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Bob Buchanan caul
United States
Приєднався 26 тра 2019
This channel is about my caulbearer (medium) work. I will talk about the sessions I have had & also upload actual videos.
Constructive Criticism
All too often, we get sidetracked by negative people, we let them get into our heads. This goes for everything we do, whether it's a personal or professional relationship. I speak about both in this video, but the best example is when I started my journey as a professional photographer. I am self-taught, I had no knowledge of how this worked or what I would go through as I pitched clients, but I learned quickly.
The most important thing I learned, which helped me get through everything in life, is by learning the difference between Constructive Criticism and Destructive Criticism. With social media having a big impact on our lives learning to navigate through the people who come on and attempt to control us with destructive things to say. You must learn to identify them and ignore them, these are people who have nothing to add to your life but attempt to elevate themselves above you. They add nothing to the conversations, on sites such as Facebook, Tictok, Nextdoor, or any other sites you are on. They are people who have low self-esteem or no confidence. They are angry and look to start something with you DO NOT give them the power.
It's their issue that causes them to do this, don't make it your issue learn to scroll past it and ignore it don't give it any power. You will be much better off once you have learned the trick to doing that.
Live your life for you as you see fit it's the only way to live.
BTW; if you want to see my photography work you can see it at bobbuchanan.com
The most important thing I learned, which helped me get through everything in life, is by learning the difference between Constructive Criticism and Destructive Criticism. With social media having a big impact on our lives learning to navigate through the people who come on and attempt to control us with destructive things to say. You must learn to identify them and ignore them, these are people who have nothing to add to your life but attempt to elevate themselves above you. They add nothing to the conversations, on sites such as Facebook, Tictok, Nextdoor, or any other sites you are on. They are people who have low self-esteem or no confidence. They are angry and look to start something with you DO NOT give them the power.
It's their issue that causes them to do this, don't make it your issue learn to scroll past it and ignore it don't give it any power. You will be much better off once you have learned the trick to doing that.
Live your life for you as you see fit it's the only way to live.
BTW; if you want to see my photography work you can see it at bobbuchanan.com
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Відео
you can change
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You Can Change One of the most difficult sessions I had was with Carol, she was in such a bad place she felt lost, no hope of finding herself. She lived a horrible life until she was finally unable to avoid jail. On her way to jail, she was in a panic and projected how bad it would be she was convinced she would die. That projection thing you have heard me go on about so often. AGAIN, projectin...
I heard the name Jimmy
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I don't often hear names but I was doing a group session when I heard, Jimmy. I asked the group if Jimmy meant anything to anyone. Everyone in the room said no, a moment later Susan who was sitting on my right said it meant something to her. Now, when I hear a name it's like a breeze blowing through the room, it isn't a soul saying it. I asked Susan if the person was here or passed, she said he...
Never Give Up, Never Give In
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I often have clients tell me life just isn't going well. No matter what they try, things never change. That statement is self-defeating. Stop and think about what is causing this. It's you, your lack of confidence. No matter what happens, consider things a challenge, not a defeat. You can overcome most things that get in your way. Step up and do it. I have had much success working with others t...
Don't let lies control you
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I am using the last election as an example I'm not taking sides because it's a great example of how projection & lies are ruining lives. People have allowed lies to control how they think, their hate and anger are so great they can not see clearly. I have been told by clients they will be sent to camps, and their children will lose their freedom. I am telling you none of that will happen. \Lear...
Lighting lights
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I was doing a group session, and as usual, I had a number of parents come through. Everyone at the table got messages, and it was an interesting evening. When I do sessions I close my eyes often. I do this so I can see the B&W movie more clearly and so I don't see facial expressions, which may take me away from the messages my client is receiving. This is a journey to the destination the souls ...
How I work
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I am always asked how this works for me, This is a very short video on how this works for me.
Look Beyond Words
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My client Joanne, asked me, when our session finished, if she would find a man, a relationship. She told me she's been unlucky when it comes to relationships. I will get that question from time to time. As in the title of my second book, " I Can't Find You A Boyfriend, or Your Keys", I try not to do relationships. I have found especially when I was a cop, that, many people listen to what they a...
The floating leaf, I asked for a sign
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I have been in a bad place for a while. Like most people in this country, I am struggling financially. Yes, even caulbearers go through tough times. I am not a quitter, I never give up but sometimes things build up. With the financial and personal issues as well, it was a struggle, I turned to God for help. God has granted me the gifts I have, and I am grateful for them because they allow me to...
What is success
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Success you will not have to chase the money. I love a show on NYC PBS called Profiles with Mickey Burns. He interviews successful people in the arts. They are musicians, writers, performers, and others. What I noticed about the talent on the show, they, all followed their passion, most were driven to create something following their love of their art, no it isn't about the money it never was. ...
Her Twin boys were in a serious accident
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Many years ago, I’m going to say seventeen, when AOL had chatroom's, I had a woman from the North Shore of Long Island NY contact me because she saw I was a photographer and she was very interested in photography. We became friends and although we had many plans to grab hot chocolate we never did. One day her 2 boys were in a horrible auto accident, it was touch and go for some time. With all t...
He is having a grandson.
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During a session with my client Steven, several things happened but the two that stood out the most were, the big Floppy hat (see here, ua-cam.com/video/0dZoPOXbmlE/v-deo.html) where Steven's mom is very active around him & his family. At the end of our session, I asked Steven if he was a grandfather, and he said no. He informed me his son had just gotten married. I asked are you sure you don't...
