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Thou Shall Not Murder ! Not Thou Shall Not Kill

Not too long ago, I was trying to become Catholic. I quit because of this issue. I married someone who I shouldn’t have back in the 90’s; ten years after my separation, I met my wife; we’ve been happily together for 15 years now. Last year, after becoming interested in converting to Catholicism, I was shocked to learn about the church’s teachings on divorce and remarriage, and that my marriage was “irregular.” Desiring to convert, I began a case with the local Archdiocese. Ultimately, they were unable to find my former domestic partner, and none of my witnesses came forward. They told me that my former D.P. had to be located, and that I had to find at least three witnesses who had known me for at least five years. Since I have relocated twice since 2014, I didn’t have what they were asking for. They told me that my case could not proceed, and that it would be moved to “non-pending” status. They also advised me to consult with a priest about “alternatives,” which I would assume would mean either leaving my current marriage (never!!!) or forcing a vow of celibacy on my wife. I chose to leave and become a Lutheran. Shortly thereafter, my wife had a stroke. I believe that if I had acted according to Catholic doctrine, my wife today would be be either dead, or severely mentally impaired, as I would not have been there to help her. If the God of Catholicism is the true God, they are the living embodiment of malevolence, for the Catholic God prioritizes judgment over love

I can't believe this priest fails to distinguish between killing and murder. Don't trust this man! His judgment is not sound. He fails to quote Scripture correctly. It does not say "Do not kill"; it says "Do not murder."

Just bc a person is v young does not mean the church can annul the marriage. The RCC has no authority to do this n what Jesus taught on divorce n remarriage is already in line with holy spirit n the holy spirit is not going to bend the rules for the RCC. There is only one holy spirit n all must obey. But there is no such thing as infallibility where a church makes its own rules n thinks that it is guided by the holy spirit.

Yikes! Leading everyone to hell…

Bible pretty plain about divorce

The Catholic Church is bullshit such hypocrites

No, the divorces can left the Catholic Church because the UN Governments support the divorce to remarriage again...😅😂

Well, a priest can preach again after sodomizing an alter boy, so why not?

Since Vatican II everthing is very confusing. It seems like its case by case.

Reconciliation Why bother having a Sacrament of Reconciliation if you don’t even bother to pray for Reconciliation in a Marriage? I mean, that wasn’t even a option here. Who cares if you divorced and remarried, it’s adultery. Reconcile with your first spouse.

The real struggle I have with my Church - The Catholic Church - is that if one deliberately misses a single Sunday Mass in ones lifetime and does not confess it before the point of ones death, then one will burn in Hell for all eternity. This is a Sin against the Catholic Church - not against God. Therefore the Catholic Church is free to remove that Mortal Sin. Now, suppose that after all time is consumed we end up with an exhausted Universe and all but one human being is in Heaven. The one person in Hell is the one that chose not to attend Sunday Mass on one Sunday during their 80 year long life. But they would be in Heaven if the Catholic Church had not chosen on its own authority ( given that it has authority ) to demand under pain of Mortal Sin that all of its followers are required to attend Mass per Sunday. That, to me, is a Diabolical Doctrine. Listen, the Catholic is not in Hell because he / she disobeyed God. He /she is there on the grounds that he / she disobeyed the Pope !

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The divorced remarry all the time. With or without some male priest absolving the first marriage. Grow up Catholic Church it's 2024 not 1624.

Wow minimizing Mariage??? An annulment should not be the “norm”:

Where does it say in scripture that a marriage must be annulled by the church first? There are two reasons in scripture for divorce, when infidelity occurs and when an unbeliever leaves a believer. However, it is unclear, when the unbeliever leaves the believer, that the believer should allow the marriage play out to the end by seeing if the unbeliever files for divorce or wishes to reconcile. Personally, I would hope the believer lets it play out. His or her conscience would probably be more clear. Probably a lot of prayer and supplication by the individual, elders of the church and close church members would be needed in this instance. Matthew 5 31 “It was said, ‘Whoever sends his wife away, let him give her a certificate of divorce’; 32 but I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except for the reason of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery. 1 Corinthians 7 12 But to the rest I say, not the Lord, that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not send her husband away. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy. 15 Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us to peace. 16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?

Ddont killis same as,dont murder. How do yu see that any diff.

Marriage is a sacremwnt. You get married and are married in gods eyes forever

You are a priest of half measures! Shame on you .

That's not in scripture. Jesus said, "Let no man deceive you." Listen to this priests language. "We just say." But Jesus said,"until death do you part." Adultery means lake of fire. It's not worth it. The flesh profits nothing. Serving Christ means denying yourself what the flesh wants that Christ hates. Remember, eternity is on the line.

I have been divorced in the Catholic church and my annulment application was refused without explanation. I have always been aware that when you divorce you cannot recieve holy Communion again. I still continue to recieve holy mass Virtually those days and I say a spiritual communion prayer. I am praying that God will forgive me for my divorce as it seems the Catholic church doesn't

What total nonsense.

Listening to him makes me want to go back to Catholicism.❤

There are millions of Christians who have been divorced, some as believers, some before they became believers. They have remarried, attend church regularly, are raising Godly children, etc. Never let the ‘church’ tell you God won’t let you have a happy life. God does love you ❤

Mark 10:9 “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.”

