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Payal Dhanda
United States
Приєднався 19 жов 2023
Hi, I’m Payal a South Asian girly pop in her early 20’s!!
I’m all about showing you how to *WORK HARD, HAVE FUN* and just live your best life while chasing your dreams.
You’ll find a mix of **real, relatable personal growth** talks and fun, girly lifestyle content-like travel vlogs, events, and comfy chats.
Life’s too short to be worried & serious all the time, right?
I want to make sure you feel **seen and heard**, especially when it comes to those tough moments-whether you’re overthinking, people-pleasing, or just figuring things out. If you’re starting a business or just trying to make sense of it all, you’re in the right place!
This space is for folks in their 20s and 30s who are ready to grow, have fun, and build their dream life at the same time. So if you want some inspo, real talk, and a lot of good vibes, hit that subscribe button and let’s do this! 💖✨
I’m all about showing you how to *WORK HARD, HAVE FUN* and just live your best life while chasing your dreams.
You’ll find a mix of **real, relatable personal growth** talks and fun, girly lifestyle content-like travel vlogs, events, and comfy chats.
Life’s too short to be worried & serious all the time, right?
I want to make sure you feel **seen and heard**, especially when it comes to those tough moments-whether you’re overthinking, people-pleasing, or just figuring things out. If you’re starting a business or just trying to make sense of it all, you’re in the right place!
This space is for folks in their 20s and 30s who are ready to grow, have fun, and build their dream life at the same time. So if you want some inspo, real talk, and a lot of good vibes, hit that subscribe button and let’s do this! 💖✨
...from People-Pleaser to Confident Decision-Maker: Here’s How
What if you could finally stop fearing being wrong or disappointing others-whether it’s your family, your job, or anyone else-and start living your life for YOU without guilt? Sounds impossible, right? In this video, I’m sharing my own experience of moving from New York to Florida, breaking free from people-pleasing, and stepping into confidence one decision at a time.
We’ll dive into:
✨ The Root Cause of People-Pleasing - How upbringing and societal expectations shaped us.
✨ Breaking the Cycle - Recognizing the toxic patterns that hold us back.
✨ The Shift - Practical tips to go from a people-pleaser to a confident decision-maker.
This is your sign to start showing up for yourself, unapologetically. 💕 Stick around until the end for an important reflection exercise and don’t forget to set a reminder for Sunday’s follow-up video packed with actionable takeaways to build confidence!
👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more self-growth content. Let’s navigate this messy middle of our 20s-together! 🌟
#PeoplePleasing #ConfidenceBuilding #SelfGrowth
We’ll dive into:
✨ The Root Cause of People-Pleasing - How upbringing and societal expectations shaped us.
✨ Breaking the Cycle - Recognizing the toxic patterns that hold us back.
✨ The Shift - Practical tips to go from a people-pleaser to a confident decision-maker.
This is your sign to start showing up for yourself, unapologetically. 💕 Stick around until the end for an important reflection exercise and don’t forget to set a reminder for Sunday’s follow-up video packed with actionable takeaways to build confidence!
👉 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more self-growth content. Let’s navigate this messy middle of our 20s-together! 🌟
#PeoplePleasing #ConfidenceBuilding #SelfGrowth
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Відео
Fixing My 20s Crisis (the solutions)
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Do you ever feel like everyone else has life all figured out, and you're just stuck in the messy middle? Like you're running as fast as you can but still feel behind? Trust me, you're not alone-and it's time we talk about it. 💬 Hi, I'm Payal, your girlypop in her 20s, and welcome to Messy Middle Diaries! 🎥 This series is a safe space where we're diving into the struggles no one talks about: com...
Get Unstuck in 5 Minutes: Free Goal-Setting Workbook!
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✨ Ready to reflect, reset, and realign for 2025? Let’s do this-together! ✨ In this video, we’re diving into my 2024 Reflection Worksheet to celebrate wins, uncover lessons, and set powerful intentions for the new year. Grab a pen, take action in real time, and let’s make progress TOGETHER! 📥 Get your FREE copy of the workbook! Email me at connect@talkswithpayal.com with the subject line “Workbo...
I Wrote to My FUTURE SELF a Year Ago and Got a SURPRISING Response!
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Ever wondered what would happen if you wrote a letter to your future self? I took the challenge and wrote to myself a year ago, and the response I got was SHOCKING! In this video, I'm sharing my incredible experience and the lessons I learned from it. From self-reflection to personal growth, this experiment taught me so much about myself and my goals. If you're curious about the surprises that ...
WE Tried DNA Testing To Find OUR Heritage!
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Well, these DNA results took us by complete surprise!! We hear it all the time - how Indian Joe looks, and I wanted to jump on that bandwagon OF DNA TESTING (LOL)! But what came as a hilarious twist are my results!! Stick around until the end to see how I got tricked into believing I was "99% South Asian" but NOT REALLY! Mentioning 0:54 - @AlannaandIvor @myheritage #couplegoals #funnyvideos #co...
..Why I Took The LEAP And Started YouTube! (as a shy girl)
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..Why I Took The LEAP And Started UA-cam! (as a shy girl)
PHUKET - MOM'S FIRST INTERNATIONAL TRIP EVER!
