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Such wise words. Even Brene's voice is soothing. I love her wisdom and her videos. Thank you!

So bored from this woman

One of the best things on UA-cam 🙌🏾

I can assure you that this does not apply to all men. I have been too vulnerable plenty of times. I have zero and will never develop shame over it.

love is not forever ! that is the biggest lie ever invented , marriage is a desicion we make to built something better ... causual sex is great but, is meaningless it last the length of the comeshot !😅😅

My marriage ended 30 years ago... well, we divorced 30 years ago; the marriage ended many years before that. Wish I'd heard this decades ago. Now, it helps me recognize how issues in the past haunted us both. 😢😢

Thank you for sharing this beautiful video!

AI :( how are these not getting filtered out!

I so needed to hear that

Thank you ❤

That's easy - just wear your credit card as a badge!

White women Karen-looking gurus really do have it all

after the club gossip finished gossiping about 2 other members I said I wonder what you say about me behind my back. She left and acted a bit sheepish the next time I saw her.

I must try

Hmmm....This is paradoxical and does not ring as truth.

Does Beene know you use her voice?

When so many people disappear, disappoint and don’t care, isolation is the only option.

Thanks💕

During my teen years, I was an outcast. I was not popular, and I didn't dress like my peers. I lost confidence and withdrew. I am constantly worried if people like me. Now I'm in my sixties. I have people around me when I want, but I don't have that special shoulder to cry on or that empathetic ear to talk to. I am okay and busy enough for my liking. But I confess I miss true friendship and a even a real true love.

I don't think that isolation is always a choice. If you grow up with a toxic family, choose "success" in school and work at the expense of friendship, maybe find someone to love once a decade with someone who ultimately decides to marry someone else so you lose that person, and the associated community. Isolation just happens.

I try my best to have friends. I am genuinely caring and generous. I also struggle with PTSD, depression and anxiety. More often than not, the women I thought were my friends sever the relationship by lashing out at me. They tell me all the things I do, just being myself, that bother them. And because I was abused by my own family, I have zero tolerance for anyone who doesn't respect my boundaries or treat me as a true friend. For example, I just had to quit the job I've had for the last three years because my boss/friend told me it personally irritates her that she pays me the same rate as everyone else. Yet I've been the only consistently reliable employee she's had since she started hiring people for her business, as well as offering my personal truck for work because I want to be helpful and make the work flow better. And at the beginning of the year I had another friend who told me that I'm faking my depression and that I was raped and had my home broken into were my fault. So what is a woman who has legitimate struggles supposed to do when all the people who befriend her end up hating her because of her struggles?

Wow very helpful ❤

Thank you Brene ❤

You understand me.

How to strengthen friendships when you’re often the one who makes plans to meet up and they seldom initiate to make plans with you? I’m a but tired of often planning things and now im just waiting…is this wrong?

Absolutely...I don't even bother to try anymore

It’s so hard… I am an Aries and always had a short temper and I know it’s not ok to react, but it’s so hard to change this pattern that’s in my DNA. I’m trying as much as I can to change it because there are other modalities to respond, as you mention in this video with silence or a calm voice. My main disadvantage is the tone of my voice that needs to be worked on. 😔

I have no friends anymore because I developed a debilitating autoimmune disease years ago and had to go on disability and don’t leave the house much. On top of that, my interests aren’t mainstream. I’m a deep person and into Eastern philosophy. There aren’t any places like that anywhere near me to meet new people. I like a lot of solitude, but I don’t like being alone all the time with no friends and only some distant relatives. Growing up I had many friends. I really miss that.

მათხოვრებო იოცნებეთ არ გინდათ,რომ შემოგხედოთ საერთოდ?მახინჯები რა დღეში არიან,მათხოვრები ,სირბაჯო ნახირი

You spelled disrespect wrong in the title.

Ghosting is a super cowardly and manipulative (and literally painful) way out of a conflict or potential misunderstanding. It certainly sets the tone for how you expect others to treat you. Mistreat me in my estimation, and I will ignore you and, yes, punish you. I'm sorry, but without nuance and with overarching phrases like "imagine if you maintained silence every time someone disrespected you," and "I draw this line with permanent ink," this is seemingly very harmful.

It’s more nuanced than this. Clearly distancing has power, and leaving toxic situations has power, but just staying silent sounds like an unhealthy passive-aggressive tactic (used commonly in academia where people quietly work behind the scenes to undermine each other). You don’t need to get all up in people’s faces, but using your voice to state your truth before choosing distance IS healthy. Having a voice is for you-not them. Silent dignity is a corporate bullshit message to keep surface harmony in deeply disturbed places.

Insightful and helpful. Thank you

Valuable strategies! Thank you very much.

Thank you.

Not sure how this video found me but I really needed to hear this today..

You can't spell quit or disrecpect but we should watch this?

I would say…depending who it is, the situation, and where you are in that instant…

It's "quiet" rather than quit. When we quit speaking, we are "quiet."

"Do unto me what is worthy of thee, and not what is worthy of me".

Most needed video 🙂‍↕️

Thank you

They don't think it's disrespect that's the problem they think it's manipulating and dominating and they know best and there's one way to have a good life and you're not doing it like you're supposed to on the Doris Day show

Sounds like an AI voice trying to mimic Brene. Kind of annoying.

Thank you for this uplifting video.

this is such a good video. thank you! really soothing.

This!

I think this can work if you are dealing with emotionally normal and healthy people. On the other hand, it won’t really work if you are dealing with narcissists, psychopaths, or sociopaths. They will never respect you and you should do your best to not associate with them. Ever.

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Artificial intelligence pirating Brene Brown content.