Government marriage is recent and government marriage is just a piece of paper. Christians as with other religions can only marry in their own group. For mainstream Christians (Protestants are not mainstream) marriage is call a Sacrament or channel of God"s help and is only between a man and woman bonded for life, open to children with no contraception. There are various reasons a previous relationship that mimicked marriage is declared null. That means it never happened. As a valid Christian marriage can only be entered into once while a spouse lives those who legally divorce may access Holy Communion if living separately. They may not approach Holy Communion if in a sexual relationship or living in a first or second etc government marriage. Those Catholics who are in a government marriage but not the Church Sacrament of Matrimony may not approach Holy Communion as they are living in sin. Governments have interfered with marriage and corrupted it.

1:28 Let's take a look at another situation from the 2000 years that you mentioned. Aquileia. Men had gone to war, gone missing in war, after a while they were supposed dead, women remarried. Then they got returned. Many women concluded to tell the new "husband" "my bad, my hubby was alive after all" ... but many didn't. Now, the synod there actually excommunicated the women who refused to go back to their real husbands. Your idea of someone at age 20 getting married to the wrong person is simply not the Catholic view, either of what marriage is, or what maturity is. You are basically offering annulments as a _kind of divorce,_ and that is evil.

This priest is lying through his teeth. Listen to him at the risk of your own soul! He conflates divorce with annulment. In real Catholicism (not the Novous Ordo teaching) divorcees are in mortal sin period! You are only separated if your spouse leaves against your will. That is not divorce and you can still receive the sacraments, but under no circumstances can you contract a new marriage. That's the true law of the Church.

Vatican 2 changed the church.

Modernism

There are two instance's in my youth where marriages were annuled. The 1st was the marriage was not consummated therefore it was not a marriage and the second was a husband revealed to his new wife that there were to be no children. The marriage was annuled.

I believe remarriage is adultry unless a spouse has died....Annulments are a man made thing.... So 2 people go through hours of pre martial counciling to be sure of what marriage is, make vows to God in front of several hundred witnesses, have legal marriage certificates...then at a later point divorce and get a legal divorce certificate...but none of that REALLY happened???? It wasn't valid???? Come on....lets call it what it is... Divorce.

Nothing to prevent them The state allows it Scripture is flexible As Jesus and the woman Of samaria depicts!

Annulment is NOT Catholic divorce. Annulment does not make divorce and remarriage licit moral behavior. Annulment declares the first marriage "null". It is not technically remarriage it is marriage for the first time because Catholics can only be married if it is sacramental. Annulment declares the marriage sacramentally "invalid" therefore not a marriage. This does not deny the good which existed within the relationship. I think it is important that we dont think of annulment as something the Church does because celibacy is hard. The Church does it becasue it is true that marriages are often invalid and ought to be identified as such as a matter of justice. "What God has made one let no man separate" this is good news brothers and sisters! Also, celibacy is really pretty awesome. "He who possesses God lacks nothing, God alone suffices" -St. Theresa of Avila

The Bible never said don’t kill. It says do not murder. There is a big difference between the two. Also, this man is giving advice on the topic of divorce & remarriage that clearly contradicts Scripture (1 Corinthians 7:10-11, 1 Corinthians 7:39, Romans 7:2-3, Mark 10:9, Luke 16:18 etc.)

Lies

Just making clear, when the Church declares annulment, it only states that the marriage was never consumated a sacrament.

What if when you got married and divorced you never were a christian? You never knew or thought it was something between god and now you want to get married?

This what I needed to hear, my ex wife abandoned me and abandment is abuse, so I'm getting a annulment and I plan on remarrying, I don't think God would be so cruel to let me be abused by abandment and then on top of that I have to stay lonely my whole life.

He is not my priest. The Church is being infiltrated by wolves in sheep's clothing, and this man is one of them. Period

If the Church has progressed through the centuries, as he said, then what is the purpose of the annulment? Just let them get married so they don't have to "go through life living like a monk or a nun". If you get an anullment after having children with your spouse, are the children now bastards in the eyes of the church?

More catholic psycho babble. When you go to the annulment meeting be sure to bring your checkbook because your annulment will cost you a bundle. Oh by the way, an annulment by the catholic church does say that the marriage never existed. It had to exist in the first place for it to be annulled. You can't annul something that never existed in the first place.

Oh, so the Holy Spirit goes against scripture? I never knew that! Unless your spouse is deceased or committed adultery while married to you there can be no remarriage! Thus one should be careful whom they marry!

The Catholic will change God's law for any reason

This position is in direct contradiction to the words of our Savior Jesus Christ. This is wrong. What God has Joined let no MAN put asunder

This doesn't sound right.

this teaching has nothing to do with Scripture.....they are leading many to eternal judgement....because the basis, for our actions, come out of the Bible...so....false teaching...at 0.46

Bravo!!

Bible says, Murder , not kill

Grounds for annulment only include the things which the church requires for a marriage to be valid. This is why the church asks about free will, openness to children, etc _during the wedding liturgy._ A marriage conducted in the Catholic church is assumed sacramental and therefore indissoluble. A person who's sacramental marriage has been disrupted must mend that marriage or remain in that broken marriage. The end. Jesus does not say don't kill, He says don't murder. This priest needs to go back to seminary. Catholic Catechism paragraph 1665 1665 The remarriage of persons divorced from a living, lawful spouse contravenes the plan and law of God as taught by Christ. They are not separated from the Church, but they cannot receive Eucharistic communion. They will lead Christian lives especially by educating their children in the faith.