Відео

My guess is you see higher earning potential in your future business and you don't want to get treated like a man in court. Otherwise most women fair well from financial benefits in divorce.

Oh ! 🫣 saying this and doing that.. being focused on me rather than thé other person..

Everyone needs a prenup cuz they can be in your favor. It's not necessarily to protect what you have its to make sure you get what he has. I have seen a lot of rich women try to get anything out of a rich husband and they get nothing if you have a prenup that stipulates that you're going to get so much whether he's in debt up to his ass doesn't matter he's still going to have to pay up with the prenup says

This is honestly so topical for me - we are wellll into our relationship and I’m definitely more open than he is. He doesn’t often discuss the past as he thinks it is more unhelpful than helpful based on previous experience. I would always rather have more info than less - but is that insecurity speaking or actually helpful 😅

Only men should get prenups today to disincentivize women from abandoning the marriage over a plethora of stupid reasons. Wives are protected by the courts and our misandrist laws after decades of feminist lobbying. A mutual prenup provides her even more incentive and reward for divorce. BAD IDEA! 👎🏻

Really great interview. I'm mostly listening to this when driving, but I definitely want to go back and take the advice.

This channel is gold

Just a small tip: I listen to your podcast on Spotify and you have a very pleasant voice to listen to and I really enjoy the topics you cover. However, this is the first time watching a UA-cam video of yours and it feels a bit non personal since I can see your eyes move reading the text. Maybe better to have notes but not full sentences to get your story going so you have more time to look at the camera or up to make the video more interactive.

Modern feminism killed women

There à lot of précious informations here. Many things i am modelizing right now : getting out of the frustration phase by saying i want à man nearby, tall and sweet. And being clear on the location décision : if i stay here for the young kids, i do and stop dreaming about the city. I find him here. Or.i move. But not in between Thank you ! And the inheritance we can see between Mother and daughter is beautiful

Every relationship you get into is going to have something you're not going to like about that person or baggage. And there's always going to be ups and downs Relationships aren't supposed to be all ready to fit it takes two people to make it work. And if you don't heal before you get into that next relationship you're going to take that baggage with you into the nex relationship in nine times out of 10 it's going to failt. It takes patience it takes learning from one another respect understanding and forgiveness and most of all communication. I don't know your situation but most women always think the grass is greener on the other side and then when they find out it isn't they start crying and regretting their decisions...... I'm just saying 4:00

"Congrats in getting out of your relationship." That sounded so odd. So on to the next relationship so you can breakup again? Congrats on reaching the goal of 50 breakups? Moving on is no different than getting over any fear. The same techniques used to get over fear of flying, spiders or whatever. It's based on how memory works. When we remember something that memory is removed from our brain (not totally) and manipulated in short term memory and then stored back as a new memory. This has been proven using drugs (midazolam, benzodiazepines, ACSS2, etc...) that interfere with the storage of memories used to help people get past traumatic memories. For simple things like getting past a relationship drugs of course are not needed. A person can do this themselves. Recall the relationship and focus on the happiness. Say something like "we had a lot of fun and now it's time to find more happiness" and then do something else you enjoy and can focus on without thinking about the relationship. The memory gets stored back as a good memory. The opposite is the more standard thing people do. They recall the memory and then dwell on how much they miss the person, listen to sad love songs, etc... They dwell on the pain. They store the memory back in an even more traumatic way. The 3 months rule (I used to have a 6 month rule) and all the other standard advice of getting with friends and family does the same, but is much slower. Time does fade traumatic memory IF the person can refrain from negative dwelling when alone. This is also the same basic technique self-help has pushed of standing in front of a mirror and saying something positive. Trying to create positive memories so later your subconscious thinks you've actually done this in the past. The subconscious can't tell any difference. It can be scary how fast this memory manipulation can work. Has everything to do your technique and genuine putting a positive spin on the past. It's literally remembering the good and forgetting the bad. We still retain knowledge of past issues so we aren't doomed to repeat the same mistakes. But the past won't be ruling our emotions either which can interfere with future relationships. I got so good at it I needed no time at all to get over a relationship. As the breakup was happening I would be thinking happy thoughts like "Oh goodie I can go fishing next week" and thinking about what I would write in my new dating profile. I wouldn't even be looking at the woman I'm breaking up with and be eager to say "OK, no problem. Thanks for the fun time and I wish you nothing but happiness." Short light hug and exit stage right. Don't worry about your ex, that's their issue. Obviously no threats like "Don't ever call me" or "You'll be sorry". If the ex says "Let's be friends" then say nothing or maybe "I'd rather move on", something light. Anything that shortens the breakup moment because there nothing good in that to remember. This is also needed when you're doing the breakup. Keep it short. No need to go into any reasons. The other person may demand a reason...they are not entitled. They may demand the breakup be done in person... they are not entitled. They are wanting these things in order to change your mind and/or attack your decision and/or flip it so they can breakup with you so they can be the "winner". There are no winners. Short and clean. Then block. When I decide to breakup I don't even know the reason beyond I'm not having fun.

