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Episode 279: The 7-Step Divorce Mindset Reset: Radical Acceptance
Radical acceptance means completely accepting a situation, circumstance, or challenge without necessarily approving or agreeing with it. In this installment of the 7-Step Divorce Mindset reset, I share why this concept is especially crucial in the divorce process.
Embracing radical acceptance is one of the most powerful things you can do. It's revolutionary yet fundamental. It’s about letting go of the struggle over who you thought your partner was and truly accepting who they are.
You’ll hear:

• Radical acceptance is not remotely akin to forgiveness

• Tina Swithin’s Radical Acceptance Oath

• What happens after you’ve come to a place of radical acceptance

Resources & Links:
7-Step Divorce Mindset Reset Bundle (kateanthony.com/mindset-reset)
Private Coaching with Kate (kateanthony.com/private-coaching/)
Phoenix Rising: A Divorce Empowerment Collective (kateanthony.com/decided/)
Episode Link:
kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-279-the-7-step-divorce-mindset-reset-radical-acceptance/
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Відео

Episode 278: The 7-Step Divorce Mindset Reset: Self-Care
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We're diving into the importance of self-care throughout your divorce process. Practicing self-care at this juncture is essential for managing the emotional and physical challenges you're going through. Self-care builds emotional resilience, helping you maintain mental well-being and decision-making ability, while also reducing stress and supporting your physical health. In this episode, I shar...
Episode 277: The 7-Step Divorce Mindset Reset: Practicing Patience
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Divorce is a lengthy, emotionally demanding, and taxing process, taking about a year on average. In this episode, I share why practicing patience and managing expectations can help you navigate the journey peacefully and easily. You’ll also hear: • The questions to ask your divorce attorney or mediator about specific procedures and waiting periods in your state • Why trusting the process and es...
Episode 276: The 7-Step Divorce Mindset Reset: Your Vision Statement
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We continue our month-long series centered around my 7-Step Divorce Mindset Reset by discussing the creation of a vision statement for your divorce. This was something I did at the beginning of mediation with my ex-husband. A vision statement sets your intention for the divorce process. When things feel like they are going off the rails, you can return to your vision statement to stay grounded ...
Episode 275: The 7-Step Divorce Mindset Reset: Intro
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Today, we kick off a month-long series centered around my 7-Step Divorce Mindset Reset. If you've decided to get a divorce, it's time to start focusing on the immediate mindset shifts necessary to navigate this challenging period. Along with physically, financially, and legally divorcing, emotionally divorcing your spouse is crucial: “If you’re done, be done.” I've crafted these seven steps to ...
Episode 274: Aimee Says: AI Support for Victims and Survivors of Domestic Abuse with Anne Wintemute
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Anne Wintemute, Co-Founder of Aimee Says, joins me on the podcast this week. Aimee is an AI-powered advocate for victims and survivors of domestic violence. This fascinating and powerful AI tool helps individuals gain the support and validation they need. We uncover how Aimee can act as your advocate and lower the barrier to access vital resources. More than just a Google search, Aimee operates...
Episode 273: Help for Divorcing Dads with Dr. Eran Magen
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We're digging into the emotional rollercoaster divorced dads face, including why they're at higher risk for suicide and the heavy societal and psychological burdens weighing them down. Dr. Eran Magen is a Stanford University-educated expert, holding an M.A. in education and a Ph.D. in psychology. He is also the founder of DivorcedDads.org. Together we talk about the importance of dads having a ...
Episode 272: Why More Women Are Calling It Quits with Sharon Pope
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Sharon Pope, a Master Life Coach, and Relationship Expert, joins me to dive into why more women are opting out of their marriages, the historical context of marriage dynamics, and the challenges modern couples are up against. Sharon’s mission is to equip women and men with the tools to improve, heal, or let go of their struggling marriages. We’ll also tackle relationships' social, legal, and em...
Episode 271: Pathological Love Relationships with Dr. Sarah Schewitz
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Dr. Sarah Schewitz returns to the podcast to talk about pathological love relationships. Dr. Schewitz helps us understand what this type of relationship is, how to know if you’re in one, why these types of relationships can be so devastating, and what is necessary to recover and heal. Dr. Sarah Schewitz is a licensed psychologist specializing in love and relationships. She is the founder of the...
(Bonus) Episode 270: On Closing My Facebook Group
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For over six years, I’ve managed a Facebook group for women contemplating whether to stay in or leave their marriages. Recently, I made the very tough decision to close the group. In this bonus solo episode, I address the issues that led to the group’s closing. I further share about the rules and guidelines that were in place, the challenges of managing a large community, and my response to gro...
