, in 30 years of teaching only knew ONE teacher who quit because of pay. And regarding 'autonomy', teachers are in such demand districts won't fire anyone who can keep the kids working and occupied it. You can do basically anything you want within reason. NO...the reason teachers quit is the STRESS from dealing with rude, rowdy, disrespecful kids all day. Imagine being an animal lover, and hearing students brag about doing horrible things to cats, THEN having to go back into that class day after day and be expected to treat those boys with 'respect'. Many kids can begin mocking you for the slightest reason. They look for your weak spots, things they know will upset you, then they begin doing those things EVERY SINGLE DAY. And there's nothing you can do about it except push down the anger.

  • @danielgolarz674
    @danielgolarz674 6 місяців тому

    I'm the author of EIGHT DAYS IN AN INNER CITY SCHOOL the out of control OCCUPATIONAL LICENSING for k-12 teachers is why we have teacher shortages

  • @nicolapicola4502
    @nicolapicola4502 6 місяців тому

    Bring back the freaking cane, I say!

  • @drstrangiato33
    @drstrangiato33 6 місяців тому

    Bless teachers. F*ck Capitalism

  • @Soph-wb9qz
    @Soph-wb9qz 7 місяців тому

    it would be great to here an update on this! ☺️

  • @jdb6026
    @jdb6026 7 місяців тому

    not related, but you, sir, are one, fine-looking man. Damn.

  • @jessicaherring1507
    @jessicaherring1507 7 місяців тому

    How are you doing now? Interested to hear an update! Preschool room leader here, looking to make ‘the leap’. Considering becoming a private school admission tutor.

  • @andyc6926
    @andyc6926 7 місяців тому

    Thanks for these videos, very helpful. I am about to quit after 16 years in the classroom, finding it all very daunting, I am in my early 50's and wondering what on earth I can do next, but my mental health, and general health is far more important. Looking forward to getting out, but very scared at the same time. Thanks again.

  • @LibertyFascism
    @LibertyFascism 7 місяців тому

    Things went horribly wrong when parents quit doing their jobs.

  • @ejc636
    @ejc636 7 місяців тому

    I only did 30 years. 7 years is hardly a career

  • @eleveneleven572
    @eleveneleven572 7 місяців тому

    Teachers have dug their own grave here.... bolshy unions run by weirdo's and activists, refusal to stand up for discipline, being kids "friends", bringing their own politics and agendas into schools, the feminisation of education. They have let minorities in their ranks undermine the education system, wreck kids lives and ruin their careers.

    • @gerryparker7699
      @gerryparker7699 7 місяців тому

      Have you actually been in a school recently. Sound more like a daily telegraph reader in their late 60s. Do read more widely.

  • @rsmithp51
    @rsmithp51 7 місяців тому

    I left also because of the pandemic. The stress of teaching online and face-to-face at the same time was overwhelming. I developed a fight or flight reaction from the stress which caused me to not sleep for about six months. I resigned because of health reasons. And I thought for 18 years. It is a very stressful job to say the least

  • @danielgibson1441
    @danielgibson1441 7 місяців тому

    I feel exactly the same, dam

  • @jackyhallmark3094
    @jackyhallmark3094 7 місяців тому

    Anyone who deals with the public deals with crap.

  • @jojoy1191
    @jojoy1191 7 місяців тому

    I’ve quit too! After 12 years. And have ended up being asked to teach home school children. It’s getting big! I think schools with struggle to continue in the future as more teachers continue to quit

  • @nickcharles1284
    @nickcharles1284 7 місяців тому

    You didn't specify the reasons you left. Which is odd.

    • @RickyWatter32
      @RickyWatter32 7 місяців тому

      Lolololol

    • @nickcharles1284
      @nickcharles1284 7 місяців тому

      He made general comments, but never cited examples. @@RickyWatter32

  • @PhilipTonkyn
    @PhilipTonkyn 7 місяців тому

    I walked out of my teaching job mid-morning - a department head in an independent secondary school after 36 years of service. That was twenty-one years ago, and I still have nightmares about it nearly every night.

  • @metalema6
    @metalema6 7 місяців тому

    Working with ipad-addicted kids has become impossible.

  • @grendelcandy8760
    @grendelcandy8760 8 місяців тому

    Not a teacher, think you're all mad! But will say the best teacher I had at secondary school was a hard case. !st lesson had us sit down and shut up, then stated if we wanted an "O" level in biology he would teach us to a high grade. In the next breathe stated he wouldn't take attendance, chase us for homework and ideally if a student didn't want to work, please leave know and never darken my door . .2 years later . . . 100 percent pass rate non lower than a "B"

  • @clivebaxter6354
    @clivebaxter6354 8 місяців тому

    Bring back the cane!

  • @danidjojo
    @danidjojo 8 місяців тому

    My physical and mental health is declining in 10years of teaching. The thought alone of quitting makes me Happy 😢

  • @gilles366
    @gilles366 9 місяців тому

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @Dcraine
    @Dcraine 9 місяців тому

    Why I DIDN'T Quit Teaching!: ua-cam.com/video/-kEPSxCjU3Q/v-deo.htmlsi=kn4sIH4SuZBYWtmF