Im on the verge of becoming official with a guy who I met on hinge. It did not happen when I least expected it. It happened over a year of using the apps, dating 40 people, and figuring out what I need and want in a relationship.

....At the first opportunity, generated by you. Happy face. :-░

Great video 👍🏻

I am 46 and this is so interesting

Im a guy, when i say 'i dont want to get into another relationship for atleast a year' to a girl, its a subtle way of saying 'im not attracted to you, lets just be friends'

If he says he's waiting a year then you should respect him enough to wait as well otherwise just move on. Your approach to shoot your shot isn't respectful at all.

NEVER....dont do it, if you are the man, dont do anything. She is who chooses, if she wants she comes....if she dont want....no matter what you try to do....that door dont will be open.

Don't do it.

Gorgeous, and you look just like your mother!

Loved this one so much. I am 40 and a single mom so I could really relate. Thank you 🙏

Cool mom. How does she look so young? 😊

Wow you look so alike. If you told me the two of you were the same person talking to each other across time I might actually believe you.

Worst thing is an outright rejection or a situationship and get rejected on the back end

I have been married for 20 years and things weren't amazing in the dating market back then. But from everything I see it has gotten infinitely worse. I pay attention so that I can try to give my sons good advice. Unfortunately the only good advice right now is to be insanely careful when dating as a man in this era. My wife and I tell our teenager to just focus on his career right now with the hopes that the dating culture will improve by the time he is stable. Our other son in much younger, so there is more hope for him yet.

We’re avoiding yall because yall offer the least value then ever before but demand the most then ever before.

Hyper analyzing what you want to happen on a date is a fundamental reason why you should avoid dating.

I think there are stats that show the success rate of women initiating is way higher than when men initiating.

Perhaps dating has run its course. Dating is only a bit over a century old for the middle class, starting on college campuses. Before then there was "calling" where the young man visited the woman in her family parlor or on the porch. It was also driven by the daughters and maiden aunts moving out of the family home, taking city jobs and apartments while they embraced the city social life. "Despite the sugarcoating provided by the tribute to motherhood and virtue, dating was a problematic new practice for the middle classes. Its origins were decidedly not respectable; they lay in the practices of "treating" and the sexual exchanges made by "charity girls" [urban shop girls]. The very term "date" came from prostitution." --From Front Porch to Back Seat: A History of the Date, Beth Bailey, 2004, Magazine of History, Vol. 18, No. 4

Less hypergamy

First item you have on your list "women approaching men" for crying out loud, men have been threatened with assault charges, r_pe allegations and more just for *speaking* to a woman in a club, bar (or from 30 feet away in a parking lot) men are not ALLOWED to approach women any more. So yeah, women have to do the approaching. But then "why are no men approaching me?" Becomes a destitute self doubt factor for women. If we have a 1 in 10 chance of getting called a r_pist for asking a simple question. Why the actual F would we risk that?