Episode 269: Where Tenderness Lives with Heather Plett
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We’re talking about tenderness and holding space with Heather Plett, author of the award-winning book The Art of Holding Space: A Practice of Love, Liberation, and Leadership and the recently released book Where Tenderness Lives: On Healing, Liberation, and Holding Space for Oneself. Heather opens up about her experience of dealing with divorce, co-founding the Center for Holding Space, and aut...
Episode 268: Reinventing Yourself After Divorce: Nikki Spo on Self-Discovery and Empowerment
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Oftentimes, we wrap our identities in this one thing - like marriage. What happens when it's over? This week, Nikki Spoelstra (Nikki Spo) joins me to discuss the transformative power of self-discovery through life's most challenging moments. Nikki and I cover a range of important topics, including how self-esteem is built through self-knowledge, strategies for managing thoughts about divorce, e...
Episode 267: Is Therapy Dead? with Dawn Wiggins
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“Therapy is dead,” says this week’s podcast guest, Dawn Wiggins. In this episode, we get to the heart of why Dawn says therapy isn’t always the answer and, instead, how somatic and homeopathic techniques help individuals heal from various forms of trauma. Dawn is a trauma-informed licensed marriage and family therapist and integrative healer who helps women turn the traumatic journey of divorce...
Episode 266: Putting the G-Word in the D-Word with Barri Leiner Grant
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We are talking about a really important topic this week: grief. Grief is shocking in divorce. My guest Barri Leiner Grant, is a grief specialist and educator who joins me to help us understand how to process the grief we feel over an ended marriage. Barri divorced after a 17-year marriage and helps name grief and grieving for others who have experienced losing an imagined future. Putting the G-...
Episode 265: Divorced and Happy with Sadie Marie
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Sadie Marie of Divorced and Happy joins me for a conversation about why life after divorce is the BEST, and her path of personal growth, self-discovery, and relationships. Sadie Marie empowers divorced men and women globally to embrace the exciting, playful - and even spicy - life that awaits them after divorce. Our conversation is multifaceted, from feeling disempowered in marriage to reclaimi...
Episode 264: Big YES Energy with Susan Hyatt
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Episode 264: Big YES Energy with Susan Hyatt
Episode 263: The Power of Laughter in Divorce with Andrea Rappaport
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Episode 263: The Power of Laughter in Divorce with Andrea Rappaport
Episode 262: Home Equity Solutions in Divorce with Tami Wollensak
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Episode 262: Home Equity Solutions in Divorce with Tami Wollensak
Episode 261: “How the f*ck do I heal from this?” with Dr. Justine Weber
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Episode 261: “How the f*ck do I heal from this?” with Dr. Justine Weber
Episode 260: Choose Her Every Day or Leave Her with Bryan Reeves
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Episode 260: Choose Her Every Day or Leave Her with Bryan Reeves
Episode 260: Choose Her Every Day or Leave Her with Bryan Reeves
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Episode 260: Choose Her Every Day or Leave Her with Bryan Reeves
Episode 259: Healing from Narcissistic Relationships with Kerry McAvoy
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Episode 259: Healing from Narcissistic Relationships with Kerry McAvoy
Episode 259: Healing from Narcissistic Relationships with Kerry McAvoy
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Episode 259: Healing from Narcissistic Relationships with Kerry McAvoy
Episode 258: Get Past Your Past with Jason VanRuler
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Episode 258: Get Past Your Past with Jason VanRuler
Episode 258: Get Past Your Past with Jason VanRuler
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Episode 258: Get Past Your Past with Jason VanRuler
Episode 257: The Truth Behind MLMs with Tracy Coenen
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Episode 257: The Truth Behind MLMs with Tracy Coenen
Episode 257: The Truth Behind MLMs with Tracy Coenen
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Episode 257: The Truth Behind MLMs with Tracy Coenen
Episode 256: Exploring Attachment Patterns with Eli Harwood
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Episode 256: Exploring Attachment Patterns with Eli Harwood
Episode 256: Exploring Attachment Patterns with Eli Harwood
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Episode 256: Exploring Attachment Patterns with Eli Harwood
Episode 255: Discovering Identity Through Style with Jenny Eversole
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Episode 255: Discovering Identity Through Style with Jenny Eversole

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @princekhan-yt3pz
    @princekhan-yt3pz 10 днів тому

    Your content is very good. I want to talk to you.

  • @BUY_YOUTUB_VIEWS_6
    @BUY_YOUTUB_VIEWS_6 16 днів тому

    I see sum potential here

  • @sr2291
    @sr2291 16 днів тому

    I am glad I didn't go through serious menopause.

  • @buzzzzzd
    @buzzzzzd Місяць тому

    "Just a warm body". Ooh, that hits home

  • @DrPfeiffer
    @DrPfeiffer 2 місяці тому

    This is so helpful, because I don’t think people understand how damaging their silence or complicity can be to the victim. It’s like being kicked when you’re already lying bleeding on the ground.

