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Collaborating for Justice for Older African Americans (webinar 3 of 3)
Webinar #3: A Conversation with Culturally-Specific Organization Leaders
This project was supported by Grant No. 2020-V3-GX-0052 awarded by the Office for Victims of Crime, U.S. Department of Justice. The opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this publication/program/exhibition are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the Department of Justice, Office for Victims of Crime.
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Collaborating for Justice for Older African Americans (webinar 2 of 3)
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Webinar #2: Guiding Principles of Equitable Collaboration This project was supported by Grant No. 2020-V3-GX-0052 awarded by the Office for Victims of Crime, U.S. Department of Justice. The opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this publication/program/exhibition are those of the author(s) and do not necessarily reflect the views of the Department of Justice, Office ...
Collaborating for Justice for Older African Americans (webinar 1 of 3)
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Webinar #1 - Introduction to the Collaborating for Justice Project and Understanding the Importance of Culturally-Specific Organizations This project was supported by Grant No. 2020-V3-GX-0052 awarded by the Office for Victims of Crime, U.S. Department of Justice. The opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this publication/program/exhibition are those of the author(s)...
2023 Stalking and Older Adults Webinar
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2023 Stalking and Older Adults Webinar
Responding to Abuse in Later Life: The Role of Forensic Nurses
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Responding to Abuse in Later Life: The Role of Forensic Nurses
Abuse in Later Life on the Radar Webinar, June 20, 2023
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This webinar will provide a foundational understanding of abuse in later life and discuss a funding opportunity and resources for addressing abuse in later life in your community. Webinar presenters: Janice Green, Office on Violence Against Women; Martie Washington, Abuse in Later Life Program Coordinator at the National Clearinghouse on Abuse in Later Life (NCALL); Shelly Carlson, Multidiscipl...
Mandatory Reporting: Working with Immigrants and Refugees
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An overview of some of the challenges and risks that immigrant and refugee survivors face. Video presenter: Alicia Aiken. Produced by the National Clearinghouse on Abuse in Later Life (NCALL) and Terra Nova Films. Funded by the U.S. Department of Justice, Office on Violence Against Women and Elder Justice Initiative, 2016.
Starting and Facilitating Support Groups for Older Women (Captioned)
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Video presenters: Sue Hall Dreher, Alice Ghareib, and LaTrice Buck. Produced by the National Clearinghouse on Abuse in Later Life (NCALL) and Terra Nova Films. Funded by the U.S. Department of Justice, Office on Violence Against Women and Elder Justice Initiative, 2016.
Transitional Housing (Captioned)
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Video presenters: Alice Ghareib, Kathi Church, and LaTrice Buck. Produced by the National Clearinghouse on Abuse in Later Life (NCALL) and Terra Nova Films. Funded by the U.S. Department of Justice, Office on Violence Against Women and Elder Justice Initiative, 2016.
Mandatory Reporting: Tribal Communities (Captioned)
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Video presenters: Alicia Aiken and Vicky Ybanez. Produced by the National Clearinghouse on Abuse in Later Life (NCALL) and Terra Nova Films. Funded by the U.S. Department of Justice, Office on Violence Against Women and Elder Justice Initiative, 2016.
Mandatory Reporting: Working with Victims (Captioned)
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Tips for advocates about talking to older survivors about mandatory reporting. Video presenters: Rebecca Henry, Alicia Aiken, Bonnie Brandl, and Ann Turner Produced by the National Clearinghouse on Abuse in Later Life (NCALL) and Terra Nova Films. Funded by the U.S. Department of Justice, Office on Violence Against Women and Elder Justice Initiative, 2016.
Tammy: Sexual and Physical Abuse in an Intimate Partner Relationship
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Tammy, aged 58 at the time of filming, experienced sexual coercion, sexual abuse, sexual assault, and psychological abuse from an intimate partner. (Content warning: abuse in later life, intimate partner violence, physical abuse, psychological abuse, sexual abuse, sexual assault) This video was produced in 2019 by the National Clearinghouse on Abuse in Later Life (NCALL), a project of End Domes...
Mary Lou: Intimate Partner Violence in Later Life
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Mary Lou, aged 78 at the time of filming, says her journey out of domestic violence began after leaving her abusive marriage of 43 years at the age of 65. Mary Lou does local public speaking about her experience, often with a domestic violence victim advocate. She has in the past been a guest of honor at the annual gala of her local domestic violence advocacy program. Mary Lou also occasionally...
Mary Ann: Stalking in Later Life by an Acquaintance
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Mary Ann was 68 at the time of filming. (Content warning: abuse in later life, stalking) This video was produced in 2019 by the National Clearinghouse on Abuse in Later Life (NCALL), a project of End Domestic Abuse Wisconsin: The Wisconsin Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Terra Nova Films under award number 2017-VF-GX-K133 awarded by the Office for Victims of Crime, Office of Justice Pro...
Mariana: Financial Exploitation by a Befriender
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Mariana, aged 88 at the time of filming, was exploited financially by a befriender. (Content warning: abuse in later life, financial exploitation) This video was produced in 2019 by the National Clearinghouse on Abuse in Later Life (NCALL), a project of End Domestic Abuse Wisconsin: The Wisconsin Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Terra Nova Films under award number 2017-VF-GX-K133 awarded...
Leonard and Meneleo: Financial Exploitation by Strangers
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Leonard and Meneleo: Financial Exploitation by Strangers
Jewel: Intimate Partner Violence including Economic Abuse
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Jewel: Intimate Partner Violence including Economic Abuse
Linda: Sexual Assault by a Neighbor
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Linda: Sexual Assault by a Neighbor
Charlotte and Howard: Financial Exploitation by a Befriender
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Charlotte and Howard: Financial Exploitation by a Befriender
Donna: Coercive Control and Abuse in an Intimate Partner Relationship
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Donna: Coercive Control and Abuse in an Intimate Partner Relationship
Legal Advocacy (Captioned)
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Legal Advocacy (Captioned)
Intersection of Protection and Safety (Captioned)
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Intersection of Protection and Safety (Captioned)
How to Encourage Attendance and Participation in Support Groups (Captioned)
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How to Encourage Attendance and Participation in Support Groups (Captioned)
How to Approach Victims Affected by Trauma (Captioned)
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How to Approach Victims Affected by Trauma (Captioned)
Flexible Programming Tailored for Older Adults (Captioned)
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Flexible Programming Tailored for Older Adults (Captioned)
Enhancing Agency Policies to Address Abuse Across the Lifespan (Captioned)
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Enhancing Agency Policies to Address Abuse Across the Lifespan (Captioned)
Empowerment (Captioned)
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Empowerment (Captioned)
Emergency Housing (Captioned)
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Emergency Housing (Captioned)
Economic Advocacy (Captioned)
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Economic Advocacy (Captioned)
Elder Abuse in Tribal Communities (Captioned)
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Elder Abuse in Tribal Communities (Captioned)

