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You Don’t Need to Change—You Are Perfect! Inner Peace # 140
The Fundamentals to Gain Inner Peace with Coach Menachem Bernfeld # 140
You Don’t Need to Change-You Are Perfect: Aligning Actions with Your True Self
In this special Zoom session, we’ll explore a transformative approach to personal growth and repentance. Often, we believe that to become better, we must fundamentally change who we are. But true change is not about altering our essence-it’s about realigning our actions with the perfect, whole self that already exists within us.
Using powerful analogies and reflective exercises, we’ll dive into how connecting to our healthiest, happiest selves naturally fuels the desire to grow. Just like a child who feels good inside is eager to learn and improve, when we feel connected to our core worth, we are motivated to refine our actions and bring out the best in ourselves.
Join us as we discuss why you don’t need to change who you are-because you are already perfect. Instead, we’ll focus on realigning our actions with our true selves, especially now, in the month of Elul, a time for reflection and self-improvement.
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Understanding and Healing the Authentic Self - Aaron Schwarzman, LMHC # 201
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Aaron Schwarzman, LMHC on Let's Get Real with Coach Menachem, Sunday Sep, 8 2024, # 201 Understanding and Healing the Authentic Self - How Attachment and Identity Shape Addiction Recovery Understanding and Healing the Authentic Self: How Attachment and Identity Shape Addiction Recovery" explores the profound connection between attachment styles, identity formation, and the process of overcoming...
Elul, What does it mean to you? Inner Peace # 139
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The Fundamentals to Gain Inner Peace with Coach Menachem Bernfeld # 139 In this video, we delve into the profound significance of the month of Elul in Jewish tradition. For many, hearing the word "Ellul" brings a range of emotional and spiritual reactions. As the twelfth month of the Jewish calendar, typically falling in August or September, Elul is a time for deep introspection, reflection, an...
5 Techniques to Center Yourself and Achieve Inner Calm, Inner Peace # 138
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The Fundamentals to Gain Inner Peace with Coach Menachem Bernfeld # 138 Incorporating small, easy techniques into your daily routine can be a powerful way to help you return to a state of balance and centeredness, especially during stressful times. Simple practices like mindful breathing, grounding exercises, and short meditations can quickly calm the mind and relax the body. These techniques d...
Dawn of Redemption Is Moshiach Already Here? Jewish Universalism, Rabbi Yaakov Klein #200
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Rabbi Yaakov Klein on Let's Get Real with Coach Menachem #200 Dawn of Redemption Is Moshiach Already Here? Jewish Universalism Penimiyus HaTorah & the Mission Our Wondrous Generation From My Heart To Yours (Vol. 1): Essays, Musings, and Poems amzn.to/4dBY0rw Story of Our Lives: An Epic Quest for the Soul of our Tradition amzn.to/4cx7ToY For More of Reb Yaakov Klien's Teachings: linktr.ee/yaakov...
Breathe in Joy: Experience Positive Emotions, Guided Meditation Inner Peace # 137
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The Fundamentals to Gain Inner Peace with Coach Menachem Bernfeld # 137 On the journey of personal growth, it's essential to have the right tools in your emotional toolbox-especially when things get tough. Experiencing positive emotions doesn't just happen by chance; it’s about cultivating practices that help you tap into joy, peace, and strength, even in challenging moments. Whether it's throu...
Dating Challenges & Commitment-Essential Insights & Education for Parents, Shadchanim & Singles #199
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R' Daniel Whitman & R' Moshe Pogrow & Dating Coach Mrs. Chana Rivka Jacobs on Let's Get Real with Coach Menachem #199 Navigating Dating Challenges & Commitment - Essential Insights & Education for Parents, Shadchanim & Singles For more resources and education: nasishidduch.com/ Follow this link to join the WhatsApp community: chat.whatsapp.com/KNVcoDQxg9g2EkzldqjLe6
"Holding Space for Yourself and Your Emotions" | Guided Meditation, Inner peace # 136
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The Fundamentals to Gain Inner Peace with Coach Menachem #136 "Holding Space for Yourself and Your Emotions" | Guided Meditation Join us in this special guided meditation titled "Holding Space for Yourself and Your Emotions." This practice is designed to help you gently connect with your emotions and cultivate self-compassion. In this session, we’ll explore how to sit with your emotions in a no...
Tisha B'Av Program, 2024 on Lets Get Real with Coach Menachem
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0:00 Intro 0:00:44 Rabbi Dov Greenberg 0:19:36 Rabbi Gershon Schaffel 0:45:25 Rabbi Daniel Glatstein 01:09:42 Rabbi Uri Lati 01:30:42 Rabbi Heshy Klienman 01:54:01 Credits 01:54:14 The end
Tisha B'Av Program 2024 with Charlie Harari Tisha B'Av 2024 #198
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Charlie Harary on Let's Get Real with Coach Menachem # 198 Making Tisha B’Av Real Again - Do We Truly Mourn the Beis Hamildash -Do We Desire Geula or an Easier Galus? Make it practical! Choose a Mitzvah: justdo5.org/ Beis Halevi on Bitachon: amzn.to/4dlOhW2 Beis HaLevi on Ahavas Yisrael: The Classic Essay of HaGaon Rabbi Yosef Dov Soloveitchik of Brisk: amzn.to/4ckfxD2
