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I really like Clarence

I had a neighbor named Orville. ❤

I just realized that the fish in What About Bob was actually named Gilbert with a nn of Gil.

I have dedicated several hours to really researching gentle parenting . As a board certified behavior analyst I fundamentally Disagree with this parenting style. You must know your child’s nature and personality type. If you fail to discipline your child and tell them NO, YOU CANT, DO NOT DO THAT. Or do this because I said so, you’re setting them up for a hard life! This world is not gentle! And when they grow up and become apart of it they’re going to lack very important life skills and lessons because no one will coddle them/praise them or redirect them gently. There is a time and place for everything. Spankings are necessary, understanding hierarchy and authority is necessary. You can love your child and respect them and still pop their butts or give them time out when rules are broken. He who does not discipline his child hates his child. And I firmly believe that gentle parenting is doing a great deal of harm. Children have to know and understand early on that just because they feel a way doesn’t mean it’s valid and as parent it is your job to course correct and teach them and with that comes punishment. It does not mean your are abusive or unkind in fact id argue that when you implement punishments in a healthy way it’s more loving and kind because it hurts to do this but you’re parenting for now and the future. I could go on and on but this is a NO.

Orv or Ville for the nickname Orville . It's a cute name 😊

For me, Amos sounds too close to anus 😅

Great names. But I’m a nicknamer It has to have a way to shorten it. Oren- ore, ren mmh not sure. Camellia is going to end up being canny, or Leah. I love calla. Wow I’m all into ultra feminine names. Derowen I’m not getting feminine from that. I find D letter names not cute. It’s such a hard sound. Just my opinion Mali is always going to be said molly. And that’s just an ongoing spelling error that will never end for her. But it does roll of the tongue. Fern- it just sounds hard starting with a firm F and ending with the n. Not a fan. Viola is beautiful. It sounds glamorous and fem. Great alt to violet. Zetta wow never heard that. But I love it. That’s so original. It should be popular. Amazing name. I love your choice of botanical names but variations of them I love and would choose Isla for a girl. It’s soft sounding and gentle. However, names that start with a vowel can sometimes get lost. Idk how to explain it. Isla doesn’t really roll of the tongue well but it’s so beautiful. I like trad names for boys. Philip Erick Vincent Frederic I think would age well. And it’s unusual these days.

What happens when Becky draws on the table over and over. ? What do you do? My kids don’t learn

Sounds like love 101

Going to raise these kids and turn them into snowflakes. I'm sorry but telling parents to never say no to their child is exactly why we are in the crazy world we live in now. Children need structure and limits. It completely does not prepare them for the real world where people treat each other badly but this kid will be so confused when they get treated a certain way because they have never had anything negative in their lives. It's setting kids up for failure

This is one of the worst and most destructive forms of parenting. Utterly ridiculous!!

Thank you for the gentle parenting tips!

My mother could have never ever done this.

YES I AGREE I SENT THIS TO MY MOM

my wife is a 3 YR OLD pre school teacher. she said kids are now more worse than ever. she has seen this change in the last few years. its alot to do with this gentle parents. in stead of calling it gentle parenting. lets call it what it is its BAD PARENTING. You raise kids that dont hear no. they dont listen. and they are spoiled. you can reason some with a 3 year old. when my kids cried. I said crying is ok if you get hurt. Only when you get hurt. if daddy falls scrapes his knee it hurts i cry. like you if i get hurt i can cry. you only cry when you get hurt. say that back to me. you ONLY cry when you get hurt. say it again. i got it into them. then my kids would cry for some reason. I remind them. when is the ONLY reason you cry? they would stop crying and say. only when you get hurt they would say it. and they would stop. and that was solved. as far as saying no. i said NO ALL THE TIME. gentle parenting is bad and you make bad kids. some parent would tell my wife she would tell their kid the 3 yr old monster in my wife room that when she went shopping that she also had her 1 yr old and 3 yr old johnny the devil. so they get to parking lot and he wants to run around cause he doesnt listen and she has her hands full with groceries and a 1 yr old. now he going to hit by a car. she doesnt want the discipline to come from her. so her answer is Johnny dont do that because the CAR Monster will get you. other times the big bad wolf will get you. my wife saw that as he ran around hallway when his mom came in. just laughable. so do your gentle parenting and make bad kids. you know what I used to say is? i said you dont want to see me get really mad. it was a bluff but you know what they didnt want to see me get mad. they behaved. gentle parenting creates monsters and good luck with that.

My name is miracle can u do that plz

Wow! So my kids are very well behaved, we have a great relationship. I enjoy my time with my children...but...this is all new to me. Some of this I do naturally...but not saying no...I will have to think on that one. I often worry that I am too negative with my kids in that respect, but yet, no is a natural part of life. I'm just thinking out loud here. I have been thinking lately that I would like to completely change the way I was raised to focus more on long term relationships.

“you are a teacher to you parent.” I know you meant to your child but that sentence was still pretty accurate, unfortunately.

I've always wanted to be a parent, but I'm so scared I'll be just like my family...

Am a teacher for children, and I think every teacher should train themselves into this. 👍🏼

I love this. I have been trying to gentle parent and twin 2 year old boys and it can be very trying and I’m also trying to break old habits and how I was raised. This is all new to me and I really appreciate this. Thank you

Ive been with IittIes this week as a para for the first and i wish they could show this to every teacher I tried so hard to not get mad but i just didn’t have the tools to not.

