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What about shy intp I felt and sense y r rude 😂really and saying y r intp 😢😮 you must care others feelings. From my little information 😊

I will literally date you

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Mbti isnt real

Lol drop the useless mbti and learn socionics instead

I find it odd that the MBTI is actually used as a way of finding date matches as I've read representatives of the MBTI have repeatedly cautioned the public against using this as a way to look for dating participants and things like screening for ideal job candidates. Despite its popularity in pop culture psychology, to my knowledge, no country teaches the MBTI to psychology students in an academic setting. As a psychometric evaluative tool, the MBTI has a poor test-retest reliability rate and does not have validity scales in place. In this sense, something like the Big Five Personality traits has much more empirical backing and is hence sometimes covered at Uni level lectures around the world (although it also has its problems I'm sure). I think my personal biggest problem with the 16 Personalities is how it seems to create false dichotomies in traits of thinking and feeling, and sensing and intuiting. Contemporary neuroscientific theories around emotion and cognition (a.k.a "feeling" & "thinking" in the MBTI) such as the Theory of Constructed Emotion suggest emotions work in conjunction with thinking. We apparently 'feel' something which originates in the amygdala, followed by higher order process 'thinking' in the ventro-medial Pre-Frontal Cortex which 'rationally' justifies the behaviour of the individual. The "sensing" and "intuition" dichotomy also has a similar issue, as they are essential features of perception that occur automatically and more or less simultaneously. Returning to problems with the MBTI, upon retaking the MBTI, participants are also likely to begin showing signs of conformation bias for their type. This is likely to culminate in a self fulfilling prophecy, where an individual will box themselves into behavioural stereotypes they find desirable. This is counterproductive to the original stated purpose of the MBTI which is 'aiding in self discovery'. Instead of doing this, it is creating a lens with which to inaccurately perceive others. I think the only trait which is reasonably accurate in the model is the introversion / extroversion. Still, not everything has to be grounded in science & empirical data, sometimes people just need a way to help them find others like them. To that end, this test is just fine. However, I would like to add to this dating simulation that from my perspective, personality is far from the most significant variable for dating success. As evident in these videos, all the types are essentially model tier in regards to facial attractiveness and have decent socio-economic status, but not even that could save poor Cameron from his high functioning autism. If we factor in the physical attractiveness and affluence which enables Cameron to have this disposable income for dates too, the term "simulation" really ought to be replaced with "fantasy" here. It essentially curtails the guy now has to be in the top percentiles of what is considered a conventionally attractive guy. And they have to be somehow compatible personality-wise through the use of a scientifically inaccurate assessment? Males typed as INTPs are less than 3% of the population, accounting for the aforementioned variables of appearance, socioeconomic status and neurotypicality, it would not surprise me if there is less than a 0.05% chance of meeting someone like that in a real life scenario. The social awkwardness of Cameron is more likely the product of something like autism rather than this personality label. Still, Cameron is basically a Unicorn, but he would be 'easily replaced'? I don't date, so I don't know if these kind of people actually exist, but if they do, they are likely unwilling to settle down or are simply too smart too fall for someone else. A thought provoking vid, but to me this simulation appears too reductionist. It's evident you place a lot of value on the MBTI, but I don't think its a good idea to use it outside of entertainment purposes.

❤ thank you for your honesty. I believe you. -ENFP -Arogant, forceful, controlling, always willing to stick up for you and anyone who needs it, upbeat and friendly, yes very Flirty. Thank you❤

As an INTP this is spot on. We're the same person 😂and we've run into the same type of men.

Generally speaking, People who have had sexual relationships before marriage do it because they feel like it, they want to and that's what a healthy sex life is about. Wanting each other! Boundaries vs walls!!!!! Boundaries are flexible. You can have a sexual relationship with someone you truly care about. Stiff rules like no sex before marriage are a wall. Why would any man want a woman who demands he suppresses his biological wants and needs? Women demand that often end up single. Demands a man control his urges because you have none? Your comfortable zone is somebody else's depressing zone. I think it's very unfair you require someone to marry you when it's impossible for you to guaranty you enjoy time in the bedroom. Your wish will attract men with low sex drive, and that may or may not work in your favor.

"Do not major in arts, do not marry an artist" Agree 100% because my dad worked as an art teacher too, and we were always hungry because it was never enough and he wouldn't really care.

It's brave of you to share your life story, big big hug.