Soothing Your Inner Child, Why Is it So Hard? Inner Peace #135
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Connecting with our inner child is not always easy. Often, it can be upset, throw a tantrum, or even not want to speak to us. Our inner child has gone through so much and spent many years in pain. It is crucial to understand this and know what to do in these situations. Join us as we explore these challenges and learn effective ways to address them.
Emunah in Action - Trusting in Hashem Through Challenges- Rabbi Eisemann and Rabbi Brog #197
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R' Osher Eisemann & R' Yisroel Brog on Let’s Get Real with Coach Menachem, August 4 2024 # 197 Emunah in Action - Trusting in Hashem Through Challenges- From Personal Salvation to Moshiach Integrating Faith into Our Daily Life Help Rabbi Eisemann reach his goal: vimeo.com/993699688/5c7b3c5c26
Healing the Wounded Inner Child, Inner peace # 134
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The Fundamentals to Gain Inner Peace, Wednesday Nights with Coach Menachem #134 Welcome to our channel! In this video, we’re delving into a sensitive and important topic: how to connect with your wounded inner child, especially when it struggles with trust and feels hesitant. 🌈 If your inner child is hurting and mistrustful, you might find it challenging to build a connection and begin the heal...
Existence & Purpose:The Reasons Behind Human Purpose and Meaning of Death, Rabbi Manis Friedman #196
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Rabbi Manis Friedman on Let’s Get Real with Coach Menachem, Sunday, July 28, 2024, #196 Exploring Existence & Purpose: Life Conflict Choice - Uncover the Reasons Behind Human Purpose and the Meaning of Death
Re-parenting Strategies: Practical Exercises for Everyday Life, Inner peace # 133
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The Fundamentals to Gain Inner Peace, Wednesday Nights with Coach Menachem #133 Reparenting involves taking on the role of a supportive caregiver for yourself, addressing unmet needs from your childhood. Practical exercises for everyday life include practicing self-soothing techniques, such as mindfulness and deep breathing, to manage stress and anxiety. Engage in positive self-talk and affirma...
Key Differences & Points of Contention in Marriage, Rabbi Kass & Sarah Chana Radcliffe #195
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Key Differences & Points of Contention in Marriage, Rabbi Kass & Sarah Chana Radcliffe #195
Internal Family Systems (IFS) Heals Trauma, Addiction, and Depression Rabbi Schonbuch, MA, LMFT #194
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Internal Family Systems (IFS) Heals Trauma, Addiction, and Depression Rabbi Schonbuch, MA, LMFT #194
A Guided Conversation with Your Inner Child: A Guided Writing Exercise, Inner peace # 132
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A Guided Conversation with Your Inner Child: A Guided Writing Exercise, Inner peace # 132
Living with Hashgachah Pratis, Feel the Divine Touch at Every Moment of Life Rabbi H. Klienman #193
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Living with Hashgachah Pratis, Feel the Divine Touch at Every Moment of Life Rabbi H. Klienman #193
Connecting with Your Inner Child: A Guided Writing Exercise, Inner peace # 131
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Connecting with Your Inner Child: A Guided Writing Exercise, Inner peace # 131
Healing Through Humor: Therapy Meets Laughter-Improv Healing, Yehudah Alcabes LCSW #192
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Healing Through Humor: Therapy Meets Laughter-Improv Healing, Yehudah Alcabes LCSW #192
In Light of the Recent Tragedy: Understanding Mental Illness. Dr. Jacob Freedman, MD #191
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In Light of the Recent Tragedy: Understanding Mental Illness. Dr. Jacob Freedman, MD #191
Embracing Change and Growth: A Guided Writing Exercise, Inner peace # 130
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Embracing Change and Growth: A Guided Writing Exercise, Inner peace # 130
Changing the Dance in Marriage: Chaim Moshe Steinmetz LISW #190
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Changing the Dance in Marriage: Chaim Moshe Steinmetz LISW #190
Finding Peace Through Writing: A Guided Exercise, Inner peace # 129
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Finding Peace Through Writing: A Guided Exercise, Inner peace # 129
Healing Narratives: Personal Mental Health Journeys, Mordechai Weinberger, LCSW #189
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Healing Narratives: Personal Mental Health Journeys, Mordechai Weinberger, LCSW #189
Inspired by Every Moment - Rabbi Dr. Benjamin Epstein, Ph.D. #188
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Inspired by Every Moment - Rabbi Dr. Benjamin Epstein, Ph.D. #188
Stop Running, Start Living - Finding Peace in Every Breath, Inner peace # 128
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Stop Running, Start Living - Finding Peace in Every Breath, Inner peace # 128
The Power of Mirroring -The Essential Skills for a Strong Parent-Child Bond Yehoshuah Saks LMSW #187
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The Power of Mirroring -The Essential Skills for a Strong Parent-Child Bond Yehoshuah Saks LMSW #187
Rediscover the Joy in Your Life, Inner peace # 127
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Rediscover the Joy in Your Life, Inner peace # 127

