Autism, Twins & Us
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Chritmas Jumper Day & Tree Time|Autism Family Vlog_348
#autism #autistic #autismAwareness
Hi viewers, it's Chritmas Jumper Day and until this year getting George to partake has always been a task. Well things have changed. Why is anyones guess, maybe he just liked the jumper, maybe it's just because as the big day approaches he's more willing. Anyway hope you enjoy the vlog.
Adan and the Gang
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Welcome to Autism, Twins & Us,
I'm Adam, married to Amy and we're parents of Autistic twins George and Matthew.
We plan to release vlogs normally twice a week covering our lives as a family with autistic twins with complex needs,
the daily challenges about Autism, prematurity and just our family's journey.
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Learner of the Week & New Camera|Autism Family Vlog_347
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#autism #autistic #autismawareness Learner of the Week this week for Matthew, well Home Learner which is for his actual homework. He's been trying since September to get it so hopefully now he eventually got it he can just relax a little every week. Also after using the Canon M3 for 6 years I took the plunge on Black Friday to get an amazing deal on the Canon R8 which is a full frame camera. Ho...
Boys Solo Few Days|Autism Family Vlog_346
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#autism #autistic #autismAwareness Boys Solo Few Days whilst Amy has gone away for a few days. Watch to see how we got on. Adam and There Gang Channel Description Welcome to Autism, Twins & Us, I'm Adam, married to Amy and we're parents of Autistic twins George and Matthew. We plan to release vlogs normally twice a week covering our lives as a family with autistic twins with complex needs, the ...
Bad Mummy|Autism Family Vlog_345
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#autism #autistic #autismawareness This is a very SHORT video, It's intended to show how you have to watch what you say around George, WARNING: There is a Swear Word in this little video. IF you are offended by a SWEAR word. DO NOT watch this Video. Adam and The Gang Channel Description Welcome to Autism, Twins & Us, I'm Adam, married to Amy and we're parents of Autistic twins George and Matthe...
Minor Operation Required|Autism Family Vlog_344
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#autism #autistic #autismawareness Minor Operation Required for George in January/February but good to get it done and out the way and Amy prepares to go away. Enjoy Adam and the Gang Channel Description Welcome to Autism, Twins & Us, I'm Adam, married to Amy and we're parents of Autistic twins George and Matthew. We plan to release vlogs normally twice a week covering our lives as a family wit...
Sunday Fun|Autism Family Vlog_343
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#autism #autistic #autismawareness Sunday Fun for my first weekend off work, I asked the twins last week if they wanted to go to the beach and they said NO. George since then was saying beach on Sunday so that's what we did. It's even better now as from November to March it's free parking and a free day out with just fresh air and views. Who else is lucky to live near the sea? Anyway hope your ...
Getting Out|Autism Family Vlog_342
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#autism #autistic #autismawareness Getting Out and about is so important not just for the boys but me aswell. Come join us for a little wander and Matthew also tries his first Subway Sandwich. Channel Description Welcome to Autism, Twins & Us, I'm Adam, married to Amy and we're parents of Autistic twins George and Matthew. We plan to release vlogs normally twice a week covering our lives as a f...
Willy Wonka & The Chocolate Factory Original in 2024|Autism Family Vlog_341
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#autism #autistic #autismawareness Thought after Matthew read Charlie and The Chocolate Factory he'd be keen to watch the original film from 1971, so we headed to get some snacks and Matthew gives his verdict at the end. Hope you enjoy this little video. Adam and the Gang. Channel Description Welcome to Autism, Twins & Us, I'm Adam, married to Amy and we're parents of Autistic twins George and ...
EHCP And Parents Evening|Autism Family Vlog_340
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#autism #autistic #autismawareness Hi all subscribers old and new, hope your all well? been a week of appointments for EHCP's and Parents evening so we have a little chat about what's gone on. Anyone else been embroiled in appointments ? Adam and the gang. Channel Description Welcome to Autism, Twins & Us, I'm Adam, married to Amy and we're parents of Autistic twins George and Matthew. We plan ...