  • @iw9338
    @iw9338 3 місяці тому

    Thanks very much for sharing this 😮😅

  • @christabellajulander3972
    @christabellajulander3972 4 місяці тому

    Promo-SM

  • @Sublimedivine1111
    @Sublimedivine1111 4 місяці тому

    The family court system is detrimental to the future

  • @escabasket153
    @escabasket153 6 місяців тому

    This deserves more views. This was amazing and insightful

  • @AdrienneJung.M
    @AdrienneJung.M 6 місяців тому

    I literally told my husband I feel like I’m in a Pepe Le Pew cartoon and he’s Pepe Le Pew

  • @MCR1565
    @MCR1565 7 місяців тому

    Excellent pod cast. I am a new sub and heard you speak elsewhere so I’m looking forward to hearing this. Thank you for covering such a difficult topic.🙏

  • @PhyllisDrezdon
    @PhyllisDrezdon 7 місяців тому

    This is serious. You should no be giggling

  • @nolan7106
    @nolan7106 7 місяців тому

    'Promo SM' ☀️

  • @jenniferyglesias2792
    @jenniferyglesias2792 9 місяців тому

    Wonderful. ❤

  • @RoscoSefren
    @RoscoSefren 11 місяців тому

    Lundy, thank you so much for speaking on AH! Your book is a go-to to explain dynamics and help survivors contextualize. Its so powerful to have his voice added to the discussion!

  • @andrewcicchetti
    @andrewcicchetti 11 місяців тому

    great discussion

  • @amandlaawethu1538
    @amandlaawethu1538 Рік тому

    Divorce will spike a all time high N 2023-2024. Go straight for the black audience cause we know they R easily manipulated & envious of white women

  • @Exodus26.13Pi
    @Exodus26.13Pi Рік тому

    Whitewashed Black History: The *Welfare Act* Black marriage 80% down to 25% since 1965. 80% overweight, 80% fatherless children, most divorced-indebt-least married... BLACK WOMEN Research Democrats lost Civil War to Republicans on April 9, 1865. Tulsa Black Wall Street burned down by💥 Democrats1921. 38% of Black pregnancies are terminated, over 50% in NYC from THE NEGRO PROJECT. Verify facts please. -Philander Smith College Alumni🎉

  • @leslieanneDC
    @leslieanneDC Рік тому

    Forced reunification camps are traumatic for kids… just like parent alienation, these practices need to be banned.

  • @sarice6502
    @sarice6502 Рік тому

    I have just discovered your podcast and the amazing Zawn Villines. What Facebook and Twitter censorship of women demonstrates, on top of the Catherine Kassenoff family court case example, is how invested America is in keeping women in their place, in both the public and private spheres. I also agree that boycotting the institution of marriage and even living together may be the only way to force men to contribute equally at home, especially when the partner also works. But the Catherine Kassenoff case has utterly shocked me - I did not realise how enmeshed patriarchy, misogyny, insane late stage capitalism and the law are. Effectively a capitalist racket has been created out of women's desire to escape abuse. Am reeling at the horror of it. Please keep the podcasts coming!

  • @sarice6502
    @sarice6502 Рік тому

    This is really good. Thank you.

  • @cheryldee95
    @cheryldee95 Рік тому

    I did end up in Marriage Counseling with my coercive partner. And as much as taking an abusive, coercive partner to Marriage Counseling was completely counter productive…because he just blamed me for everything that he claims ‘led him to serial cheating’…what it DID do, was allow the marriage counsellor to see him in action and witness the gaslighting and angry outbursts and refusal to accept accountability (for serial cheating, his blackout drinking and gross financial abuse)…first hand. After 10 months of counseling, the marriage counsellor actually told me I needed to run for my life from this man, because he wasn’t being honest with either of us, which only confirmed to the counsellor that the abuser had no intention on ever changing anything he was doing. And, for me…that would mean that the coercive control would only get that much worse as time went by…and he feared things could become violent…after seeing the angry outbursts at the sessions. I left…and I thank God every day, for the marriage counsellors advice.

  • @aliaxandrk7791
    @aliaxandrk7791 Рік тому

    I'm surprised this video has so few views and likes. I enjoyed it a lot and will definitely get the book. Thank you!

  • @stephanielavino2487
    @stephanielavino2487 Рік тому

    Right on to all of this! Appreciate you both sharing your personal experiences to help empower women of all ages to create healthy boundaries and to help them stop tolerating disrespect and abuse.

  • @StarStar-zw2el
    @StarStar-zw2el Рік тому

    I feel exactly the same as I am going through it myself

  • @mysticalmultiverse
    @mysticalmultiverse Рік тому

    Whether or not you agree with Lundy that Depp was the abuser doesn't matter because Lundy knows what he's talking about when it comes to domestic violence. I personally think Amber was the abuser and Depp wasn't totally innocent but I wasn't there so it's all just speculation. Lundy might be a little biased but he's very experienced in this stuff so I respect his opinion.