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  • @MarciaB12
    @MarciaB12 9 годин тому

    I dont need to change? Well that's a relief.

  • @LkwdTrauma
    @LkwdTrauma День тому

    Ari is a great man and a holy yid!

  • @MarciaB12
    @MarciaB12 4 дні тому

    I love Rabbi Friedman ❤

  • @BarbaraBarela-h6f
    @BarbaraBarela-h6f 5 днів тому

    I have ocd , ptsd , adhd ,…..everything but a phd !

  • @MarciaB12
    @MarciaB12 5 днів тому

    I just want to thank you for your kindness. Thank you.

  • @MarciaB12
    @MarciaB12 5 днів тому

    Very very helpful. Thank you. I want to find the recording again so I can save it.

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 6 днів тому

    Anxiety and fear is different than understanding that we cannot believe everything we hear and see on the news and on social media outlets.

  • @scruffyscrubs5468
    @scruffyscrubs5468 7 днів тому

    Elul, HaShem, The King is in the field. Reflect on myself where I could improve. No fear, just acceptence of myself and just doing better.

  • @LindysSoftware
    @LindysSoftware 11 днів тому

    Thank you Rabbi Manis Friedman, you have comforted me beyond words.

  • @LindysSoftware
    @LindysSoftware 11 днів тому

    Hashem is our soulmate,

  • @lauranell2978
    @lauranell2978 13 днів тому

    BH' thank you for your life of dedication to bringing us all into this space of consciousness and integration. What if a student under the supervision was going through a bit bipolar episode spiritually, can study the teachings of Rabbi Hillel and Rabbi Shammai? So much to help us transcend our consciousness, BH' the most beautiful from this not only what they both have given. They both honored the validity of the others Torah perspective! This calms me in times of complete confusion, I ask from both and an understanding of truth! For clarity, vision and purpose.