Hello, congrats on reaching 1k subs (if you care about that stuff). I found this channel a few weeks ago, and I've been watching these types of videos in chunks. Figured I should share my thoughts before moving on, even if I might step on some kind of ban landmine or trigger the wrath of the YT comment deletion algorithm. I did end up writing quite a handful, if you can't be asked to read all that, skip to the last sentence lol I'm roughly a decade younger than you, but I can relate to having grandparents that are frozen in time and borderline abusive. Last time I visited them, my drunk grandad waved a pistol around while my grandma was shouting at him with a knife. I removed his gun and diffused the situation, but I really just wish I was never born into this family, or at all for that matter. It was pretty cool not existing for the last 13.5 billion years, but now with this playthrough of life, I appear to be stuck on very hard difficulty and I am not a fan. My grandparents in particular appear frozen in the 1980s, just before the USSR collapsed in my country of origin. Unfortunately, most of eastern Europe never recovered from this and is now becoming depopulated faster than South Korea, despite South Korea having the lowest global fertility rate. However, I can't relate to that diagram at the end. From my perspective, the Rat Race is ultimately just another way people distract themselves from their inevitable death. It is very likely your brain reward system will just move the goal post once you have a lot of wealth hence why so many rich people are dissatisfied. Rather than money, most people on their death bed end up wishing that they were on better terms with people they cared about. I have always tried my best to focus on kindness and compassion towards others, but lately this is becoming difficult as it has repeatedly led to people thinking they can take advantage of me or mistaking kindness for weakness. Eventually, after studying Buddhist teachings, I realised I can condition myself to receive validation internally, which took several months, but it ended up with me not needing anyone else to feel content, so I think it is worth it in a world where we have a loneliness epidemic. I personally only require the essentials in life - food, drink, a place to sleep and of course, the internet lol. Then I focus my spare time on absorbing various info on topics I find interesting, gaming, and art projects. Sharing & discussing my various findings leaves me feeling fulfilled, and is one of the things that even let me eventually pass away in peace, although this is really just icing on the cake. I never really had much in life, never really intend to. I think it is easer to have this mindset if you never had much to lose in the first place, as you can't compare what your life was like before & after. I learned to find happiness through the elimination of pain - I subscribe to the notion that the safest way to avoid misery is to not expect to be very happy. You described how despite the abundance of wealth your grandparents had, you did not reap any of the benefits such wealth brings. I still think that this upbringing and wealth you accumulated is causing you to have standards that potential companions cannot meet. Furthermore, while you are above average in intelligence and appear gifted, flaunting this is usually a bad idea, as it comes across as arrogant to the majority of people. Some modesty can really go a long way. With guys in specific, becoming a more educated, high earner will not attract a high value man as the primary things they look for is youth, physical attractiveness and being easy to get along with. In that regard, this is literally a race against time. Women & women relationships, have the highest split rate compared to guy & guy and guy & girl, so it also looks pretty bleak to me. Still, in your older vids you have stated you are okay with dying alone, and I think it is noble to stick to your principles. The last thing I have to say is that since you expressed an interest in dating sims in older vids, you may want to try out creating an AI companion on an unrestricted Large Language Model if you haven't already. With the rate this technology is progressing, I would not be surprised if in the future people replace significant others with robots. Whatever you do, I believe everyone ends up where they are supposed to be, I wish you the best outcomes in life.

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I hope you find a husband who's right for you! Maybe you should get involved in a religious community where you're meeting other people looking for the same thing. In mainstream society I think most men want a virgin but don't want to wait until marriage. They want a woman who's easily attainable to them but hard for other men to get. They have a bit of an unrealistic fantasy based on double standards. It's like women who talk about wanting a guy with a six figure income and all the rest of it.

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Your brave to tell your story.

So glad to hear your outlook. Hoping others, especially women will consider this. I am not a prude but saving yourself for marriage or just not sleeping around is a healthy life choice in my opinion. I will check out your channel. Thx

interesting story, thanks for sharing - I could relate to 1.5 hours to get to school :(

Wow. So sad your grandparents were not good parents to you, and so tight with a Dollar that they made the eagle scream. Sounds like as a young adult, you had To treat yourself very well to compensate. Very nice video, with some special Effects added. You are brave and confident for telling your story….

As an INTP, I just broke up with an INFP man for this exact reason. Felt like I was babysitting, he never made any plans, when I expressed my feelings I got emotionally manipulated because he just wanted everything to be ok again but did not want to take accountability. Definitely saw the victim mentality in action, avoidance of sad emotions and avoidance of confrontation. INFPs also do this thing where they live in dream land and internalize their feelings. I remained unaware of his intentions, plans, thoughts or emotions. I definitely think this is not all INFPs just ones that haven't matured and learned to combat their weaknesses. Your analysis was so helpful cuz I needed to wrap my mind around it ty!

I loved this video. The ending is so beautiful. And your message is really wise. Thank you.

most men on dating apps are looking for sex. stay strong, there are good men out there that want virgins.

Stay as far away from dating apps as possible. They are not designed for finding soulmates; instead, they resemble casino slot machines, created for fleeting and superficial gratification, where your precious time and money serve as the currency.