    • @JackAShepherd
      @JackAShepherd 6 місяців тому

      He may be experienced but... we have eyes

  • @katsrandomness4567
    @katsrandomness4567 Рік тому

    Abuse apologists

  • @EasyEPMD
    @EasyEPMD Рік тому

    LOL at all the Simps here desperately wanting to white knight for Turd. It's clear most of the commenters here never watched the trial or Amber's testimony; full of lies and grade 'B' acting. Her absolute contempt for the courts is the problem here. 12+ members of the Jury listened to her dribble and ALL of them independently found her guilty. But you Simps (not having spent a second at the trial) know better eh? Just desperately playing the victim card? Pathetic

    • @acertainslantoflight
      @acertainslantoflight Рік тому

      Shut up, Loser!!

    • @magdajabonska537
      @magdajabonska537 Рік тому

      Haven't seen too many men who defend Amber simp for her, but I see SO MANY women simping for Johnny (posting his pics from the 90s too lol). Yeah, I watched the testimony and all. Still on her side. And in the UK he was found to be guilty

  • @JoyEnterprises
    @JoyEnterprises Рік тому

    This was SOOOO good! Thank you for talking about the disenfranchised grief of coparenting. This gets overlooked so much. Please do another whole episode on this topic. 50:40

  • @JRB09990
    @JRB09990 Рік тому

    Thank you for this talk. Lundy is so validating and articulate in explaining the dynamics of domestic abuse and post separation abuse.

  • @Fnaitstorri
    @Fnaitstorri Рік тому

    I don't trust people who don't cuss 😂 great podcast! Love Vanessa Bennett ❤️

  • @cookingwithvince
    @cookingwithvince Рік тому

    I would not define Chris as a psychopath at all. You could make an argument for narcissism or being diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder but what he did was much more sociopathic as it wasn't very well planned out and it was more of an extreme version of extrordinarily cruel recklessness. Psychopathy as a characteristic trait is displayed more from an individual that has anti social personality disorder that is much more calculated in their sadistic or violent behavior and might have the ability to get away with it for years. Chris was much more reckless in his cruelty and was clear how clueless his sense of awareness was in the idea that he wouldn't be caught and that he could get away with it.

  • @janchapman3408
    @janchapman3408 Рік тому

    I couldn't believe my ears. At 1:21 you described your new cohort as "so f***in gorgeous"? I was looking forward to your video but using profanity is just such as turn off and sounds so unprofessional.

  • @juicejuicy
    @juicejuicy Рік тому

    i love Lundy but Amber is an abuser still. Johnny is no saint but Amber was the abuser and liar in their case and there's mountains of proof

  • @andrewcicchetti
    @andrewcicchetti Рік тому

    Any mother with financial resources should hire a coercive control expert witness for court and have a coercive control evaluation conducted.

    • @recoveringsoul755
      @recoveringsoul755 Рік тому

      I think we need more case law examples here. Women can't afford it, so men will be doing this. My ex demanded I get the psych eval. Expensive waste of time. It backfired on him, and he was terrified that doctor would testify, so at the last minute before trial, he agreed to drop his restraining order. However, nothing changed, I did not get back into my house or get back into my children's lives. The court did not apologize to me for the years of lost time with my children. No idea what he told the kids. Do they not know he lost? The damage had been done. That was almost a decade ago. My life is over. There is no way to fight evil this great. We need free legal representation from lawyers who understand what we are up against.

  • @thefitgamerdad
    @thefitgamerdad 2 роки тому

    It's wild. My kids are 2 and 3, and I'm about to experience divorce. Although I only hope that my wife and I can remain friends and coparent well enough to where they aren't affected too much. I hope that works well in our children's lives. I appreciate you posting this.

  • @thefitgamerdad
    @thefitgamerdad 2 роки тому

    You're an inspiration. Thank you so much for your podcast. You got my sub for sure. Looking forward to more of your content!! 😃

  • @glizzard1894
    @glizzard1894 2 роки тому

    Great information about Chris Watts. However, as a victim of narcissistic abuse, I have a visceral reaction to Amber Heard. In my opinion, she was NOT responding to abuse with reactive abuse. She was the aggressor in every single recording. She is a fraud, a manipulator and an abuser. Johnny Depp isn't perfect by far but he is not the abuser. When I listened to the recordings they made, she triggered me with her abusive behavior. Mind you, she knew she was being recorded. What was she like when she wasn't being observed? Another giant clue is that AH (like all abusers) refused to be accountable about anything. JH was up front about his flaws and failures. I'm a woman but I'm not a feminist. I believe in both sexes being empowered. Abuse is abuse, even if it happens to a "rich and powerful" man.

  • @consultumultimum
    @consultumultimum 2 роки тому

    His characterisation of the JD vs AH case is highly inaccurate, even plainly false on several occasions. Just one example: Her diagnosis concerning BPD and HPD wasn't circular like he pretends, but based on a well established assessment tool highly validated in forensic settings (MMPI-2) & wasn't in any way relying on her performance on the stand.