Trying to Parent Autistic Twins|Autism Family Vlog_339
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#autism #autistic #autismawareness Trying to Parent Autistic Twins comes with many challenges. I'm fully aware it can be the same for parents of neurotypical children also but getting our boys to understand cause and effect is proving really difficult. Anyway we discuss some of the challenges in this video. I'm sure what not alone. Leave us a comment in the section if you have any advice you th...
Transitioning Difficulties|Autism Family Vlog_338
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#autism #transition #autismawareness The start to school a couple weeks ago started well but had soon turned into a real difficult time due to transitions which is probably the most challenging thing for George. So I give you a little update which thanks to his teacher and staff seems to of resolved the issues for now. Hopefully it stays like that. It will probably never be perfect nor do I exp...
Making The Most Of Summer|Autism Family Vlog_337
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#autism #autistic #autismawareness Making The Most Of Summer while we can, we're finally into the last week so a visit to the Box Museum in Plymouth to see the Woolly Mammoth, a trip to the park for George and I and whilst George is out Matthew gets his haircut and we go about making a Wreck it Ralph car from cardboard for George as he spied one being made on UA-cam. Hope you enjoy Adam and the...
Getting Through Summer Break|Autism Family Vlog_336
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#autism #autistic #autismawareness Getting Through Summer Break slowly but surely. We've been plodding along pretty well, George has been spending quite a bit of time between going out with is one to one on outings. Matthew has pent a bit of time reading in between the chaos and I managed a couple hours tattoo session which was long overdue. Just a little vlog as a catch up. Hope you're all sur...
Hospital Failure|Autism Family Vlog_335
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#autism #hospital #autismawareness Hospital appointments are always a huge challenge for us and especially George. He had an appointment that just was a complete shambles from start to finish. I try to make all our videos positive so I've added in some other footage from a little walk. Hopefully you guys can relate to the frustration. Hope all your summer breaks are going ok. all the best Adam ...
The One Where She Turned FORTY|Autism Family Vlog_334
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The One Where She Turned FORTY|Autism Family Vlog_334
An Autism Picnic|Autism Family Vlog_333
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An Autism Picnic|Autism Family Vlog_333
Summer Break and Meeting their Baby Cousin|Autism Family Vlog_332
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Summer Break and Meeting their Baby Cousin|Autism Family Vlog_332
School Report & Gifts|Autism Family Vlog_331
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School Report & Gifts|Autism Family Vlog_331
Amy Escapes|Autism Family Vlog_330
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Amy Escapes|Autism Family Vlog_330
A Week In The Life|Autism Family Vlog _329
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A Week In The Life|Autism Family Vlog _329
A Dads DreamlAutism Family Vlog_328
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Father's Day Weekend|Autism Family Vlog_327
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Father's Day Weekend|Autism Family Vlog_327
A Beach WIN|Autism Family Vlog_326
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A Beach WIN|Autism Family Vlog_326
A Video About Nothing|Autism Family Vlog_325
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A Video About Nothing|Autism Family Vlog_325
Autism DIET|Autism Family Vlog_324
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Autism DIET|Autism Family Vlog_324
School Break|Autism Family Vlog_323
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School Break|Autism Family Vlog_323
Matthew Learnt to Ride a Bike|Autism Family Vlog_322
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Spring Days|Autism Family Vlog_321
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Autistic Cyclist|Autism Family Vlog_320
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Get an Access Card|Autism Family Vlog_319
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  • @elenadelawder6913
    @elenadelawder6913 3 години тому

