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I have been alone since the covid attack. No one came back from lockdown.

I'm done being a option.....

i’m done being an option

I’m done being an option !!!

E f*cking nough!!!! Jesus lord almighty....... you know what, sometimes the answer is to stick it out and show what your made of...... I'm 36 y.o pisces female, my childhood best friend, 36 y.o Aquarius male is my fiancee... we re met after 22 years apart...... we have fallen in love at first sight x2 TWICE in our lives... our love is unconditional. He had been thee most toxic person almost anyone I've ever met has ever heard of... he spent most his life in jail including 10 Years in 4 dif Max's in canada... I've been a hippie mushroom head since we parted ways.... Every. Single. Person. EVERY ONE. has called me crazy for sticking it out with him through.... hell.. his psychosis, paranoid schizophrenia... my bipolar disorder spiritual awakening via mushrooms at 15 ..... we both toxic. ..... Yet, here... today... this man finally ..... accepted God for the first time... he actually agreed to let go of the demons which he has held on to for soo long and come over to the light... No one believed in him, but me. Every single person, promised me he was a lost cause...... So some fu*king times, you gotta put your big girl gangster panties on and go into the dark side to get the person you love and show them the way. Stop being all love and light pussies out there!!!!!

Control comes from within.

It's a wrap..2025 is the beginning of my villian era 😂🎉❤

Bro forgot to mentioned, this only works if they actually care 😂

I did not disappear, but thought about how it could be done. I was married & I was the Bad Guy if I stayed & the Bad Guy if I leave, so I thought how could it be done & not be a Guy at all. Flash floods. They happen regularly in Texas. A lot of the roads in West Texas, the Hill Country, & the Edwards Plateau are built on the stream bed, because the flows are ephemeral. Usually it's just a trickle, you drive right over it. But in season that road floods & every year people drown driving in to those roads. You know what they find? A mangled hunk of metal a mile or two downstream. There's often no body, because it was buried under 100 tons of debris as the waters receded. They are never going to find that person & the car is proof they did not make it. So, theoretically, if someone put there car in drive standing outside the vehicle at a flooding road, the car would go in, & they walk away to a new life. It would be hard to pull off with cameras everywhere today but it is still a plausible route for those who need to disappear but can't.

He's done being an option

My wife completely vanished from me for 21 months. She called me randomly about a month ago, apologizing and wanting to start over. She may or may not have changed for the better, but it sure made me find an important lesson in my life. May that lesson be different for each of us.

i am emotional independent from my toxic family......bring on 2025

I'm done.

Control starts within. 🙏 Thank you friends.

You must remember not to confuse certain things . One thing is walking away because you want them to yearn for you to be back . The other is learning to walk away emotionally . Letting go of what you thought would be the reality and future . It’s not vanishing that’s needed , it’s making your expectations of that person vanish .

I learn a lot on this channel. Thank you.😗☺

I'm done been ing a opttion🎉

How do you respond when you are the leader / speaker in a church group and their are a handful of people who attack in a meeting in front of all? Where do you draw the line of silence vs speaking?

The sound of silence.....

Oh my x constantly reminds me of how much she appreciates me now. More than ever. Because I don't answer the phone all the time, and I disappear.

I'm done been an option

Sometimes, one has to disappear for self-preservation and sanity. A relationship can never be one way streak . You can only give what you have until you run out of giving just a thought.

Control starts with in

Indeed, I'm done being an OPTION.

I'm done being an option

Control starts, within🌅🙏🌅🙏🌅 Going to always listen to the end, thank You 💌💛🤍🌅🙏🌅

I’m done being an option!

