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You had me until bringing up “when I open up, she uses that against me.” Careful on the victim shaming. You’re going to be turning off a bunch of people who could really use your help.

I am the Peaceful wife. My husband brings nothing but Stress and Chaos he thrives on the constant strife!!!!!!!😢😢😢😢😢

Is this a joke?

The number of men behaving in ways that garner respect is evident from the number of women filing for divorce. Even though the majority of women are part of the workforce alongside their husbands, the majority of husbands still expect their wives to behave like mommies they get to have segs with. More women will respect men when men start to respect women. Historically men don’t have a great track record in this area. Starting with the Bible and continuing to now women have been treated as servants of their husbands. Many women have finally removed the rose coloured glasses of patriarchal propaganda, respect will be given to men only when men learn to respect their partners as self determining human beings instead of submissive servants.

If I can improve 1% every day as a godly man I would be three times Myself by the end of the year thanks brother

Blueprint

If you have Jesus in your heart, any sin you commit won't matter 😊

Jesus makes marriages dirty?

Divorce was the best thing. Life became so much easier after my wife left.

Hey, Tommy. I hear you, and I'm listening. This may sound selfish. I'm not being selfish because I believe everything you are saying 100%. However, shouldn't it be We instead of she. We should spend time together we should get to know each other. As a man, does she understand the pressures we go through. Almost every Christian marriage video i watch it's always about what the man should be doing or not doing. does she understand my love language, my Intamacy needs in and out of the bedroom, the pressures I deal with at work , at trying to be the best spiritual leader I can be. I'm feeling so much weight on me I can't breathe. It's like I'm doing that last rep on the squat rack, and I can't get it back on the bar. Someone has to come help me. I've put so much energy every inside to love my wife like Jesus tells us. Im emotionally exhausted . Honestly, I feel like my wife just goes through the motions. We both pray and our followers of Christ. I wake up. I pray I do my morning routine read scripture. Go to work 8 - 10 hrs. Come home and go to the gym. Wife and I have about 4 hours together a night. Not including weekends we both are together all weekend. Honestly I love being with my wife . There is truly not anyone else I'd rather spend time with than my wife.

This is very good advice

You couldn’t put one of her 7 gold medals on the thumbnail? 😂😂

If only I could get him to listen to your videos

Blueprint

You had me intrigued until the god thing 😅 closed the video real quick after that

we know what we want. the divorce rates will continue to climb and women will continue being single. people like you discounting the fact that we know what we want adds fuel to the flames.

Blueprint

The Bible says you should live your god like Christ loved the church as in he gave his life for the church. I'm done with that and I'm ready to leave her for 2000 years.

Blue print

🙏Amen

Experience.... see ya.. dont let door hit ya in your azz. Once they decide your not good enough. You married the wrong person

i nee4d your book and lot of prayer

When can someone make sense of a person that is quite literally done. Especially when, frankly you both had something to do with it. It’s not a surprise to you or her. She just wants a reason to go & play around with someone else. Leave her! Don’t prolong the inevitable!💐

Another lie compliments of the ever deceptive Christian church.

Kids should come first, because they are kids. I get not letting them sleep with you but still they are kids they should come first, especially since you say your Christian you should know that.

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I've always said that my priorities are God, my wife my kids and then me and everything else. My wife is kids, job and other life things, me and then God It breaks me daily. I pray and have tried for close to 27 yeara but it is something that has always been a massive issue with our relationship

Agreed! :)

I thought this was a joke

That's how I know marriage is dying when you see nearly 60% of christians ending in divorce Especially when it's built on the foundation of the rock of truth. And yet when the house is pinned against each other, then the house itself shall not stand. Which leads to destruction

Love is communication also.

Blueprint

You are morons

Thank you! 🫶🏼🙏🏼

So good! 🙌🏻

I waited and waited for this but now I gave up due to my partners unwillingness and now I doubt all the faith journey.

Who has the right to control who you love, married or not? Love has been shoved into a corner of control by religion and government. Freedom of love is only love one, monogamy only and control by the spouse. Marriage has become the ultimate tool for possession and control. Loyalty doesn't say that you cannot love others fully without boundaries. If marriage kills ones ability to love beyond one when you only have one life to live then why bother? Monogamy is programming from religion and government for control. Only about 5% of creation itself is monogamous yet humans position themselves because of the control of religion and government to suppress the God given ability to love without boundaries. So foolish how this control destroys lives. Read God's true words of creation and the truth will be seen! Love without boundaries always!❤

Why is this so complicated? Dont sign a marriage license if you want to have sex partners. Just stay single- now you can have 1,000 lovers if you want and nobody cares. The real problem is women want the security of marriage, but still have the boyfriends at the same time. However, men want extras too, and they are wrong also.

what a blue pill man cuck...she runs that relationship....and you do it all in the name of God...what a farce. good luck after the divorce man.

My long term partner started texting with this woman that was part of a training that we BOTH attended. It got to the point that he would immediately look at his phone as soon as he woke up in the morning before even acknowledging my existence... nice. I confronted him about it and he accused ME of being paranoid and jealous because I had been cheated on in the past. So.. he KNOWS that I have past trauma from a man that had an affair and now he's telling me to deal with him being close friends with a woman. She, at the time, was actually married, has 2 kids. About a year or 2 into their "friendship", her and her husband split up. Suddenly, he's going over to "work on a creative project" with her (related to the training that we all did together). I contacted her and said I wasn't feeling good about this at all.. and she assured me that they were just friends, that she would never do anything to hurt me. They were both gaslighting me. He eventually started doing this with other women that he met in trainings. .. side note.. all of these trainings were in the realm of helping people heal from trauma. Irony?!? I eventually got a hold of his phone, after he had been lying to me and spiritually bypassing me for ages... and saw that I wasn't, surprise surprise, wrong in my suspicions . Even then.. EVEN AFTER I HAD THE EVIDENCE IN HAND... he tried to deny it and tell me it wasn't what it looked like. That it wasn't his will, it was "Gods will" that was making it all happen...... seriously!?!? He was denying accountability and saying it was God's will that was making him have affairs!?! It was unreal. I left. We had been together for 9 years.

How about talking to all his ex lovers (by phone) and reminiscing about them EVERY SINGLE F...... DAY. I told him he was not over this women if he brought them up EVERY DAY. He said relax don't be jealous. Then he was HYPER jealous of my every move. I dumped him June 4th.

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My wife shares with her mom and my kids and it has made everything worse. My kids don’t respect me and her mom hates me. Plus she only gives her side of the story

Us ladies need to feel good too if we aren’t feeling good inside then we hate initiating anything. It should go both ways.

This is my WIFE

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Nah some spouses are just ungrateful and narcissist

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