    Tree looks awesome

  • @Legomoviefan2008
    @Legomoviefan2008 3 години тому

    I know it wasn’t shown on the video but I wanted to mention it. Now I personally don’t own any toys from Toy Story 4 because I was already outgrown with toys at the time but I had a friend with autism and he loves Toy Story and I remembered one time I was in a birthday party with him and he had a duke kaboom toy and I remember he was playing with it all the time. I also have autism but I wouldn’t say I like 3 and 4. I only like the first 2.

  • @Lynne-mg4ir
    @Lynne-mg4ir 8 годин тому

    You're 🎄looks lovely ♥️

  • @aaronwebb7090
    @aaronwebb7090 8 годин тому

    I think the tree looks fantastic, I really like the frosted tree look.

  • @Truerealism747
    @Truerealism747 3 дні тому

    Pain is my worst symptom

  • @Faye.Louise22
    @Faye.Louise22 3 дні тому

    Ice cream in the morning sounds delicious 😍🤭 well done matthew and mummy! ❤ haircut is smart 🥰 the camera looks 👌🏽 theyre so expensive arent they?! The penguin teddy reminds me of the one Joey has in friends 😂🐧

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 11 годин тому

      Cameras are expensive, waited for Black Friday so was £600 off , thanks for watching Faye x

  • @TheStephensonGrechFamily
    @TheStephensonGrechFamily 5 днів тому

    Well done Matthew

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 5 днів тому

      @@TheStephensonGrechFamily thank you 🙏

  • @ShoresLife
    @ShoresLife 6 днів тому

    Ha, looks like the face of an honest man, nearly angelic! 😂

  • @ShoresLife
    @ShoresLife 14 днів тому

    LOL 😂 I had to look up what it meant!

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 14 днів тому

      @@ShoresLife I don’t think that word is used in the states 😂 I’ve never heard it in a film or tv from America

    • @ShoresLife
      @ShoresLife 14 днів тому

      @ you’re right! I’ve only ever heard it on British movies or shows. Another good one is “bloody hell”. I’ll say that one in my best British accent just for fun 😆

  • @Truerealism747
    @Truerealism747 16 днів тому

    New carpets is sensory modulation disorder a part of autism adhd

  • @aaronwebb7090
    @aaronwebb7090 18 днів тому

    I can't speak from a parents perspective but I can speak from Matthews, kind of. That frustration will never go away but it is manageable, however you are doing the right thing by removing the source of frustration. For me the source of frustration was internal, I couldn't understand how someone could be better than me, and that would often lead to outbursts directed at them. What might help is stepping in as soon as you hear him becoming frustrated and getting him to stop playing so that he can talk though what he is feeling and what is making him feel that way. That way you can explain things to him while also allowing him to reset and calm down. Even now at nearly 40 I will exit games the moment I feel myself becoming frustrated but that took a lot of self learning. Now as for George. I think you are right in thinking that giving in will only exacerbate the problem and with modern advertising and the perpetual hunt for profits it will never be easy but perhaps a solution could be to choose a specific time frame between new toy purchases and then do your best to stick to that plan, but of course forgive indiscretions. Might it be possible to remove some older, less used, toys to somewhere he won't easily find them so that they can be given back at a later date? I know it isn't always possible since we all fixate on different things and I don't know what his fixations are specifically.

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 16 днів тому

      Thanks for sharing your experience, I hope some subscribers view and read this post you’ve made , it all helps with awareness

  • @aaronwebb7090
    @aaronwebb7090 18 днів тому

    I have never liked trick questions but they are some of the best questions to ask when trying to gauge understanding. I can understand by Matthew's explanation that he confused the steps of multiplying fractions with adding fractions.

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 18 днів тому

      I’m don’t get fractions , never did as a kid and still don’t know and im 43

  • @aaronwebb7090
    @aaronwebb7090 18 днів тому

    Tis a little late, but what the young fella was trying to explain with gifting is this - You can use your V-Bucks to buy a gift from the item store for someone but once you have bought an item you can't trade that item to someone else.

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 18 днів тому

      Yes he did explain it to Amy , I’m not clued up on Fortnite tbh , when I was a teen it was all N64 and Goldeneye and you had play play with people in the same bedroom not online like nowadays

  • @ShoresLife
    @ShoresLife 18 днів тому

    Your shopping village sounds like what we call an outlet store here in the states. We live around 40 minutes from a huge outlet center in San Marcos. Kinda like a large outdoor mall with like 100 stores! Looks like Amy had a great haul! George can really fly on that spinning chair 😊

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 18 днів тому

      Thanks for watching Dave. Yeah, he certainly can get some speed on that thing and yeah, it is an out of town shopping village.

