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What Is Empathy? … And How To Show It, Even When You Disagree With Someone
It might be a buzzword, a counseling cliche, or something that feels way too touchy-feely. But if you’re in Christian ministry, you need to understand empathy.
What is it? Why does it matter for Christians? Is it something you should aim for in your ministry? What would that really look like?
These are good questions - and today, I’ll share some answers! Join me to talk through what empathy is, along with 5 practical tips for how to show empathy even in your hardest ministry conversations.
Learn more about Christian counseling services in South Carolina at www.iHopeFlorence.com.
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ABOUT YOUR HOST
This podcast is offered as a ministry from iHope Christian Care and Counseling, Inc. We are a nonprofit counseling center in the Pee Dee area of South Carolina. Our primary host is our Director: Jessica Hayes, LPC, LMFT, LPCS-C. You can learn more about The iHope Center at www.ihopeflorence.com.
We hope you will subscribe to our channel and share about the podcast with the other pastors and leaders in your life. There is a video, audio, and blog version of this podcast:
LISTEN on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or any common podcast app
WATCH on the iHope UA-cam channel
READ on the iHope blog
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REFERRALS AND DONATIONS
Our counselors are licensed in the state of South Carolina. If you are local to our state, we hope you will consider The iHope Center as a referral source for professional counseling or life coaching. We offer a 10% discount on services to full-time pastors. Virtual services are available as well.
The iHope Center is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, and we are registered in the state of South Carolina as a charitable organization. If you are local to our state, we welcome your donations and gifts to support our counseling ministry. Donations allow us to keep clients' fees at 50% below the local average cost for services.
Find out more at www.ihopeflorence.com.
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DISCLAIMER
This podcast, as well as other resources offered by The iHope Center, should be taken as informational and educational content only. Utilizing our resources does not create a professional relationship. This podcast is not therapy. Always use your own judgment in making decisions and in making recommendations for others.
In the case of a medical or mental health emergency for yourself or someone else, please contact your local emergency department. In the USA, you can call “988” which is the three-digit, nationwide phone number to connect directly to the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.
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If you’re local to South Carolina, we hope you will consider us for referrals and donations to support this ministry.
Learn more about iHope Christian Care and Counseling at www.ihopeflorence.com.
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Caring For People Through The Stages Of Grief
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Grief is hard. No one likes it. It’s never easy. But it is unavoidable. And one of the realities of grief is that it is a special place for Christians to step in and offer care. It is a time when people need someone to come alongside them. People often turn to their faith community most especially during times of grief. So, how does a pastor or other ministry leader better understand what’s goi...
The Nuts & Bolts Of Forgiveness: How To Apologize, Forgive, And Help Others Do It Too
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One of the most common calls that Christ gives to his followers is that they should forgive one another. It’s all over the pages of Scripture! And it is hard. When we sin or mess up, it is hard to apologize. We wonder what to say, how to say it, and sometimes if we even need to bother. And then, when others sin against us, we struggle to forgive. But no relationship can be healthy, intimate, or...
Some Favorite Books To Help Christian Couples (From A Marriage Therapist’s Bookshelf)
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As a Christian counseling agency, one of the most common questions that we get from our local pastors is “How can I help this couple in my church who is struggling?” Today, let’s offer some resources! There are plenty of ideas for conversations, questions to ask, and things to try with couples who are struggling. But one of the best ways to find a good book that can expand your own knowledge, a...
Ministry is HARD: 7 Tips To Avoid Burnout And Stay The Course When It Feels Impossible
Переглядів 472 місяці тому
Is there anything more frustrating than putting a lot of time and energy into helping someone… and they just don’t appreciate it? Or, they just aren’t getting better? You can’t see how the Lord is working or how your efforts are making a difference? Not only is this a very frustrating experience - it can lead us into burnout. When you’re burned out, it’s hard to care as much. It’s hard to put i...
6 Daily Habits To Make You A Mentally and Emotionally Healthy Leader
Переглядів 92 місяці тому
Ministry is hard work. Leadership is hard work. Put them together? Unless you are intentional about it, Christian leadership within a church or ministry will take a toll on you. It can quickly and sneakily start to impact your relationships, mental health, emotions, sleep, spiritual life, and so much more. So today, let’s talk about some life habits that will help you be intentional to care for...
Practical Action Steps For Helping Someone With Their Anxiety
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“Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2, NIV) It is not of question of IF your ministry will touch someone who is struggling with anxiety. It’s a question of when, how often, and what will you do to help. Anxiety is a huge problem in our culture today. And when you are concerned that someone may be struggling with anxiety, you don’t need ...
Do’s And Dont’s For Helping People With Trauma And Emotional Baggage
