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i am done being an option bye

I'm done being an option

Im done being an option

In my case I’ve gone no contact with my narcissistic daughter. Being as narcs can never be wrong I doubt she even realises it is her behaviour that has made me walk away.

You can't vanish in a breakup when there is kids involved.

I listened to this, but you have it backwards, the selfish people are the toxic ones. The ones who have no time after they used and abused you at their whim. They manipulated, gaslighted and used you and of course you are sad an defensive. They took advantage. why are you letting them say no when all you ever said was yes for years. Then suddenly they have no use for you and don't want to be bothered with you.

true that

Thank you, for your amazing infor

I'm done being an option

I am done being an option Legend

Plus i went through a pretty large circle of friends and every one was just doing drugs, like all the time. Friends start putting you down, giving your talents limitations instead of coming up with plans, like this year its all about flat ground, we dont leave the ground, im not landing this 10 out of 10 flat and im trying it down gaps and sets of stairs, its why i got hurt. ( should have target strength trained areas and lost some weight, my friends were idiots ) Tbh if i stayed id probably be dead. Chris and bobby that messes with me every once in a while.

READING THE COMMENTS I REALIZED ALOT OF EMOTIONAL DAMAGE PEOPLE OUT THERE EY?😮 JEEEEZZZ

I’m done being an option

Very helpful. Thank you!

❤,i always thank you Lord

Totally worth and appreciate to one who uploaded this video. Game changer video for individuals dealing with slow poison personality. I have been part of it for the same, 1st personality I was unable to recognize so got in that trap. 2nd personality, I knew and was getting same results which learned from 1st.But, later I was trying to win it but instead again got trapped 3rd was the workplace, which which I tried to covert, but still failed. Now, this video is subject to powerful defence, which mainly aims to leave/stepover toxic personality/place. But, we also need to learn to overcome and win such personality/place. Is there a solution to win such personality/place, coz how long we will leave, workplace especially

I’m done being an option

Boundaries, toxic people, grey rock and all those modern, fancy words… sounds rather like Dr. Ramani than Marc Aurel, et al… That’s really your idea of stoicism? 😂😂😂

I completely vanished. Doesn't matter what they think anymore. It was about me reclaiming my peace. I wish him well.

I’m done being an option

Excellent work.carry it on.good luck

Being ghosted or put in no contact is extremely painful. Especially if there are unresolved issues where it would be more healthy to talk again with deeper understanding. Lessons, but 4 years than just gone? It doesn’t seem or feel right at all.

I'm dome beinh an optiom

Now i know i can be strong 🤙🏿😊

You don’t need to tolerate harmful behavior out of obligation. Remember, you can be compassionate without sacrificing your own peace.

I see my worth. I am in control

I'm done being an option..

Being ghosted hurts more than any words could. Silence is the knife that cuts deepest.

I’m done being an option

I'm done being an option.

I'm done with being a option

GOD IS THE WORST TOXIC PERSON THERE IS.

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I’ve not long done this from A one sided relationship

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I'm no longer an option

Thank you for sharing. You touched me greatly. My children are grown and we live apart...but you touched a nerve for me to wake up to the disrespect I've endured off an on for years. Guilt of raising them alone and more. Thank you for reminding me that i am worth being....✍🙏🙏🙏♥️

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This doesn't apply to Narcissists.

I'm done being an option

No one will ever miss me

I’m done being a option

I'm done being an option. That is so true.

I'm SO done😂

In a lot of cases people know why you disappeared so it should not be a surprise as to why

I’m done with being just an option. 🎉

Powerful ❤❤🎉

Excellent! I'm good at disappearing. Thanks!

What happens when you totally Disappear from a Toxic or a person who treats you as an Option: How to Discover your worth and make them Miss you & change the way they will see you forever! 1. THEY WILL NOT EXPECT YOU TO JUST VANISH ~ When you disappear, it is like hitting them with a brick. It becomes a deep personal sting, because they realize they don't have control over you! You snatch the safety net from them. They assumed you would always be there. In reality you were the one holding the relationship together. Disappear without warning. 2. ALLOW THEM THE VOID OF MISSING YOU! ~ emptiness; they start to feel the void. They start missing you. Make it impossible to find you or access you, block them on social media. 3. OVERCHELMING CURIOSITY ~ Where are they? becomes their big question. They will be checking to find out what you are up too. When you Go Dark on them. They become obsessed with you. 4. DEEP SELF REFLECTION ~ they will finally turn inward; they will start asking themselves to the hard questions. Is it my fault, why did they leave me, they realize they has a good thing and took it for granted. They will start to BLAME themselves and realized they messed up with you. Don't reach out, don't tell them why you left, let them figure it out and allow them to sit with their own guilt, it is a valuable lesson they need to learn! Otherwise, they will never repent of doing you wrong. Allow them to stew in their own guilt until they understand they are the PROBLEM! 5. THE URGE TO PURSUE YOU ~ now something shifts inside them. The urge to pursue you becomes overwhelming to them. Don't respond for a while, allow them to realize you are the Prize! Be Silent! 6. THE BATTLE BETWEEN RELIEF & REGRET ~ They may feel some Freedom! But when they are alone, they will feel the regret. They will realize you were the one who helped give them purpose! Allow them to experience their freedom. Your absence will haunt them in ways they never expected! 7. THE DESIRE TO PLAN THE GAME ~ they start trying to play games. They may act like they are moving on; they may even start to be hard to get or they may become passive aggressive. Toxic communication, towards you... Ignore the cryptic posts. Calling you names and trying to manipulate you or shame you into doing what they want. Don't react to the photos 8. THE CRUSHING WEIGHT OF SILENCE ~ Let your silence be your power. It gets tough for them; the silence gets very heavy for them. They have lost for control. We no longer Beg for their good favor. Your Silence is deafening to them now. 9. THE FEAR THAT BRINGS THEM CRAWLING BACK ~ This is the part that will never happen. They thought you'd always be there, now they are terrified that you will never come back! What if I have lost him for good. You will start seeing them being afraid that you have moved on, and that you do not need them anymore. Don't give them a second chance. They need to know that you are no longer an OPTION for them to take for granted anymore. *10. Bonus* THE REALIZATION OF EMOTIONAL INDEPENDENCE ~ this is where you actually become free! You know longer need to make her happy, you have walked away from this Place where you were disrespected and not appreciated. You now Realize that you are no longer needed their affirmations. You no longer need their validation, what they feel, or what they want, you don't care any longer. Their opinion will no longer have any sway over you. Don't go back to the old ways, own your newfound Emotional independence! Never give them the satisfaction that they still have control over you or your happiness, you have moved on, and are not coming back to the former bondage or lack of respect. The lesson: * Stop giving people the chance to take your for granted! * Stop being the person who is always there, no matter how badly they treat you. * The moment you walk away, the moment you vanish everything in their life changes. * You hold the power now, they will feel it, they will regret it and realize they have lost something Irreplicable. * Be ready to reclaim your power, then STOP BEING AN OPTION to women!

At one time I had a social media account with Facebook and twitter but I had people who followed me I guess because they didn’t have the same confidence as I did to speak up about the state of things our society is in. The amount of hate and division is insane. But unfortunately the ugliness continues to grow so I have posted my last tweet and Facebook posts and kept my accounts active for another week. I gave them a chance to respond. Just moments ago though I still retain messenger and some on my phone I’ve paused notifications and ignoring the phone texts and calls unless a call is for official reasons I have no enthusiasm to talk to anyone