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @donnakreye8339
    @donnakreye8339 17 годин тому

    1 word-GRACE

  • @marshajamison7463
    @marshajamison7463 19 годин тому

    I understand your relief!

  • @Feliciajones-k6q
    @Feliciajones-k6q 19 годин тому

    😢😢😢😢😮😮😮

  • @sandracoetzee3553
    @sandracoetzee3553 19 годин тому

    21 years of verbal and physical abuse. I ran for my life after 21 years. God helped me before we had to go to court and put him in jail for severe abuse.... He passed away the day before we applied for a court date. God carry us day after day. Psalm 68:20

  • @nicolaablett7790
    @nicolaablett7790 20 годин тому

    i recognised it late but in time

  • @debraflowers5905
    @debraflowers5905 20 годин тому

    The anger and sadness that I have as a result of what happened to Mary is great. Mary deserved so much more goodness. I hope her grandson never leaves prison. It's sickening that none of her family supported her. I have no doubt that some didn't believe her, but they didn't want anything to happen to the grandson.

  • @pennybyrd1058
    @pennybyrd1058 22 години тому

    Can you imagine, her own family not supporting her? What a bunch of evil people. Plus, it sounds like they were stealing her money too. Evil, evil, evil.

  • @karenjohnson2468
    @karenjohnson2468 22 години тому

    Why is this woman smiling while telling this horrible story?

  • @nickybee7920
    @nickybee7920 23 години тому

    I’d rather be broke and safe then financially sound or “taken care of” and broken emotionally and physically.