    • @keke8880
      @keke8880 Рік тому

      Dr. Curry isn't board certified and met Amber 2x. She never treated Amber and Amber was never her patient. Even if a woman has BPD, there's overwhelming evidence of JD abusing Amber. Amber's mental state is irrelevant.

    • @biruss
      @biruss Рік тому

      I've seen an abusive lady pull his book on her ex, merely because got furious over her mistreatment. She had bpd. And committed reactive abuse. She claimed he abused because he verbally stood up to her. All her did was block her and she got a slightly sprained wrist. He had told her his previous girlfriend was abusive. That's how she knew he was a target. Lundy doesn't understand bpd wives. Erin pizzey and the emotional terrorist

    • @samanthamcnamara7682
      @samanthamcnamara7682 Рік тому

      The issues with that is that the MMPI is not a diagnostic tool but an assessment tool. Basically it shines a light on places we should look. There are so many comorbid traits with BPD, HPD, and PTSD that you’d had to have the individual take the MMPI and then spend considerable time with a professional who can flesh out what’s actually going on. Without that, anyone can skew MMPI results to mean whatever they want them to mean.

    • @consultumultimum
      @consultumultimum Рік тому

      @@samanthamcnamara7682 1) This doesn‘t negate in any way that Bankrofts account of how the assessment was made, was plainly false & therefore not scientifically honest. 2) To exclude comorbidity with PTSD Ms. Heard was assessed with the CAPS-5 test. Result: She didn‘t suffer from ptsd. (In fact from selfreport Ms. Heard rated so high on the ptsd-symptom items, that it would make her the worst case of ptsd ever occured in the history of clinically treating with this disorder, which is an indicator of significant report distortion) 3) Ms. Heard’s assessment in this case was done by Dr. Shannon Curry, clinical & forensic psychologist with 15 years of experience in the field. Dr. Curry made her assessment methodologically transparent (which in addition to CAPS-5 and MMPI-2 involved of course an exhaustive personal examination).

    • @JH-vy7uy
      @JH-vy7uy Рік тому

      Nice misdirection. I guess it’s inconvenient for your narrative that the evaluator that “diagnosed” her never met Amber and never administered this measure, relying instead on Depp’s files, an incredibly incomplete and biased means of gathering evidence, and went to dinner with her paying customer, Johnny Depp. Highly unusual, and unethical because it lacks objectivity. That’s not how accurate diagnoses are performed, in fact it’s unethical. While Heard’s medical records from seeking treatment throughout her relationship were excluded by the Judge.

  • @lauriejames4918
    @lauriejames4918 2 роки тому

    Thank you Kate for this interview!

  • @--A.F.Heathens--
    @--A.F.Heathens-- 2 роки тому

    Some abusers use Batter's Intervention Programs to become better at being abusive.

  • @katrinelarsen7198
    @katrinelarsen7198 2 роки тому

    Did you actually watch this trial and examine the evidence? Because it sounds like you're basing this entirely on statistics and "usual" patterns of behaviour. I am deeply disturbed by this, and very disappointed at the lack of research you both did.

    • @katrinelarsen7198
      @katrinelarsen7198 2 роки тому

      @Slipstitch Hollow She's a liar and that's why she lost. I don't want to walk you through this, because your mind is already made up. Look up any legal commenter on UA-cam, and they'll tell you why you're wrong.

    • @katrinelarsen7198
      @katrinelarsen7198 2 роки тому

      @Slipstitch Hollow She is, as proven over a 6 week trial, by a jury of her peers. There was an expert on IPV. She lied. That's why the CHLA doesn't have the money she promised, and why she owes JD $8,350,000. She lost. It means nothing for anyone other than the two of them. Every minute of the trial is available to stream. You should do that.

    • @katrinelarsen7198
      @katrinelarsen7198 2 роки тому

      @Slipstitch Hollow She never signed the pledge. And she didn't start sending money until they offered her an ambassadorship. And remember the CHLA? She never even responded to their e-mails. You'd know this if you watched the trial. Her legal fees are covered by her insurance - they even had a representative with her in court. So she just pocketed that money. Tell you what. Go watch the first two hours of Camilles cross examination of Amber. It goes into a lot of details. I think both you, and the experts in this video, would learn a lot about Amber and her credibility. I believed Amber up until this trial. The evidence just isn't there. The behaviour patterns these people discuss aren't there. When you've watched the cross, watch the cross on rebuttal. That makes those things even more obvious. She's a liar. She's exploiting people like these experts who rely on patterns and not specific evidence. Try disproving any of what I just said. Watch the testimony from trial. Prove me wrong. I bet you can't

    • @katrinelarsen7198
      @katrinelarsen7198 2 роки тому

      @Slipstitch Hollow So you didn't watch it. Cause the pledge us a tiny part of it. She still didn't sign the papers. It's classic of abuse apologists to explain away all the incriminating stuff like you're doing now. Camille exposed a lot more lies from her. Go watch. The Geek Buzz has been debunked more times than I can count. I'm saying you should watch the trial, and you refuse to. Is it because you're afraid I might be right? Or is it because you're covering for an abuser?

