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TJ Loeffler
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Приєднався 19 січ 2017
Private coach. Led by the Holy Spirit. Authentically sharing.
In 2015 I left Wall Street to find me. I was born again and started full-time private coaching in 2016.
Subscribe if you've had your awakening and are now on a journey of healing, changing and growing. This channel will help you work on your mindset as you begin rebuilding your identity.
tjloeffler.com
In 2015 I left Wall Street to find me. I was born again and started full-time private coaching in 2016.
Subscribe if you've had your awakening and are now on a journey of healing, changing and growing. This channel will help you work on your mindset as you begin rebuilding your identity.
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How To Take Control Of Your Life Again
This is one of the most important things you can develop in life. Instead of shutting down, learn to recognize frustration as a signal to step back, stabilize and reassess your mindset and beliefs about your circumstances. Here are a few ways you can learn to manage frustration and increase your capacity to handle life’s challenges.
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#mindset #personalgrowth #frustration #mentalhealth #podcast #selfawareness
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your mom and dad should have had a conversation with you during puberty about setting boundaries. Also it is okay not to be liked by everyone, high school will end and you'll never see the mean kids ever again. They don't matter.
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The timing of this message is crazy. The email that linked to this video was so much in line with what I’ve been recently praying about, relating to feeling so stuck and stagnant in life right now. I think finding someone who’s been on a similar journey who will walk with me seems almost as hard as committing. But thank you for sharing this. I think I needed the conviction.
@@shaynawaltower you got it - email me back if you want to schedule a call
I need help with food.
The Lord brought me here :)
@@gh8066 amen lots more to watch
Powerful🙌🙌
Amen
set looks great
@@SekPlus ty - I did it myself lol thank God for my wife and her family
And what about how to feel satisfied, when we don't have a good life.
whether "great life" or not, godly contentment is great gain. i personally believe there's no gain unless unless we find godly contentment.
Thank you..
@@roannyperaza1153 you’re welcome. I thank GOD
I don’t know if I will ever get an answer, but how do I know when God is giving me wisdom? In my case, I’m wondering if there’s a girl at my Bible study likes me and if God sent her to me. (Silly teenage romance ik) But what is the timeframe of this wisdom and how do I know that it is not Satan giving me false information or hope?
Prov 3 says "all her ways are paths to peace" - and when it comes to relationships like you're describing, i'd imagine peace is likely not dependent upon someone else liking you back...i've often found one byproduct of wisdom is greater control over our minds (in a healthy way)
This was sooooo good TJ!
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This is good stuff! 👏🏽
You’d like the podcast … Season 4, Episode 7 - Mindset With TJ Loeffler 🙌🏼
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Thanks for sharing. My husband and I were trying to get a house since 2020 and I can now see why God didn’t let us take on the debt and those who are prepared will be able to help people and have opportunity they didn’t before. It’s all wisdom and God knows what he is doing in every season
Everyone’s situation is diff of course - but there is aways wisdom in total debt freedom…and at the least there is wisdom in having assets that can cover any debt you do have… but most of all…just listening and obeying to His guiding 🙏🏼🙌🏼
Great insight. Thanks TJ!
You’re welcome brother
Great thought. Thanks from España. God bless you.
Thank you - bless you
Ah yes the definite expert who films inside his car whenever his wife has her boyfriend over
There's no heart work. If you care about someone then take care of them. Emotions will destroy most relationships.
Emotions are what we’re born with - learning how to be healthy emotionally is a whole diff story. And that’s a part of the heart work. Becoming emotionally healthy!
@@tjloeffler_ stop being so damn emotional. Learn to put emotions aside and deal with problems without the emotions. Emotions destroy people. Emotions are why people get hurt. So set the emotional crap aside and deal with the problem emotionless. Then you will have a much more clear path.
@@foxman907 factually - without an emotional response - emotions are a part of our biology! I believe it’s important to learn how to work with them and harness them vs. ignore them
@@tjloeffler_ emotions are good. But when you're dealing with problems emotions don't help to fix the problems. Emotions make problems harder to deal with. If you have problems set emotions aside until the problem is resolved.
@@foxman907 hear you - taking a step back and setting immediate emotional reactions aside can truly help us do things like listen…when our heart rate decreases below a certain bpm (for example)…and still - that’s learning how to work with the emotions we’re made with! Same pg 🙌🏼
Justin gaethje is that you?
Thank You for your valuable advice brother.
You’re welcome - share with someone
i appreciate your tips brotha God bless
You’re welcome. Bless you bro
god is dead and i killed him.
Great video ! Keeping GOD 1st is so important thank u 🙏 u don’t here this a lot
Thanks for watching - I know exactly what you mean…i didn’t have this kind of messaging from anyone I was tracking with / trying to learn from in the earlier days of my entrepreneur journey. Still don’t hear many ppl talk like this lol
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I’m in the same spot, I can’t find my true self
Are you already started on the entrepreneur journey? Good episode to listen to regardless: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mindset-with-tj-loeffler/id1330508032?i=1000514578436
Is so weird but this works is some ways
TJ thanks so much for sharing these videos. I can’t wait to listen to them all.