  • @Townsendadventures
    @Townsendadventures 19 днів тому

    Well done Amy!!❤ Yeah once a year or just try do more if you can because it hard work . Nice video Adam well done what a wonderful hubby and dad

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 18 днів тому

      Thanks for watching Michelle. I’m really glad Amy got to go away fully deserved little break.

    • @Townsendadventures
      @Townsendadventures 18 днів тому

      @ so important for us parents get a break also good for the boys I know George can find it hard . We are lucky my parents live close enough they have always had weekends there so that break for one or two night for us is godsend won’t happen much longer as parents getting older .

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 18 днів тому

      Yes we only have the 2 grandads left unfortunately and they’re both 71 so can’t really ask them. Life goes by fast 💨

    • @Townsendadventures
      @Townsendadventures 18 днів тому

      @ my parents only ones dad and mum in 74 but they in good health and they want them only time would be i say no is when Matthew having bad week but they love going .

  • @Lauryn-r2h
    @Lauryn-r2h 19 днів тому

    I Am a twin. ❤ also the 21st was my little sister’s birthday. Mine and my twin’s birthday was the 13th and my brother’s was the 6th.

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 19 днів тому

      I am sent on joke of d have twins then I married Amy who’s a twin and we had twins! Are you an identical or fraternal twin ? Adam

    • @Lauryn-r2h
      @Lauryn-r2h 19 днів тому

      @ I’m an identical twin! ❤️

  • @jayne4475
    @jayne4475 19 днів тому

    Really pleased that all was good for you all. Proud of you Amy Lou xxx

  • @joejoejoejoe7550
    @joejoejoejoe7550 21 день тому

    Okay but his singing is so good!!

  • @Faye.Louise22
    @Faye.Louise22 23 дні тому

    George is a trooper 🥰 I'm glad you are getting it sorted 🥰 have a fab time away Amy ✨

  • @Townsendadventures
    @Townsendadventures 23 дні тому

    Hope you have good time away Amy.

  • @davidshores
    @davidshores 27 днів тому

    Man, so many great memories you and the boys create at the beach. Shouting at the waves, the seaweed “pirates treasure”-I love seeing them just enjoying life. Nice job you and Amy are doing, Adam.

  • @Faye.Louise22
    @Faye.Louise22 28 днів тому

    I love that you're still hitting up the beach - in wellies 🥲🥰✨

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 28 днів тому

      Best time of year to go 😂 no tourists and free parking x

    • @Faye.Louise22
      @Faye.Louise22 27 днів тому

      @@AutismTwinsUs I couldn't agree more! We spent Christmas Eve at the beach one year 🤭😍

  • @gregbouchard414
    @gregbouchard414 Місяць тому

    Is good how are u ok today there boys do a really good job on here

  • @gregbouchard414
    @gregbouchard414 Місяць тому

    I don’t know why kids do at

  • @gregbouchard414
    @gregbouchard414 Місяць тому

    He a really good boy and I hop we can be friends with u at we’ll be good too be good too be friends with u

  • @gregbouchard414
    @gregbouchard414 Місяць тому

    U do a rally good job with there kids and are a rslly good job on here keep up there good work on here keep up there good work with there boys and I hop we can be friends with u at we'll

  • @Faye.Louise22
    @Faye.Louise22 Місяць тому

    Okay the opening to this video is the BEST 😍🤣 i loved seeing the autumnal colours on your walk, its the most beautiful time of the year ✨🍂

  • @mitoinversiones6446
    @mitoinversiones6446 Місяць тому

    WTF kid in UA-cam

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs Місяць тому

      @@mitoinversiones6446 what do you mean

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs Місяць тому

      @@mitoinversiones6446 when Andy finds woody is alive 😂 ua-cam.com/users/shorts29K1rlMYSWQ?si=JrgE0_ERRYACXGfa

  • @matthewcannan2867
    @matthewcannan2867 Місяць тому

    Haha right timing well done!

