Chris Murphy
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Setting Boundaries with Parents - Defining What you Will and Will Not Do
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In this video we explore an example of a Parent making demands we don't feel comfortable doing and how to get past it. Understanding how this impacts things like our confidence, decision making and knowing who we really are and what we are willing to do and not do based on our needs.
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For Workshops, Coaching and Blog Posts Check out my Website:
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How to Break Past Mental Barriers - Bungee Jump Example
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In this video I talk about how to best break through negative chatter in your mind and trust your gut. I use the example of a 5th Bungee Jump I did where I got lost in my mind and was struggling to jump, only for something more powerful to take over inside me and follow that. For Workshops, Coaching and Blog Posts Check out my Website: www.expansiveliving.co.uk/ Join the London's Leading Self-D...
How to Discover Your Masculine Identity following Enmeshment
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In this video we discuss the journey of discovering your Masculine Identity, following Enmeshment, wanting female validation and how you can move into your authentic power. We explore how judgements of other men and toxic role models can be the main barriers to adopting the health masculine traits we want. Free Talk / Workshop on Sunday on Boundaries with Parents and discovering your true self:...
Why Doing Activities that Make you Present are more important than Meditation
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In this video I discuss by fully living your life as you want, doing things that bring you into the present moment are just as important if not more important that meditation. When you find things in life that bring you fully into the moment you have more things that just meditation to keep you present and you are less likely to rely and become dependent on it. A good friend of mine told me onc...
How to Deal with People Making us Feel Guilty - Setting Boundaries
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In this video I focus on the topic of guilt and how we can be manipulated to feel guilty. Whether from a parent or a controlling person in our life, how boundaries are needed and this issue can be resolved, until this happens we may continue to be run by guilt in our minds on a daily basis. For Workshops, Coaching and Blog Posts Check out my Website: www.expansiveliving.co.uk/ Join the London's...
Running Away from Your True Self, Addiction & Commitment issues with Enmeshed Womaniser Example
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In this video we explore what actually creates the False Self for those who don't have strong boundaries and why addiction occurs. I used an example from Kens Adams Book "When He's Married to Mom" and the instance of the Womaniser in relation to enmeshment and why it is difficult to commit when you are enmeshed with a parent Any other enquiries about coaching contact me and for free 30 minute c...
First Ice Bath Attempt!
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In this Video I attempt my first Ice Bath for 1 minute without any cold shower preparation. I speak to Dom Berry who has a lot of experience on how best to tackle cold water therapy and makes sure I have the right preparation. I take away the many benefits of Cold Water and feel the high after. Following the Wim Hof Breathwork I take the cold plunge, with around 12 bags of Ice in cold water, th...
Ski Trip in Serbia - 7th March - 1 Spot Remaining!
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NEXT TRIP AWAY - Skiing in Serbia - 6 Nights - Everything Included - 7th March - 13th March Hey All, just a quick shout out! I haven't organised a trip away for 2 years and now it's finally here! I have 3 spots left for my next Group Trip away to Kopaonik, Serbia! What’s included in the Ultimate Ski Package: * Twin Bed Hotel Room at Ski Resort * Half Board - Breakfast and Dinner! * Return to Be...
Traveling Whilst Living The Laptop Lifestyle - with Devaraj Sandberg
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In this video I interview Dev Sandberg on what life is like living as a Nomad, travelling whilst working on your laptop. Many of us dream of living this lifestyle and the freedom we would get, only to never actually do it. Dev left his life in Brighton, to go to Ukraine for 3 months, and now is living in Mexico, he shares what he has learnt and why he's happy at the moment living life in this w...
Life's Secret Formula To Living a Life of Abundance
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In this video I go through an awesome formula which leads to you living an awesome life of abundance. How Boldness breaks you out of your comfort zone, to develop your mindset and have endless possibilities. How understanding each stage of the formula leads you cracking the code. Recently I did a Bungee Jump, only to have my mind blown open again, by being bold, my mindset felt as if I could do...