You’re welcome! I hope they bless you. Will have more. Feel free to leave any q’s I can answer in future videos
Amazing video
glad you liked it - hope it was helpful...and thanks for watching
Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. (Colossians 3:13) Then Peter came to Him and asked, Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?” “No, not seven times,” Jesus replied, “but seventy times seven!” (Matthew 18:21-22) another believer sins, rebuke that person; then if there is repentance, forgive. Even if that person wrongs you seven times a day and each time turns again and asks forgiveness, you must forgive. (Luke 17:3-4)
Look after each other so that none of you fails to receive the grace of God. Watch out that no poisonous root of bitterness grows up to trouble you, corrupting many. (Hebrews 12:14-15) But when you are praying, first forgive anyone you are holding a grudge against, so that your Father in heaven will forgive your sins, too. (Mark 11:25) So if you are presenting a sacrifice at the altar in the Temple and you suddenly remember that someone has something against you, leave your sacrifice there at the altar. Go and be reconciled to that person. Then come and offer your sacrifice to God. (Matthew 5:23-24)
Oh, what joy for those whose disobedience is forgiven, whose sin is put out of sight! Yes, what joy for those whose record the LORD has cleared of guilt, whose lives are lived in complete honesty! When I refused to confess my sin, my body wasted away, and I groaned all day long. Day and night Your hand of discipline was heavy on me. My strength evaporated like water in the summer heat. Finally, I confessed all my sins to You and stopped trying to hide my guilt. I said to myself, “I will confess my rebellion to the LORD.” And You forgave me! All my guilt is gone. (Psalm 32:1-5)
Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends. (Proverbs 17:9)
Not only is forgiveness at the heart of the biblical story, but the unearned nature of God’s forgiveness is unique. Other worldviews require you to earn your way to God or a higher state of being. Whether it’s by being particularly good or particularly religious or mastering certain practices, you need to do something if you want to get to that worldview’s ultimate goal. The Bible clearly states that God’s forgiveness is free. He already did all that needed to be done so we can be forgiven and have a relationship with Him forever. In most worldviews, good works come before you can get the ultimate goal of the worldview. In Christianity, good works come after. All you need to do is to ask God for forgiveness, and He grants you a relationship with Him forever in heaven. Because of the forgiveness we receive, we are commanded (and should be motivated) to do good and forgive others. Good works are an outflow of forgiveness, not a requirement for obtaining it. There truly is no other God who forgives like the God of the Bible.
Forgiveness is what makes the God of the Bible unique. Where is another God like You, who pardons the guilt of the remnant, overlooking the sins of His special people? You will not stay angry with Your people forever, because You delight in showing unfailing love. Once again You will have compassion on us. You will trample our sins under Your feet and throw them into the depths of the ocean! (Micah 7:18-19)
God’s forgiveness is free. You cannot earn or deserve it. But people are counted as righteous, not because of their work, but because of their faith in God who forgives sinners. (Romans 4:5) Forgiveness is the key to a relationship with God. “Righteousness” means being made right with God. As imperfect people who sin and rebel against God, we could never meet God’s perfect standard and make ourselves right with God. Because of this, no matter how good you are or how hard you work, you can never be good enough to have a relationship with God. But Jesus paid the price for your sins. God’s forgiveness through Jesus makes you right with God so you can have a relationship with Him forever in heaven. All you need to do is trust in Jesus’ sacrifice to pay the price for your sins.
Though we are overwhelmed by our sins, You forgive them all. (Psalm 65:3) Jesus is not only on your side when you need forgiveness, but He Himself was the sacrifice that allows you to be forgiven. My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous. He Himself is the sacrifice that atones for our sins - and not only our sins but the sins of all the world. (1 John 2:1-2)
God showed His great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners. And since we have been made right in God’s sight by the blood of Christ, He will certainly save us from God’s condemnation. (Romans 5:8-9) Let the wicked change their ways and banish the very thought of doing wrong. Let them turn to the LORD that He may have mercy on them. Yes, turn to our God, for He will forgive generously. (Isaiah 55:7)
Jesus taught, “If you forgive others their transgressions, your heavenly Father will forgive you” (Mt 6:14). Peter asked Jesus how often it is necessary to forgive, and Jesus replied, “Seventy-seven times” (Mt 18:22), a number to be taken symbolically, not literally, for the never-ending way that we ought to forgive.
Luke 23:34 "Then Jesus said, 'Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they're doing...'" “Then Jesus said, 'Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing. ' And they cast lots to divide his clothing” (Luke 23:34).