  • @gregbouchard414
    @gregbouchard414 Місяць тому

    U do a rally good job As a mum and dad I hop we can be friends with u and there boys and there family members too at well be good too do at if u can let me know if we can be friends with u

  • @gregbouchard414
    @gregbouchard414 Місяць тому

    U do a rally good job As a mum and dad I hop we can be friends with u and there boys and there family members too at well be good too do at if u can let me know if we can be friends with u

  • @gregbouchard414
    @gregbouchard414 Місяць тому

    3rd like to fam ab is here check in showing my Support as usual and its good to gat out the house some fresh air and mes people that don't understand wath we go through show there brothers some Love and there family and u are a rally good mum and dad I hop we can be friends with u at well be good too be friends with u and there boys and there family members too I hop we can be friends with u all

  • @nathanjw940
    @nathanjw940 Місяць тому

    Matthew I really like the movie too I hope you are doing great I wish I could share with you my story. I feel like you are where I was sibling with much worse autism. Easy to miss but need a lot of recovery time

  • @laurafitz3868
    @laurafitz3868 Місяць тому

    Loved this 😊 I love watching old classics with my two young boys also!

  • @joanneankers5294
    @joanneankers5294 Місяць тому

    I bet u are so proud of your children

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs Місяць тому

      We are , they both have challenges but on a whole their both doing so well, thanks for watching 👍🏾

  • @joanneankers5294
    @joanneankers5294 Місяць тому

    Children with autism can be calm in school and let out there stress at home

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs Місяць тому

      That’s what Matthews does , masks in school and unravels at home

  • @nathanjw940
    @nathanjw940 Місяць тому

    Matthew reminds me of myself. So proud of how well you are doing in school Matthew. I see Matthews need to decompress when he's home for me it's the delayed processing that frustrates me because I feel like I am not getting the response I expect.

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs Місяць тому

      Yes it’s hard for him to, we need to find some middle ground to gaming somehow as that’s what isn’t helping , he masks all Day in school which we understand as it’s a way to fit in but then when he comes home it all unravels normally whilst gaming ! Certainly don’t want to punish him playing his friends etc but there is a fine line , thanks for your comment Nathan

    • @nathanjw940
      @nathanjw940 Місяць тому

      @@AutismTwinsUs is there something he enjoys watching that isn't video games like UA-cam

    • @nathanjw940
      @nathanjw940 Місяць тому

      @@AutismTwinsUs if you have an area Matthew can go after school that is quiet it could really help him decompress after school not the living room kinda thing.

  • @laurafitz3868
    @laurafitz3868 Місяць тому

    Yes normally May for school offers. Doesn't give a lot of time for finding new schools! Thanks for the update 😊

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs Місяць тому

      So Amy was right 😂 god knows what we’d do if they say they don’t have a spot for him 😂

    • @jjsomewhere
      @jjsomewhere Місяць тому

      We've just completed both EHCP reviews for both the twins here too, and named schools for next September. My understanding is that kids with EHCP's find out their allocated schools when their finalized EHCP is released by PCC which by 15th February next year at the latest. After that you need to decide whether to appeal within two months, and participate in a mediation process, then it goes to a tribunal if it hasn't been resolved, and PCC must go along with the finding of the tribunal. The problem is that right now the tribunal process is taking until after school start in September, so some kids have to stay at home or go to a temporary setting while it's all decided.

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs Місяць тому

      @jeremyjohnson1685 George’s school goes strait through to 18 so he’s fine, Matthew’s choice is just a mainstream so presume we will have to wait until May , the amount of kids I know who’ve had to be home while authorities sort out their placements is a joke Jeremy, such a poor system. ALL children have a legal right to an education

    • @jjsomewhere
      @jjsomewhere Місяць тому

      ​@@AutismTwinsUs I don't think so, it should be named on his EHCP so out by February? We're similar to you, as usual, M is in a mainstream primary having transitioned from a SEN space within the school so mum has named a mainstream secondary in central Plymouth which he should get automatically as he has an EHCP and it's a feeder school for his primary, but V's current school is a primary only special school so he has to move next September. His mum has put down an independent special school which has very limited places, plus it's quite expensive and PCC aren't going to be keen to place him there so watch this space!

