Idris Watts
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The Three Circles of Emotional Regulation
In this video, I speak about the The Three Circles of Emotional Regulation from Compassion Focused Therapy.
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Відео

Introduction Video for New Students to Connecting to the Quran Course
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This is a video just explaining how to navigate your way through the portal and the other resources and guide you how to apply yourself on the course for the year.
Navigating Life Through the Principles of the Sacred Law
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A video on applying the principles of religion in one's life and how to navigate the conflicts we may have in light of life's challenges and what we feel obliged to commit to in a given situation
Evaluation in Therapy
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In this video, I explain how I use measurement tools to evaluate clients progress in their work with me.
Divine Dialogue
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Divine Dialogue
Self Dialogue
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Self Dialogue
The Flexibility Mindset
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The Flexibility Mindset
Free Consultation Video
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In this video, I cover the things that I address in a free consultation for potential therapy clients.
Gathering of Remembrance with Shaykh Buzidi Bujrāfī 2006
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Gathering of Remembrance with Shaykh Buzidi Bujrāfī 2006
Connecting to the Quran Sunday Meet Up 1B
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Connecting to the Quran Sunday Meet Up 1B
Connecting to the Quran Revision Class 1B
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Connecting to the Quran Revision Class 1B
Connecting to the Quran Revision Class 1A
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Connecting to the Quran Revision Class 1A
Connecting to the Quran Sunday Meet Up 1A
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Connecting to the Quran Sunday Meet Up 1A
Welcome to New Students of the Connecting to the Quran Course
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Welcome to New Students of the Connecting to the Quran Course
Installment Plan Available for Connecting to the Quran Arabic Course
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Installment Plan Available for Connecting to the Quran Arabic Course
Reliance Upon God
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Reliance Upon God
Why Should We Study Quranic Arabic?
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Why Should We Study Quranic Arabic?
What Is the Layout of the Connecting to the Quran Course
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What Is the Layout of the Connecting to the Quran Course
Connecting to the Quran Enrollment Now Open!
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Connecting to the Quran Enrollment Now Open!
Living with Flux
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Living with Flux
Nurturing Our Potential
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Nurturing Our Potential
Meeting People Where They Are At
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Meeting People Where They Are At
Praise and Gratitude
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Praise and Gratitude
What Is Your Opinion on EFT, Breath Work, and Muscle Testing
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What Is Your Opinion on EFT, Breath Work, and Muscle Testing
Should We Feel Bad If We Cannot Forgive
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Should We Feel Bad If We Cannot Forgive
How Can We Focus in Prayer
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How Can We Focus in Prayer
Trauma and Memory
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Trauma and Memory
How Much Can Our Spirituality Help Our Mental and Emotional Health
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How Much Can Our Spirituality Help Our Mental and Emotional Health
How Does One Find a Suitable Therapist
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How Does One Find a Suitable Therapist
Working with Emotional Trauma When There Is Physical Illness
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Working with Emotional Trauma When There Is Physical Illness

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  • @ebrmasillah917
    @ebrmasillah917 8 місяців тому

    They are more beautiful than anything you can imagine

  • @sanadabanana
    @sanadabanana 8 місяців тому

    thank you for this!!! May Allah reward you!!

  • @Mack1583
    @Mack1583 Рік тому

    I discovered this book during covid 19..We need more talks like this... Beside the Quran this is the best book ever...

    • @Mutaalimah
      @Mutaalimah 5 місяців тому

      What happened after you read it

  • @JahrangaBabb
    @JahrangaBabb Рік тому

    Misleading title and description. I expected information on vaginal discharge changes during periods of extended fasting e.g. 2 week to 1 month water or juice fast. instead I get a video about blood flow with no medical/scientific or holistic explanation for why fasting is being recommended for excessive bleeding.

  • @ishtiak5116
    @ishtiak5116 Рік тому

    [Continue 7:26]

  • @applez3015
    @applez3015 Рік тому

    Dancing , chanting what is this?! Did the sahaba do this ? Or the prophet peace be upon him. All of this is innovation and the prophet peace be upon him said : The most evil matters in religion are those that are newly invented, for every newly invented matter is an innovation, every innovation is misguidance, and every misguidance is in the Hellfire.” Source: Sunan al-Nasā’ī 1578 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani

  • @applez3015
    @applez3015 Рік тому

    Qatadah reported: Anas ibn Malik, may Allah be pleased with him, passed by a graveyard of Ramad while they were building a mosque over it. Anas said: كَانَ يُكْرَهُ أَنْ يُبْنَى مَسْجِدٌ فِي وَسَطِ الْقُبُورِ It is hated to build a mosque in the midst of graves. Source: Shu’ab al-Imān 2679, Grade: Sahih