I control my destiny from this moment on

@powerfullstoic It makes it a bit difficult to take your advice serious when one of the adds that feed money to your channel is " learn this move to make your partner squirt. While a woman demonstrates the move" Disgusting

Such Absolutely Awesome Words, I'm Currently Going Through This Exactly Dinamic As I'm Listening To This Message, She's Attempting All Which We Are Listening To Right Now, Thanks Brother For The Strong Insight ❤

I distanced myself from family-it was a painful choice, but necessary. Society often portrays family as a source of unconditional love, but that's not always true. My inner strength and faith gave me the courage to break free and reclaim my peace. Cutting all ties was the turning point. They had used communication to control and monitor me, disguising it as concern. When I ended that connection, their true nature surfaced. Unable to manipulate or criticize me anymore, they lost the control they once held over me.

caring for a addict with heart disease and copd,I couldn’t control what was going into her body though I pointed out the dangers daily that only got deflection,stressful life and now I’m alone since my worst fear came to fruition and it’s me hurting and lost now,she felt safe because I revived her a few times,both kidding ourselves.my bp is below 300 now ,maybe I can say no next time.

This video really opened my eyes to the power of walking away and reclaiming my independence. It’s a reminder that my worth doesn’t depend on anyone else’s validation. To anyone reading this, I wish you the strength to prioritize yourself, the courage to demand better, and the peace that comes from emotional independence. 😊

Thank you so much for this message. This is all I needed to be strong again.

What an insightful video! The section at (21:41) about emotional resilience really speaks to how life’s challenges shape older women into incredible sources of wisdom and support. I’ll definitely be sharing this with my friends!

I'm done being option

I've officially stepped back( he's with another)😢😢😢....he's called a few times to see how I'm doing??? Is he an idiot??!! How does he think I'm doing he left me😢😢😢😢 why the hell is he calling me anyway and the real question is why did I answer? I'm not answering anymore I'm done with him he can stay with who he's with hope he gets everything from her that he got from me! 😭😭😭😭. I'm completely devastated over this! On one strength I have and I've learned is I'm SILENT MOVING FORWARD!!!!!

I’m done being a option HEATHER..

Hey stranger scrolling through the comments... May all your wishes come true....😇😊 and take care of your self....😊

I'm done begging... I will always put myself first from now on.

I chose respect over approval 😊😇🙃🙂

I'm always trying to bond with my two youngest kids, who are 20 and 17. I always felt less than, insecure of others because my two youngest kids are always angry with me, I feel like the whole family's scape goat! Then I watched this and realized that I am the toxic person, always insisting on begging them to spend time with me, when they just want to be alone...I thought they had the anger issues, I am the one who needs to respect their boundries and not force them to spend quality time with me. I will be more selective when showing my love to them like saying I love you when I tell them goodnite, or listen to them when they say get out of my room! I have to be more careful, but not lose myself by bending over backwards to please them either. I will stay true to myself as well.

Powerful, precise and perfectly worded. Hoping that this compounds what I've been trying to put across to my partner in regards to their son . Thank you. 🤞

I am not an opcion

I've done this to 2 people, one different compared to the other. The were people I would watch movies and play games with them, I enjoyed their company and they enjoyed mine. With one of them, I grew to have feelings for them and they would tell me that they share the same feelings, only to be treated with not showing the love around their friends and constantly tell me that they still love their ex and cannot pursue a relationship but would get mad when I distance myself, after a while, I left, blocked their account and moved on. The next one was 2 months later, they confessed that they liked me and I stated I wasn't ready for a relationship just yet but I was willing to wait for them, couple days later, I go to visit them and I find them back with their ex, cuddled up, hurt by this, I left without saying anything, removed them off everything and said nothing Felt horrible doing all that but I realized it was better for my health and worth, this video helps to reassure me I did the right thing.

Psyop vid to make people antisocial and weird

I have learned that I have a red line. I am generally understanding but if that line is crossed it is game over. It doesn’t always mean I don’t see that person around and about but the emotional investment is over as is the effort to spend time with them. The red line isn’t one thing, but I know when enough is enough. For me this is not about hurting someone, because from that point I’m no longer invested in how they feel. It’s just not my business anymore. It’s like they’ve died. It is final. My focus goes onto how I heal and move forward.

I'm done being a option

Actually, caring about, let alone taking joy or satisfaction in or aiming for these consequences is not stoicism. Especially if walking away from them does not have any of these effetcs, it confirms that it was the right thing to do.

I’m done being an option