    • @katrinelarsen7198
      @katrinelarsen7198 2 роки тому

      @Slipstitch Hollow Just watch the trial. Shouldn't be anything in there that's bad, right? Don't care anymore. You're not salvageable.

  • @markanon3926
    @markanon3926 2 роки тому

    Lundy is right in general, but he clearly did not watch this trial. Abuse victims are not pathological liars who put fake bruises on their face and call TMZ to photograph it, yet have no other witnesses or photographs of any of their many alleged injuries. They do not win $7 million in the divorce, then lie and say they donated it all to charity, while actually keeping over $6 million, to spend tax-free on a high-flying lifestyle. Amber is a Grade A sociopath, and I recognize my abuser (a male, I am a female) in Amber. Lundy’s book helped me so much when I first married my abuser. Everything he says in this video is right in GENERAL. But in the case of Amber, he has simply not seen all the evidence of her stunning number of lies.

  • @bonniebloodworth
    @bonniebloodworth 2 роки тому

    This is an absolute travesty and shouldn't be pushed down people's throats anymore. No one without a book to sell or an agenda for their own gain to keep this monster of a woman in a conversation supports her. She is triggering for ALL survivors of DV/SA. Interesting this vid has been up for 2 weeks with barely any interaction - read the room. No one is listening to outdated nonsense that 'only women' start accepting men too, you'll be on the right track. THIS MAN SAID IT HIMSELF - I've been listening to women for 20 years - start listening to people ALL PEOPLE!!!!

    • @JM-yx4ew
      @JM-yx4ew 2 роки тому

      If you’d actually read the book you’d see Depp’s behavior spelled out clearly all over it. He’s not trying to sell a book. He literally tells people to download the free PDF because he’d rather victims be able to get the info to get out than make money. The ones looking for money are the ones pushing to vindicate Depp because they know he has more Stans. There’s zero dollars in defending Heard.

    • @magdajabonska537
      @magdajabonska537 Рік тому

      For ALLL survivors? Stop speaking for others, I am a survivor and I believe Amber and despise the piece of trash that is Depp. So no, not ALL survivors, maybe YOU.

  • @seance1287
    @seance1287 2 роки тому

    Thank you Kate and Lundy. Experts with actual experience in family courts, custody, social work, IPV, can see through mass manipulation here

  • @IsaVarg
    @IsaVarg 2 роки тому

    This is deeply disappointing. When I read the book "Why Does He Do That?" I cried over and over because of how much I related to it, and I could finally admit to myself that I wasn't a pathetic piece of trash, I had been abused. Watching the trial, I saw myself in Johnny Depp and I could barely watch Amber Heard speak, because it triggered me so much that I nearly threw up. I had a migraine for several days after trying to watch her testify. Her "mountains of evidence" don't line up with anything she says, and despite claiming to have documented a great deal, she can't produce any medical records or pictures related to injuries that _absolutely must_ be treated and would result in severe swelling, bruising, and extremely visible, long-lasting injuries. Her story never made sense, she's been proven to lie over and over, and to hear a such respected figure say these things is disheartening and painful. Amber Heard is not a victim simply because she is less famous, younger, and a woman. She has BPD and married a man she could control and squeeze everything she could out of. Amber Heard is not a victim and does not speak for me, nor will she ever.

    • @mystifiedlyn
      @mystifiedlyn 2 роки тому

      Maybe you need to reevaluate your stance considering a highly respected DV expert like Lundy Bancroft who has decades of experience/research in the field - recognizes that Depp is indeed a wifebeater (as declared in The Sun UK trial) and is manipulating the public into believing he's the victim.