  • @pamdewall
    @pamdewall 14 днів тому

    Manachem

  • @pamdewall
    @pamdewall 14 днів тому

    Thank u coach manacam

  • @byronumphress3805
    @byronumphress3805 14 днів тому

    John 14:26, 14:6, 3:3-5, then repent of your sins, Revelation 2:17, I received a white stone, it just mysteriously appeared on its own accord in my KJV bible, Revelation 3:10 Shalom

    • @byronumphress3805
      @byronumphress3805 14 днів тому

      I received a biblical message 5/22/2020 started new job at doing the lord’s work, son of man feeding the hungry, Also, I was dipping a piece of bread into a bowl of olive oil, then my hand just went down on the edge of the bowl, the oil splashed upon my face and hair, I had known of Queen Esthers fasting, so I researched the Hebrew tradition of anointing, so I then went three days no food or water and anointing daily, as I believe God Almighty Elohim, had a hand in this happening? Shalom

    • @byronumphress3805
      @byronumphress3805 14 днів тому

      I was not under the influence of drugs or alcohol, I was sitting at my dining table writing word for word in revelation, I became very frustrated with many mistakes, so I held up my hands then told God, just go ahead and take my life, I no sooner felt faint, then I picked myself up from the floor from being unconscious and blood 🩸 running down my face, I knew that their was a higher power over me, also in charge ! Shalom

    • @byronumphress3805
      @byronumphress3805 14 днів тому

      New Jerusalem 1380 miles x 1380 miles;)

    • @byronumphress3805
      @byronumphress3805 14 днів тому

      Enoch and Ezekiel both had vision of God, Similar as saying, as iron out of a furnace , However Ezekiel has separate saying from the waist down as fire, I did not know of scripture of this at the time, but I had a voice in my head that said, I am as a man as you, from the waist up, Shalom

  • @miriamracquelfeldman4717
    @miriamracquelfeldman4717 15 днів тому

    Great! Thank you so much for having these experts share their wisdom and Torah wisdom to help couples in their marriage.

  • @wordscapes5690
    @wordscapes5690 16 днів тому

    We Buddhists are lucky. Our “Messiah” is only due in several thousand years, so we can get on with being good and kind to each other without pinning our hopes on saviors.

  • @brucekelemer9160
    @brucekelemer9160 16 днів тому

    Rav Yaakov was amazing as usual. For those looking for a practical entryway into the language of pnimiyus and a yiddishkiet of passion and depth I highly recommend R Yaakov' s book "The Story of Our Lives". The book was mentioned a few times in this episode and for good reason, it really gives expression to what every Jew is yearning for whether they know it or not. It wil revitalize your yiddishkiet.

  • @beingjewish
    @beingjewish 17 днів тому

    Yaakov is already living in the future! What an amazing vision

  • @neilsharris
    @neilsharris 17 днів тому

    This is an incredible episode!!!

  • @eilecha
    @eilecha 17 днів тому

    It was such a zechus to be able to share this vision with the "Let's Get Real" family. May Hashem continue to guide us to greater and greater levels of consciousness, depth, and connection - for ourselves, for our children, for our nation, and for all of humanity. Thank you R' Menachem for the opportunity!

  • @moshegrunfeld2518
    @moshegrunfeld2518 17 днів тому

    Thank you so much I really gained a lot

  • @andyemediatech
    @andyemediatech 18 днів тому

    Really appreciate what Ms. Rebecca said 01:25:00 Where is HaShem in all this?

  • @saraurban3784
    @saraurban3784 20 днів тому

    Kharasho😅❤

  • @avivasaltman9816
    @avivasaltman9816 21 день тому

    Thank you. This was wonderful!

  • @SHE3e23
    @SHE3e23 23 дні тому

    It soudns like the problem is that boys marry younger girls. We all know that it makes zero difference if she is the same age, or even a year or two older. Maturity does not operate in such exact numbers. Actually, getting married is infinitely more important. A quality girl will always look up to her quality husband because of his middos, not because of his age.

  • @CaifuYuFanrong
    @CaifuYuFanrong 25 днів тому

    There is no GOD. YOU ARE LIARS.

  • @jro7907
    @jro7907 28 днів тому

    A very powerful shuir. It is broken down in common sense to make it real to us. Thank you very much for all the hard work you're providing us.

  • @shoshanaeri8035
    @shoshanaeri8035 28 днів тому

    Thank you!

  • @leaffy7306
    @leaffy7306 29 днів тому

    Ruchie Harary is my inspiration!!