  • @777Pattie
    @777Pattie День тому

    I see this was recorded 6 yrs ago. This is truly disgustingly EVIL 👹!!! He's a Demonic & so are his Family Members that were against the violently abused Grandmother!!! There's a place in Hell just for people like them. RIP Mary ☦️🕊️🫒💕

  • @defaultusername123
    @defaultusername123 День тому

    R.I.P. Mary, things like this just make me bewildered at the thought of the existence of a grand design/grand creator. What is the purpose of this suffering? What lesson to be taken? Just awful things playing out. Take care of your people

  • @Bella-jm4us
    @Bella-jm4us День тому

    I know he’s going to reap what he’s sowed, I shutter at the thought of his punishment when God judges him and holds him accountable for what he’s done to his Grandmother! That’s going to last for eternity! Last note.. Please be kind to others, someone is always watching and taking notes.

  • @hettybosley9590
    @hettybosley9590 День тому

    So sad.The ola lady look so cute.I took care of my mom when she was dieing.❤❤❤❤

  • @irenedrager9683
    @irenedrager9683 День тому

    RIP Mrs Mary, you didn't deserve any of that pain,Rest high with Angels.

  • @rethavanrensburg6760
    @rethavanrensburg6760 День тому

    This makes me cry, just to think how many elderly are abused around the world...

  • @kasko8550
    @kasko8550 День тому

    Thank you for sharing your journey!

  • @angelah.3402
    @angelah.3402 День тому

    I just looked him up in the Florida Department of Corrections and seen his mugshot. Disgusting monster!

  • @janheffernan4792
    @janheffernan4792 День тому

    ,Leave or put up with it

  • @lanaspencer9893
    @lanaspencer9893 День тому

    A wonderful woman of faith 🙏😘

  • @charliegoodman9495
    @charliegoodman9495 День тому

    Her faith is everything!!!!

  • @lindamcwilliams9056
    @lindamcwilliams9056 День тому

    This is so sad. The fact that her own family took the side of a rapist is unbelievable. Couldn’t have been my mama/ grandma.

  • @joyceflowers7312
    @joyceflowers7312 День тому

    Heartbreaking

  • @YourNightmare4u2c
    @YourNightmare4u2c День тому

    He doesn't deserve the air that he is breathing!

  • @godfamilycountry2785
    @godfamilycountry2785 День тому

    Hopefully 🙏 prison justice will prevail and these scum bags will get justice 24/7 RIP Mary

  • @kristiN1214
    @kristiN1214 День тому

    Listening to her story from her own words was shocking and it hurts knowing she went through so much trauma. Bless her.

  • @avagrego3195
    @avagrego3195 День тому

    A male relative is married to an abusive bully. She attacked him once and he pushed her off and left. He said she was actually surprised he was stronger than she - she is fat 5’4” and he is a normal 6’ male. I wonder how many times her mom attacked her dad.

  • @brendaclark4023
    @brendaclark4023 День тому

    The horror of what this sweet old woman had to endure at the expense of these rotten folks is unforgivable i couldnt have the oppourtunity to see my grandparents into their later lives. I only wish i could have. For these animals to treat her so is unforgivable. Sexual assault is a monsterous thing for her to go through at her age i only wish i could get my hands on these folks they wouldnt ever even think of such a thing again there is a special place in hell for them this sweet old grandma dont deserve this 😢 💔 😔 im ashamed of them. I thank god you got her out of that dump and away from those monsters

  • @margiemurray1100
    @margiemurray1100 День тому

    What bastards.

  • @ffc303
    @ffc303 День тому

    The men think you're merchandise! They own you! NOT!!!!👹💩💩🤬👺

  • @francesm5978
    @francesm5978 День тому

    You go girl! I’m happy for you. I wish you could have discovered that there was help sooner. Live a content, happy life❤.

  • @sinebar
    @sinebar День тому

    I would have said: Gee what a coincidence, I need $300 too.

  • @chief2196
    @chief2196 2 дні тому

    Oh this sickens me. I hope they threw away the key! Sorry S.O.B.

  • @23chan
    @23chan 2 дні тому

    I was married to a covern narcissist for 24 years. Talk about denial! He didn't put his hands on me because he knew I would call the cops but his verbal abuse and constant hell raising was intense. I wanted to die too. Everybody thinks he's a sweet guy. There's a demon inside him.

  • @kf1439
    @kf1439 2 дні тому

    The 911 operator was awful. She needs to find other work.

  • @KaraLey98
    @KaraLey98 2 дні тому

    The woman in this video is so cool and it makes me happy to see her thrive and her independence😊

  • @elizabethheyenga9277
    @elizabethheyenga9277 2 дні тому

    What an inspiring woman, and she will be a big help. People think older women are immune from assault, they sure are not. God bless you Linda, your faith is such a gift.