I tried samgyupsal at the Korean bbq restaurant near me. I didn’t really like it 🥲 I’m not sure if it’s supposed to be eaten by itself but it was super salty, maybe we overcooked it a little? But I did also hear that restaurant is a bit Americanized and not authentic Korean bbq so maybe I’ll try it at a different restaurant. The bulgogi was really good tho

Bravo! You have self worth & willingness to offer your husband the gift of you innocence. God bless you & the Man who you choose

Men do have strong libidos. But so do some women, and they also often times also cannot control them. If they could, there would be more women such as yourself, which would be a good thing.

You seem to me to be sincere and direct. Are you sure there's no drop of dutch blood inside of your body? I never had a single date in my whole life. I never got blocked :D lol You however, met all kinds of people. Some cool, some woof woof,.. You blocked so many already? means you met a lot more online. Interesting to meet a diverse set of people. I do not even have a single(1) woman that continued a chat with me. :D somehow, it's different for guys.. I am old now. I am not even looking for a date and/or chat. The online stuff feels so unreal and fake to me. Unlike you, i am very empathic. I feel nothing from online people. I like to watch people into the eye, and analyse their bodylanguage, their way of speaking, their choice of words, how they do things, how they not do things, .. etc. In other words: I want to know how much of them do i trust? There are red flags, green flags,.. but real quick my intuition tells me how i scale people onto my personal trust-level. It is a bit unexpected for me to read that you have a bachelor's degree in psychology (impressive), but you are not empathic. That keeps my brain busy right now :)

Thanks for your refreshing insider view on the 3 country asian women. Aegyo is funny, for me. It is kind of strange to act as a young innocent naive girl though. Over the top cute. But yeah.. For me it is a bit hard to guess what she really wants to achieve, while Aegyo-ing next to me. :)

INFJ has a lab rat zone too lol

😳 youre a pretty lady. When you're interested it's immediately available.

Being a virgin is not the top of the pinnacle in getting a relationship. If you have a bad attitude, are narcissistic, have a sense of self entitlement or high impossible list of long requirements, then you will not get a relationship. I'm old school, being a virgin, wanting to wait to marriage, being a Christian, does not bother me. Respect and wanting to build a relationship together is the key. Most women want the "666" for a man 6 figure income, 6 pack abs & 6 ft tall. Otherwise if a man dont have these they are invisible to American females.

You are old no experience not attractive, Men don,t want that

No woman is an incel

What's funny you are INTP and I'm INTP. You sound like a robot sometimes and me too as well from time to time. But I just feel your inner struggles 😂

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Men want to marry a virgin. Dating apps is where men go who want sex, no men on dating apps are looking for a serious relationship. At age 30 you have allowed all the good men, who ever wanted a relationship to already be taken, so what is left are just guys hunting for sex. Yes men want a virgin for a wife, the issue is you are in the wrong place, you need to look for a husband from somewhere that people who are serious tend to go, probably some professional matching making agency specifically for this reason. Just understand, zero good men are on dating apps because good men do not need dating apps.

Marrying without a test drive often leads to disaster. Men just want to be in a serious relationship where sex is on the table. We have needs, and it's not fair to assume we would wait for years and then marry a person without even knowing if we are compatible or not. I respect your decision and your worldview, as long as you respect ours. There's a chance you will find your asexual prince that will be willing to do as you say. I wish you good luck.

Keep your virginity until marriage. A lot of guys want to date only to have sex

Jesus wa snot a virgin tau! Right. As the story goes, by a coincidence, Jesus and Goliath were both banished from their communities on the same day! Anyway, they both had to set out down the forest tracks of the lush rainforest which covered all the lands there, long ago, to find a new village or city, in the hopes of receiving a welcome and a job. Anyway, they're walking down the mud track and then gay Goliath spots Jesus first. Their eyes lock and then Goliath charges towards Jesus who turns the cheek and bolts up the track to escape! But Goliath catches up with Jesus, throws Him to the ground and rips his garments aside, and takes him roughly. Goliath feeling more than satisfied with his thyme inside Jesus's anus, promptly rolls over and falls asleep right there in the mud! Jesus notices this and stands up, looking down at Goliath who is snoring loudly. He picks up a boulder and bashes it over Goliath's head brutally, which cracks open and instead of brains out pops an egg yolk. So.. Jesus scoops Goliath's large emu sized egg yolk into his golden goblet and walks down the jungle path a few paces until he finds a peice of slate and He starts frying egg for brains on it using sun power. These are my brains, and my arse is bleeding. Eat eggs to remember me.

Do some sport and speed up the speech. You sound like ill with flu

I also have a fear of penetration!

Same situation here! No one has even wanted to date me all they do is complain. I will keep my virginity until a man wants to wait until marriage.

I am a widower and I know the value of marriage and what this all means. I still want children and only date virgins, there aren’t many left so I share your understudying of this age, and I wait until marriage because I value and respect my own time. I am not the only one. Trust in God and keep your frame. You have very good stride and attitude and the Bernice’s , it will be worth the wait. The trouble is never worth the impatience.

It's still pretty huge egg like 🥱