MLM's, Network Marketing, Pyramid Schemes and Self Help Scams - Interview with Robert Fitzpatrick
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MLM/Network Marketing/ Pyramid Schemes are they all scams? Are there any exceptions? Robert Fitzpatrick thinks so, with over 20 years experience as the worlds expert for pyramid schemes. Author of two books and representing clients in court cases all over the world, who have been victims to schemes were over 90% of people never even make their initial investment back, with the people at the top...
Using Your Mind to Find Freedom from Negativity and Build Lasting Success with J. H Tepley
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I interview Mind Mastery Expert Jay H. Tepley. We discuss the importance of using your mind in current times, how it is more important now than ever to live and train like a warrior to best help the planet, understand your values and know what you stand for. For nearly 20 years, she’s been helping her students around the globe to align with their Purpose, embrace their personal power and become...
How To End Financial Problems with Strong Boundaries with Parents
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In this video I share how I broke free of my financial problems when I had strong boundaries with parents around my finances. By not getting money externally, you learn to look after yourself and step into adulthood. Making a vow to look after yourself. Problems with enmeshment, if you always have the financial life line. As living proof, my current income has increased over 10 times thanks to ...
The Real Truth to Financial Freedom - Investing and Compounding
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In this video I share how for years I have struggled with making more money, wanting to quickly obtain more money. I have discovered the power of understanding investing and developing patience has allowed me to improve my financial situation. Also I use the example of Inflation is a reason of why we lose money every year and how money in the back or interests won't cover the difference. For Wo...
Facing Yourself To Improve Self Esteem and Get What You Want - with Devaraj
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In this video I interview Devaraj Sandberg about how we have to face ourselves, how we can become more confident and achieve exactly what we want in life, we do however has to face ourselves, our fears and accept things as they are. Great interview where we cover a range of topics For Workshops, Coaching and Blog Posts Check out my Website: www.expansiveliving.co.uk/ Join the London's Leading S...
How to Stop Looking For Validation Externally and Give it to Yourself
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How to Stop Looking For Validation Externally and Give it to Yourself
My Bufo Alvarius (Psychedelic Toad) Experience Has Allowed Me to Take Full Responsibility for Myself
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My Bufo Alvarius (Psychedelic Toad) Experience Has Allowed Me to Take Full Responsibility for Myself
Paul Janka Interview - Preparing for the Middle Age Cliff and Thoughts on Modern Dating
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Paul Janka Interview - Preparing for the Middle Age Cliff and Thoughts on Modern Dating
No Caffeine for 30 Days - Reduced Anxiety and More Energy
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No Caffeine for 30 Days - Reduced Anxiety and More Energy
My Ayahuasca Experience - What it Feels like to be One with Everything
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My Ayahuasca Experience - What it Feels like to be One with Everything
Setting and Tracking your Goals for 2021 (with Google sheet Tracker Download)
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Setting and Tracking your Goals for 2021 (with Google sheet Tracker Download)
Purposeful Investing in Uncertain Times with Chris Plowman
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Purposeful Investing in Uncertain Times with Chris Plowman
Tips to Best Deal with the Covid Situation
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Tips to Best Deal with the Covid Situation
Is there an Evil Conspiracy ruling the world? Chris and Andy Discuss
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Is there an Evil Conspiracy ruling the world? Chris and Andy Discuss
How to Overcome Social Anxiety
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How to Overcome Social Anxiety
Singing and Dancing to a Song in Public - Social Experiment
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Singing and Dancing to a Song in Public - Social Experiment
How to Overcome Anxiety for Good for Mother Enmeshed Men
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How to Overcome Anxiety for Good for Mother Enmeshed Men
The Problems Men Face and Stepping into Your Masculine, Authentic Strength with Richard Joy
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The Problems Men Face and Stepping into Your Masculine, Authentic Strength with Richard Joy
My Top 10 Experiences Most Out of my Comfort Zone
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My Top 10 Experiences Most Out of my Comfort Zone