    • @jjsomewhere
      @jjsomewhere Місяць тому

      I have to chat to PIAS tomorrow anyway, will ask them.

  • @whatmyohmy
    @whatmyohmy Місяць тому

    Hi, This is a wonderful video of your boys! It's always hard when we have difficulty's with one loved one or two to get through. And to know this is going to be not only the rest of our lives doing it but also the person that has the disorder. Prayer and inner strength is all we can ask for at these times. You have such a wonderful family still. Hold onto each other tight. And keep those little moments close to you! New Subscriber Thumbs Up

  • @kamrankhalid9797
    @kamrankhalid9797 2 місяці тому

    Very nice

  • @Faye.Louise22
    @Faye.Louise22 2 місяці тому

    I'm so sorry I've not been here, I'm on nursing orientation and it's HEAVY 🙃 you are both incredible parents and it shows how much you love your boys 💙💙

  • @deebedwell9877
    @deebedwell9877 2 місяці тому

    Do not find lost toys. Redirect their energy into finding their own stuff.

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 2 місяці тому

      We really do try , for a severely autistic child with limited communication it’s difficult, we’ve had to speak for him his whole life effectively. We do actively make him look himself. Agree with you we do , thanks for watching 👀 x

  • @fern1416
    @fern1416 2 місяці тому

    Right wait, I want to hear how Matthew made a lava lamp. Please ask him to explain 🤓

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 2 місяці тому

      I will ask him and put his answer in the next video

  • @fern1416
    @fern1416 2 місяці тому

    Moth rests with wings flat. Butterfly rests with wings together

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 2 місяці тому

      Really ? Amazing, I’m 43 and don’t know that 👍🏾

  • @gregbouchard414
    @gregbouchard414 2 місяці тому

    Am sorry about if we can do at if we can be friends with u at well be good too do at if we can be friends with u at well be good too do at am sorry about ar

  • @Wildernessadventuresoz
    @Wildernessadventuresoz 2 місяці тому

    It’s been a while since I’ve seen your vids and your boys have grown up so much. My son is now getting his license and is almost 17. Funny when he was your boys age I didn’t think this would have ever happen. He is studying auto mechanics and has passed his cert 2 so well I’m so proud of him. It’s taken so much therapy, blood, sweat and tears but I’m saying this to give you hope that things can change and things do get better. It’s so very tough when they are young. You guys are in the thick of it that’s for sure.

    • @amycannan914
      @amycannan914 2 місяці тому

      Thank you, all we can do is try our best. Sounds like your son is doing amazing!

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 2 місяці тому

      Hi Karen , haven’t seen you or Toby in a video for a while , hope your both doing well, sounds like it. Thanks for coming back and leaving us a comment , how’s the travelling going ? Adam

    • @gregbouchard414
      @gregbouchard414 2 місяці тому

      U do a rally good job on here keep up there good work on here I hop we can be friends with u at well be good too do at I hop we can be friends with u and I hop we can do at if u can let me know if we can do at how there boys are doing at if we can be friends with u at well be good too do at if we can be friends with u and there boys too at well be good too do at if we can do at if we can be friends with u at well be good too do at if we can do at if we can be friends with u at well be good too do at

    • @gregbouchard414
      @gregbouchard414 2 місяці тому

      U do a rally good job on here keep up there good work on here I hop we can be friends with u at well be good too do at I hop we can be friends with u and I hop we can do at if u can let me know if we can do at how there boys are doing at if we can be friends with u at well be good too do at if we can be friends with u and there boys too at well be good too do at if we can do at if we can be friends with u at well be good too do at if we can do at if we can be friends with u at well be good too do at

  • @lindablindt7265
    @lindablindt7265 2 місяці тому

    Its so hard. Well done you are great parents. It wears you down. Sending love to you.