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“In this world, you will have trouble,” Jesus tells his followers. “But take heart! I have overcome the world.” One of the long-term “troubles” that many people in your ministry struggle with is the aftermath of trauma, hurt, and emotional baggage. In fact, you may struggle with this yourself. In our broken world, trauma and emotional pain is very common. And it’s also hard to ministry to peopl...
10 Coping Skills Every Pastor & Ministry Leader Needs
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Ministry work can take its toll on us. And in the busyness of it all, sometimes we forget to put any time or energy into caring for ourselves. But when we live this way, we start to feel it - in our emotional wellness, mental health, physical energy, and in our relationships. Today, we’ll look at 10 key areas of life where we ALL need coping skills! We’ll look at some specific examples and lots...
8 Unique Ways A Spiritual Leader Can Help Someone Fight An Addiction
Переглядів 173 місяці тому
Addictions recovery can feel like an overwhelming issue that is best left to the “professionals.” But the Bible is clear that there is only one ultimate Healer… and his name is not Dr. Jesus. It’s Jesus Christ, Lord and Savior. So if you are a pastor, a Bible study leader, a Christian friend, a youth mentor - or any other ministry leader - you have something unique and important to offer people...
Resources To Help Someone Fight Addiction
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Ministry work involves helping people through many difficult and painful life circumstances. And one of the hardest is helping people who are dealing with an addiction. There are a lot of ways that pastors and other Christian leaders can help people when they are fighting addiction, but one of the most basic ways is to offer practical, Christ-centered, appropriate resources. But what are some o...
Quick Tips For How To Make Sure Other People Feel Heard And Valued By You
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Hearing people and helping people FEEL heard are two different things. In today’s busy, loud, disconnected world, feeling heard is an incredibly meaning experience. Everyone wants to know that they are seen, valued, and appreciated. Of course, we cannot make people feel anything. We cannot guarantee that people will always react to us in the way we hope or expect. But we can approach our intera...
3 Keys To Being A Good Listener (Even When You're Distracted)
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Many of us think we are better listeners than we really are. But there is a reason the Bible tells us to be quick to listen and slow to speak (James 1:19). Listening is powerful and important. And the reality of human relationships is that being a GOOD listener does take some intentional effort. It’s more than just hearing the words someone is saying. It’s more than just finishing a conversatio...
How To Use Philippians 4:8 To Replace Patterns Of Negative Thinking
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One of the most common things that Christian counselors help clients with is getting their thought life more in line with Philippians 4:8. When someone is stuck in negative thinking, it is not honoring to God and not helpful to their relationships or emotional health. And guess what? Pastors and ministry leaders struggle with their thinking too! In our last episode, we looking at the 5 R’s to t...
Dealing With Negative, Unhelpful Thought Patterns By Using The 5 R's
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Even strong Christians sometimes struggle with negative thinking. We can get stuck overthinking things, blaming ourselves for problems, grumbling, or judging others in our thoughts. But there are strategies that will help! As you pray over these struggles, confess your sin, and seek the Holy Spirit’s help, these 5 strategies will give you practical action steps to start changing your thought pa...
4 Key Steps To Conflict Resolution In A Ministry Context
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4 Key Steps To Conflict Resolution In A Ministry Context
Boundaries Only Matter If You Implement Them. 5 Tips To Make It Happen.
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Boundaries Only Matter If You Implement Them. 5 Tips To Make It Happen.
Tips For Setting Boundaries (And Helping Others Do It Too)
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Tips For Setting Boundaries (And Helping Others Do It Too)
Helping Marriages Succeed - Tips To Help Them Help Themselves
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Helping Marriages Succeed - Tips To Help Them Help Themselves
Practical Action Steps You Can Take If You're Worried Someone Is Depressed Or Suicidal
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Practical Action Steps You Can Take If You're Worried Someone Is Depressed Or Suicidal
Recognizing Important Warning Signs: Is Someone Depressed Or Suicidal?
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Recognizing Important Warning Signs: Is Someone Depressed Or Suicidal?
3 Keys To Good Interpersonal Communication
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3 Keys To Good Interpersonal Communication
Equipping & Encouraging Ministry Leaders - An Introduction To "Counseling Tips"
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Equipping & Encouraging Ministry Leaders - An Introduction To "Counseling Tips"
Trailer for the podcast: Counseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders
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Trailer for the podcast: Counseling Tips For Pastors And Ministry Leaders
iHope Anxiety Video
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iHope Anxiety Video
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iHope 2017

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  • @lindaspiess3545
    @lindaspiess3545 6 місяців тому

    Negative thoughts often arise when we are being abused. Pay attention to your thoughts, honor them. You are not a bad person because you are not lying to yourself. It is helpful to start an ick journal, and make a list of the negative thoughts. This can lead you to realize you are in an abusive relationship! But, if you keep blaming yourself for having negative thoughts... you might never see it.

    • @ihopeflorence
      @ihopeflorence 5 місяців тому

      Absolutely, abuse and trauma will definitely impact how we think about ourselves! Listing negative thoughts to then challenge them instead of just believing them outright is a great starting point.