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If you don't respect the person you're with, why are you with them?

Thank you for very good advice 😊!

Oh dear, it's always the man's fault.

Wow! That lady hit the nail on the head! My marriage failed because there was no communication, unless it was on his terms. I got married as a socially, and personally confident woman, and divorced as a totally broken individual. I had no confidence or feelings of self-worth. It's taken me years to gain a bit of normality in my thinking, but I'll never be the person I was. 😖😪🇬🇧

This happened to me twice in my lifetime, with my mother and my ex husband and the scars are so profound.

Sounds like you might've grown and learned too. It takes two to tango.

Unless you love yourself completely then I believe youll be lured into a controlling relationship

Your videos made it possible for me to identify the emotional abuse tactics my ex was using to hurt and control me. I made the decision to leave and it was the right decision because she was never going to stop.

Be single thats what is natural.

Thank you 🙏 for all the education on this

Thank you, I really needed to hear this.

Full blown codependent here 😢

Omg! You described my life until six months ago when I decided to leave..

Thank you again. I'm working hard to get rid of some of my bad behaviours.

You’re completely right. I was telling my wife that I loved her all the time, but then I would lash out, ignore her, and act in other passive aggressive ways. I had issues that I was too afraid to deal with. We almost got divorced, but then I sought help and we’re on a much better path.

I try to analyze myself based on what you have said. I want to be a valuable and good person for someone I love. I'm trying my best.

Perfectly Stated!

Dr jekkle and Mr hyde.. In front of people even friends and family would never behave in a negative way at all, but behind closed doors, whole different ball game. Makes me look like I'm crazy, I do believe it WILK come out very soon as you can't keep that monster under wraps for too long, i will be long gone by then, so unhealthy and pure toxic poison

Oh.. Thank you for this advice.

Nice scarf.... Everything you said is correct please tell me an easy way to get out of this painful relationship 😢😢

Thank you, it helps me a lot.

Until when can you call anybody a partner?

Amen! WYSIWYG (wizzing): What you see is what you get. When people show you who they are… believe them!

I believe those traits should also be recognized in the people we call friends. Friends can drain us too if they are toxic and breaking us down in a subtle joking manner.

I used to hear that all the time. Only he never left to be with someone else. He went to bed and demanded i kept the kids quiet

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❤❤❤❤ Thank you for your insight

This “therapy” only validates a woman’s emotionally dominated, irrational and self destructive behavior. If any outside objective observer tries to bring to her attention ANYTHING she may be doing to harm her family or relationship, according to this woman, any actual facts or evidence should be discarded and only her (indignant, self preserving) emotional reaction should be headed. Obviously, she should not consider her own fallibility or subsequent course correction, simply because it makes her feel “icky”!

If you develop any mental disorder or going through depression because of someone else then it can be proven by getting for a checkup to a psychiatrist because I was emotionally/mentally abused since childhood and developed multiple mental disorders and then I fell in love with a guy and he abused me too and because of that my mental disorders symptoms got worse and I developed another mental disorder because of that.

Anyone that says "love isn't a feeling, it's what you do," is a dangerous person indeed. This person is only capable of doing things that control your behaviors, expressions and mindset to suit their need to not be emotionally open and giving (because they don't have emotional feelings for you, it is purely logistical and rational for them to keep you around to meet their needs), and these types of men can be very convincing that they are "good" and "safe" men (women don't bottle up feelings very well, and I've never been closely connected to a woman that does this as well as a man does), all the while starving you of intimacy, affection, connection and respect for your humanity. Run away from the "stoic" man as this is just another word for "closed off."

Everything you say really resonates!

That sounds so wonderful. Praying for this for everyone who has healed enough to want and be this too.

I am finding it difficult to know when to say when - where is the red line? The good times are really good, but they don’t last. It has been over six years and I can feel myself running out of energy. Everyone around me tells me to move on but I can’t. xx

wouldn't anyone stop being affectionate when angry? until the situation is sorted and you feel safe again?

Its like you were describing my life.

Thank you. I ended up in a toxic relationship last year, a year after my narcissistic father passed away. After being around my father so long, and having disowned him as a teenager, I thought I knew all the things manipulators did. I realize now I had never been targeted and wasn’t familiar with the honeymoon phase. It’s different when someone’s trying to ‘get’ you, than having a father who took you for granted. I was totally off-guard, and when I noticed the manipulation, I thought I was imagining things. Nope. Turns out it’s a totally normal part of their playbook. I’ll know better next time. I’m trying not to blame myself, but it’s hard. Thank you for this video. I couldn’t have found it at a better time. ❤

What if I don't have support.

If I always have to remove myself from situation, I better move out, and leave my house and children with him.

This is what I think of as a soulmate in relationship.

Thank you so much for this video

I’m in this process now. Moving in the next week. Your videos have been very helpful. Thank you, for your content.

Gosh-so accurate!

I have exposed lies he has told, as it is abusive and caused pain and disparity among people in the community.

It's so difficult to identify these issues and then knowing what to do. Lessons are always learned afterwards it seems. Wish they would teach this stuff every year in school.

I wish I knew this before. The pity is you only recognize these traits long after they start affecting you.

Consider u blessed to get someone genuine after a toxic relation..coz mostly all people cannot trust again

I’m 38. No one’s ever actually loved me, partnered with people who have betrayed me, patents betrayed me, siblings betrayed me, I’m trying to turn things around as much as I can to attract a decent partner who is capable of love and improve my ability to be emotionally available and increase my ability to empathise both emotionally abs cognitively. It’s not easy when all your life all you have known is abuse and toxic dynamics.

It seems abusive to me for all the blame to be put on one person. No one is perfect.

Weltklasse und wunderschön 😂❤

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