  • @stephaniestclair5665
    @stephaniestclair5665 2 дні тому

    I'm so glad you got out safely!!

  • @leona369
    @leona369 2 дні тому

    These are the kind of people that I despise I despise I be despised low IQ low everything just everything there's nothing right about these people if this is the way they're going to treat this elderly woman it disgusts me to the core

  • @Darthmamas
    @Darthmamas 2 дні тому

    I’m 72 yo . I left my husband.. he was all those things described here.,plus didn’t work.. or work for months at the time…. His mom paid the rent for us .. I paid everything else .. I realized one day that I was doing all on my own and he just cause me problems… one day in an argument he told me : take me as I am or leave me… I left .. it has been about 43 years ago… I did cried and went into depression because my fantasy of a nice family was gone forever.. I tell you I learned to live alone and independent.. it was hard with no family in the area ,and 3 young children.. worked night shift to be able to take them to school and pick them up and so on… He was dating before the divorce was done and married 3 months later… he is still with his wife. He is 80 years old.. I leave in peace.

  • @TracyKallis
    @TracyKallis 2 дні тому

    😢😢😢🩷🧡💜

  • @gatheringmoss5726
    @gatheringmoss5726 2 дні тому

    "Denial is a sedative." A great statement and very true. I'll remember that for the rest of my life. I can also relate to living two lives - the private and the public. When people told me what a nice man my ex was, I would agree, but in my head I was saying, "to everyone but me." Bravo, for mustering your courage to see things with clarity, Mary Lou!!

  • @gatheringmoss5726
    @gatheringmoss5726 2 дні тому

    This kind of talk about God FINALLY intervening always frustrates me. Why did God wait 65 years to say, enough? If God is the protector and loving father, we've been programmed to believe, he wasn't doing his job. Why didn't God say, enough, after the first black eye? It wasn't that Mary Lou wasn't listening to God all along, she wasn't listening to herself. Her abuser made sure she didn't. Women are programmed to stay and to protect the husband. And, that is dictated strongly by religion. "Mary Lou, enough" was Mary Lou saving herself from the expectations of society and religion, and the control of her abuser. That was Mary Lou's courage, which was inside her all along, but stomped on by her abuser, weakening her. She had simply had enough, understood what was going on through therapy, and she knew what she had to do.

  • @Slavdrac
    @Slavdrac 2 дні тому

    RIP Mary. You deserved so much better I’m so sorry, I hope wherever you are is peaceful safe and gives you the love you deserve🩷❤️

  • @SteMc-o2y
    @SteMc-o2y 2 дні тому

    Such a beautiful lady, I was feeling sorry for myself and sad and this snapped me out of it. How has our world become this evil. God bless you x you are amazing x

  • @Lailai56
    @Lailai56 2 дні тому

    RIP MISS MARY

  • @deannaford9300
    @deannaford9300 2 дні тому

    All them years that little lady lived and then has to endure a torture like this from some stupid criminal idiot insane person that needs to be put away for the rest of their lives and never see daylight prayers for you my lady

  • @peaceandlove5472
    @peaceandlove5472 2 дні тому

    What I wonder when I hear about someone who is abusing another, "is what happened to them". We all are defined by our childhood, good or bad. I feel that people who abuse were themselves abused to some extent. Maybe it was verbal and so they grew up with a feeling of unworthiness, lack of empathy and compassion. It's the only way they feel they have some control. I'm not excusing them at all. I use babies and my marker....everyone was a baby and perfect and wonderful, but something or someone changed their worth. I try to see that and have compassion for them as wounded beings. Still not excusing, but wonder if there is someway to reach them as well to heal.

  • @sharondoan1447
    @sharondoan1447 2 дні тому

    Although Mary lived the last three years of her life in a nursing home, I can’t help but wonder if they were some of her best years. Her relatives sound like they are worthless. We could not expect any of them to be kind to her, much less respect her in any way. Elder abuse is not rare. When elders allow family members to live in their home, it happens almost immediately that they loose their autonomy. Now the elder becomes an unwanted “ guest “ in their own home. In some families the elder would be safer and happier living among strangers.

  • @terryward5546
    @terryward5546 2 дні тому

    Poor baby

  • @HaveCommonSense76
    @HaveCommonSense76 2 дні тому

    There’s a special place in hell for people that harm the hurt children, elderly, and animals.