  • @applez3015
    @applez3015 Рік тому

    Verily, the worst of people are those upon whom the Hour is established while they are alive, and those who take graves as places of worship. Source: Musnad Aḥmad 4132, Grade: Sahih

  • @applez3015
    @applez3015 Рік тому

    Verily, those before you would take the graves of their prophets and righteous as places of prayer. Do not take graves as places of prayer. I forbid you from doing so. Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 532,

  • @applez3015
    @applez3015 Рік тому

    Verily, when a righteous man among them would die, they would build a place of worship over his grave and carve these images within it. They will be the worst to Allah on the Day of Resurrection. Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 427,

  • @ishtiak5116
    @ishtiak5116 2 роки тому

    0:17-0:49,1:22

  • @shuaibsayed6767
    @shuaibsayed6767 3 роки тому

    This is why Muslims are our own worst enemy .Totally irrelevant comment .How about commenting on the content about the speaker.We so oblivious to the speaker that we focusing in the black spec on a white sheet.Wake up Ummah !!! Pyjama islam hasn't done much for us except the promise of Janaah wid so many wazifas a day oblivious to our social ills

  • @abdAlmajedSaleh
    @abdAlmajedSaleh 3 роки тому

    3:50

  • @seekeroftruth3386
    @seekeroftruth3386 3 роки тому

    Alhamdulillah

  • @idriswatts8546
    @idriswatts8546 3 роки тому

    You can contact me on awidrisuk@gmail.com

  • @believeinurself1032
    @believeinurself1032 3 роки тому

    We can take the fasting last day of the shahban like a 29th shahban

  • @khadija_a.f.h9125
    @khadija_a.f.h9125 4 роки тому

    الله الله الله الله الله الله الله دعيو مع السي لمقدم يتشافى راه مريض بزاف 😳😳

  • @a_fortiori_
    @a_fortiori_ 4 роки тому

    At 9 minute a member of audience narrated Hadith about the companions returning from Badr with PTSD and the prophet counselled then to go fire arrows into an open field. I purchased the book of 40 Hadith on Archery (Mustapha Kani) but did not find it in there. Anyone know where this Hadith can be found?

    • @idriswatts8546
      @idriswatts8546 4 роки тому

      I remember this quotation on the day. I would be very reluctant to say they came back with PTSD as that has specific symptoms that we cannot verify they had. I've never found such a source. I think it was in regard to Uhud, though. We do know that the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, ordered them to go out the next day after Uhud and confront the Quraysh after the lapse on the behalf of the archers and the Quraysh left and decided not to confront them and did not show. This would have reaffirmed a sense of confidence after a feeling of failure and defeat that could have been psychologically healing for them preventing any onset of mental disturbances for them, and God knows best.

  • @Fine.Smells
    @Fine.Smells 4 роки тому

    MashaAllah a great video and very informative. May Allah bless brother Ensar and Thomas. Where was this gathering?

    • @idriswatts8546
      @idriswatts8546 4 роки тому

      In Bradford at Artzi, which is an art shop run by Muslimz

  • @safwankabeer3276
    @safwankabeer3276 4 роки тому

    This issue is so confusing to the layman. Some scholars are saying that praying at 18 degree Fajr in UK summer time is risky. Doubts begin to form about the validity of the prayer even though we’ve begun the fast. How do we overcome doubts and confusion

    • @idriswatts8546
      @idriswatts8546 4 роки тому

      I agree. And it is very confusing for the scholars as well. I have developed my thoughts on this issue more since Dr Asim Yusuf's book came out about it. He took sightings in the UK for the whole year and produced a very thorough work. My position now personally is that the lay people should go with one position that they feel comfortable with and stick to it whilst being practical in the application of it. If someone is really struggling to get up by going back to sleep and keeps missing Suhur and Fajr then the earlier position might be best for them. If someone can get to sleep and wake up then they can take the other position. All of the positions have been espoused by qualified scholars so the lay people's role is to merely follow a valid position. The layperson is not obliged to get it right. They are obliged to follow sound scholarship and then they have fulfilled their religious obligation. Allah rewards the scholar that got it right twice and the one who got it wrong - although he exerted his efforts to get it right-once, and God knows best.

