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Ajahn Amaro on Love, Relationships, and Attachment
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From a Dhamma Talk given in 2014 at Amaravati Buddhist Monastery titled "If You Truly Love Me, Don’t Create Me in Your Mind" Download the talk for free here: www.amaravati.org/audio/if-you-truly-love-me-dont-create-me-in-your-mind/ About Ajahn Amaro: Born in England in 1956, Ven. Amaro Bhikkhu received a BSc. in Psychology and Physiology from the University of London. Spiritual searching led hi...

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  • @gregpantelides1355
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    Thank you!

  • @community1854
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    This talk is life changing! Detachment !!

  • @angelagray8198
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    This is really powerful 👏🏾..thank you Ajahn Amaro.

  • @radicalhonesty3628
    @radicalhonesty3628 2 роки тому

    I can't focus on the video, no matter how hard I try. I'm sick and fucking tired of suffering on this planet. I LOATHE it here. I wish for death, and nothing else.

  • @paulaplaster934
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    🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

  • @isabellek1171
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    Are we meant to be totally detached or totally attentive? Ajahn Amaro says: - Both are needed. You need to balance both. - right word and action based on the situation -middle path is needed -wasnt identified with his body, people, scenarios, but was attuned to every situation and every action was appropriate and harmless - fully present and detached at the same time

  • @willywagtail4182
    @willywagtail4182 3 роки тому

    One of the best talks

  • @fistingfuneral2670
    @fistingfuneral2670 3 роки тому

    Im ugly so why shouldnt i? It limits what i can do in life and my social life too.

    • @juniperabbott2614
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      Hi, i subbed to your chan. Looks interesting...take care🧡

  • @_adi_shakti
    @_adi_shakti 3 роки тому

    lovely talk

  • @stefanneaga
    @stefanneaga 3 роки тому

    Sad part, when I heard self hate kills you, my first answer was good, wtf

  • @hopegomes1819
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    Blessing Ajan Bhram 🙏

  • @kazbah1217
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    I honestly believe that Buddha was an INFJ type😊

  • @fingerprint5511
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    Blessings Ajahn Amaro 🌿

  • @thetigersjourney5913
    @thetigersjourney5913 4 роки тому

    Amazing talk. A must listen.

  • @captainwheelbarrow649
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    I think most 'normal' people realise that close attachments can be a source of both happiness and suffering, but they think the happiness is worth the suffering, or worth the risk of suffering at least. In other words they would say that "it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." Maybe for others however their fear of suffering is stronger than their desire to experience the happiness that can come from those kinds of attachments, so they avoid them altogether and become monks. Don't know if you can say one way is right and the other way is wrong, just different personal preferences maybe? But I can also see that if you view everything as one, and a product of causes and conditions, and view all outcomes as ultimately equal then it wouldn't make sense to form passionate attachments to things or particular people.

    • @SgtMacska
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      The thinking is that “happiness” can come not only from sense pleasures (what “normal” people call happiness) which inevitably leads to suffering when the sense pleasure ceases but also from spiritual pleasure. The cessation of attachment is said to feel better than any sense pleasure

  • @KimNguyen-iz1pt
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    The best talk

  • @noonmanji2086
    @noonmanji2086 6 років тому

    Sartu for your teaching Ajahn. I'm glad I can visit you regularly at the monastery.

  • @thezentrader
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    Gosh this talk was fantastic, thank you!

  • @djmorphogen
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    Best ventriloquist ever

  • @complexionapplication8555
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    I love that Magritte painting!

  • @mstitou3149
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    reminds me of the Smiths song lines : Cause there's always someone, somewhere With a big nose, who knows And who trips you up and laughs When you fall