Join us as we explore some fascinating concepts with relationship expert, Telisia Colyn from TCF Holistic Solutions.
Topics of discussion include:
00:00 Opening.
00:43 More about Tilesia
04:09 More about TCF
07:55 Tilesia's workshops and one-on-one counseling
13:10 Marriage is not a problem to solve
18:06 Our inner child comes out to play in relationships
19:17 Did I marry the wrong person?
22:28 Why do we suffer in relationships?
27:44 Why do we attract certain people in our lives?
29:22 We fall in love with the familiar
31:00 Tilesia's relationship with her father
34:34 How did your childhood impact the romantic partners you chose?
36:43 Attachment
41:46 How do we become whole again?
44:50 Listen to relational feedback
46:41 Relational feedback VS projection
53:00 The heart behind relational feedback
55:28 Relational language starts by how we speak to ourselves
59:55 It is how we speak that makes the difference
01:04:24 The effect of non-relational language
01:13:30 Where do triggers come from
01:17:28 Can we heal childhood triggers?
01:20:32 Broken attracts broken
01:23:35 What if your spouse is not willing to do the work?
01:33:07 Impact of addictions in marriage
01:43:16 What if I am willing to do the work but my partner is stuck with an addiction?
01:48:19 Falling in love with a narcissist
01:49:41 Relational accountability
01:54:33 Narcissism unpacked
02:08:49 How to identify a narcissist
02:19:24 Don't we jump into relationships too quickly?
02:25:04 Do the work!
02:31:20 How to reach Tilesia