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @zackolmert9622
    @zackolmert9622 Рік тому

    Paul looks like a better version of Louix Theroux lol

  • @zackolmert9622
    @zackolmert9622 Рік тому

    I fully agree with Paul Janka. I personally think men have a "wall" like women do but unlike the femile kind ours is more mental/physcological than biological. If I could put a number to it I would say the PUA/daygame phase is for men between ages 24 to 38. Then in the late thirties men should start considering to settle down & have kids. After all there is no point in having a high lay count without any progeny of your own. Real men are built to pass on their genes to the next generation.

  • @ET-dm4dk
    @ET-dm4dk Рік тому

    Guy in the right isn’t sharpest tool respectfully Is he meant to be a coach? I find he struggled with eye contact when speaking and struggles to answer “insightful” questions

    • @TBlock1347
      @TBlock1347 9 місяців тому

      He's a physics graduate from Harvard. Not dumb by any means.

  • @JillofAllTrades2
    @JillofAllTrades2 Рік тому

    So blessed to have participated in not one, but 2 bufo ceremonies this week. INCREDIBLE!!!!! COLORFUL EXPLOSIVE MIND, HEART & SOUL EXPERIENCE. INTEGRATIVE. And, yes!!!!!! BLISSSSSS. PARADISE. I did hard self-work over the past few decades so this was the universe’s reward-to culminate the rational, emotional, talk therapy with universal connection to SELF. SURRENDER!! COMPLETE. UTTER. TOTAL. SURRENDER. I AM THAT I AM.

  • @JillofAllTrades2
    @JillofAllTrades2 Рік тому

    FANTASTIC example of your flat hunting experience!

  • @matthewrousseau2982
    @matthewrousseau2982 Рік тому

    Could you micro dose this? Take a small toke every other day

  • @rachellejoachim2652
    @rachellejoachim2652 Рік тому

    It is very difficult those business till this day I work in them it is a low fee to join for a business, some do good in it based on thier network other then that you have to get into some form of lead generation and even then it is hard, it is best to promote your own creativity first, this what I am looking into. This is a good break down of what MLM is I always hear they say they are not a pyramid scheme but is it is run on active people or lots of money must be put into products or services. The positive thing is you learn must information on the services, products etc and yes many big gurus or endorsed to push the mlm.

  • @andrewmarkson7882
    @andrewmarkson7882 Рік тому

    Fun. Just so you know, if you ask for latte in Italy, they'll give you a cup of milk. There's no such drink as a latte. That came from America. It's only espresso, macchiato, and cappuccino.

  • @rancosteel
    @rancosteel Рік тому

    If I had looks and or money I would never be married.

  • @cloudydays3935
    @cloudydays3935 2 роки тому

    😂

  • @kimberlyjoy7611
    @kimberlyjoy7611 2 роки тому

    Wonderful!💕♥️💓

  • @iknowherfacebutidontknowhe1743
    @iknowherfacebutidontknowhe1743 2 роки тому

    Yeah let's ignore 2:07-2:11

  • @lifewithkkganggang9869
    @lifewithkkganggang9869 2 роки тому

    its night time it making me laught

  • @daydreamer3898
    @daydreamer3898 2 роки тому

    I wasn't even a teenager when he quit the game

  • @drukyoutubestudio6225
    @drukyoutubestudio6225 2 роки тому

    lots of love from Bhutan

  • @andreeaelenaachim1440
    @andreeaelenaachim1440 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your experience . I never did it and i am looking for a trustful place to experience it. I would highly appreciate some recommendations 🙏🏼

  • @markrichardson3566
    @markrichardson3566 2 роки тому

    There should be 4,5 people getting paid on the sales

  • @svetamusic
    @svetamusic 2 роки тому

    Love your meditation! 🌸🙏❤️

  • @liliyasamiliv8783
    @liliyasamiliv8783 2 роки тому

    Wow! Thank you

  • @devwoodbury
    @devwoodbury 2 роки тому

    I like this video and watch it from time to time and it does make me laugh and smile lol. The reactions are interesting as well. For the most part, it seems like people enjoy it. Good exercise!

  • @rhysknight8681
    @rhysknight8681 2 роки тому

    Good grief, this is such a good conversation. Thanks for taking the time. You mightn't have the largest audience but that's not always the metric, as you guys pointed out.

  • @edit_world9393
    @edit_world9393 2 роки тому

    I also want to try this but I'm an introvert 😭🤣

  • @RickJamesBitch369freeyourmind
    @RickJamesBitch369freeyourmind 2 роки тому

    I've done the toad twice I had the exact same experience both times all I saw was the white light I don't feel like I got anything out of it either time , how come I'm having a problem getting there?

  • @الوعيالذاتي
    @الوعيالذاتي 2 роки тому

    تمارين اوشو هي نفخ الانف ثم رفع اليدين مع القفز ومانترا اووو ثم اللعب والرقص يعني اعتبر نفسي طفل ثم اتأمل التنفس ثم افرك راحتا يدي ثم امسح وجهي