YHWH Jesus, Yeshua Hameschiach, Holy Spirit HE must increase, I must decrease! Our identity is in our Lord He is EVERYTHING! Pain and suffering is a FULL UNVEILING OF ALMIGHTY FATHER EVERLASTING LOVE HOLINESS FORGIVENESS OF ALL SINS IN RESTORING ALL OF HUMANITY THRU THE RIGHTEOUS BLOOD OF HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON JESUS WHOM SUFFERED THE GREATEST OF ALL! SURRENDERING HIS ÈNTIRE LIFE! HIS SINLESS BLAMELESS LIFE NAILED TO CROSS AFTER HE WAS GIVEN OVER TO ROMAN SOLDIERS TO BE MOCKED SPIT UPON RIPPED APART TORTURED THEN NAILED TO CROSS ON CALVARY BETWEEN TWO GUILTY CONVICTS BEFORE GIVING UP THE GHOST HE YELLED OUT " FATHER FORGIVE THEM THEY KNOW NOT WHAT THEY DO" and HE ALSO CRIED OUT, "WHY HAS THOU FORSAKEN ME?" “Jesus cried out in a loud voice, 'Eloi, Eloi, lema sabachthani? ' which is translated, 'My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? ' ” (Mark 15:34; Matthew 27:46) is a direct quotation from Psalm 22:1.
John the Baptist Exalts Christ 22 After this Jesus and his disciples went into the Judean countryside, and he remained there with them and was baptizing. 23 John also was baptizing at Aenon near Salim, because water was plentiful there, and people were coming and being baptized 24 (for John had not yet been put in prison). 25 Now a discussion arose between some of John's disciples and a Jew over purification. 26 And they came to John and said to him, “Rabbi, he who was with you across the Jordan, to whom you bore witness-look, he is baptizing, and all are going to him.” 27 John answered, “A person cannot receive even one thing unless it is given him from heaven. 28 You yourselves bear me witness, that I said, ‘I am not the Christ, but I have been sent before him.’ 29 The one who has the bride is the bridegroom. The friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly at the bridegroom's voice. Therefore this joy of mine is now complete. 30 He must increase, but I must decrease.”[j] 31 He who comes from above is above all. He who is of the earth belongs to the earth and speaks in an earthly way. He who comes from heaven is above all. 32 He bears witness to what he has seen and heard, yet no one receives his testimony. 33 Whoever receives his testimony sets his seal to this, that God is true. 34 For he whom God has sent utters the words of God, for he gives the Spirit without measure. 35 The Father loves the Son and has given all things into his hand. 36 Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life; whoever does not obey the Son shall not see life, but the wrath of God remains on him.
You Must Be Born Again 3 Now there was a man of the Pharisees named Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews. 2 This man came to Jesus[a] by night and said to him, “Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher come from God, for no one can do these signs that you do unless God is with him.” 3 Jesus answered him, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again[b] he cannot see the kingdom of God.” 4 Nicodemus said to him, “How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter a second time into his mother's womb and be born?” 5 Jesus answered, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. 6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.[c] 7 Do not marvel that I said to you, ‘You[d] must be born again.’ 8 The wind[e] blows where it wishes, and you hear its sound, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes. So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit.” 9 Nicodemus said to him, “How can these things be?” 10 Jesus answered him, “Are you the teacher of Israel and yet you do not understand these things? 11 Truly, truly, I say to you, we speak of what we know, and bear witness to what we have seen, but you[f] do not receive our testimony. 12 If I have told you earthly things and you do not believe, how can you believe if I tell you heavenly things? 13 No one has ascended into heaven except he who descended from heaven, the Son of Man.[g] 14 And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, so must the Son of Man be lifted up, 15 that whoever believes in him may have eternal life.
For God So Loved the World 16 “For God so loved the world,[a] that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him. 18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God. 19 And this is the judgment: the light has come into the world, and people loved the darkness rather than the light because their works were evil. 20 For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed. 21 But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that it may be clearly seen that his works have been carried out in God.”
Thankyou!!
You’re welcome
I relate to your story so much. I retired my modeling career when I walked for nyfw… I felt like I was losing myself. I actually lived in Fidi near Wall Street. This was 2016. Since I’ve been retired, I’ve gone through a rigorous healing and deliverance journey. Now, I’m free of chronic pain, yet, I feel a little lost as to what to do next. This was super helpful. You’ve made a big impact on me since God introduced me to your content a while back. Thankyou for what you do.
🙏🏼 praise God. Even if for nothing else other than knowing others are on the journey…few are willing to surrender it all. Have you ever heard of the online bootcamp I run called “live your legacy”? Reach out any time. I work with a whole community of like-minded also on a similar journey. Keep going 💪🏼
Your channel is so underrated. This is exactly what I needed to hear.
Amen. And I’m OK with underrated. God is being exalted, regardless.
Hmmm something to really sit down and meditate on.
Nothing HS can’t show you. And guidance can help sometimes
Your story sounds so familiar, to my own. Abrupt Awakening. And all the uncertainty’s that went with it.
You’re not alone in that 🙌🏼🙏🏼
I sent this to my son who is going through a rough time with pain and possible surges. I pray for him daily
Amen - we agree with healing in Jesus’ name.