    • @saml8802
      @saml8802 2 роки тому

      Below is unseen evidence from UK trial that was not allowed in the Us trial which encompasses much of her medical records. Her injuries can be seen throughout the trial including evidence her nose was broken. If you are talking about her SA the vast majority of victims receive no medical care and no justice for what is done to them because of a society that punishes women for speaking out just like you are doing here (who often have far less evidence than Amber Heard had). Below is evidence I copied quickly from sources that lay out a fraction of the evidence that Amber Heard has brought forward that was not allowed to be used in the course case including testimony and medical notes from doctors, nurses and therapists. I am not writing this for you but for the sane people who will read your comment and think that Johnny Depp wasn't abusive and hopefully change their mind because you may not be open to listening. -------- - Dr. Laurel Anderson, testified that Amber reported that she was slapped, hit in the head, had her hair pulled, and was kicked in the leg by Depp. Amber reported to Anderson that it was Depp that first to initiate any violence, and that she hid in the bathroom to protect herself from Depp, and also information about the cellphone incident. Amber’s lawyer says that the court also excluded notes from the couple’s counseling sessions, and Depp’s team objected due to hearsay. - Dr. Kipper testified that Amber voiced concerns about Depp’s behaviour when using drugs and alcohol, and reported that Depp tried to fight and push her during the Bahamas detox, and that he told Depp to “bury the dragon” in relation to the “negative feelings (Depp) has inside him.” An email was also excluded from Kipper to Depp’s sister regarding Depp’s drug treatment. The email from Kipper said that Depp “had fundamental issues with anger, romanticized the drug culture, and had no patience if his needs were not met.” - Debbie Lloyd testified that Amber again voiced concerns about Depp’s behaviour when using drugs and alcohol, and stated that he would “work himself up into a rage and try to fight (Amber)” during the Bahamas detox. Lloyd also kept nursing notes about these issues, but Depp’s team objected due to hearsay. - Erin Falati testified that Amber reported to her that she was “freaked out” by the December 2015 headbutting incident, and there were texts between the two discussing the incident. There were also texts between the two after the May 2015 phone incident. Depp’s team again objected due to hearsay. - Dr. Amy Banks, a clinical psychologist and relationship consultant who also worked with Depp and Amber. Banks testified that Amber reported that Depp hit her, and that he also “cut his finger off” and burnt himself with a cigarette. Amber also reported to Banks that Depp initiated the violence, while in a session with Depp, and he did not deny what Amber had said. Dr. Banks also testified that she believed Amber’s accusations, and that she was a victim of domestic abuse. Again, objected due to hearsay, and that Banks’ opinion that Amber was a victim of DB was “improper expert opinion.” Her testimony has not been shown at all to the jury. - Dr. Cowan, Amber’s therapist. Dr. Cowan testified that Amber reported the abuse to him, as well as medical notes and text messages. A text message from Amber was sent after the headbutting incident that said “Johnny did a number on me.” It was objected due to hearsay. His testimony has not been shown. - Dr. Alan Blaustein, Depp’s psychologist, testified that Depp reported he cut himself and burnt himself with cigarettes as a child, along with more information about the drugs he was taking. Objected due to speculation and hearsay. - Dr. Bonnie Jacobs. Treatment notes showed Amber reporting violence from Depp, including sexual assault. These were objected due to hearsay, and her entire testimony has not been shown. - Stephen Deuters (Depp's employee) texts to Amber Heard confirming he saw Johnny Depp kick her on the Boston plane flight were objected to by his lawyers and not entered into evidence for the jury to consider. - Johnny Depp stated he never hit Amber Heard until a recording was shown that proved he headbutted her.

    • @mystifiedlyn
      @mystifiedlyn 2 роки тому

      You're also proving how well the pro-Depp propaganda and misinformation has worked to portray Heard negatively since you're repeating some of the same debunked lies. 1. None of the psychologists who treated her during their marriage diagnosed her with BPD, nor did Dawn Hughes, only Curry who did a shoddy 12hr evaluation and had already decided on the diagnosis before even meeting AH in person. C-PTSD & BPD also have an overlay in symptoms 🤷‍♀️ 2. If she was a gold digger, she would have gone for the 30+ million she was entitled to in the divorce under California law since they did not have a prenup. 3. Says a lot that she was granted a restraining order against him & three high court judges all agreed that she was the victim in their relationship. Don't even care if you believe me, I just want to provide counterfacts to anyone who might fall for the misinformation you're spreading

    • @saml8802
      @saml8802 2 роки тому

      @@mystifiedlyn EXACTLY JD will rot in hell but the lack of critical thinking and blind faith in edited videos fed to them by an algorithm pushed by his PR team to discredit and further abuse a victim of DV means they will be going there right along with him.

    • @nm9688
      @nm9688 2 роки тому

      It does though. Maybe you have not reviewed all the evidence in a critical manner, and have relied on youtubers for your opinion. That's OK, as it seems this whole thing is triggering for you. Better no opinion than an uninformed opinion, though

  • @Emily-dt2xy
    @Emily-dt2xy 2 роки тому

    Also, Amber Heard abused her ex partner Tasya Van Ree and her own sister Whitney. There is actual evidence that supports this. There is a pattern of behaviour on her part. There isn’t on Depp’s. Why are you overlooking this and why are you not concerned for her female victims?

    • @magdajabonska537
      @magdajabonska537 Рік тому

      1. Tasya van Ree denies the abuse. The only "evidence" is the fact that Amber was arrested. 2. Where's the evidence that she abused Whitney? 3. JD has a long history of being violent and accusations of assault on movie sets etc, plus he dated a minor when he was in his late 20s (Winona Ryder). He also has a history of speaking about women including his exes in dehumanizing ways and no, not just Amber. His children might not have any relationship with him at all.