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PHUKET - MOM'S FIRST INTERNATIONAL TRIP EVER!
American Boyfriend Meets Indian Mom (HILARIOUS and WHOLSOME)
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American Boyfriend Meets Indian Mom (HILARIOUS and WHOLSOME)
Breaking Barriers: The Journey of a South Asian Woman
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Breaking Barriers: The Journey of a South Asian Woman
Solo Exploring & Self-Care: West Palm Beach
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Solo Exploring & Self-Care: West Palm Beach
...a weekend in West Palm Beach! Vlog day 1: Yapping, Packing, Vault Conference 2024, & Dinner Date
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...a weekend in West Palm Beach! Vlog day 1: Yapping, Packing, Vault Conference 2024, & Dinner Date
Navigating Weight Comments in Your 20s: My Journey
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Navigating Weight Comments in Your 20s: My Journey
...this is your sign to collect more memories! Come decorate with me while I give you a sneak peak..
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...this is your sign to collect more memories! Come decorate with me while I give you a sneak peak..
... dealing with loneliness in your 20's (you're NOT alone)
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... dealing with loneliness in your 20's (you're NOT alone)
Why I Left New York After Living There 7 years + Where I Live Now
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Why I Left New York After Living There 7 years Where I Live Now
Turning Breakdowns into Breakthroughs
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Turning Breakdowns into Breakthroughs
Your Day 1 itinerary for your Salt Lake City trip⛰️! #saltlakecity #travelvlog #utahtravel #utah
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Your Day 1 itinerary for your Salt Lake City trip⛰️! #saltlakecity #travelvlog #utahtravel #utah
Being Misunderstood Sucks! Here is what to do:
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Being Misunderstood Sucks! Here is what to do:
Loved this video! I’m definitely a people pleaser 🤍
Aww thanks for the comment Laura! You ll love the next video with some actionable tools, we all will be our most confident selves this year❤
Proud of u betu❤️ luv u 💕
@@soniaabrol6060 love youuuu thank youuuuu
I love this tradition of yours. 💕💞 It's January 1 but I guess it's not too late to create a letter for myself for 2026🍷💕
Aww definitely!! I'm sure you'll be so surprised to read your future self's thoughts! I can't wait to see what you do! 🎉
Thank you. see you on 2026's new year!💘❤️
MyHeritage has been known to fake the results
Oh really, I was planning to use that one too.
5:21 what was that reaction com'on ?
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Cute Taasha 😊
All there of you hit the lottery ❤
AWWW SHE LOOKS SO CUTEEE
wishing the best to you and your sweet baby❤️
Bless you for helping her thru her trauma into a blessed life with you
Taasha u r very cute💕
You have got a precious sweetheart there❤❤❤❤ what an angel❤❤❤❤
Taasha u r very cute baby😘
Mera baccha 🥰
Yessir Italy in the house!
Turkish ancestry is obvious. All west asian invaders in India were of turkic origin.
Why it's shocking all of them has some valid reasons , Irish , Scottish and English PPL used to work here in India during British rule , Turkish becoz Turks invaded India the most..
Payal, these tests are crap as far as Indian samples are concerned as their samples are only focused on Europe and America. Junk them , throw them in dustbin..... Indian gene bank is being compiled and catalogued but as far as information is concerned THEY are not available to these pesky companies in WEST
the Irish or scottish part of you most likely comes from the colonial rule of the British Empire in India. Plus even before that many foreign merchants and traders from Europe and other parts used to visit India as it was the richest land.
That's so true!!
That Irish and Scottish is actually indo aryan dna from vedic period not related to britishers. Indians did not mixed with britishers due to rigid caste system in india.
@@dragonz1243 no they are not brother!! Scottish and Irish people are of Celtic heritage originally inhabiting Europe and NOT indo aryan dna! Plus British were not the only europeans to have ever set food in India! and even some of them could have scottish dna! IF the theory of Indo-Aryan is to be believed, it is from migration of Proto-Indo-european speaking groups into SOuth Asia. Also, You'd be surprised to know the number of half Indian children being born considering the soldiers staying for long periods of time in India. Of course not all stayed here! The ones remained behind adapted to Indian culture and traditions with a local identity
@kk-ey2pn thats not how it happened britishers who mixed with indians were called Anglo indian many of them left India with britishers other than that it was nearly impossible to mix with Indians due to caste system. Indians don't mix even in same gotra(clan) forget about different ethinicity altogether. Indus valley civilization was mix of ancestral south indian(ASI-first indians)+ zagros(east iranian) then later in vedic period they mixed with steppe(indo Europeans) some specific indian communities carry upto 40-45% of steppe components(for ex- jats and rors of haryana) funfact jats and rors from haryana are genetically more closer to dagestani( Russians) than to a marathi from Maharashtra. This excess steppe component in some of indians is shown as british/scottish in these dna tests going by your logic mixing with britishers was more common in south and bengal then why north Indians like punjabis and haryanvis score more of Scottish British dna while they were so strict in terms of mixing with other ethnicities
@@dragonz1243 lol relax bro! I said the same thing that many of the children left India while others stayed. Yes, we know them as anglo Indians. So I don't know what mixing part you keep stressing about! if you talking about gotra and everything, yes marriages were not common though rare! As for the British and scottish DNA, there isn't one particular possibility. For a long time The Aryan Invasion theory existed before changing to Aryan Migration theory and now they say it originated from Iran!! Many of those researchers did not want to accept that India had its own people and civilization and rather they say people from outside came and settled here. The possibility of what is now considered european dna also has Indian or Asian part is now being explored in research ever since the discovery of the Yamnaya tribe, They had Indian and Asian roots who invaded european settlements. And if we keep all that aside, still ancient India in its hey day had many people visit from outside for business and culture. Hopefully we return to that glory and the world sees itself as one (Vasudev Kutumbukam)
Ancestors did something crazy in the past 😂😂😂😂..guess the same is true for loads of people..we are all hybrids 😂😂😂😂
HAHA this is the funniest comment! I was living under a rock thinking I am fully south asian lmfao
How did you build your American accent?