  • @KravMaster
    @KravMaster 29 днів тому

    Great Inspiration From U Guys Thanks So Much 🌺❤️👍

  • @Sho6509
    @Sho6509 29 днів тому

    There were two seforim that you mentioned one was "Waiting for Geulah" by ? Thank you Charlie

  • @TS-xw3zr
    @TS-xw3zr Місяць тому

    I'm only 22 min in, Charlie Harari speaks the truth. Biggest compliment I can give. He speaks to all of us. Looking forward to greeting moshiach with all yidden, still today, may it be Hashem's will.

    • @NoKillAye
      @NoKillAye 29 днів тому

      Amen, R Harary’s good

    • @NoKillAye
      @NoKillAye 29 днів тому

      I think R Miller H”K zt’l said there was a real struggle if the Tzar or Napoleon should win. Freedom and getting lost in a sweet Golus or the bechira to stay on the derech HaRatzon Kodesh Boruch Hu

  • @shoshanaeri8035
    @shoshanaeri8035 Місяць тому

    Thank you, listening to this on Tisha B'av. Charlie Harari is great, really resonated with what he said

  • @joyceyaffe1832
    @joyceyaffe1832 Місяць тому

    Thank you for telling the story and what occured from the evil in WWII.

  • @NoKillAye
    @NoKillAye Місяць тому

    Mazel Tov to the host

  • @NoKillAye
    @NoKillAye Місяць тому

    Simchas

  • @mordechaiweinstock838
    @mordechaiweinstock838 Місяць тому

    This is is so good!! Please invite him back Really informative and inspiring!!! Thank you

  • @momoYT69
    @momoYT69 Місяць тому

    Inspiring vid

  • @baruchdkaufman9472
    @baruchdkaufman9472 Місяць тому

    Inspiring. Focused. Relevant. Excellent. Ahavas Chinam, however, is a slap in the face of a Jew, as if there is nothing to love by him. Only Chinam. There is always what to love by a brother. Ahavas Yisroel is the antithesis/opposite of Sinas Chinam.

  • @patehat
    @patehat Місяць тому

    Did Jews kill Jesus?

  • @ValentinBrutusBura
    @ValentinBrutusBura Місяць тому

    "while true while true insert into lifestyle "I eat Healthy. I drink Healthy. I work out very hard at least 30 minutes every day.""

  • @W13-i7q
    @W13-i7q Місяць тому

    😂😂😂😂

  • @pauletteamzallag7743
    @pauletteamzallag7743 Місяць тому

    I WISH I COULD FIND OUT ABOUT THE PANICK ATTACKS THAT ENGULFS ME UNEXPECTEDLY

  • @andyemediatech
    @andyemediatech Місяць тому

    Perfect timing. Was asking Rabbi Gersch this last week 😔

    • @andyemediatech
      @andyemediatech Місяць тому

      This world is beyond unacceptable and unattractive. We treat each other so badly. 😔

  • @lauranell2978
    @lauranell2978 Місяць тому

    BH' for men like all of you !

  • @lauranell2978
    @lauranell2978 Місяць тому

    Women, sisters, daughters need caring men like you in our lives, thank you!

  • @hinaynihorvath3926
    @hinaynihorvath3926 Місяць тому

    as a goy woman who supports and respects Israel I have to say to Ivrim Israelim ami stop feeling guilty and sensitive about killing your enemies who won't surrender to you and stop trying to work out why your enemies and their supporters are anti Semites!....You are absolutely Elohim Yahshua's chosen sovereign ancient people and your evil enemies are totally insignificant...love and shalom from Australia am Israel chai 🕎🕊💙💙

  • @andyemediatech
    @andyemediatech Місяць тому

    Can Rabbi Kass or anyone on the team explain "Woke opinions?" What are those? 48 mins into the recording.

  • @michkemarie
    @michkemarie Місяць тому

    Thank you, Rabbi Friedman. So many insights I gain from this message. One I appreciate is about marriage. I do want to be married again and do not want any more anxiety about it. Hashem wants my happiness. I will go forward being joyful each day for all the happiness and joy that is now in my realm. I want to be already happy when a husband comes. I can certainly trust Hashem for the right man, at the right time.

  • @Francesj399Maloney
    @Francesj399Maloney Місяць тому

    Thank you.