    • @safwankabeer3276
      @safwankabeer3276 4 роки тому

      Idris Watts Jazak’Allah Khair for the detailed reply. I guess an alternative prudent approach would be to exit the difference of opinion , starting imsak on earlier time and delaying the prayer after the later time. This has worked for me and my mum as we’ve plenty of washing up to do after Suhur anyway 🧼 🥣😅 May Allah keep us steadfast. Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatallahi wa baraktahu :)

    • @idriswatts8546
      @idriswatts8546 4 роки тому

      @@safwankabeer3276 agree not not easy for all

  • @raflqmia3713
    @raflqmia3713 4 роки тому

    Poor sound quality

  • @captainhyderabad3753
    @captainhyderabad3753 4 роки тому

    mashallah brother

  • @leylafayaz
    @leylafayaz 4 роки тому

    Salamualaykum, jazakumAllahu Khayran for your efforts. I have a questions, with this logics, then how come chewing gum is invalid?

    • @idriswatts8546
      @idriswatts8546 4 роки тому

      It would be fine if the gum is unflavoured as nothing would go down your throat except saliva. If it is flavoured you are purposely chewing sth of flavour continously that will more than likely go down your throat. When brushing teeth with toothpaste you are entering sth flavoured for a temporary time and can avoid swallowing it and then rinsing your mouth with water, and it is for a need whereas gum isn't, and Allah knows best. The scholars mention the permissablity of tasting food to make sure it is okay and then spitting it out although they considered it disliked unless there were a real need.

  • @Far7anR
    @Far7anR 5 років тому

    " He used to recite the whole Qur'an every day." Is that even possible???

    • @zaydmia5097
      @zaydmia5097 4 роки тому

      Absolutely.

    • @Naqshbandi_Haqqani92
      @Naqshbandi_Haqqani92 2 роки тому

      Another notable saint who used to recite the Quran every day was Shaykh Ahmad Habbal ق of Damascus

  • @rex_everything
    @rex_everything 5 років тому

    Interview with Ensar oud where Ensar himself does not speak 😂

    • @muzakkirhashim6287
      @muzakkirhashim6287 4 роки тому

      brandon gilbert take a wild guess who Ensar is not that hard lol

    • @Fine.Smells
      @Fine.Smells 4 роки тому

      He’s quite a humble brother MashaAllah so would be happy to give Thomas the spotlight MashaAllah (not that Thomas isn’t humble Astagfirullah)

  • @30251
    @30251 5 років тому

    This was pretty informative. However, I don't really understand why or how there can be such an emphasis on how women will have fair skin and light skin, and how that is something that makes them so amazing. Does that mean dark-skinned women in this world are naturally ugly or lesser-than and need to be 'fixed' when they go to Jannah? It doesn't seem right to me at all.

    • @idriswatts8546
      @idriswatts8546 5 років тому

      Thank you for your comment. This is an important and sensitive issue in light of consciousness and attitudes around race and identity today. We can explain it in different ways. We can say that the issue of light and darkness is not an issue of skin tone but rather the light of faith, innocence and purity that emanates from within and illuminates them outwardly. If we take the position it refers literally to light skin, then this does not necessitate that darker skin is ugly but that lighter skin is generally seen as the height of beauty in most cultures historically. Note that lighter is even relative to different cultures. The Arabs generally considered light skin tone with a reddish tone to be very beautiful at the time of the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him. Also, we are not defined merely by our skin. That is to focus on one element of beauty, but we have many elements to us. Someone may have lighter skin but have small eyes that traditionally were not deemed as attractive as larger eyes in females for example. All of this goes back to the issue of whether there is an essential beauty that is recognized by cultures historically or is everything relative to individual taste. I understand this topic is very loaded as there is a lot of shame and judgement around appearance in today's culture, so we definitely have to state that one should be cautious of falling into these dangers. In the end, God knows best and this was merely my attempt at trying to give context and understanding to the religious sources in light of current attitudes without completely dismissing them as is so easy to do as well.

    • @30251
      @30251 5 років тому

      ​@@idriswatts8546 Thank you very much for responding. I agree...I personally always assumed it was the former interpretation, as in the light being described was the one radiating from one's soul etc. so I was rather taken aback to hear your interpretation in the video and it made me a little sad at first. But it does make sense and I cannot deny the social context and I know there is no maliciousness behind it, as many Companions had dark skin but were still very beloved. And your point about different cultures having different standards of beauty is very true. Unfortunately for us in this day and age, skin tone happens to be a really controversial one. Either way this was a very informative and enjoyable watch and I am honestly glad you touched upon the topic. I think you handled the 'What do women get in Jannah?' issue very well too and I am very glad you did not dismiss it - which, as you state yourself, is something very easy to do and unfortunately common with male scholars/speakers today. Anyway, Jazakallah khair for your time and hard work, and I look forward to watching the rest of your videos soon inshaa Allah.