    • @Emily-dt2xy
      @Emily-dt2xy Рік тому

      @@magdajabonska537 1. Nope. A statement was issued from Amber. Tasya never testified for Amber in court and she’s best friends with Jennifer Howell who testified for Johnny. 2. Jennifer Howell. 3. Wrong. You obviously didn’t watch the trial.

    • @magdajabonska537
      @magdajabonska537 Рік тому

      @@Emily-dt2xy "wrong" HAHAHA are you denying he dated 17 year old girls while being an adult, people have talked about him being violent many times, he has accusations of him being violent on set? Yes, Tasya didn't testify for Amber, but GUESS WHAT? most Johnny's exes didn't testify for him, either! "Statement came from Amber" any proof for that? Or just speculation? I'm talking about the one that was published under Tasya's name.

    • @Emily-dt2xy
      @Emily-dt2xy Рік тому

      @@magdajabonska537 you are boring me now. Winona Ryder issued a statement to say Johnny is loving and kind and was never abusive to her. You won’t accept that though even though a woman who has direct experience with him accounted for her relationship with him. Is Cher abusing her boyfriend since there’s a massive age gap? Or is it only abusive when the male is older in the dynamic? Kate Moss, Vanessa Paradis, Winona Ryder, Lori Ann Depp (Johnny’s first wife) all stepped toward for him. None of Amber’s exes have come forward either during the trial or since then to defend her. It says it all. A quote in the media 7 years ago allegedly from Tasya does not count. Like the true narc amber is, she was triangulating Tasya right after the split with Johnny. She went back to Tasya. It was all over her social media at the time. If Tasya did make a statement, I have no doubt whatsoever that she was forced via Amber to do so during that time. Tasya has said nothing since then and has had plenty opportunity to speak up during the last 7 years. She also unfollowed Amber after the trail on Instagram. She does not support her. Keep being deluded though. I’m done with this conversation.

    • @magdajabonska537
      @magdajabonska537 Рік тому

      @@Emily-dt2xy it doesn't matter if she said he was abusive. SHE WAS A MINOR. UNDER THE AGE OF 18. No, Cher doesn't date a teenager or a minor, if she did then she's a creep. If an adult woman dates a 17 year old boy or a girl, she's a predator too, no matter how nice she is, you p3d0philia defender. 17 year olds are children. And Winona hired Matthew Rosengart to stop her statement about Johnny from being used in court. She also said he used to smash things and was violent even if it wasn't towards her. And well Amber didn't have nearly as many exes as Johnny but Kate Moss is accused of abuse too and Vanessa receives a lot of money from Johnny. Johnny's children didn't speak in favor of him. I'm willing to believe Amber may be a messy or toxic friend. Possibly even a bad person. But I'm even more certain of the fact that Johnny is a trash human being and any man who dates minors and is calling his ex a withering cunt bc she's over 30 is a pile of waste. And I believe he was abusive too.

  • @Emily-dt2xy
    @Emily-dt2xy 2 роки тому

    This is honestly so disturbing. I bet neither of you have watched the full Depp v Heard trial. If you had there is noway on this planet that you would believe that Depp had abused Heard. You mention the case and then go onto say that there could be a history of texts of him berating her but the judge will say “look they’re both behaving terribly”. There were NO texts from Johnny to Amber of him berating her. Nor were there any abusive or threatening messages from him to her. There were from her to him. Again you’d see this if you actually paid attention. It is shocking, triggering and disappointing to see you both discussing the case in this way. I am a female who was abused by a man and can very much identify my abuser in Amber Heard. The audio tapes are horrific. They themselves could be a lesson in gaslighting and the fact that neither of you see this is quite astonishing.

    • @MS-ep2cq
      @MS-ep2cq 2 роки тому

      People on here really simping for a deranged drunk necrophiliac

    • @pinksalamanders
      @pinksalamanders 2 роки тому

      Wow, you must really like those pirate movies.

    • @brittanydavis2730
      @brittanydavis2730 2 роки тому

      I'm currently in a relationship with an older, abusive man. So many of his actions remind me of Johnny Depp. It's been triggering for me to see people siding with Johnny Depp. This interview was very validating for me. It is sad though to see abuse survivors attacking each other. The only ones suffering in this are victims.

    • @Emily-dt2xy
      @Emily-dt2xy 2 роки тому

      @@pinksalamanders thanks for mocking me when I just disclosed I am an abuse survivor.

    • @Cauldron6
      @Cauldron6 2 роки тому

      @@Emily-dt2xy where are they mocking you in their comment? That person was pointing out that they have seen Depp acting in ways that tracked with the abuse THEY experienced. And did you miss the part where they said they, too, are a survivor of DV? Saying “I’m a survivor of DV” does not make you immune to criticism or opposition.

  • @deeee1430
    @deeee1430 2 роки тому

    Have been hoping Lundy Bancroft supported Amber, I knew he did really. Thanks for this

  • @thingscarlaloves
    @thingscarlaloves 2 роки тому

    This is amazing. Thank you so much. <3