Never project to far in advance
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AA client of mine, Taylor, I actually, several clients who project upon their lives and how nothing will ever change. They are sure the way things are today will never be different. They feel stuck, they hate their jobs or a personal relationship is bad and believe, this is it this is the way it will always be. Do not do that to yourself, everything, changes and you can make those changes in yo...
Dad came to me & Aunt Mary Too
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I received a phone call on Sunday afternoon from Karen she was distraught over what happened at five AM. Karen told me she heard footsteps that woke her up about five AM. When she looked to her right, she saw a man looking out her window. It frightened Karen not knowing who this man was or what was happening. Karen did know it wasn’t someone from this side and she knew she had to do something a...
Stevens wife & the big floppy hat
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During a session with Steven who I have seen several times over the years, his dad came through. His dad with whom he wasn’t close too passed the week before. We were getting messages from his dad when his mother came in. Steven was close to his mom. The 1st time I saw him was right after she passed. She was also very close to his wife & kids. The messages shifted, mom showed me his wife is an ...
Was my six-year-old client seeing the souls, my five-year-old Granddaughter too?
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Was my six-year-old client seeing the souls, my five-year-old Granddaughter too?
Your like me. I live to help others.. Sometimes I can't help myself...still would never stop me from being helpful to others
I look forward to hearing what you have to say- you are inspiring
Happy Holidays my dear Friend. Great message. Xo Meeps
I will never give up! Sound advice Bob! Happy Holidays. 🎄 xo Meeps
I like this message . Needed to hear this. Very true words. Thank you.
Thank you for watching.
Bob… it’s me, Meeps. I’m dealing with lies from close family members doing this to me. It’s hard. Love your message.
@@MK-lw2zb keep control over that. Don't let them in.
Another great point Bob... you should put these videos up on your Substack publication... - Uhm... editing...
I stopped substack, I was getting 2 maybe 3 views. take away you & it 1 or 2. I felt like I was writing in my diary. LOL
Is it that tough to blow your nose before you make a video?
Sorry I annoyed you but it's a condition it's not that easy, sorry, thanks for the comment, you're right.
Love the purple shirt. You are the Donny Osmond of Caulbearers!
Who is Donny Osmond LOL. No I'm just me, thanks for the message.
Your skills are amazing Bob! You're awesome!!
Thanks so much!
Such wonderful words thanks bob. 🙏
I am a Caulbearer. I led most of the Convoys in Afghanistan and we were attacked and nothing ever happened.
I would love to hear more about this.
My parents truly got me to you. They knew I was at a point of desperation.
Thank you foryour comment.
Great message! Thank you.
Atheists can also believe in after lives and life paths.
ok, I'm not sure how if all with whom I speak with tell me this is it & once death comes that is final, there is nothing more.
@@bobbuchanancaul43 We are all a product of our experiences.
Thank you for sharing your journey!
Tell it like it is Bob!!
always!😀
So thought-provoking, always. How do you avoid toxic people who are part of your family? That's a tough one for me.
Yes it is difficult, do not give them the power they don't deserve it. Look at it as it's their issues not yours. Interact with the as little as possible no matter how difficult that is. I had an uncle who was close to my cousin he was always at he house for parties. I just did my thing & ignored him. It's often someone who is jealous of you because the perceive you have a better life of someone who feels superior, they are not. Reach outo me we can talk about it.
Thanks. I found this very helpful. There's someone in my family who I continue to hold a grudge against, no matter how hard I try. For a while, I let it go, now it keeps sneaking back. I found your words very encouraging.
Children are a lot more open minded.
they are. Not a lot coming at them at that age.
You're a character Bob... thanks for sharing your experiences. You are a true original.
You have no idea, yes you actually do... LOL. I have kept my sense of humor, it gets & Has gotten me through a lot of hardship. Thank you for the comment.
Some people are just not nice,
True, I handle it with my sense of humor.
Thank you! Enjoy your Sunday.
Be mindful. Thanks Bob
One day at a time.
Great story. Thank you.
Thank you.
Bob is a true gift in my life. I left my first soulful life session feeling a bolt of massive insperation and a push like I've never felt before. I look forward to our monthly sessions. Anyone interested in this work should trust it in full faith. I know he will do what he's done for me in a short time to anyone he works with. Thank you, Bob!
Thank you Mia, I appreciate this post.
Just excuses to cut out...they set themselves up to fail.
I agree, but sadly it's happening more & more.
Bob is Amazing, I had a few sessions with him. Will not disappoint. Will be reaching out, I am overdue for one of his sessions...TTYS Bob 😊
Thank you Marisa, I hope all is well.
Wonderful love story!
It's true... except the name I always change the name unless I get permission to use the real name, I always ask permission to use the story.
My pleasure
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!
Thank you
Thank you for explaining!
My Pleasure.
how interesting...i really shouldnt listen to this at night! lol! ill come back during the day!
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Your blessed. Listen to them.❤
WOW!
Think positively
Subscribed.
Ok, found this channel from your comment on your tictoc post of this same visit.
Thank you for following me. I appreciate it
Amazing! Thank you for sharing.
We can make the choice to be happy.
We do but some can't make that choice. I just hope I can help those who can't find the strength. Thank you
Thanks Bobby!
Thank you.
Keep up the great work Bobby!
Great video. Thanks Bobby
Thank you.
Good evening from NY
Anger can consume you.
Thank you for my Sunday pick up
Thank you for tuning in, I really appreciated it.
We find what we need. You are amazing.
most do but not all. Strength is needed for change but not everyone has it.
This is SO true! Always love your insights and messages !
Stay positive !