  • @xelaolive4181
    @xelaolive4181 2 місяці тому

    Also; whenever we get more toys ie Christmas, we have got into the routine of out with old in with new. If my kids haven’t played with something for more than a year, I tell them (don’t ask them) that we’re giving it away or selling it to be able to afford new things. I’ve found that with slightly autistic girls, the less choices the easier on them. Signposting too. Tell them a few days in advance that your going to have a tidy up and they will be easier about the changes

    • @amycannan914
      @amycannan914 2 місяці тому

      We often clear out, we have to do it when George isn't aware, but we do it in a way that we only remove things we know he isn't using. We will put them in the shed and when we know he isn't looking for it we donate it 😊

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 2 місяці тому

      @@xelaolive4181 George has been asking for Christmas 🎄 for about 3 months , we do regularly clear out as amy has commented , your dead right though , we’re trying the best we can

  • @xelaolive4181
    @xelaolive4181 2 місяці тому

    I have twin 10 year old girls. It’s been a battle with the whole loosing stuff and I have usually been the one to find whatever’s missing. However, more recently (don’t know how old your boys are) they moan about loosing something and come and ask me to help look but these days I’ve found these two things help 1) if there is time and no one is rushing out the door I don’t even tell them to try and find it. I basically say right step away from what you’re doing. There is no point trying to find it because most likely they have put it somewhere and forgotten If the child keeps getting upset at the lost thing throughout the day then firstly I make them retrace what they were doing. At some point someone will remember something and then hey presto, they find it themselves (if it’s that important) 2) if it’s rushed then I make sure the kids stop what their doing and promise to help find it later. By the time we’re home, they’ve forgotten BUT if they are adamant I follow through with promise and help Also, with autism, put things in clearly labelled boxes etc and ensure the kids help you go through their toys and organise them. This reduces the likelihood of loss and helps them to regain control-that’s what they like, in my experience Hope this helps

    • @amycannan914
      @amycannan914 2 місяці тому

      Hey, so the boys are 10. George will often lose things (he knows where it is a lot of the time) but we get screamed at to find it. So we get him involved as much as we can. We organise the toys regularly to make it easier to find things, but he will mix it up almost immediately. Everything is a learning curve, we are first time parents, to twins, to twins with additional needs, and sometimes we do what we have to to survive the day ❤

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 2 місяці тому

      @@xelaolive4181 thanks for your honest suggestions, every bit of knowledge will help us all so thanks for the time in commenting x

  • @xelaolive4181
    @xelaolive4181 2 місяці тому

    I have twin 10 year old girls. It’s been a battle with the whole loosing stuff and I have usually been the one to find whatever’s missing. However, more recently (don’t know how old your boys are) they moan about loosing something and come and ask me to help look but these days I’ve found these two things help 1) if there is time and no one is rushing out the door I don’t even tell them to try and find it. I basically say right step away from what you’re doing. There is no point trying to find it because most likely they have put it somewhere and forgotten If the child keeps getting upset at the lost thing throughout the day then firstly I make them retrace what they were doing. At some point someone will remember something and then hey presto, they find it themselves (if it’s that important) 2) if it’s rushed then I make sure the kids stop what their doing and promise to help find it later. By the time we’re home, they’ve forgotten BUT if they are adamant I follow through with promise and help Also, with autism, put things in clearly labelled boxes etc and ensure the kids help you go through their toys and organise them. This reduces the likelihood of loss and helps them to regain control-that’s what they like, in my experience Hope this helps

    • @AutismTwinsUs
      @AutismTwinsUs 2 місяці тому

      @@xelaolive4181 same age as ours then , 10! Some great hints I’m sure we will be able to try and implement, thanks for your suggestions, we do have everything clearly organised, issue we have is George mainly will see a scene up with toys somewhere and lose certain todays in transit while setting a scene somewhere in the house , a lot of the time he does know where they are but thinks by shouting FIND he can sit there and watch us search which is something we’re obviously trying to discourage, thanks so much for your suggestions tho I’m sure they will be helpful for us and others reading the comments, Adam