  • @jambuair9189
    @jambuair9189 2 роки тому

    Yellow shirt is very beautifull

  • @chosenonpurpose489
    @chosenonpurpose489 2 роки тому

    👼👼👼PEOPLE OF GOD IF YOU ARE READING THIS THE LORD IS TRYING TO GET YOUR UNDIVIDED ATTENTION HE’S GIVING YOU ANOTHER CHANCE TO REPENT AND SAVE YOUR SOUL👼👼👼 Dear Lord Jesus, I know that I am a sinner, and l I ask for Your forgiveness. I believe You died for my sins and rose from the dead. I turn from my sins and invite You to come into my heart and life. I want to trust and follow You as my Lord and Savior.👼👼👼

  • @SeyaDiakite7
    @SeyaDiakite7 2 роки тому

    Thank you for existing pal

  • @sherlockholmes9169
    @sherlockholmes9169 2 роки тому

    I can see that’s a fake. Naturally you need to laugh naturally natürlich

  • @ranc1977
    @ranc1977 2 роки тому

    Yeah, this was huge discover for me - guilt. It is used as tool to control us. Both by our own cognitive distortions inside us, and toxic environment around us. It really is cleverly disguised, and I think most people use it unwittingly, they are not aware that they are manipulating others. Machiavellians use it definitely on purpose. It can be used in marketing and politics - and if we are not aware of guilt being a tool to control us, we can be taken advantage of and exploited. It is important topic to talk about. Thank you for video.

  • @mattmehaffy6349
    @mattmehaffy6349 2 роки тому

    You THE best keep it up we're counting on you

  • @stilnessspeaks8104
    @stilnessspeaks8104 2 роки тому

    Very informative video. Enjoying the regular episodes.

  • @markrichardson3566
    @markrichardson3566 2 роки тому

    Mlms are evil, they use people

  • @markrichardson3566
    @markrichardson3566 2 роки тому

    Robert knows his stuff, thanks 😊

  • @mattmehaffy6349
    @mattmehaffy6349 2 роки тому

    Chris Murphy is THE MAN. .....first

  • @TheBinoyVudi
    @TheBinoyVudi 2 роки тому

    They should work on their laughter. Need to sound natural.. it sounded a bit fake

  • @dishusaini7364
    @dishusaini7364 2 роки тому

    Idk i am laughing 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mikevuk8973
    @mikevuk8973 2 роки тому

    I love my 🐸🐸🐸 experience

  • @andyclark8991
    @andyclark8991 2 роки тому

    This one is making crack up with laughter. 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 So funny

  • @M-BKK
    @M-BKK 2 роки тому

    It is rather annoying one. So it will not spread laughter.

  • @rgrrolfgruberrezensionen3851
    @rgrrolfgruberrezensionen3851 2 роки тому

    It sounds not like laughter .. it sounds more like someone stand on a cat's tail😂😂🤣🤣

  • @alucard6024
    @alucard6024 2 роки тому

    Just by watching it I feel a lot of anxiety. Imagine if you actually doing it.

  • @anglophoned
    @anglophoned 2 роки тому

    laughing because it's 2019 and not yet 2020 :P

  • @yudhahiskia7612
    @yudhahiskia7612 2 роки тому

    Sometimes the fake is 'good'

  • @adeliasaparova
    @adeliasaparova 2 роки тому

    Nice video!Enjoyed your dancing namaste 🙏☺️

  • @stilnessspeaks8104
    @stilnessspeaks8104 2 роки тому

    Good video as always!

  • @isitpossible7492
    @isitpossible7492 2 роки тому

    You should sue Mel Robbins she stole your idea 😂😆 and is now going to make millions from it

    • @Getoutyourcomfortzone
      @Getoutyourcomfortzone 2 роки тому

      Haha just seen that, possibly, I just put lots of things out there, but don't think I'm as passionate as her about it. Just shows you any of these things could be a million dollar business!

  • @wholenewszn
    @wholenewszn 2 роки тому

    Laughter spreads faster than covid 19

  • @lc4413
    @lc4413 2 роки тому

    I think I have watched all interviews with Robert Fitzpatrick. Such a smart, understanding, likable, friendly and dedicated wise man. Please keep on going with your peaceful fight against MLM. I hope that the critical and honest view on MLM = Pyramid Scheme also arrives here in Germany. Thank you both.

    • @lorip4087
      @lorip4087 2 роки тому

      Same. I just love listening to his analysis. He's great!

  • @mattyitto2346
    @mattyitto2346 2 роки тому

    It s unfortunate people need drugs to find themselves, i took drugs since i was 12 acid, mushrooms etc learned absolutely nothing but being sober and embracing suffering of life i learned alot

  • @CJFilmz
    @CJFilmz 2 роки тому

    Where did you do it