LOL

I'd venture to say men are staying away not out of all the nice things you mentioned, but more so to avoid the hassle.....

I have another idea for women: Give men even more sh*ttests. Here are some ideas from my expierince with the garbageshow called dating: 1 - accuse the man you are dating and who is in good shape of being a user of PED to reach his shape. And even if it is false accusations, just keep on repeating he is a PED user, until he breaks down and yell "shut the F..K up" and, then you just laugh a stupid smirk and say "ooh you thought I ment it" 2- approach a man, and say he is good looking and keep on repeating that, and when he gets the idea you are interested, say you have a boyfriend, and if he looses interrest say he lacks confidence . Get his phonenumber and call him a few days later, and repeat you have a boyfriend, and the man lacks confidence. 3 - if you are a married woman keep on telling a man you want him, and show no mercy if he mentons you are married and he is not interrested. So come on ladies- you have more to show of these sh*ttest. But dont give them to me, I am out.

1. The biggest thing that puts me off approaching a woman is they always seem to be looking at their phone. It would be welcome if a woman approached me. 2. Don't know, I've never got that far. 3. Definitely, hearing that all men suck makes me think it's not worth trying to date in the first place and also adds to the first point of not approaching women. 4. Again I've never got that far. 5. I have trouble opening up as I've been shamed so much in the past, that also makes it harder to ask questions. Also lots of answers asked get asked back and I have lots of sad answers to the common questions so I try not to ask them to start with. 6. Haha so I have to start then,? That's hard where I live and I feel like I've left it too late, mid 40's now.

Women were given every opportunity to make the first move, including Bumble, that relied on women making the first move. Good luck with that. What I want to see more of is more people ditching online dating and bankrupting those platforms. Meet IRL. There are entire worlds around you.

What do I want to see more of in dating culture? Is a kind of stupid question. The dating is romanticized, and there is not much that can be done about it. People are just wearing some romanticized sunglasses and are not willing to take them off and often are not willing to talk about it. When it comes to women approaching men, that is even more stupid because most women are not willing to learn it like men who are also not willing to learn dating skills and I do not think it is going to change. I have been studying dating and pick artist skills for more than 7 years and have done a lot of work about it and have been talking a lot about it with other people.

The people who put "empathy and communication" in their dating profiles seem to be the ones who lack it the most

Maybe a trick women could use, Imagine, just for a moment, that the Man in front of you is an actual Human being. Not just a thing to be used. Give it a go, you will be ahead of practically every other women.

has she noticed how people act like zombies in the world today. And she believes all this stuff she is talking about doing probly only has a 30 percent chance of working for only 30 percent of the population.

Really great list! Change starts with us. If we want the dating culture to change, we need to be brave enough to make changes within ourselves.

Perhaps its just me, but women don't sleep with me unless they're interested in something more. Every female friend that I have had sex with has ended up livid when I expressed that I wanted anything other than a pure committed relationship afterwards. It has ruined friendships but I suppose they were already heavily one-sided friendships since there were clear ulterior motives. The worst thing that a woman can do after this type of hookup is to get vindictive and psycho because that immediately guarantees no possibility of a future romance at all.

Sex will ruin a friendship forever.inevitably one or the other will develop more feelings than the other and from that moment dating other people like before will be too difficult and the friendship is done........if you have a casual sex relationship with someone from the beginning and hookup between steady relationships it's not a problem but if you have been friends for a long time it is a different story and you have to consider that sex will either bring you together for good or destroy everything.... I've had both kinds of relationships and lost a long term friend when it was too awkward for both of us seeing someone else

I don’t think you can have sex with someone (at least consistently) and still be friends. Hormones & biology will lead to at least one person developing feelings.

were bi, married and polyamorous

First commenter here. Great channel and podcast! Congratulations to you and Johnny by the way, Talia!

Just found this today. Great advice. How does it only have 276 views?