Some friends went for positive education. So they won't say no when their kids battle. Not for me. I tell my kids no sometimes, no means no. I'm not sure pediatrics would agree with you.

Thank you so much

The only thing that doesn't sound right is not having no. Setting boundaries is super important. No should be followed with an explanation of why but it should not be banned

Thank you 💕

But what about what happens when I toddler become school age and they hear the word no from their teacher

My biggest trigger is when my toddler breaks things at my job (I’m a housekeeper and have no other option but to bring my child along). I try to find things to keep my toddler busy and sometimes even put my child in a carrier backpack but that only goes so far. How do I handle these frustrating situations? I know my child is being just that…a child…who is probably just bored and curious so what should I do to change MYSELF? I hate getting so upset and then I just feel guilty…forever! 😭😵‍💫

THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! This was beautifully explained and really laid down the foundation of this type of parenting. I could stand the way I was always saying “no, stop, don’t do that, get off there,” etc… This is a BIG change but I know it’s worth it for everyone. I can’t wait to hear what else you have to say about this subject!

I’m new here and I have a question and I’m hoping you’ll see this. So my son actually enjoys cleaning. He makes messes just to be able to clean them so when you were talking about painting on the table and explaining that he’d have to clean it if he colors on it again but he actually will paint on it and run after a towel to clean it. How do I stop him from being so OCD 😭

I am about to go through a very difficult mental and emotional evaluation for parenting to get my son home with me after losing him for not being able to get him into a pediatrician in time in covid and for having a panic attack as my mother's always abused me and the reason they were there was her lies again twisted to make it look real using my ptsd and anxiety from my abusive neglectful childhood against me in every way. I've been in therapy 6 months now and have taken a mental wellness group to learn to help realize triggers and help to calm yourself in the moment. it was 10 weeks. I also have been taking parenting classes and have done very well even suggesting the proper things and having a deep understanding of how I wanted my son to grow up. my lack of complete discipline is what got him and I into a never ending him defy me and my anxiety constantly going off. since then he's come very far in care and I've come very far as a mother. I have a lawyer and am fighting to have him home with me, I was wondering if you had time to share some things necessary I may not have learned on zoom or even in messages. I love my son more than anything I just want him to have the best calmest, comforting, loved, validated, happy life he can. ❤ if you have the time to reach out to me it would be amazing. I deserve the chance to learn the tools I never learned being abused and neglected my whole childhood and on my own as a teen from 14 on.😢 I just want the chance to do right. I've never abused him, hurt him, neglected him, I've lacked tools in discipline or how to properly connect to him to be a calm assertive mother. I just want my baby home. please if you can, anything helps.

I love Prudence but am not nearly brave enough to use it in real life, however I do also like Bianca,.

My favorites are Ardesia for a girl and Copper for a boy but Olivine and Kessler are pretty cool as is Farida.

I like Rhys as a girl name

This is hilarious 😂 gentle parenting is a great way to have kids who are poorly adapted to the real world.

Ok genuine question. How do we teach them to be calm out in the world. If they can't handle the words no, can't, and don't then what about school or jobs. Their boss isn't going to gently parent them through their work day.

I agree with every point but surely sometimes you just HAVE to say no! My child gets more frustrated when I skirt around the ‘no’. For example, ‘mommy can we go to the park’ and I’ll say ‘we’ve got lots of jobs to do so we need to stay in the house but let’s find something else to do’ and she will still kick off because it’s still a ‘no’ and she knows that, I just didn’t say the specific word. It’s also confusing when you say ‘draw on this paper’ but don’t make them aware that it’s not acceptable to draw on the table! I think it’s better to be clear with boundaries and expectations, and be firm with boundaries but enforce them with kindness, respect and empathy. Its often better to say no, explain why and then support them with their emotions around not being able to do what they wanted to do. Also when they are going to do something dangerous a quick sharp ‘no, stop! is necessary. Once you’ve explained they’ve already done the dangerous thing like touching the stove or walking into the road. I think ‘no’ does have its place sometimes.

I need to start this because honestly they don’t listen when I yell anyways and it just makes me more angry and frustrated

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I'm trying to be a better parent, so I've been browsing some of these videos on gentle parenting. I find these techniques to be quite insightful.

I’m currently going through all of your gentle parenting videos. I have a 9m & 4 yr old and am a SAHM with both of them at home . Lately it’s been pretty interesting with our 4yr old. You know it’s just not your child to get so worked up. Watching this video and your other gentle parenting video. Almost made me cry thinking back to how our day went today. Your videos have helped me recognize these moments but also most importantly gave me a list of things to work on to better the situations. I am now really looking forward to practicing these tips for tomorrow. Thank you so much!! Amanda

I am not a parent, but I am a sibling, my baby brother is 1, and I feel like raising him like I was raised wouldn’t be a good idea, this video was amazing, thank you!

Thank you for this! I'm currently expecting and would like to change how I speak and think to prepare for respectful gentle parenting.

I'm wondering how well this will work for kids on the spectrum. I have a high functioning autistic 11 yr old.

Wonderful insights!

Thank you so much! I appreciate your help so much and will absolutely be subscribing. The word No will be a challenge in my home but your so right about it. Such an eye opener for me Thank you ❤️

I am about to start gentle parenting and this video is a great guide. Thank you🙏

I love Robin and Ellis

Love these!!! Thank you for all the baby name videos <3

Hi! I’m not naming anyone, I just love names. Always have. I’m just here for the fun of hearing new and unique names that I haven’t thought of before.