  • @adms8169
    @adms8169 5 років тому

    The awra ( unlawful nakedness) of a woman is everything except her hands which the board is her wrist and her face the border of which is her chin and Normal hair line and what corresponds with that... Everything else is unacceptable to be shown

    • @thestealth2448
      @thestealth2448 5 років тому

      Your correct, I presume she isnt aware of this as this is a common mistake. Allahu a'lam

    • @rwsquiresjr64
      @rwsquiresjr64 4 роки тому

      In the Hanafi madhhab, a woman's feet are not considered awrah. Their 'ulama do not consider the hadith that you just quote to be strong enough to overturn other evidence to the contrary. How about whipping out isolated hadiths without requisite knowledge and publicly criticizing other Muslims? Hmm...I seem to have heard that those are haram too.

    • @smtalha27
      @smtalha27 4 роки тому

      Is that all you saw in this 29 minute lecture? What about the hijaab of the eyes? What about covering other people's faults? What about choosing kindness over righteousness? What if Allah unveils your sins in front of the world? God forbid! Be harsh on yourself and be kind to others. That's what our religion is about.

  • @adms8169
    @adms8169 5 років тому

    We need more talks about this kitaab. I began with this book more then 5 years ago

    • @bruh-rr6pl
      @bruh-rr6pl Рік тому

      how has your life changed since then?

    • @sea5389
      @sea5389 6 місяців тому

      Masha Allah.

  • @muhithmiah7026
    @muhithmiah7026 6 років тому

    Allah is most forgiving. Just repent. Islan is simple and clear.

  • @mrmir8914
    @mrmir8914 6 років тому

    Is he Turkish?

  • @journeytojennah1861
    @journeytojennah1861 6 років тому

    Thank you brother really appreciate this, Jazakallah khiar!

  • @KhanKhan-go9kt
    @KhanKhan-go9kt 6 років тому

    Salam please put the Burda for shifa

    • @idriswatts8546
      @idriswatts8546 6 років тому

      You should be able to access it on UA-cam.

  • @tariqbinafif2949
    @tariqbinafif2949 6 років тому

    6:11 Salam - Kindly can you tell me whom landed in India ? (can't hear you) Thank you

  • @everseeking60
    @everseeking60 7 років тому

    jzk for this video - beautiful

  • @everseeking60
    @everseeking60 7 років тому

    MashaAllah. Beautiful

  • @nomalice4745
    @nomalice4745 7 років тому

    i found a lovely frankincense company called puresacra they sell the sacred frankincense oil too

  • @mohammedashfaq3734
    @mohammedashfaq3734 7 років тому

    Mashallah. Beautiful and inspirational speech. May Allah reward you abundantly in both Worlds. Aameen

  • @gayatripatharkar7541
    @gayatripatharkar7541 7 років тому

    Sir I just lover ur oud oil pure original and natural very nice

  • @mouradali8270
    @mouradali8270 7 років тому

    is this how its read in fez.. with the istighfar in the beginning and the kalimah taybah at the end ..and the qasidah inbetween . Its beautiful , Inshallah I'm gonna purchase the book with intention to recite it with my family.

    • @idriswatts8546
      @idriswatts8546 7 років тому

      They read Istighfar in Fez but not the Tahlil (Kalimah Tayyibah)

  • @conspirisi
    @conspirisi 7 років тому

    Salaam, Thanks this is very explained, but you didn't mention the specific dates when the beginning of Isha and the beginning of Fajr aren't discernible. i.e. when does your suggested method of using the midpoint etc between sunrise and sunset, start and stop being applicable?

    • @idriswatts8546
      @idriswatts8546 7 років тому

      This depends on your locality. In Bradford, it is from around May-July. The way you can work it out is by going on the following website and putting in the coordinates for 18 degrees: astro.ukho.gov.uk/psp/index_beta.html

  • @ilyasahmed5311
    @ilyasahmed5311 8 років тому

    Salaams. are all the lessons going to be uploaded?

    • @idriswatts8546
      @idriswatts8546 8 років тому

      This was an open day for the course. The course is running in Bradford, Blackburn, Leeds and Keighley. They are video recorded but only accessible to the students who have enrolled. If you wish to study it long distance and study at your own pace you can. I have a number of students who are doing so. You can find out more by visiting the website Quraniccircle.com or emailing me at info@quraniccircle.com