Hi Shanice, I moved to NY about 10 years ago and went to college here and joined a bunch of speaking clubs so I think just listening to others around me in those clubs and being socially involved helped! (I also think I watched the show "friends" a lot before moving so had a slight knack for the accent then as well).
Reason (conquest ,empire building, refugees)Migration from greek,irani , middle asian , central asian european etc to india ... Most north indian are of mixed race ..
Yeah this makes a lot of sense!! I was just surprised haha!
conquest yes but not because of the empires you're stating. oe major mix happened, but thats before the invasions you're talking about. the one you stated like muslim rule and the british invasions caused almost no genetic impact on indians expect for some muslims and anglo indians. the reason she had those results are because of aryan invaders. our languages are indo aryan. they came around 3500 years ago and they mostly made impact on the northern subcontinent. even moreso in the northwest region like punjab, haryana, kashmir, rajasthan, etc. The combo of central asian/west asian/euro is from the steppe dna. its from central asia but they were themselves mixed of all those components. most punjabi jats get similar results like her. many upper caste brahmins too since aryan mix is highest among the northwest groups and upper castes in the subcontinent.
@@yoloswag1357 I hate it to break it to you but the so called Aryan Invasion theory has gotten debunked to Aryan Migration and now they say people actually came from Iran😁Yes other invasions could be the reason but also many people used to visit India on business during its ancient glory. People have found Roman and greek DNA strands too in their 23 and me report!!
@@kk-ey2pn i hate to break it to you but aryan invasion is not debuked at all. Its just twisted to suit indian nationalist approach thats all. there is literally genetic proof and half of north indians have R1a paternal dna haplogroup which is from aryans in central asia. India isnt the only place they went. they went to iran, europe, and within other parts of central asia. there is literally no greek dna even in afghans/pakistanis, let alone indians. 23andme shows recent ancestry which is almost always south asian. Its the other sites that the girl in the video used for example. Its myheritage dna which shows more ancient mixture. as i mentioned, most northwest indians, pakistanis, pahadis, upper caste north indians in general get some aryan showing up in forms of euro/west asian admix.
@@yoloswag1357 and I hate to break it to you but like I said they already moved from Aryan Invasion to Aryan Migration theory! also tell me who are those Indian nationalists btw? better yet, tell me who are the so called Aryans? Given their greatness and impact on historical, cultural lore till the 20th century, there is no evidence of their civilization or symbols! The world has evidence of Egyptian civilization, Mayan civilization and the Indus valley civilization even though we don't know what happened to the Indus and Mohenjodaro! Though we know that their symbols have advanced yogasana postures in them! the same researchers and historians will tell you that Aryan originates from the Proto-Indo-Iranian word "arya," which means "noble" or "distinguished" and is actually derived from Sanskrit. We have been using it since Ramayan and Mahabharat era! As for the R1a haplogroup, which is found throughout Eurasia, it could have originated in India and underwent diversification in the vicinity of Iran and Eastern Turkey around 5800 years ago. Ancient Indians carrying R1a lineages could have migrated westward from India during the Copper, Bronze, and Iron ages, partially replacing previous Y-chromosome strata in those regions. I am saying that because our ancient texts and scriptures were detailed and cannot be made by some traveling gypsies but an already established civilization. Remnants of Indian culture can be found worldwide today in some or the other form. Please understand that scholarship and even scientific research is always debatable with new theory and evidence showing up. And you need not believe blindly just because it was said by a foreign institute or website.
Only south Indians are natives of India ❤
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Nice joke
@@iitnakanpur.. cry more
@1oneknows if you agree or not that's the truth
Buddy if you are saying south indians are native to India than you are not referring to India itself but just the southern part of the Indian landmass and therefore everyone is native to some landmass meaning every human is native to huge chunks of land and dirt🤡
Irish Phir bhi dil hai hindustani Lmao!
CHAK DE PHATTE
i’m half white and mexican and all of my indian friends tell me i look like their friends back home
@@coffeycoffey1829 lmfaooo same with him! All my Indian friends assumed he is Indian too at first! And everyone says I look Latina😭
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